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TrinityLimit February 15th, 2010 7:25 PM

Love at first sight?
 
OMGZ MY FIRST THREAD EVAR!
ehe :3, anyways, me and my friend Misha had an interesting talk about finding love at first site. so i was wondering, do you believe in love at first site? and why?
i though this was completely bogus, but it got me thinking deeply...

when i was in 4th grade, there was this really pretty new girl, and sure enough, i though she was the one for me (i was in 4th grade >.< :P) but then i ended up creeping her out and err lets just say it didnt go very well 3x </3

anyways, im probbably boring you to death with my silly stories, so posts your thoughts about this >:-D

emoBill™ February 15th, 2010 7:29 PM

I believe it...because I'm in it :3

Although actually it was "love at first hear" because I heard him before I saw him. I don't really know how I know. It just...happened. But I'm so happy it did because I feel like flying every time I think of him. Love is a beautiful thing and I really do feel sorry for the people who don't believe in it :/

Anxiety. February 15th, 2010 7:47 PM

No. Not at all.

You can't fall in love with someone if you know nothing about them.

.little monster February 15th, 2010 7:50 PM

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Originally Posted by Anxiety. (Post 5556160)
No. Not at all.

You can't fall in love with someone if you know nothing about them.

Yes you can, if you're so shallow you base if off looks (or riches, if the person looks rich.)

So, sort of. If you're an actual human being with emotions, you don't fall in love at first sight. However if you're a robot who loves looks, power, money, etc, then yes you can.

:D

TrinityLimit February 15th, 2010 7:58 PM

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Originally Posted by Accursed (Post 5556179)
1. No.

2. Someone can't spell correctly.

crap, just noticed that -.-
thats what i get for rushing :/
thank you for correcting me.

Medli February 15th, 2010 8:00 PM

I don't think "love" can be found at first sight. A large "crush/infatuation/whatever you want to call it" is probably more like it. I think that mainly because at first "sight," you've only really seen the appearance of the person. Who knows what they're really like? That's just me, though.

Maybe I'm just sore because I have bad memories of 8th grade. A new guy moved to our school and, by the end of the first school day, he was going out with some popular girl. They had, like, one class together. 90 minutes. Wow. That's a lot of time to get to know someone.

That's just me, though. I just don't like judging solely based on appearance. I feel like I have to get to know someone first before it becomes "love."

Esper February 15th, 2010 8:14 PM

When I first found PokeCommunity I knew it would be the only forum for me.

Not at first sight, no, but I believe you can fall in love with someone the first time you meet them and you get to talking and learning about each other. I've seen it happen.

TrinityLimit February 15th, 2010 8:15 PM

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Originally Posted by t.A.T.u (Post 5556169)
Yes you can, if you're so shallow you base if off looks (or riches, if the person looks rich.)

So, sort of. If you're an actual human being with emotions, you don't fall in love at first sight. However if you're a robot who loves looks, power, money, etc, then yes you can.

:D

that seems logical. i completely agree with you :D.

Kikaito plush February 16th, 2010 7:34 AM

you have talk to the person first, so no I don't: I LOVE Curtis!

mondays suck February 16th, 2010 8:03 AM

It took me almost 3 years to fall in love with this one girl since I knew her and over 2 more years to realize how much of an idiot I am. So no, i don't believe in love at first sight.

Honest February 16th, 2010 2:01 PM

I do believe in it, but it's really just lust. Not love love. And it's happened to me many times. I just see this girl I think is really cute. But half of the time, I wouldn't give a damn if I never even saw them again.

But it happened to me once, where it was just uncontrollable. And I went as far as I could with the relationship. And it has gone far. : P

ily Mithila! <3

Pazuru February 16th, 2010 2:07 PM

Pretty much what ~Bloodex said. I don't think first love is really love, as you don't know the person, and know their personality and such things. But when you get the know them, that lust turns into a crush, then a like, then eventually if you keep at it, a love.

I don't think there was a time for me when I saw love a first site. XD; maybe the second, or third, or twentieth-thousandth, but never the first.

Synaesthesia February 16th, 2010 3:18 PM

No, I don't believe in that. Love at first sight is only Lust at first sight. You can't fall in love by simply looking at a person. It takes months, even years to truly get to know someone and fall in love.

Daeva Okami-Luca February 16th, 2010 3:21 PM

I believe if you want to do anything to see that person smile and be happy without feeling lust or other intense emotions then you've got love at first sight.

Sometimes when you hate someone at first you'll end up falling for them.

Who really knows, it's one of those things that can't really be explained and doesn't have an answer.

Eurydice February 16th, 2010 3:52 PM

there was a time when i would answer yes to this question. and well lets just say it didnt turn out very well. so after that i hardly believe in love at all anymore.

emoBill™ February 17th, 2010 12:58 AM

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Originally Posted by Shadowshelb (Post 5558112)
I believe if you want to do anything to see that person smile and be happy without feeling lust or other intense emotions then you've got love at first sight.

I really like how you put that. It's so true :3
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Originally Posted by Eurydice
there was a time when i would answer yes to this question. and well lets just say it didnt turn out very well. so after that i hardly believe in love at all anymore.

Just sharing an opinion here, but I think that's really...not shallow, but...I don't know. Not giving things a chance. It annoys me when people have a bad breakup and they end up swearing off love forever. It never does last. Love is too powerful for that.

PokemonTrainer` February 17th, 2010 7:21 AM

YES i beleave we had this friend my friend knew and when i saw here snap i like fell in love idk why but i just did :D shes soo great` soo i kept talking to her for a long time like a year and i havent seen her for about 4 months and i still love her shes the most beutiful girl i ever seen maybe not to every one else but i love her :DD

.Wolfie-kun. February 17th, 2010 7:34 AM

I used to believe in it, but by the time I went out with my first girlfriend, I had a think about it after we broke up and thought it was a load of rubbish. Seeing as my ex apparently fell in love with me 'at first sight' too.

Rainbow Skittlez <3 February 18th, 2010 7:32 AM

I guess. It depends on the situations. But I'm leaning towards no. =/

Eurydice February 18th, 2010 9:01 AM

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Originally Posted by emoBill™ (Post 5559275)
Just sharing an opinion here, but I think that's really...not shallow, but...I don't know. Not giving things a chance. It annoys me when people have a bad breakup and they end up swearing off love forever. It never does last. Love is too powerful for that.

i never said i completely gave up on it. i just dont go wishing and trying to find it like i used to. when i find someone i really care about then i will probably love again. but i have had way to many horrible horrible relationships to go chasing love anymore. most of them i wish i could erase from my memories, very bad times. :(

RivalGator February 18th, 2010 9:41 AM

I don't really believe it, but I think that it IS possible, I suppose. But when I was about 14 I thought I was 'in love' with a dude that never showed it back toward me. I thought I couldn't live without him, and all that ever happened between us was a couple of pictures and rumors. When he graduated, I forgot all about him.

I thought I was in love a second time with a guy I was actually very serious with. But it turned out that I wasn't in love at all, just highly infatuated, but he didn't really have the type of personality for a girl to fall in love with; in fact, he was a complete dick to me.

So... I would have to put my money between no and maybe. Could happen, just not likely.

DarkDreams February 18th, 2010 11:39 AM

Not love at first sight...

LUST at first sight, is right

Klippy February 18th, 2010 3:38 PM

You can't fall in love with someone based on their appearance.

Like DarkDreams said, it's just lust. You know you wanna be hittin' dat.

mew² February 19th, 2010 2:14 AM

I somewhat believe in it.
But after that love at first site, it fades away.
So not exactly, but I do believe in it.

s0nido February 19th, 2010 3:58 AM

Same as what a lot of people said here; no. It's almost impossible to truly love someone when you first make contact with them, because there could be things about that person which you don't know and don't like. I have had crushes on people when I haven't actually talked to them, but I wouldn't define them as cases of "love at first sight".


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