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Hamilton April 27th, 2010 4:37 PM

actually yes- we've even kissed before- you know that random with all our friends, they run off, she pulls me back thing? the only reason i'm not dating her is because you can't love someone until you love yourself- and i have a while to go until i come to terms with myself

Yusshin April 27th, 2010 4:43 PM

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Originally Posted by Chiku Hamasaki (Post 5756782)
Th-thanks. ;__;
That's basically what other people have told me. I've just been too stubborn to really listen to all of it. I think I should just stick to school and stuff, im sure love will find me better that way..

Again, thank youuu, Yusshin.

Glad to help. Everyone has been given a special someone somewhere in the world. It's finding that person that's the tough part. Some people are lucky and find that person; some are unlucky and never do. You may even cross paths and not even know it. Let's hope you're one of the lucky ones who do find their "soul mate" at some point :]

Just remember that if they hit you intentionally, it's automatically obvious that they're not the one for you :| It's just another idiot who thinks violence proves he's the alpha male, or that violence is all right against women. Violence is never all right, and there is absolutely no reason for a grown male to hit a grown female, or a grown female to hit a grown male for that matter. I say "grown" because parents have every right to spank rebellious kids under the age of eight'ish; an individual who isn't a parent should never hit you, and a parent shouldn't after the age of eight.

Sometimes people think that it won't happen again or that it can be "fixed", but if they've already resorted to violence, something's wrong with them psychologically. Hitting is never, never the answer, and there is absolutely no excuse - "under the effect", alcohol, anger, confusion, etc. are examples of well-known excuses that are not valid whatsoever. If they can't control themselves, then they don't deserve any better than a woman who's violent against them. Of course, don't become that kind of woman purposefully. That guy'll get what's coming to him later.

Okami Chi April 28th, 2010 8:13 AM

*Starts singing* "What is love..."

I'm not, but who am I to judge what love is?

-Okami

Tanaie April 28th, 2010 9:12 AM

^ ^; ...I am in Love.
I truly am. My hubby is really an amazing guy. >u<;
He'll flip forwards, backwards, sideways, he'd do anything for me.
The greatest thing about it, is that he truly loves me back.
I know it's not fake, it's real and I can feel it!

We've been together for 2 years now (almost 3.)
It's been one bumpy ride! But things are starting to settle down...Which is nice. ^ ^;
I think it will be nice to take care of him for the rest of my life...He has a hard life, and I want to be there for him, and give him the life he's never had. D:

Volroc April 29th, 2010 8:47 PM

yes i am in love, and im currently dating the woman of my dreams, im the luckiest man on earth <3
and i cant wait til our wedding, hopefully this summer ^_^ (you know women they LOVE to plan for months lol)

Norisom May 12th, 2010 6:16 PM

I wouldn't call it love but I do kinda like someone. I think she might like me aswell but im not sure. Even though I am constantly critisised in front of her she still gives me that smile and still talks about me in positive ways to her friends. I will probably end up getting braces or something in the future so that will probably turn her off and there will be no special friend for me -_-

Harmonie May 12th, 2010 7:18 PM

I am actually in love, not just a crush.

And that is quite unfortunate.

Flipnotic May 12th, 2010 10:12 PM

im happily in love :) we have our own apartment n been together for a little over 3 years..we kind of built our own little family lol we have two dogs we raised :p
they're our babies lol, since i dont plan on having children til after college which ill be about 25-26 yrs old by that time.
we're highschool sweethearts lol n go to college together now ^.^

Katie_Q May 12th, 2010 10:55 PM

Love is cool. But I'm not in love. I'm only 14. But I do have a crush on this one guy. Asked him out but he said no because hes still getting over his last relationship. Could be true, but most likely just a polite way of saying no LOL. But yeah, i think I have a long road ahead of me before I actually fall in love

Dawn May 13th, 2010 7:20 AM

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Originally Posted by EmeraldSerenade (Post 5751117)

Exactly! I swear, relationships aren't all about sex -.-
Our generation of people can be completely naive sometimes, it makes me a bit sad..
I agree with you completely.

Relax. People who do that that early in life are just saying publicly to those of us who are smarter that they are not smart enough, or lack the self control over themselves, to make the correct decision.

Yeah, I realize that's harsh, but if you want a love life that isn't going to fall apart you have to push hard and put your standards high if you want to maximize your chances.


The one thing that bugs me about this is that it seems to be aimed at those of us that only have enough "love" for one person.

Yeah, I'm in love, that's for sure. There's rarely a time I'm not feeling love for someone.

Rokusasu May 13th, 2010 12:06 PM

I'm not in love, and believe that I'm not in the right place for a relationship at this moment in time. I have one or two 'internet' crushes on people whom I talk to on a regular basis, but these aren't anything serious, just a bit of fun to keep me sane, and I don't plan on letting them develop any further. C:

Aureol May 13th, 2010 12:13 PM

I'm a grumpy old man that won't let anyone in his love life.

Ok, seriously, never had a relationship, and never had a real crush. Sure, there were plenty of girls I thought were "cute," but that's all it was. I don't really care how pretty girls are, because they can be real... *coughes* mean. If I was interested, I'm too shy to go on dates or anything. I wouldn't know what to do. Besides, I'm too busy to date right now; maybe in a couple years.

HarrisonH May 13th, 2010 12:45 PM

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Originally Posted by pokemonleaguechamp (Post 5751202)
I've had.....interests in the past, and I have a few now. Why I've never been on a date in my life? Here's why(don't read this if you don't wanna be here a while).

This first sentence lets you know that this is going to be good. And to answer your question, you've never been on a date in your life because you're pathetic.

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Originally Posted by pokemonleaguechamp (Post 5751202)
1. I don't do sports(I suck at ALL of them), so that immediately eliminates I have with any of the popular, hot girls.

No it doesn't. You know what eliminates all your chances? This attitude. This "omg i can never have a girlfriend i don't play sports" attitude. That's pathetic. You know what a turn off for all girls is? Being pathetic. You only have no chance because you think you have no chance. Also because you're pathetic.

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Originally Posted by pokemonleaguechamp (Post 5751202)
2. I'm okay looking, but TBH I doubt I'm handsome enough for consideration.

Unlike yourself, most people don't go for looks alone. Stop projecting your thoughts on other people, and realize they aren't all as shallow as you.

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Originally Posted by pokemonleaguechamp (Post 5751202)
3. When it gets right down to it, I'm a ****ing coward when it comes to asking for dates. I hate to think of how many oppurtunities may've slipped through my fingertips because of it.

Man up. You'd probably hate to think of how many have gone by, because you'd realize there are none. Do you know why there have been none? Because you're pathetic.

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Originally Posted by pokemonleaguechamp (Post 5751202)
4. I'm incredibly shallow in that I just wouldn't be able to do well with a girl that's, shall we say, not so hot.

Hahaha, oh wow. "I'm ugly but I ONLY DATE SUPERMODELS". With your piss-poor self-esteem, the only girls you have a chance with are fat girls sitting alone in bars. When (if) you ever grow up and stop being pathetic, you'll realize that you'd be just as happy with a "not so hot" girl as you would with a hot one. Probably more so.

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Originally Posted by pokemonleaguechamp (Post 5751202)
5. I've heard rumors that some of the hot girls do things I am vehemently against(mainly smoking pot). Of course, me with no invitations to parties where this stuff supposedly happens, I have no concrete evidence.

Oh boohoo, you don't get invited to parties. What would you even do there? Sit alone on a couch, and watch everyone else have fun while you wallow in your own self pity? If you weren't so pathetic, hearing this would be enough for you to realize that you shouldn't waste your time with the "hot" ones, and open your standards. But you don't realize that, because you're pathetic.

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Originally Posted by pokemonleaguechamp (Post 5751202)
6. My experiences have ravaged me far too greatly. Starting back in 3rd grade a handful of the now-hot girls started bullying me pretty constantly. This continued through to 7th grade, but I gave up on reporting it long before. I had a few people on my side when it started(almost starting a social "war"), but eventually my support wavered. To finish me off, nearly EVERYONE else that hadn't already bashed me finished me off in middle school and annihilated my chances at any dates. That stuff was ages ago, and I'm trying to forget, but I still carry all the bitterness, all that rage....

Bawwwwww, people in school are mean to me and I don't have to guts to man up. There'd have to be a reason for them to start. Maybe it was because they could tell you were so pathetic. Boohoo, you have rage stored. Let it out already, it's been years. Grow up and get over it or you'll never stop being pathetic.

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Originally Posted by pokemonleaguechamp (Post 5751202)
So yeah, if you imagine a chick magnet, with one attracting pole and one repelling, to put it bluntly, I'm the repelling. In my current state, I'd feel sorry for any girl that gets romantically involved with me.
*ends story that no one cares about and seeks psychological counseling*

Oh, there's no need for you to feel sorry for any girl who gets romantically involved with you, because in your current state it will never happen.

Death_Mande May 13th, 2010 1:03 PM

I was in love, before my Partner left me just now. Oh well, 6 months of my life just got crushed. Ehehe, ^^;;

Sneeze May 13th, 2010 1:13 PM

@Harrison - Well that was needlessly harsh, hope you don't treat your dates like that. *rolls eyes*

HarrisonH May 13th, 2010 1:25 PM

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Originally Posted by Sneeze (Post 5797158)
@Harrison - Well that was needlessly harsh, hope you don't treat your dates like that. *rolls eyes*

That fact that I say exactly what I think is actually something that my current date admires.

Sneeze May 13th, 2010 1:29 PM

There's a fine line between saying what you think and just being plain abusive.

apples2 May 13th, 2010 1:35 PM

Why do you people always support losers?

Obviously he wouldn't do that to someone he's dating, but PLC is a bottom feeder. If you keep supporting his depressive behavior, he'll never learn to be an actual man.

Sneeze May 13th, 2010 1:45 PM

Did I ever say I supported it? No. All I said is it was needlessly harsh. You don't pick someone up by insulting them. Maybe he does need a good talking to and some help, I don't know, I'm basing all the stuff I know on the guy from a few posts on a Pokémon forum, what I do know is calling him pathetic over and over isn't going to help.

And I don't "support losers", I just say what I think.

.Gamer May 13th, 2010 1:50 PM

HarrisonH, if we could rate posts. I would make a thread asking to rate it 6 stars.

chaos11011 May 13th, 2010 6:00 PM

Yeah I am.Her Birthday was today actually and I made it very special for her at school.Txted her at Midnight saying happy birthday and had a convo till 5.Then I gave her a poem about how amazing she is.Sure we are not a couple but I still enjoy the times that I share with her <3

TheUltimateSacrifice May 13th, 2010 11:47 PM

Lulz. Love? Include me out.

Richard Lynch May 14th, 2010 4:15 AM

I'm totally gonna sound like an old fogey here, but yeah...

I was in love, once. That is, until she cheated on me and kicked me to the curb, all within two hours of telling me she loved me (what's even more ironic is, she went to church after saying that, came back and then dumped me!). haha

And, truth be told, I haven't been in "love" again ever since.

Personally, I find love overrated now... it's no different, biochemically, than eating large quantities of chocolate.

Ray Maverick May 14th, 2010 5:51 AM

No, but I will be soon. :D

RTHookers May 14th, 2010 5:53 AM

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Originally Posted by EmeraldSerenade (Post 5750971)
I'm not in love. I'm only 14 and these dumb teenage relationships don't last long. I'm happy to be single. I'm pretty sure that there are some people who like me, but don't have the guts to say so. I'll admit that I've been attracted/charmed to a few people, but I eventually got over them. I can honestly say that most "young relationships" never last. I have to keep focused on school. I can't have someone that constantly nags for attention.
I want a GF who can keep up with the real world, is smart, cute, and won't have to depend on me for every little thing. But there aren't that many people like that.

But I do love my friends :-D

You just described the ultimate GF. lol.

And I'm not in love, there's two girls I like but not more than that. (The hell, I think I posted here already >.>)

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Originally Posted by EmeraldSerenade (Post 5751117)

Exactly! I swear, relationships aren't all about sex -.-
Our generation of people can be completely naive sometimes, it makes me a bit sad..
I agree with you completely.

Lol moar generation crap. That's how it is, live with it. Most of my school hears songs that is all about love, and lately those singers aren't greedy on sex references, which makes those songs even worse. I dunno if to lol or cry when a girl enjoys hearing songs like that (Girls gotta have standards, and how the hell I got the conversation to songs..).
Oh, and from what I read on a forum I know that most teens have curiosity / want to experience (I just proved I'm further an idiot, because curiosity/experience are almost the same things by that sentence.)
But you can't deny the fact you wouldn't love to have sex with a girl you like. (lolmaleinstinctslol).
But yeah, in real world and probably in the forum too you'll go along and say "isn't all about sex", it's pretty mutual crap but at least you doesn't sound like a perv or something. And to show you wouldn't have a girl just for the sex. (AND not to start a flame war lol)
Pretty crappy post I made here XD


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