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processr January 4th, 2010 7:26 AM

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Originally Posted by Giratina55 (Post 5449444)
No, im not paranoid! I hate him and have nothing bothering me about him at the moment, i think its just weird that he randomly appeared like that! oh! and he uh...well....hehe o.o" scared.... me when i was on the computer.... i have some pictures on my camera that i will show later.

Really? Do you realise how ridiculous you sound? The Sonic series is a video game franchise that was created by Sega in 1991 - if you hadn't guessed from the fact that the characters are all anthropomorphic animals, they aren't real.

.Seth January 4th, 2010 11:27 AM

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Originally Posted by Giratina55 (Post 5449444)
No, im not paranoid! I hate him and have nothing bothering me about him at the moment, i think its just weird that he randomly appeared like that! oh! and he uh...well....hehe o.o" scared.... me when i was on the computer.... i have some pictures on my camera that i will show later.

It's impossible for game code from the late 90's to unleash a demon into your living room. A lot of the 'curse' websites say it's just for fun.

The Darkest Gale January 5th, 2010 12:21 PM

umm I have the same problem as notch-eared-pichu
I can't get to sleep and then I start getting mad because I'm told to just close my eyes and rest. Which I do but it doesn't work . Also I hate fire, I'm terrified of it and I'm worried about a fire at night.
any help and I do have a dog but he's deaf -_-
thanks

Distortion World January 7th, 2010 8:57 PM

What Do You Do With An Unfaithful Friend?
 
O.K,

So I have this friend who treats me very low even when iIm trying to be nice to him.

And people keep telling me to stop trying to be nice.

But I don't know what to do.

Can someone tell me what I should do?

Ninja Caterpie January 7th, 2010 9:24 PM

I wouldn't really call that a friend.

EpsilonE January 7th, 2010 10:24 PM

Ditch the loser. This should probably be in the advice thread, but I'll throw out some here

I've had the same problem, and it's not worth it. Chances are this person talks like a pervert right? Does he/she constantly brag? If yes, he has a low self esteem and he redeems himself by putting friends down.

If no, he probably doesn't feel worthy enough to be cared about, so you should just talk to your friend about it heart to heart. If it makes you feel akward, you can talk to them and THEN stop being their friend

Anxiety. January 7th, 2010 10:43 PM

Wanna know what I do? Tell them to get stuffed.
Stop being nice. Be a little... yeah that... back. I find it works the best.

nameslot January 7th, 2010 11:28 PM

Hi all.
I will try to avoid him as much as I can.

Guillermo January 7th, 2010 11:32 PM

Do what I do. Make an ass of him. Make sure everyone is around, and make him look like a complete loser. Quit the nice act. It has to work both ways.

Dukey January 7th, 2010 11:36 PM

I take them to make dragon cave, hidden away in the mountains.
I make sure this person is comfortable, hanging from the wall in chains and then I eat him.

Or I just stop talking to them, either way :)

Rolling Pichu January 7th, 2010 11:47 PM

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Originally Posted by Guillermo (Post 5458914)
Do what I do. Make an ass of him. Make sure everyone is around, and make him look like a complete loser. Quit the nice act. It has to work both ways.

That's ill advice. I can't believe how immaturely you want him to react. It's about being the best person, not the worst one.

As for my advice, it's simple. First, stop giving him too much importance. Stop treating him; tell that you're disappointed and you can't keep enduring his attitude towards you, but you'll be there if he ever needs a hand, as long as he doesn't keep treating you like crap. In other words, be a good friend.

Then go on with your life and try meeting other people or hanging out with other friends. If he comes to you with an apology, you've got a real buddy. If he doesn't, it's his loss.

I know it's not as easy as it sounds, but it's just what I have to say. Good luck.

Uecil January 7th, 2010 11:51 PM

i've had this situation so many times just ignore the person then when theyr'e laughing it all out everything will backfire for them
and try to avoid them and don't talk to them at all then soon they will realise what a jerk theyr'e being. but Good Luck on this ^_^

Iron Maiden January 8th, 2010 7:09 AM

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Originally Posted by Jolene (Post 5445954)
I have terrible news! I found out that my cute English teacher, who I have a crush on, is going back home to live in Ireland soon. What should I do?

I was thinking that maybe I should rush down to the airport on the day that he's leaving, and there I'll confront him and confess my love to him. Obviously, he'll tell me that he loves me as well, and then he'll decide not to go away because he doesn't want us to be apart.

After that, we'll probably go on the run together - maybe to South America where it's warm - and we'll adopt new identities. I will be called Tinker Bell, and he will be called David Tennant. We'll travel around in a small rickety caravan, but our love will make it seem like paradise. We'll carve out a respectable living by performing folk songs wherever we stop, and I will sell paintings after learning how to paint. And then when I turn eighteen, we'll have a nice wedding in a small Brazilian chapel and we'll probably live happily ever after.

Do you think that this is a good idea?

What in the ****? Is that a serious question? If so then no offense, but that is the single stupidest thing i have ever heard. Your 14 years old, even if you willingly went on the run with him, in the eyes of the law he would be classed as a paedophile and be charged with kidnapping a minor. And what makes you think he has the same feelings for you?

Distortion World January 8th, 2010 9:43 AM

Thanks everybody.

I just confronted him and told him that if he's gonna be a jerk, I'm not even gonna try being nice to him.

He said he changed but I told hi mit was far too late to be saying that.

I feel much better now, :)

Shiny January 9th, 2010 6:25 AM

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Originally Posted by Iron Maiden (Post 5459511)
What in the ****? Is that a serious question? If so then no offense, but that is the single stupidest thing I have ever heard. Your 14 years old, even if you willingly went on the run with him, in the eyes of the law he would be classed as a paedophile and be charged with kidnapping a minor. And what makes you think he has the same feelings for you?

She has a simple schoolgirl crush on a teacher, it's really common, as long as she doesn't actually try to do anything inappropriate. I can't even remember how many crushes on teachers I've had.

Uecil January 9th, 2010 1:42 PM

i have had this problem ever since i started online in 2008 i have been constantly bullied by other members on sites, at school im bullied about my looks constantly i don't think i can take anymore it's got to stop so im going to leave offline for good but i dont want to make my friends upset espeacially my pair reverb they all mean the world to me but i dont know what to do its just making me ill all of it i get into trouble more at home and school so can someone help please :(

Daydream January 9th, 2010 2:49 PM

If someone's bullying you online, you block/ignore them, or if it's a site you tell a moderator/staff member. That's simple really.

In real life, it's far more serious. You need to speak to someone you have trust in; either a parent or teacher and tell them how you feel, someone will be able to help you because a lot of kids and teens go through this themselves at some point.

dc_united January 9th, 2010 3:22 PM

I know this is a pretty trivial problem compared to many of the other things posted on here in the last four days, but I feel the need to post it anyway.

I had my appendix removed last week, and me and my girlfriend split at the same time. I don't know why, but when I got out of the hospital, I began to develop insomnia, and even though I've healed up enough to be able to run for track again, I wind up falling asleep at four AM, and my performance in school and at track has suffered considerably because I can't keep my eyes open.

I really don't know what's caused it, whether it was something in the painkillers I had to take or sheer stress, but I'd hate to bring it to a doctor because it seems too trivial to really bother them with. What should I do? I went to friends and cousins, but none of their advice worked, so this is my last resort.

True Reign January 9th, 2010 4:53 PM

Seems like your body is responding to both the appendix and the breakup.

I'd say if it doesn't past in the next week, go see a doctor for at least some sleeping pills. Also explain to your professors/teachers about your insomnia. You never know; maybe they could give you an extended date on classwork or something.

Mika January 9th, 2010 4:57 PM

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Originally Posted by Individual Hope (Post 5462961)
If someone's bullying you online, you block/ignore them, or if it's a site you tell a moderator/staff member. That's simple really.

In real life, it's far more serious. You need to speak to someone you have trust in; either a parent or teacher and tell them how you feel, someone will be able to help you because a lot of kids and teens go through this themselves at some point.

It's not normal by any means and it's not easy to block people online. Sometimes the staff can be in on it. >>; It's easy said but it's hard to actually do. If this is real life, you have to know if you report the bullying which you should, there's a chance they'll laugh at you and say 'everyone gets picked on it's part of growing up'. To this you should respond 'it's not just kidding around, it actually hurts me' and be firm in your stance on that.

As far as on sites, if one section hates you try another and another. You can try and ask the mods etc for help but make sure you don't whine or anything like that nor should you sound like you're accusing the bullies. 'innocent until proven guilty' therefore you have to prove your case in a calm and civilized manner.

Don't give up and don't turn your back on the friends you have. Ask them to help you, friends protect friends you know? And if they don't want to confront the bully or w/e that's fine, just ask them to be your escape so you can forget your woes and stuff. It's not about quantity but quality and I'm sure people like your pair love you dearly <3

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Originally Posted by dc_united (Post 5463056)
I know this is a pretty trivial problem compared to many of the other things posted on here in the last four days, but I feel the need to post it anyway.

I had my appendix removed last week, and me and my girlfriend split at the same time. I don't know why, but when I got out of the hospital, I began to develop insomnia, and even though I've healed up enough to be able to run for track again, I wind up falling asleep at four AM, and my performance in school and at track has suffered considerably because I can't keep my eyes open.

I really don't know what's caused it, whether it was something in the painkillers I had to take or sheer stress, but I'd hate to bring it to a doctor because it seems too trivial to really bother them with. What should I do? I went to friends and cousins, but none of their advice worked, so this is my last resort.

It could be the painkillers and stress combined. Have you tried any relaxation techniques? You like to run, if you're allowed to this soon after your surgery, go for a run about an hour before bed the physical exercise will wear you out. Try listening to music or read a book, something to either bore you or lure you to sleep. If you're stressing out over your breakup, try hiding items [not get rid of them] that remind you of your previous relationship [out of sight out of mind] and if push comes to shove, talk about why you can't fall asleep. It helps me anyways. ^^;

Anyways, if none of that works, try and kill the caffine out of your diet completely over a weekend so you can crash early. Your body sounds like it's starting to get used to going to bed that late. XD;

Hope this works, if not feel free to ask back or ask your doctor.

Honest January 10th, 2010 9:44 AM

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Originally Posted by sspokemon (Post 5462811)
i have had this problem ever since i started online in 2008 i have been constantly bullied by other members on sites, at school im bullied about my looks constantly i don't think i can take anymore it's got to stop so im going to leave offline for good but i dont want to make my friends upset espeacially my pair reverb they all mean the world to me but i dont know what to do its just making me ill all of it i get into trouble more at home and school so can someone help please :(


This used to happen to me. Just ignore them, don't even bother replying. I know it's hard NOT to listen, but if you get the hang of it, it'll work out.

Oh, and are you getting bullied by someone here? You could just report them.

The Darkest Gale January 10th, 2010 11:08 AM

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Originally Posted by sspokemon (Post 5462811)
i have had this problem ever since i started online in 2008 i have been constantly bullied by other members on sites, at school im bullied about my looks constantly i don't think i can take anymore it's got to stop so im going to leave offline for good but i dont want to make my friends upset espeacially my pair reverb they all mean the world to me but i dont know what to do its just making me ill all of it i get into trouble more at home and school so can someone help please :(

:( I get bullied at school real bad
tell your teacher(s) or head
as for here tell a mod or smod ;)
hope this helps
And I'll support you :)

Anti-Hero January 10th, 2010 5:47 PM

Ok, so my dog ran away, and was picked up to the pound. We got him back, he was fine. Then, he got out. When we got him back, he did NOT want to come back. As we tried to force him in, he just sat, making it all but impossible. Twice, he ran back out into the gate. Again, we got him back in. This time, we blocked the gates so that he couldn't get out, yet he still persisted. My grandpa had to literally throw him back in the door.

Could it be that he misses my aunt's dog that was here when we got back him from the pound? Or when he was gone, could something' have happened? Cause, when he got him back from the pound, he had been gone for a good three days. But, what's weird is that he seemed scared of us, but he acted perfectly fine when we got him back from the pound.

What might be causing this peculiar behavior?

Achil!es January 12th, 2010 5:40 PM

Pokemon Problem
 
I am trying to get a Mamoswine I know that you need to get a Pilowswine with Ancient power and level it up to get one but my problem is i cant seem to breed or catch a Swinub with Ancient power or find the TM some where can any one help?
Does the Pilowswine get Ancient power via level up or does it need to be born with it?

Esper January 12th, 2010 7:28 PM

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Originally Posted by Adder (Post 5465995)
Ok, so my dog ran away, and was picked up to the pound. We got him back, he was fine. Then, he got out. When we got him back, he did NOT want to come back. As we tried to force him in, he just sat, making it all but impossible. Twice, he ran back out into the gate. Again, we got him back in. This time, we blocked the gates so that he couldn't get out, yet he still persisted. My grandpa had to literally throw him back in the door.

Could it be that he misses my aunt's dog that was here when we got back him from the pound? Or when he was gone, could something' have happened? Cause, when he got him back from the pound, he had been gone for a good three days. But, what's weird is that he seemed scared of us, but he acted perfectly fine when we got him back from the pound.

What might be causing this peculiar behavior?

My dog was always a leash dog. We could never train her well enough to let her off the leash because she would always run away. She would even try to sneak past us when we came in the door. Eventually we realized that she needed to be taken on more walks and she wasn't so desperate to escape after that. I don't know if you need to worry about your dog being scared of you. Dogs can get really worried if you leave them alone. If it had been three days I would imagine that he was still feeling abandoned, but if he seems fine now then he probably is fine. Just keep an eye out for weird/new behavior and give your dog lots of love and attention.


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