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Guillermo October 1st, 2009 1:38 AM

And the reason is youuu~ :) :] :3 :>
 
So I've been listening to this song for like ever and I figured I'd make a thread relating to it.

Does you have a significant other you can always turn to to make you feel happy? Could be a friend, boyfriend, girlfriend, family or just a role model.

As for me, I do. Usually my friends or my parents.

bit.trip void October 1st, 2009 1:40 AM

Will... you are my reason. <3.

*insert 'awwwwwwwws' here, kay?*

XxDawnfanxX October 1st, 2009 2:47 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Jesh (Post 5174025)
Will... you are my reason. <3.

*insert 'awwwwwwwws' here, kay?*

Awwwwwww. :P

I have a lot of people that push me forward when I feel I can't go any further, just when I think I can't do it or feel I can't go on I think of them as motivation and I try my best to achieve whatever I am doing, even the simple things.

Code October 1st, 2009 2:52 AM

I don't have anybody to go to... MY mom doesn't understand me (no parents understand teens XD), my brother is too childish, my big brother is grown up and childish at the same time, my sis is tougher and less emotional then me, and my younger sisters are too young. Maybe the only one I can really talk too is my friend Ive had since I was 3....

Signomi October 1st, 2009 3:45 AM

There is someone very special to me who I can always turn to in my times of crisis, that same person can always make me happy and he's also the one person who I always want to bring a smile about his face. I may have close friends, but he is my entire reason for why I feel so happy all the time.

Ho-Oh October 1st, 2009 5:47 AM

Yeah, Will for me too because he told me to

Malyka overall though, with my other close friends I can talk to also.

Banjora Marxvile October 1st, 2009 7:48 AM

I only show sensitivity to a few people, they are my... What is the word... Confidants? Yes, that is it. Only 2 people that I know of have had me show sensitivity.

Logan October 1st, 2009 7:57 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Jesh (Post 5174025)
Will... you are my reason. <3.

*insert 'awwwwwwwws' here, kay?*

What? I was just about to post that XD

ShinjisLover October 1st, 2009 8:10 AM

On here, I have Blahman117 that I can always go to.

In real life, I can go to my mom or my grandmom.

Devil's Guitarist October 1st, 2009 8:41 AM

yeeeeeeeeeeep I do!! I have the perfect person with me, my girlfriend. She is the beeeeeeeeeest! whenever I'm angry, sad or anythign she makes me sooooo happy!!!! =DDDD

twocows October 1st, 2009 8:55 AM

If things get bad, I just talk to the voices in my head. They never yell at me.

In regards to a girlfriend, I don't have one. I used to, but my ex dumped me the day after Christmas (two days before our anniversary). I'm pretty picky, though. Most of the girls here on campus aren't my type; many seem like if they don't get their daily regimen of attention from men, their heads will explode. People that desperate for attention kind of repel me. As for my parents, they are usually too busy squabbling amongst themselves to care about my problems, not to mention Mom's mind is kind of going south (MS is a terrible disease, and nobody should have to suffer through it).

Despite me striking the first sentence, I usually do just deal with problems myself. As weird (and mildly insane) as it sounds, I DO have two voices in my head. One is usually me whining about some problem that I've encountered, and the other is me hitting that guy and saying "stop whining and figure it out," and then goes on to say something cool and insightful that leads me to an answer.

Alexithymia~ October 1st, 2009 9:01 AM

Are we answering in two forms? PC and RL?

PC: .. dun, umm. I think my PC brother. He's just an awesome friend.

RL: Either my mother or .. well, umm.. I think that's it.

Not that exciting.

ArcanineOod October 1st, 2009 9:37 AM

Well, for those of us with a religious faith, there's always someone we can turn to with problems. Outside of that, my schoolfriends and parents (my mother especially) are the ones I go to for support. =3

xX

Rokusasu October 1st, 2009 10:08 AM

My mum can always cheer me up, we're very much alike and usually end up finishing eachothers' sentences / saying the same thing at the same time. :3

Cid October 1st, 2009 10:20 AM

In PC, no one in particular.

IRL, my siblings, and my parents (my mother mostly). Always trusted my family more than anyone else.
I'm hardly happy without them.

Still, I have close friends to trust. But I trust my family > my friends.

Yggdra October 1st, 2009 11:57 AM

Real life people and online people.

But there are too many to count :3

Serene Grace October 1st, 2009 12:02 PM

No one yet but I am only fifteen. I'm sure i'll find someone later on in my life that I can turn to for any problems I have.

Jordan October 1st, 2009 12:40 PM

I trust only one person with my entire life story: my old best friend from Texas. We e-mail each other daily ever since I left, and we go to great extents to be able to contact each other. Any one-off problems not too personal, I share with my close acquaintances. I would talk to my parents, but they look down on me too much on personal issues. On PC, I dump every thoughts and feelings onto DLTMSA xP

Takoto October 1st, 2009 12:53 PM

No matter how sad I am, just being with my boyfriends relaxes me, lifts my spirits, and makes me happy.

Franceschi October 2nd, 2009 8:19 AM

There's a fair list of people.

PC: Pretty much anyone I talk to on here makes me feel happy; that might be because everyone I talk to is my friend, but the point still stands! There are a few people in particular and they should know who they are - they're the ones whom I laugh with on a daily basis and who care enough about me to IM me and talk to me.
IRL: There's about 5 friends who make me happy, no matter what. As do my brothers and parents.

There is, of course, someone whom I can talk to about anything and who I know will make me feel happy or happier. He's one of the few reasons I get up in the morning and he's definitely the reason I try to be the person I am. I can turn to him for anything, especially to cheer me up. <3

Graceful October 2nd, 2009 8:39 AM

I'd have to say my friend Laura [We've both got the same name]. She makes me feel happy when I'm down and Well Listening to Utada Hikaru {My Idol/Rolemodel}

seeker October 2nd, 2009 8:40 AM

Well, okay this could be long xD
In real life I have had someone to turn to any time I needed him for 12 years straight. He wasn't one of those best friends that would listen to every word I had to say but he always knew how to cheer me up. He was one of those laid back kind of guys who is just always wanting to have a laugh. The type that woukdn't bail you out of jail but rather be sitting there next to you saying "hell, that was fun!". Thing is, I couldn't rely on him if I needed advice or needed to talk about something deep, because well, he's a bit of a mans man. He hasn't experianced the kind of things I have therefore he really doesn't know what to say when I'm very down and it just seems like he doesn't care tbh. i've been through everything with him and we've travelled the world over together but now, now that I've had so much going on in my life that I can't handle, he has stepped back and just been shy with our friendship and letting it slip. We do talk, but not on the level we used to. He is still as immature as when I first met him 12 years ago, but sometimes you need that, someone to just get in trouble with, and hell, have we gotten in trouble! It upsets me to say that we really aren't at the same level of friendship that we used to be, we can't even have that casual pint anymore. He's kind of replaced me for another one of our friends in our circle.
I do have another guy I can turn to and I have, we're also really close friends but, the thing is, he is really pre-occupied with his girlfriend, you know those relationships which your friends get into with the opposite sex and you just can't get a word in edge ways because they are so "deeply in love"? Yeah, one of those xD
I used to have someone in my family I could always turn to, about anything without fail, she always knew the right things to say and she was like a mum & a best friend to me. Even though she was my aunt. However, she died a little over a year ago of cancer at the age of 43. She was the last real person I could turn to.
As for online, I have my BFFFFFFFF's xD I have Joey, Fiona, Harry, Ryan, Arian, Max, Matt, Christina and so many more! The guys cheer me up on a daily basis more than anything! I'm always happy around them. There was a group of us, and it upsets me to say that the conversations we had are starting to die or at most they have. They used to be a lot of fun and we could talk about anything. But now that everyone is pairing off and everyone is have issues IRL, it really started to break apart and I guess, we're just starting to take a break from eachother. I hope we can repair our little group convos because I miss them, but at the end of the day I still love them all individually no matter what happens. I could go on and on but I'm ignoring people just to say this xD

Code October 2nd, 2009 8:47 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by twocows (Post 5174605)
If things get bad, I just talk to the voices in my head. They never yell at me.

In regards to a girlfriend, I don't have one. I used to, but my ex dumped me the day after Christmas (two days before our anniversary). I'm pretty picky, though. Most of the girls here on campus aren't my type; many seem like if they don't get their daily regimen of attention from men, their heads will explode. People that desperate for attention kind of repel me. As for my parents, they are usually too busy squabbling amongst themselves to care about my problems, not to mention Mom's mind is kind of going south (MS is a terrible disease, and nobody should have to suffer through it).

Despite me striking the first sentence, I usually do just deal with problems myself. As weird (and mildly insane) as it sounds, I DO have two voices in my head. One is usually me whining about some problem that I've encountered, and the other is me hitting that guy and saying "stop whining and figure it out," and then goes on to say something cool and insightful that leads me to an answer.

My mom has MS too...so sad.... T_T
Well, I wish I had a girlfriend, or someone that I could talk to that actually understands me...except for my friend becasue He lives in Oslo which is a 7 hour drive from where I live...

Sublime October 2nd, 2009 11:20 AM

Oh, I have quite a few.

In real life, there's about three people I can go to with anything and they'll always make me feel better.

But online, there's a good handful of people that can make me feel better. Fiona, Gummy, Ein, Michelle, Gavin, Luke, Vivvi, Emily, Adam, and etc.

I look up to all of them, but there are four in particular that I really admire. Those four know just who they are. They're each a strong person in their own way, ad are there for me whenever I need them. And then of course one out of those four is the person I know I can go to with anything with. She's my everything :3 <3

Lana. October 2nd, 2009 3:53 PM

IRL: I have my cousin, one of my bestest friends in the whole widest world. The only reason we weren't sisters is because neither of our mothers would have been able to handle it. xD I can tell her just about anything in the world and she wouldn't judge. My mother, too, is my best friend. She and I are so alike, and we kind of think on the same wavelength. Sometimes it can be a little inconvenient, but most of the time it's amazing when she just knows something's up. She just gets me.

PC: Oh, there's one. It shouldn't take long to find out. =3 <33

ÇyänïdëÉX October 2nd, 2009 6:10 PM

lol that song never made much sense to me. In a way i do wish i had a significant other but i don't, still i manage to find ways to cheer myself up when down in the slumps. I would say the internet sadly enough cheers me up when down.

Idiot! October 3rd, 2009 1:08 AM

If machines and mathematical problems count, yes, I do. Especially if the outcome likes me, and it usually does.

Soul Eater October 3rd, 2009 1:46 AM

Well, a few years ago, I used to only rely on my sister Kylie. I used to set myself to offline mode and talk to just her.

Nowadays, I have my boyfriend. I also have my best friend Dawn who I can pretty much tell ANYTHING to and she doesn't doubt me for a second. I have Jack who is pretty much there to make me laugh... and well pretty much lots of friends that I go to, even if they don't know I'm upset. Usually I'll start talking to them because I need a laugh.

(And I love that song btw. <3)

.Wolfie-kun. October 3rd, 2009 5:01 PM

I have two best friends (One online and one IRL) who I can always turn to with any problem I may have.

But in regards to 'an other half' I split up with my last girlfriend almost 9 months ago, she was the first girlfriend I ever had and to this day I don't have anyone to turn to in 'that' way, as in someone to comfort me, as cheesy as it may sound - I actually long to feel loved once again, but as ever it's recently been unrequited. So I'm going to move on and such.

I'm a sad case XD;

Snivi October 3rd, 2009 5:12 PM

I usually turn to my little sister. =3

Cold Fusion October 3rd, 2009 5:14 PM

In real life I would most likely turn to best friends and my family (Mostly mum or dad, siblings not as much).
There are soo many people online that give me a smile so it's quite hard to choose really.
I usually look to the positive side of things and cheer myself up.

Shiny October 3rd, 2009 5:32 PM

My dearest friend James, even though we've only been friends for two years, I can trust him with my life.

Klippy October 3rd, 2009 10:24 PM

I've got a few friends from here that always make me happy when I talk to them. :D

Hiidoran October 4th, 2009 1:32 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Klippy (Post 5182818)
I've got a few friends from here that always make me happy when I talk to them. :D

Ditto that.

I've made some pretty awesome friends around here that can always put a smile on my face when I'm feeling down. Best part is, they're able to do this when friends in real life can't. Say at four in the morning?

X-626 October 4th, 2009 5:53 PM

Online, there's one person in particular that I go to when something is bothering me, or if I just need to talk about something (no matter what it is). They're my best friend (and they should know who they are). There are a few other people I can also go to when something is bothering me. I also have other friends that tend to make me happy as well. We may not be as close, but we're still friends.

IRL, there's really not many people I feel I can go to. I have friends, but I have trust issues. My mom is one of the few people I can talk to about (almost) anything.

Kotone October 4th, 2009 6:07 PM

idk.
probably my parents or my friends.

.little monster October 4th, 2009 6:10 PM

Nope.

My parents make fun of me behind my back because I can hear them. And I moved away from all my friends, who apparently laugh at me on Facebook.

So no.

Citrinin October 5th, 2009 3:30 AM

For me, not really. It's not that I'm a loner, it's just that I don't have any close confidents. It doesn't bother me, to be honest, because life has treated me well so far, and I've never really had anything depressing happen in my life. And, when I do get blue, I tend to work out the problem best on my own. I realise a great deal of people seem to work out their problems better when talking to someone, but... I don't know, I seem to be able to get by emotionally by myself. :s

Quote:

Originally Posted by Ctep
My parents make fun of me behind my back because I can hear them. And I moved away from all my friends, who apparently laugh at me on Facebook.

D: I'm really sorry to hear that. It sucks when those who are supposed to be close to you do things like that. >_<;

Bay October 5th, 2009 7:33 AM

In real life most of the time my friends and family. They would always joke around and I would laugh outloud. Also, if I ever have problems I would talk to them and their comments would make me feel better. I tell my problems more to my family though because they know me know.

As for online, quite a lot of people both PokeCommunity and Serebii (what's up with different people in different forums XD ). There's never a dull member with my friends in those two places. :)

>Feelings< October 6th, 2009 4:44 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Juicy Fruit (Post 5174024)
So I've been listening to this song for like ever and I figured I'd make a thread relating to it.

"I'm not a perfect person
There's many things I wish I didn't do
But I continue learning
I never meant to do those things to you
And so I have to say before I go
That I just want you to know
I've found out a reason for me
To change who I used to be
A reason to start over new
and the reason is you
"

Did I get that right? Or do you have something else in your mind?


Quote:

Originally Posted by Juicy Fruit (Post 5174024)
Does you have a significant other you can always turn to to make you
feel happy? Could be a friend, boyfriend, girlfriend, family or just a role model.

No...
Probably my little bro for some cases, but otherwise I can't turn to anyone else as of now, and I don't like it this way.


Quote:

Originally Posted by Code_Green (Post 5177344)
Well, I wish I had a girlfriend, or someone that I could talk to that actually understands me...except for my friend becasue He lives in Oslo which is a 7 hour drive from where I live...

QFT... or more specifically - QFD (don't ask what this means...)
I wish...
And for my part, I don't even have someone in real life who I can call my friend...


Quote:

Originally Posted by t.A.T.u (Post 5187133)
My parents make fun of me behind my back because I can hear them. And I moved away from all my friends, who apparently laugh at me on Facebook.

You almost stirred my recent past life... Though not a complete match.

Eternal Nightmare October 6th, 2009 5:20 AM

I ususally talk to my older borther about most of my problems and stuff. I also talk to my friends despite the fact that they are all idiots. On PC have quite a fex that I would talk to about anything *cough*Sounds*cough* :3


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