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iDarky August 20th, 2009 7:37 AM

having a baby
 
if you have a child what would you do will put it up for adoption or get an abortion. what do you think your mom and dad will do would they kick you out or what.

poopnoodle August 20th, 2009 7:39 AM

I'd get an abortion before I ever had a kid. (Heeere comes the hate, I've got my reasons.) My mom would most likely threaten to murder me, then support me.

Jolene August 20th, 2009 7:41 AM

I'd have to put him or her up for adoption. My parents wouldn't be able to raise it; they couldn't even raise me.

iDarky August 20th, 2009 7:47 AM

my mom would me until get my own home then id get the boot.....

.little monster August 20th, 2009 7:47 AM

I wont, I am a gay guy. : 3

If somehow I did..I would give it up for adoption.

Prom night dumpster baby~

SquirtleGirl August 20th, 2009 7:49 AM

I'd have an abortion. My body, my choice.

It's probably more selfish to bring a child into the world when you can't support it.

Twisted Cuteness August 20th, 2009 7:51 AM

I don't want to have kids. I want to adopt. Why brink more bratlets into the world when there are so many who already need a home?

Miz en Scène August 20th, 2009 8:12 AM

I don't want kids. I'd rather live alone because I'm a loner.

Devil's Guitarist August 20th, 2009 8:43 AM

well,right now i'd kill myself...heheheh I wouldn't really know what to do...that's why you always have to use protection!!
but when if i had a good job and everything,i'd be sooo happy!!!I can't wait to be a father!xD

Toblerone August 20th, 2009 8:47 AM

If i ever gave birth to a child despite being male.. hehe.

But if i made someone else pregnant i'd support whatever they'd want to do. I wouldn't leave them like so many other stupid people do.

Graceful August 20th, 2009 8:58 AM

I'd maybe give birth. I'd feel like I'm killing a person if I had an abortion. So I'd keep it and have a part time job. I'd support it by myself if the father says no. [Mum and Dad would kill me though....]

peirateis August 20th, 2009 9:20 AM

Heaven forbid I get a girl pregnant, I say, pull a Juno and wait it out and put the baby up for adoption.

Anxiety. August 20th, 2009 9:26 AM

If I was giving birth to it, my Mom and Dad would kick me out xD

I would ask my partner what she wants to do. At this age, my parents would threaten to kick me out, but they wouldn't.

But that's unlikely, I'm Bisexual, leaning towards Homosexual.

Kura August 20th, 2009 11:34 AM

I'm staying abstinent until I got married. If I got raped I would definitely abort because I don't believe that I would be able to handle raising a child from someone who would've done that to me.

I don't really want kids.. when I'm married, I'd like to just keep it between my husband and I for a few years, and then if we're both ready for that step then we'll take it.

Cloche August 20th, 2009 11:42 AM

Considering my sister is dead due to abortion, and I was a failed abortion, I would NEVER do anything so disgusting, and inhuman. I would have it and keep it.

Mew Ichigo August 20th, 2009 12:16 PM

Its not possible, since Im a loner.

EDIT: I'd raise the baby if it was rape though...

Rokusasu August 20th, 2009 12:20 PM

If I were ever to parent a child at my age, I'm fortunate enough that my parents would support me and my partner. I wouldn't want the pregnancy to be terminated because I kinda view abortion as murder. XD;

~*!*~Tatsujin Gosuto~*!*~ August 20th, 2009 8:08 PM

I'll have someone carry my baby for me (btw I'm straight) I just don't want to go threw morning sickness, and the pain of given birth, so I'll have like a carrier or something like that


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♣Gawain♣ August 20th, 2009 10:42 PM

I don't plan to marry anyway. Kids are rascals these days...

Camisado August 20th, 2009 10:50 PM

This is a difficult question.

I am pro-choice for a number of reasons, but I don't know if I'd be able to go through with abortion myself.

However, I have at least another year and a half of a qualification to do through work, and the person I'd likely be having a baby with hasn't started university yet, so it would be difficult for him too.

I know our families are supportive, and I make enough money (as long as I'm living at home) to support this sort of situation but wow, it'd be difficult.

In a few years time with stability, a house, and preferably marriage? It'd be fine. In fact, I'd like one or two children a lot. ._.

Genophobic August 20th, 2009 11:08 PM

no dude. i cant even raise myself and country is overpopulated. theres no abortion despite living in a catholic country.

Weatherman, Kiyoshi August 20th, 2009 11:12 PM

I would never EVER allow abortion ever if I somehow got a girl pregnant and had a baby on the way if I was young.

But I think the fact of me being gay will prevent this situation from ever happening.

It would be my screw up, and I shouldn't just solve the problem by killing the baby before it even has a chance to live.
Even if I did it if I SOMEHOW got drunk or something,

Seriously, I don't plan to get drunk ever. I don't think I'll touch a beer or wine until I'm 21. But I don't overdo beverages, anyway.

In that case, it was MY fault for getting drunk.

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But anyway, since a situation like that won't occur in my life,
I'll answer the question of wanting a kid or not.

Yes. I do.

Are you kidding? Yes I want a family.
I even would like more than one kid.

Raising a kid is no easy task, I know.
But my decision still stands.

Whether I'll adopt or do surrogate, I'll save that when the time actually comes where it's about time I would like to establish a family itself. :3

Charliezard August 20th, 2009 11:24 PM

I'd let the chick decide. I've never regarded my opinion as very important, even if it effects the rest of my life... I wouldn't feel comfortable with choosing to abort or choosing to bring a baby into this world where their parents couldn't do a good job raising them... I'm too weak to decide lol x)

Timbjerr August 20th, 2009 11:35 PM

...since I'm 22, on my own, and relatively stable financially, my parents really shouldn't have to do anything about it. The only concern with my parents is that I'm married to a girl before having kids with her. :P

matt561 August 21st, 2009 1:48 AM

Erm has no one ever said they would put something on the end of it before they started? Because that's what I would do.
Otherwise like oher people being Bi leaning male I guess it depends who I was with.

I mean if I was with another man and some girl walked up and said I'd have got her pregnant well I dont know what I would do.


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