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You won't tell anyone, will you?
Do you trust people with secrets/private things?
Has anyone ever betrayed the trust you put in them to keep something private? If they have, has it affected your ability to trust people? Have you yourself gone against someone's wishes and talked about their private matters in public? |
Do you trust people with secrets/private things?
Yes, if I didn't trust someone I wouldn't have told him/her something like that. Has anyone ever betrayed the trust you put in them to keep something private? Yes. In the past, when we were idiot 1 years old. Nobody really betrays me now since.. I don't have much to hide. Not that I talk with many people.. If they have, has it affected your ability to trust people? Yes.. I got my privacy invaded by someone here who'll stay anonymous for his sake of getting other people stalked. Have you yourself gone against someone's wishes and talked about their private matters in public? Not in public.. maybe in a private chat, but never in public. |
Do you trust people with secrets/private things?
Well, I have to have known them for a long time before I even consider telling them anything personal to myself. Has anyone ever betrayed the trust you put in them to keep something private? Yes, and they knew about it afterwards. If they have, has it affected your ability to trust people? It made me harder to trust people. Have you yourself gone against someone's wishes and talked about their private matters in public? Never. if someone wants me to keep it private, then I will. |
Do you trust people with secrets/private things?
Yes, I do but I have to know them long enough to tell them these things. Has anyone ever betrayed the trust you put in them to keep something private? No and I hope they never do. Have you yourself gone against someone's wishes and talked about their private matters in public? No I haven't, they told me not to tell and I respect that. |
Do you trust people with secrets/private things?
Two or three people, yes.. but it usually takes me awhile to tell even them. I don't share much at all, in the way of things that bug me. Has anyone ever betrayed the trust you put in them to keep something private? Once or twice, and both times I believe it was family, and not friends. If they have, has it affected your ability to trust people? I already have a hard time confiding in / trusting people.. so I can't say it made it worse, per se. Have you yourself gone against someone's wishes and talked about their private matters in public? Not that I know of.. sure there's like.. gossip on occasion, but if someone really has a secret I tend not to tell. Now if it were someone that I hated, or had negative attentions that told me, I probably would tell others, yes. :p |
Do you trust people with secrets/private things?
Occasionally. Has anyone ever betrayed the trust you put in them to keep something private? Of course. I can't say I've ever met someone over the age of 5 who has never been betrayed before. If they have, has it affected your ability to trust people? If it didn't, that would be abnormal to me. I've never lost all of that trust, but it can take a good hit for a good amount of time. Have you yourself gone against someone's wishes and talked about their private matters in public? I do not share private conversations I've had in any public arena unless there is a reason to do so, and if I do, I never share the ones where the other person has made it clear that the contents of that conversation are to be kept a secret. If it's marked as secret, it's coming to the grave with me unless the telling of such a secret is something I decide I can live with. I don't take a decision like that lightly though. If I spill a secret, I most certainly am willing to take the responsibility for it if the outcome of the telling is not greater than or equal to my intentions. The very few times I've ever gone against someone's wishes and told a secret was to obtain help for them...and they later ended up thanking me, for it was something that need not have been a secret in the first place or just needed one more person "In the know" in order to provide a resolution. I hold more secrets than many people realize...because on days I don't make an absolute ass of myself, I am actually quite a trustworthy person to talk to. XD |
Do you trust people with secrets/private things?
Sometimes, depends on how much I trust them. Has anyone ever betrayed the trust you put in them to keep something private? Yes >.> If they have, has it affected your ability to trust people? It has, that's why I rarely tell secrets. Have you yourself gone against someone's wishes and talked about their private matters in public? Nope,never done that before. |
Do you trust people with secrets/private things?
Only with certain people who have proven to be trustworthy, and then only certain things. Then again, I really don't keep too many secrets. Has anyone ever betrayed the trust you put in them to keep something private? Not since 7th or 8th grade. We were all young back then, anyway :3 If they have, has it affected your ability to trust people? No, other factors have caused me to trust people less. Have you yourself gone against someone's wishes and talked about their private matters in public? Again, I probably have as a kid, but not in recent years. |
I don't go around telling people my secrets. Only my close friends can know things about me.. heh
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Do you trust people with secrets/private things?
In real life I hide a lot of things from people, I don't think there's anybody who knows me more than the people I talk to online. which you could view as sad but I just don't trust the people I know offline to be as mature and accepting as almost anybody I've come across online. Then there's the part where it doesn't really matter as much what you tell people online, whereas if you tell the wrong person something offline they could potentially tell everybody if you put your trust in the wrong person. Has anyone ever betrayed the trust you put in them to keep something private? I don't think so, I'm almost positive the few people in real life I let in on my ~deepest darkest secrets~ haven't said a word of it to anybody else. As for online I can think of numerous occasions but they're all so vague and meaningless to me now I couldn't give you any specifics. Nothing recently though, like the past few months. If they have, has it affected your ability to trust people? Whenever I meet a new person it's like starting a new page, I wouldn't let somebody's breach of my trust sway my opinion on somebody else before I've given them the chance to prove themselves. I dunno though I suppose I could give them a 'test secret' at first to gauge how trustworthy they really are if I ever got that paranoid. Have you yourself gone against someone's wishes and talked about their private matters in public? This is a tough question. Two people's opinion on whether or not something is regarded as a secret or private can vary, if they don't communicate with each other about what they consider to be private material then it's the both of them that are at fault for it being made public. I can't think of anything applying to myself, people just don't tell me secrets which makes me feel like I'm awful and come off untrustworthy. I guess I'm at fault as well for not reaching out to people on a personal level after I've known them for awhile. Oh well. :( |
Do you trust people with secrets/private things?
Depends on the people, but generally I'm pretty secretive about my private life. Simple things like my likes and dislikes are open to anyone who cares to know about them, but there are things I've never told anyone about. They're not really particularly groundbreaking secrets, but it's always good to leave some things to the imagination. Has anyone ever betrayed the trust you put in them to keep something private? Many times, but since then I've learned who to trust and who to leave in the dark. If they have, has it affected your ability to trust people? Not at all, I just know not to trust those particular people anymore You're going to be hurt and betrayed in life and not every ounce of caution will save you from that, so why would you limit yourself? Have you yourself gone against someone's wishes and talked about their private matters in public? I used to without even realizing it when I was in middle school. I learned the hard way that other people's secrets, no matter how superficial, are just as important as my own. Because of that, I put a big emphasis on trust. |
Do you trust people with secrets/private things?
I don't really have any secrets. If somebody wants to know something they can ask and I'm generally open about it. It's just a matter of people caring enough to ask. Some close friends know a lot about me, but in general I don't have anything to hide so I'm never worried about them betraying my trust. In other words there are things some people don't know about me but none of those things are secrets. Of course, online is different, I tend to hide things online just out of reflex from when I was younger and was told not to give out information on the internet and so forth. Has anyone ever betrayed the trust you put in them to keep something private? Yes, but I think this applies to everyone. I got over it. If they have, has it affected your ability to trust people? It did for a while. Eventually I'm like I am now. No secrets. Generally the people who ask me care enough not to tell anybody else, just out of instinct. I won't be angry if somebody does tell somebody else, because it's not a secret, though if they do have that respect for me it's nice. Have you yourself gone against someone's wishes and talked about their private matters in public? I don't remember ever having done so, but maybe when I was a kid or something? As for now, just because I have no secrets doesn't mean I can't be trusted. My friend's secrets are just that, their secrets and not mine, so I will not tell people. |
Do you trust people with secrets/private things?
Depends on the person. I only really trust three people; my boyfriend, and my best friends. Has anyone ever betrayed the trust you put in them to keep something private? Of course. I'd be surprised if it's never happened. If they have, has it affected your ability to trust people? A little bit. Before, I trusted quite a few people. But after I started hearing people ask me about my private issues, I've been very selective about it. Have you yourself gone against someone's wishes and talked about their private matters in public? No, never. |
Do you trust people with secrets/private things?
Very few people, and even then I still leave out a few pieces of information. Has anyone ever betrayed the trust you put in them to keep something private? Unfortunately, yes. If they have, has it affected your ability to trust people? Absolutely! It's why I've become more guarded with my own secrets and those of others that have been entrusted to me. Have you yourself gone against someone's wishes and talked about their private matters in public? I remember when I was younger I used to gossip, but it was never anything too shocking. Although at the age of 12 pretty much anything is shocking. Thank goodness maturity set in. |
I trust people with private matters because I can trust that they can keep a secret. I don't know of any moments that anyone told my secret to anyone. I kept a few people's secrets, but haven't gone against their wishes to reveal them.
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Do you trust people with secrets/private things?
My best friends, yes. They're the people I know specifically that will keep secrets if I ask them to. Most of my friends, really, I trust with these kinds of things. Has anyone ever betrayed the trust you put in them to keep something private? I'm sure they have, but I can't think of any examples off the top of my head. Evidently it wasn't that important or it was really long ago. If they have, has it affected your ability to trust people? Nah. That's why I try to be careful with my secrets. I only tell my deepest darkest ones to the people I know won't just babble about it to anyone. Have you yourself gone against someone's wishes and talked about their private matters in public? Again, I'm sure I have in the past, but I'm hard-pressed to think of anything off the top of my head. I'm sure if I really wanted to find something, all I'd have to do is look at some of my old LJ entries, haha. >___<;; I wasn't the smartest person as a kid. |
Do you trust people with secrets/private things?
Ehh, it depends. Usually I play it close to the vest, and important info stays right here *points to head* Has anyone ever betrayed the trust you put in them to keep something private? Not that I know of. If they did, they must be good at it because I've never found out. xD If they have, has it affected your ability to trust people? I'm normally a little bit wary anyways. Have you yourself gone against someone's wishes and talked about their private matters in public? I have a few times, because it was serious and needed addressing. Sometimes that's the right path. |
Do you trust people with secrets/private things?
No. Has anyone ever betrayed the trust you put in them to keep something private? It hasn't happened yet. If they have, has it affected your ability to trust people? N/A Have you yourself gone against someone's wishes and talked about their private matters in public? I am a good magician; I don't tell my secrets or anyone else's for that matter unless it's an open secret. |
Do you trust people with secrets/private things?
Occasionally. I usually don't have much to keep secret, lol. Has anyone ever betrayed the trust you put in them to keep something private? Well no duh. Usually it's not a big deal though. If they have, has it affected your ability to trust people? Temporarily. Usually I don't share secrets (because I usually don't have any) so it's not a problem with me. Have you yourself gone against someone's wishes and talked about their private matters in public? Only if their "private matters" were something other people needed to know. I don't gossip. |
Do you trust people with secrets/private things?
Yes. If they're close friends, or just close with me. And I have some close friends with whom I can share my problems and stuff. It's uncommon for me to tell people my secrets though, unless I feel the need to. Has anyone ever betrayed the trust you put in them to keep something private? There hasn't been such an incident, until now. If they have, has it affected your ability to trust people? Well, if someone did somehow let out a personal secret, yes, my trust in him/her would lessen. I don't know if it'd generally hinder my trusting ability though. Have you yourself gone against someone's wishes and talked about their private matters in public? No. I don't like losing someone's faith in me. And I'm not the kind of person who would do such a thing. |
Do you trust people with secrets/private things?
I don't like to share things, just in case they do let it out and just the fact that someone else knows really annoys me. I get really paranoid when things like this happen. Have you yourself gone against someone's wishes and talked about their private matters in public? If someone tells me something that they want to be a secret I keep it a secret. I wouldn't want someone doing that to me. __________________ |
I trust certain people, but these people are my true blue best friends and we wouldn't do anything to hurt each other.
No, if they have its been small things, sadly I've lost a couple friends due to these but that was their choice. Yes, I don't trust people as easily anymore. My friends have to prove they're true friends. And I have to do the same for them. No, I have not. What my friends tell me inside our circle of friends stays between those that need to know. |
Do you trust people with secrets/private things?
No I tend to keep a lot to myself. Has anyone ever betrayed the trust you put in them to keep something private? Yes many times. I really try not to tell other peoples' secrets so I expected the same from others. Which I found out the hard way that things don't always work out like that. If they have, has it affected your ability to trust people? Well I'm not unable to tell anyone anything, but I think I just learned the usual lesson that everyone does about trusting others. I know which people I can tell secrets to and I know the people I can't. Most of the time I just keep a lot to myself because I don't really see the point in telling another person. Either that or I don't want to have to then wonder if they told anyone else in the meantime. Have you yourself gone against someone's wishes and talked about their private matters in public? When I was a lot younger yes, but now I see the importance of keeping a secret and I don't see the need to tell others to begin with. Of course I'm sure I've slipped up here and there since then and I'm sure everyone has at some point. |
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