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Umbreon_ May 28th, 2010 2:25 PM

Complicated
 
You fall you crawl~

What advice can you give to the ones who's relationship status is complicated? And what do you think is it's cause or what made it complicated? x.x

Discuss. : 3

Sneeze May 28th, 2010 2:41 PM

They need to have "the talk" [/howimetyourmotherreference]

Dawn May 28th, 2010 3:07 PM

Relationships..? The two things I think of is that people need to take it slower choosing the person they want to be with for their life (It's not "cheating" to browse and test your potential partners before you make any commitments! [<--- My parents call that dating.])

And that once you choose someone, you can't just leave them because they do something "wrong". That's not how marriage, or pseudo marriage works. My parents definitely didn't do that and everyone's lives have been happier as a direct result. Protip, divorce may be an option, but it's for extreme cases. Not for any random singular issue. Spend the time, make the effort, and make sure nobody would dare have the guts to tell you you didn't try hard enough. As for when the time to divorce is correct, that's mostly for you to decide. It's safe to say that if your life is being threatened or if there's a ton of major problems including multiple instances of the same major problem, you may need to consider cutting your losses.

But do not take that lightly. Arguments, other idiocy, and even adultery are not good singular reasons to jump to divorce. They're good reasons to accept nothing less than some good old fashioned talks and change, but if you want to have a healthy relationship where you, and especially your kids can be happy... You absolutely cannot jump ship because you feel like the times are tough.

I don't know the details of your relationship status, but I'd assume one of these two pieces of advice are relative.


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