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NarutoActor April 19th, 2010 9:11 AM

That used to happen to me. Just wright everything you are worried about on a piece of paper and then let your mind rest. (that's what I did)

Binary April 19th, 2010 9:16 AM

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Originally Posted by NarutoActor (Post 5732253)
That used to happen to me. Just wright everything you are worried about on a piece of paper and then let your mind rest. (that's what I did)

I'll give it a try, thanks XD.

Esper April 19th, 2010 10:35 AM

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Originally Posted by Binary (Post 5732246)
My problem.
When I go to bed, I think about the issues I'm having and worry about the future.
Because of that, I can't get to sleep even after 1-2 hours. I end up having headaches.
Any suggestions?

Spend a little time in your day working toward whatever it is you're worried about. You might feel more in control of your future so you won't worry as much and can sleep easier.

Joey_951 April 21st, 2010 8:00 PM

Please help me

Well i have a girlfriend and we are about to give our first kiss and i really want to but i just tend to get so nervous and well it makes it harder to give it to her so what should i do so i could give it to her.

Please PM/VM me

Fxcking Tatertots April 21st, 2010 8:05 PM

I'm getting really mad over the smallest things [even if someone mentions something I dislike, I go on a ranting rampage.] And afterwards, I get depressed and start hating myself. It has been going on for months, actually. I'm generally not interested in anything anymore or feel like getting out of bed 99% of the time.

Sorry if that's not enough, but I don't want to hog the thread with a TL;DR.

Feign April 21st, 2010 8:09 PM

See a family physician in this case. It is your best bet.

WriteThemWrong April 21st, 2010 8:15 PM

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Originally Posted by FAMS_PVT_JOEY (Post 5739563)
Please help me

Well i have a girlfriend and we are about to give our first kiss and i really want to but i just tend to get so nervous and well it makes it harder to give it to her so what should i do so i could give it to her.

Please PM/VM me

well if she's your "girlfriend" then there really isn't anything to be nervous about. she's not going to laugh at you for messing up, she might giggle if you miss or something but in a cute way probably. If you really are having a problem trying reaching out and holding onto her like touch her face with your hands that way it'll feel more like a commitment and you are least likely to stop.

Fxcking Tatertots April 21st, 2010 8:18 PM

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Originally Posted by Feign (Post 5739587)
See a family physician in this case. It is your best bet.

Was that towards me by any chance?

Spoiler:
I've already been to the "doctor" [AKA psych], but the pills were not working. I'm not arsed to change medications; 5 friggin' years of juggling 10+ different meds and getting worse each time.

Joey_951 April 22nd, 2010 7:30 PM

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Originally Posted by WriteThemWrong (Post 5739598)
well if she's your "girlfriend" then there really isn't anything to be nervous about. she's not going to laugh at you for messing up, she might giggle if you miss or something but in a cute way probably. If you really are having a problem trying reaching out and holding onto her like touch her face with your hands that way it'll feel more like a commitment and you are least likely to stop.

hey thanks for your advice

Feign April 22nd, 2010 7:40 PM

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Originally Posted by Fxcking Tatertots (Post 5739604)
Was that towards me by any chance?

Spoiler:
I've already been to the "doctor" [AKA psych], but the pills were not working. I'm not arsed to change medications; 5 friggin' years of juggling 10+ different meds and getting worse each time.

Then perhaps some natural therapy? :3 If nothing is working you should still try to get the help you need.

Fxcking Tatertots April 23rd, 2010 4:43 PM

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Originally Posted by Feign (Post 5742271)
Then perhaps some natural therapy? :3 If nothing is working you should still try to get the help you need.

If I've been on 10+ different things, then I'd doubt it'll work.

The only thing that works for me is seclusion, but people apparently think it's not healthy for me. But it helps me personally, so it annoys me even further.

Reginaldvonburger April 29th, 2010 2:49 AM

Yesterday I found out that I'm pregnant. I'm 16 and my parents still think I'm a virgin.

Zet April 29th, 2010 3:09 AM

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Originally Posted by Reginaldvonburger (Post 5760034)
Yesterday I found out that I'm pregnant. I'm 16 and my parents still think I'm a virgin.

wow, just wow. I guess you have some news to break to your parents, but I hope you plan to have a shotgun wedding.

Reginaldvonburger April 29th, 2010 9:36 AM

We've decided it's for the best not to keep it.
We aren't ready to be parents, and it wouldn't have a great life right now anyway, we're both broke and he's being kicked out of home soon.
We had planned to have a baby, just not this early. We aren't mentally ready, neither of us are happy about aborting him/her, but it's our only real choice. I mean, his parents are catholic and if they found out we'd have sex he'd be murdered. This baby will have another chance to be born. I'm sure it's soul with find some parents who really want a baby, and it'll bless them with him/herself.

But, next year, when I'm 18 and he's 19, we'll start properly thinking about a family. When we're ready for it.

The Cynic April 29th, 2010 10:34 AM

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Originally Posted by Zet (Post 5760040)
wow, just wow. I guess you have some news to break to your parents, but I hope you plan to have a shotgun wedding.


Shotgun Wedding? What is this, the 1920s? Plenty of people have kids without being married. It dosn't make them, or their children, any less than other human beings.


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Originally Posted by Reginaldvonburger (Post 5760470)
We've decided it's for the best not to keep it.
We aren't ready to be parents, and it wouldn't have a great life right now anyway, we're both broke and he's being kicked out of home soon.
We had planned to have a baby, just not this early. We aren't mentally ready, neither of us are happy about aborting him/her, but it's our only real choice. I mean, his parents are catholic and if they found out we'd have sex he'd be murdered. This baby will have another chance to be born. I'm sure it's soul with find some parents who really want a baby, and it'll bless them with him/herself.

But, next year, when I'm 18 and he's 19, we'll start properly thinking about a family. When we're ready for it.

I'm glad you've made your mind up. I wish you and your partner all the best in the future.

Yusshin April 29th, 2010 1:13 PM

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Originally Posted by Reginaldvonburger (Post 5760470)
We've decided it's for the best not to keep it.
We aren't ready to be parents, and it wouldn't have a great life right now anyway, we're both broke and he's being kicked out of home soon.
We had planned to have a baby, just not this early. We aren't mentally ready, neither of us are happy about aborting him/her, but it's our only real choice. I mean, his parents are catholic and if they found out we'd have sex he'd be murdered. This baby will have another chance to be born. I'm sure it's soul with find some parents who really want a baby, and it'll bless them with him/herself.

But, next year, when I'm 18 and he's 19, we'll start properly thinking about a family. When we're ready for it.

May I suggest you somehow manage to get a prescription for "the pill"? Along with that, always wear a condom from now on :< Even if you think the pill would be enough, the condom is extra, extra protection. I'm sure you were already using one, but try to get the pill if possible, too. It's not too expensive, I don't think. I pay 20$/year for the pill to regulate my menstruation. It might be different where you live, though, pending your coverage. As for condoms, make sure you're putting them on properly. Always squeeze the air out of the tip while applying it or else it'll pop when he, uh, you know. Make sure it doesn't fall off either.

Trojan condoms (the blue package) are the most trustworthy for me. Lifestyle doesn't have a good grip and slides off easily. Trojan has a grip at the top and it's very difficult for it to slide off for whatever reason. It may pinch the male a bit, but it's safe, and doesn't disturb the sensation. It's definitely the safest condom available from my experience.

Don't stop using a condom just because you take the pill though!

Just some advice :<

Reginaldvonburger April 29th, 2010 1:18 PM

I don't actually have any money though haha, I can barely afford to feed myself.
And yeah, the only time he's put a condom on wrong was the first time he ever used one. I think the pill is free for us british because of the NHS but yeah. I was gonna go on it but I'm so scatterbrained I'd forget to take it everyday :G

Fxcking Tatertots April 29th, 2010 1:23 PM

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Originally Posted by Reginaldvonburger (Post 5760906)
I don't actually have any money though haha, I can barely afford to feed myself.
And yeah, the only time he's put a condom on wrong was the first time he ever used one. I think the pill is free for us british because of the NHS but yeah. I was gonna go on it but I'm so scatterbrained I'd forget to take it everyday :G

I'm not surprised. I've heard horror stories of chav mommies. I'm glad you've decided to not have a kid young, because that really messes up your life.

The Cynic April 29th, 2010 1:32 PM

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Originally Posted by Reginaldvonburger (Post 5760906)
I don't actually have any money though haha, I can barely afford to feed myself.
And yeah, the only time he's put a condom on wrong was the first time he ever used one. I think the pill is free for us british because of the NHS but yeah. I was gonna go on it but I'm so scatterbrained I'd forget to take it everyday :G


Here in the UK you can get condoms for free. Go to your local family-planning clinic and fill out a form for a "C-Card". This gets you unlimited free condoms from family-planning clinics.

Bluerang1 April 29th, 2010 3:10 PM

I need sympathy :( I guess I can post this here:

This is really upsetting, I bought a screen protector for my Nokia N79 to preserve it. I kept it seperate from my money which is kept in my wallet anyway. But somehow thse managed to happen:



All the ones highlighted are actually on the Phone, the protector didn't protect it. The guy at the Nokia Store said I had to pay for these, why? I tried to keep it safe by buying the screen protector and avoid situations like this. I won;t name where I bought it form, yet, I don't want to ruin their name just in case I get compensation from them. I'm really upset. I only got the phone less than a month ago. Not fair this. Anyone experience oddities like this?

On the other hand, the Black Silicone case I got for it is just great! Really nice quality and protects fantastically.

Zet April 29th, 2010 8:53 PM

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Originally Posted by The Cynic (Post 5760550)
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Shotgun Wedding? What is this, the 1920s? Plenty of people have kids without being married. It dosn't make them, or their children, any less than other human beings.

Shotgun wedding so the guy doesn't run away. He would have to support them no matter what and the only fail safe way is with a shotgun wedding

Flyboy April 29th, 2010 9:12 PM

[Edit]
Don't worry don't feel like having my life dissgust

Fxcking Tatertots April 29th, 2010 9:13 PM

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Originally Posted by Flyboy (Post 5762139)
I havn't seen my dad for 6 years now he's dead.

Wait, what...? Oh. Sorry about that, kiddo. :[

Flyboy April 29th, 2010 9:36 PM

Umm could you please remove that.
Sigh don't bother talk about it all you want.

Umm could you please remove that.
Sigh don't bother talk about it all you want.

Reginaldvonburger April 30th, 2010 7:22 AM

My boyfriend is the one who wanted to keep the baby haha, so no shotgun wedding needed.
We're gonna have a baby when I'm 18 xP


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