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Okay, this problem started in the summer. we came back to school, and everyone was happy, it was set up to be a great year, good teacher, good friends, and next year i'd be going to high school. Now, for a week we got to go away with the school for a week. It was fun, but i spent most of time with one of my friends. Shes a girl, and since the start of the year, i'd really liked her. It may have been raging hormones, but i dunno. Now, we were getting really close, and then my best friend asks her out. He gets a yes. Now i was happy for him, but that all changed quickly. Mostly because, he found out i like her. He got someone to spread it to everyone, including the girl i like. She didn't mind, and she told me it would've been a yes if he hadn't asked first. So, when this happened, i actually felt like my chest hurt. It was one weird feeling. Now, after this, he started spreading rumours about me. - one of which was perverted and just plain gross - they all weren't true. But, cause it was her boyfriend, she believed him. And ever since then, things have always been awkward when me and the girl i like talk to each other. It just feels like all the friendship we had disappeared from the air. Now, my friend actually wants to kill me. He is really annoyed at me, and i never know what he's gonna spread next. And i always think whatever he spreads may ruin my friendship with everyone. So, my best friend hates me, i can barely talk to the girl i like, and everyone thinks my friend is right. What can i do to stop all of it, and maybe get the girl. |
I'm going out with this one girl and Im worried about kissing her.
There's nothing wrong, but last time I tried to, she denied it and I just kissed her on her cheek. We'll be going out for a month as of the 17th of January and I kinda want to try again, but last time, it tore me up inside. VM when you reply to this so I can remember to look at your advice. Thanks. |
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Or. Ditch the douche and tell an adult whose mature enough to handle such a stupid situation. |
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make the girl realise that he is a bit of a git and fingers crossed she finishes him. win the girl over asap as they split, you may seem a bit horrible jumping onto your friends ex straight away but who cares. with the help of your new femme fatale tell everybody he's lying. it'll work out... My problem... Well i was recently with this girl i've liked for the past 4 years, we where in love and i ended up losing my virginity to her... We are best friends and always have fun but when we arent together we end up having petty arguments via text or facebook and we end up braking up. But usually i win her back over and its all good in the end. But we recently split up and this time i'm not sure if i can get her back or not and after staying up all last night and thinking of what i could do i decided to not move on from her for about a year and fingers crossed in the meantime i would get back with her. I love her so much and right now we see each other everyday as best friends (and when i say best friends i seriously mean best friends) but its painful because i constantly just want to hold her and never let her go and that would definately put her off as being my friend so i thought about not seeing her as a friend anymore...but i'd rather be her best friend and have this predicament than not be involved in her life at all... I'm just asking, has anybody ever experianced something like this and if so how did you ease the pain? :( |
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But talk to her. That's about all I can say. And if she doesn't take you back, then maybe it's time to move on. Best of luck. |
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and thank you :) |
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My amazingly cute English teacher is now gone. I think I'm on the rebound - I've started looking around the school for another teacher upon whom to target my infatuation, but none are quite so gorgeous as my lost love. How shall I cope?
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You've been here for ages and I still can't tell if you're a troll or not.
Anyway, if you're serious, stop going after teachers. You're probably just making them uncomfortable and it won't work out anyway. I'm not saying relationships with people older than you are bad, but least wait until you're of legal age before you start pursuing them to make it a great deal less awkward for everyone involved. :( |
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Serious or not here is a lovely website I found. It's technically a website for those who are in an educational field of work looking for a companion who is also in that field. So if you're that desperate you could just lie about being a teacher and skim through the website. In all seriousness though you should really try looking for people who are around your age. Dating teachers is usually a messy and awkward situation. Atleast that's how the news presents it. Nontheless here is the website if you're really interested. http://www.teacherspassions.com/ |
Thank you for the link, but most of the teachers on that website seem a bit too old and scruffy for my tastes. My amazingly cute English teacher was in a much higher league. For one thing, he was quite young for a teacher - I think he must have been hired straight out of university, so he's only about ten years older than me and that means it wouldn't be so bad if we got married. He always dressed very smartly in shirts and ties and in the winter he wore a very sexy scarf which I tried to steal on the day before he left, mainly because I wanted something to remember him with, but I gave it back because it was snowing outside and I was worried that he would get cold. He had really trendy blonde hair and a lovely thin face, and he had the nicest smile in all the wide world. He was very tall and also quite thin, with really long arms that he could cuddle me with and I would feel so warm and safe.
He also had such a lovely accent, and I was so happy when he read to us from books. When we have children, I hope he reads to them in the same way because he makes stories interesting. I wouldn't have found As You Like It interesting were it not for him, nor Romeo and Juliet. But now he's gone, and I am Juliet. |
right problem has appeared >.<
its kinda silly but oh well I used to go with this girl and it lasted a year until I went to highschool where we had to split. Usually I just move on after a while cause were still friends but now she is going with this other boy who gets into all sorts of trouble which then meant she wasn't allowed to see him(parents decision) . but that didn't stop her basically when she told me I lied and said I was cool when I bascially was stabbed in the back cause I was about to ask her out that night. what should I do silly I know |
The Darkest Gale: Good god, you're twelve years old. Go play or something. Wait a couple of years until you're much further down the road of personal development before pursuing relationships ('going out', how cute). Let her go.
Jolene: Statutory rape if there are sexual relations, most schools have rules on student-teacher relations, parents will never allow it if they find out. In short: 2/10. Better luck next time. Your trolling has gotten pretty sub-standard recently. |
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Sorry, how can you really say you had a girlfriend when you were 6. Children just have friends, not girlfriends, how can you possibly say you had a real relationship at that age. Please learn the difference between a girlfriend and friends that are female. @ Darkest Gale; don't worry about it, what Apophenia said, you don't need to worry about girlfriends and relationships at the moment. Just concentrate on making good friends, whether they're male or female. Try not to see females as potential girlfriends, they're not a different species after all, so you don't really need to treat them differently. xD |
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Oh my goodness! Is this an advice thread or a nag at each other thread?
Anyway, here's my problem, even though I'm really not sure any of you can do anything about it. (Longish length alert!) Spoiler:
If you did bother to read it, thanks! I hope I get at least a little feedback. ^_^ xX |
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Basically what I'm saying, and it sound very cheesy, is if you can dream it you can do it. Give it your all. It will be hell. But you can do it. And when you do you reap the rewards. When I graduate I will be able to stroll over to the US or Japan or Germany and get a job in almost any sector. And if you can't do it, you tried your best and that way you can't be dissapointed. I realise not everyone can go to oxford but there are loads of brilliant unis in the world. You will get into one! You can do it! ~Good Luck, hope I helped!~ |
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