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Girlfriend & Boyfriend
hey hey, you you, I could be your girlfriend!
Indeed. Everyone wants to have love relationship. But what's so special about it? : / Discuss! : D |
I don't see what's so good about it. Yeah yeah, it's nice. And it might be because of my age, but I'm only bothered by the tests that are coming up next week. I don't want to fail, and looking at the results, it's the ones that are concentrating on having some eye candy next to them all day that are getting the bad marks.
So at the moment, no, I don't want a relationship, I don't know why you would at my age. It gets in the way. But maybe when I'm older. |
It makes you feel less lonely inside...especially when you have noone to be friends with or family you don't care about...sadly this is the way of the emo - and the emo don't get any attention from the pretty girls. :/
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We are all genetically programmed to feel good when we are with someone we are attracted to. That's why.
All humans are capable of love. Regardless of how cold or phlegmatic you may seem. |
Its great to have someone you really know inside-out and can trust with everything and confide in. I'm used to be the closed off brooding guy, but having a relationship has made me a much happier and quirky person.
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Weeeeeeeell. The grass IS always greener on the other side.
I always envy my friends who have a boyfriend or girlfriend. I think it'd be great to have someone to cuddle with and likes the same things you do and you can talk with them about anything. But in again, you still have to give back what you get. You've got to take time out for your boyfriend/girlfriend, hang out with their friends, yadda yadda yadda drama. Right now, I've personally got too much stuff on my plate and being in a relationship always seems wonderful, but not reasonable. I believe (so far) that when it happens, it'll happen. No one should rush to find a boyfriend/girlfriend. That's just desperate. Society makes you feel like you're nothing without a significant other, but honestly...look at today's divorce rates. It's all silly. |
I love having a relationship
Having someone to hold when you want and to fall asleep with any night you choose to is really nice, Ive been dating the same girl for 2 years now(On and off), since I was 16, and its never been better*Thank god >.>*, A relationship is only good if you have the basics of trust and respect for eachother. |
Having a boyfriend is good if he lots of buys things for you. Sometimes they don't. You have to be careful.
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What's special about girlfriends and boyfriends?
Well, nothing. It's pretend marriage. I find the entire idea incredibly simplistic. Love relationships =/= that though. Love relationships, depending on the person, can be had with any person and any number of people. They're special because they're a very high degree of friendship. Quote:
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I guess it's seeing other people, like your friends having a bf/gf that can make you feel a little... lonely/jealous inside. That's what happens to me every single time. Unfortuately I'm just going to have to deal with it like I have done right up until this very day. Having someone who has simaler interests as you by your side is always fun.
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I would think that similarities would bring you together. Me and my best friend are very similar, I don't see why a boyfriend can't be.
I guess it depends on niche things actually. If you both like to party or do crazy things etc, that may be a problem...but more introverted things like books, games, etc might make you closer. |
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Then again, some people are weird. |
Well I've never been in a romantic relationship. I want to know what it's like. Everyday I pass bye hundreds of people holding hands and kissing, sharing a bond that has been around since the beggining of civilization. I want to be able to feel somebody gently caressing me as I do the same to them. To feel the strong, emotional, passionate bond with somebody. To know somebody so well that I am them. To where we are one and the same.
Is it wrong to wish to feel that? |
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With that being said, I also feel that the person you choose as your mate should complete you in some way. Being opposite in some respects can only increase the attraction, as long as you're not too opposite in things that matter the most. |
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I love it because I love the person I'm with and I want to do everything with that person. I can't imagine a day without him. We're going to go to college and university together in a year or two. He was my support through abusive peers and a really, really horrible family. I'd still be contemplating suicide if he hadn't changed my view on certain things and given me the self-confidence that others had originally crushed. It's always nice to have someone you can always confide in and you know won't judge you. It makes you feel fuzzy :D As Pachy said, the person should complete you - fill what you don't have, and you fill what he/she doesn't have, and that you both appreciate it. You should have a lot of simiarities on important matters (values, morals, completing school before rearing chidren, or whatever your thing is). Differences can bring together, too, but not like magnets :| Simple things. I don't like olives, for example. My fiance does. This difference gives him more olives and makes me happy 'cause he eats something he likes whenever we have pizza. It's not a huge difference, but it's capable of bringing positive feelings. My fiance is my mentor. I see him as a brother, a protector, and a love partner. When you love someone so much as that, you'll understand just how amazing intimacy can be <3 (even though it may sound odd to others, but it's an incredible feeling to see your partner as everything to you) |
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^ That happens often enough in serious relationships lol Maybe not that specific example, but doing sneaky stuff because you think they won't find out. They'll always find out at some point. When there's differences, you should try to make it have a positive outcome. That brings ya closer :] It's when you fight over 'em that problems happen. Much like wars. Only in a relationship. |
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Piss your lover off because you can? If you loved them, why would you do that ): |
I know ): but some people thrive on it. It's disgusting.
They think it's humorous to see'em pissed off o_0 That's not love, that lol |
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