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Shikon no Tama December 12th, 2004 1:46 PM

Daily Advice
 
I thought, since I am good at giving advice, that I'd make a thread to give people advice everyday!

I don't know if there's already a thread on this, but if there is I apologize!

You can ask one question of advice a day and don't double post!

Carlito-san December 12th, 2004 3:22 PM

Can I help with advice?

Also,see these kids at school make fun of me.Somtimes I want to hurt them,but I restain myself.I might go beserk one day and hurt them alot.How could i stop them from making fun of me?

Camp Kill Yourself December 12th, 2004 3:34 PM

Hmm, well, I can help you with that one! Whenever someone tries to make fun of me...like, say they call me "gay" or something, right? I just look at them all worried like and say "OH GOD! HOW DID YOU FIND OUT MY SECRET?!?!?!!?? SWEET ANGRY JESUS, IT'S ALL OVER FOR ME NOW!!! ...And...Hey, where did you draw this conclusion of me being 'gay,' from?"
Most of the people that bash others are really callow, so, you know...Most of the time it'll work to shrug, and say "Yeah...Kay...I'm a little busy, so, can we do this some other time? Thanks."

Carlito-san December 12th, 2004 3:37 PM

CKY thanks.Sereously,the main kid who is doing that IS gay.but he is making fun of ME about it.So mePeople are really shallow.

Camp Kill Yourself December 12th, 2004 3:41 PM

Ah, well, then...Since he actually is calling you gay...then, maybe you could use the insult I came up with a while after they banned the gay marriages... "Hey, dude...I...Know you you're hurt because they banned gay mariages and all, but, man, don't try to put me there with you. I don't wanna get married, anyways..."
Something like that.

And, yeah, man...anytime.

KoBRe LaiR December 12th, 2004 4:00 PM

Billybob is gay? Never knew that, thats cool you know, so am I... Actually bi.
Nice advice CKY.

Carlito-san December 12th, 2004 4:13 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Alexiz
Billybob is gay? Never knew that, thats cool you know, so am I... Actually bi.
Nice advice CKY.

What?No!People say that to make fun of me.I'm not.While I do respect desions to be,I'm not.

KoBRe LaiR December 12th, 2004 4:17 PM

Thats okay. Its nothing seriously. I misunderstood the post.
ANywyas thats good advice from CKY. And just ignore them.

-Riyuko- December 12th, 2004 4:31 PM

No offence or anythinf CKY, but I do believe that Moonlight Dreams would appreciate it if you didnt give out advice. ^^; This is afterall her thread to give out advice, not yours.

Shikon no Tama December 12th, 2004 4:45 PM

Ok then here's my daily dosage of advice! Thanks -Riyuko- for saying that for me.

Billybob- If you really feel that these people make fun of you, tell them you don't like it and make fun of them back! I wouldn't get violent if I were you. These people might be prone to tell on people whatever chance they get.

I would never be sad about how you are. Be proud of who you are in the world and ignore their useless taunts for you to hurt them. Hurting them only proves that you're as bad as them. Ignore it all and get right back at them and say things like,"well then, how'd you like to be made fun of? Wouldn't be much fun now would it? If I were you, I'd just shut up before I get mad," and things like that and in no time they'd get bored!

Carlito-san December 12th, 2004 4:46 PM

Thank you.i'll try that.Maybe i can get it to stop.

Shikon no Tama December 12th, 2004 4:49 PM

If that does not work, I suggest talking to a teacher or adult you know when no one is around, explain your problem and discuss it with the class. Be sure to tell the teacher not to mention your name or you'd be busted! I had to same problem, so I know how to handle those make-funs!

Vincent Valentine December 12th, 2004 4:56 PM

As odd as you may think of it, CKY's advice tends to work.
Everyone use to tease me, but then I got tired of it and teased them all back. I was known as the guy with the best insults and comebacks. Not something to be proud of, but it did help. They stopped anywyas.

Well, now I think I have a problem for here.
As you may or may not know, I recently admitted to being bi. I was so happy that day and I think it was because I admitted to my sexuality. Now, I'd like to be happy at school too, but if I tell anyone, they're gonna start with the insults again. I know I shouldn't be ashamed of my sexuality, but a person can only take so much. There is a club for people of different sexual orientations to just talk and stuff at school, but say I go there, it will still leak out to everyone else.
What to do?

Camp Kill Yourself December 12th, 2004 5:06 PM

The whole thing where you tell them to stop doesn`t work, though (it never did for me, and I went through this kinda stuff a lot when I was in grade school and middle school...it lessens in high school, or when they start to realise you`re completely insane...) and really, narcing isn`t much better. It`s not like they won`t know who did it...Unless they have more than one person they bash. Normally, however, they pick one person in particular.
If it keeps going on, man, just stick it out, `cause, I promise you, it gets better, if you can wait. In high school, it`s not there as much, except with a few people, and those who still do this in h/s really are insecure...



As for the thing about this being, uh...*checks for name...* Moonlight Dreams`s thread, well, yes, I know that, but, sometimes it`s good to get two opinions. Most of the time, really...o.o;

DarknessMonkey December 12th, 2004 5:11 PM

Uhhh Hey Moonlight...

I Have A Question Ya See I Have This Friend That Has This Online Friend
(Whose A Girl) Right?
And So Anyways He Wants Ta Be More Than Friends And Wishes He Could See This Girl...
(As She Seems Perfect To Him...)
But He Lives In The US & She In Another Country...
Although He Really Wants To Meet Her He's Having A Hard Time Deciding Something...
He Wants To Ask Her To Be His GF But Is Afraid Because He's Afraid She Might Have An IRL BF...
What Should He Do?

Carlito-san December 12th, 2004 5:13 PM

Um...man,you're new location lets us all know that "your Friend"is you.

Shikon no Tama December 12th, 2004 5:14 PM

Vincent Valentine- That is very difficult indeed. I would just keep it to yourself for now. Being as you are, it's not a problem for people to think bad of you as long as you don't care. If you're the type of guy who does not care of what others think of you, I'd join the club, but make sure not to tell anyone, not even a best friend about your sexuality. I suggest to stay away for the club for now so people don't start making rumours right away. Pick the right time when people are thinking of other things and then try.

Camp Kill Yourself- It may not work in come cases, but ignoring it and just trying to tell someone or get help without others finding out is the best way to go. The advice I give is personally my opinion, but everyone has a different opiion so your advice may be much more different than mine.

DarknessMonkey December 12th, 2004 5:14 PM

Ok So It Is Me...
What Should I Do?
(Forgive Me If This Is Dumb)

Carlito-san December 12th, 2004 5:16 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Ash_Ketchum_From_Pallet
Ok So It Is Me...
What Should I Do?

I feel your pain.I'd like to see Pika-Mew IRL but that will never happen....She lives in California...Me,Georgia.

DarknessMonkey December 12th, 2004 5:17 PM

Ahh Man...
I Used To Live In Cali...
Oh Yeah & I Am Not Trying Or Am Not A Loser...
I Just Feel "In Love"

Shikon no Tama December 12th, 2004 5:19 PM

Ashie- Well if it's about me, then don't worry. I don't have another BF except for you!

About the locations thing, maybe you could visit in the Christmas time or save up money, and then once you have enough, beg your parents to let you buy plane tickets and then come. Besides, babysitting and fast food resturant work pays alot. ^_~

Well, that is tough one to answer, but I think that if you get enough money in any way and then beg your parents, then it might work out. That has to be the hardest question I've ever answered in my life.

DarknessMonkey December 12th, 2004 5:19 PM

Hmmm...
Moonlight It Is About You...
Your The Girl I Am The Friend...

Shikon no Tama December 12th, 2004 5:24 PM

I knew that Ashie. Don't worry darling! I don't have a IRL bf. I really wish I lived in the U.S. with you as my next door neighbor!

P.S.- If people like my advice, they are more than welcome to give me a little rep. ;)

Camp Kill Yourself December 12th, 2004 5:25 PM

Vince, if it were me, I`d join the club thingy. It`s pretty cool that they have that, and all. IMO, it`s pretty admirable when a guy comes out like that, `cause, a lot of guys are completely homophobic, and stupid about stuff like that...so, I have a lot of respect for any guy that comes out.
If that`s how you are man, f*ck the other people and what they think. As long as you`re happy with who you are and all, it doesn`t matter what they think...

DarknessMonkey December 12th, 2004 5:25 PM

I Gave You Rep For The Good Advice Way Before That...
And Billy Your Getting Free Rep...
Uh Moonlight...
I Would Like To Ask You Something But Uhh Nvm...
I Am Scared...

Carlito-san December 12th, 2004 5:28 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Moonlight Dreams
I knew that Ashie. Don't worry darling! I don't have a IRL bf. I really wish I lived in the U.S. with you as my next door neighbor!

P.S.- If people like my advice, they are more than welcome to give me a little rep. ;)

If you lived in the USA,it be ALOT easier.But Canada,He would need Custom papers,immagration stuff,alot harder.

Shikon no Tama December 12th, 2004 5:30 PM

CKY don't swear! Please, this is a rated G thread, not a rated R thread. Please don't swear people. Although it was a bit of good advice CKY this is my advice thread and swearing here isn't showing you care about their problems.

DarknessMonkey December 12th, 2004 5:31 PM

Uhhh I Know...
I Hate That Crap...
If I Could I Would Destroy Immagration So I Could Get Moonlight & My Dad's Whole Side Of The Family (Aunts,Uncles,Cousins,ETC. ) From Canada & Mexico...
Ya See I Really Like You Moonlight...

Carlito-san December 12th, 2004 5:32 PM

Ask that one question AKFP!And im not getting free rep.People gave me rep for good posts for the last 4-5 reps.

DarknessMonkey December 12th, 2004 5:34 PM

Ok No Free Rep's For Billy...
As For That Question...
Moonlight Uhhh Would Ya Ahhhh...
*CHOKES*

Shikon no Tama December 12th, 2004 5:34 PM

I hate those immagration stunts. It's so annoying to just wait until your request is valid and you get to go somewhere. It's just so troubling to know you have to wait. o_0 XD

Carlito-san December 12th, 2004 5:35 PM

Im not getting free rep!XDCome on,ask!

DarknessMonkey December 12th, 2004 5:36 PM

Ahhh...
*Catches Breath*
moonlightwouldyaliketobemygf?
There I Said It...
Ya Might All Think I Am Stupid But It's Just I Am In Love...

Carlito-san December 12th, 2004 5:37 PM

didnt you just ask that before?Is there a DIfferent
Question?XD

Shikon no Tama December 12th, 2004 5:38 PM

Oooooh Ashie.
What else can I say, but OH YEAH BABE! XD
You're the best bf a gal like me could have! I have to go now, so people who need some advice, wait until tomorrow to ask me. Bye Ashie boy and everyone on right now!

DarknessMonkey December 12th, 2004 5:39 PM

No...
I Never Asked Her That...
Now Lets Stay On Topic So We Dont Make Alex Mad...
Love Ya Moonlight!
*Feels Releaved*
So Are We "Real" BF & GF Or Just Pretend?

Shikon no Tama December 12th, 2004 5:41 PM

Real, definately real Ashie
I would never had thought about it if it was supossed to be pretend!
Ok then guys, see ya tomorrow!

Vincent Valentine December 12th, 2004 5:43 PM

Well thanks to both of you for your advice. It gave me two different point of views.
I think Ill just go to their next meeting. Which I think is tomorrow during luch.o.0

DarknessMonkey December 12th, 2004 5:45 PM

See Ya Moonlight!
Love Ya!
Sweet Dreams...

Shikon no Tama December 12th, 2004 7:10 PM

Your welcome Vincent and I hope I have sweet dreams tonight!

DarknessMonkey December 13th, 2004 3:02 PM

Ok!
I Just Want Ya To Know I Really Do Love Ya...

If I Had To Cross An Ocean To Be With You,I Would...
It's True...
But Unfortuanatly I Can't Now Seeming As If I Am Way To Young To Travel Alone...
Altough I Really Love You...
I Really Hope Our Relationship Is Long Lasting...
And I Really Hope Another Man (Boy) Doesn't Get In The Way Of Us...
I Really Hope This Is A True Relationship...
Love,
Justin

Shikon no Tama December 13th, 2004 4:58 PM

Oh Ashie, of course it's a true relationship! Well I'm back on now. The only kinda reason it keeps showing I'm logged in all day, is because of an error. So, if anyone has a problem and needs advice, post it here and I'll try to help.

DarknessMonkey December 13th, 2004 5:01 PM

Well Thats Good...
And About That Logging In That's Weird My Internet Is Fine...
Hmmm...
hey I Will Have To Do Dishes Soon So If Your Not On When I Get Back (IN ABOUT 20 Mins.) I Love You!
Hey Moonlight Do You Have Any Pics Of Yourself?

Shikon no Tama December 13th, 2004 5:02 PM

Nope. I don't have a scanner or digital camera Ashie, so I can't put pictures of myself online. I wish I could though.

Greed December 13th, 2004 5:14 PM

*pops in* I'm in need of advice ^^; Anyways here it goes..

*inhales* Okay, my dad who has been a drunk for some time has been caught by the immigration police and taken him to Mexico. However, he slipped himself inside the US again. But now he has come back, and I feel horrible for not wanting him back for all the stuff he did. he says he changed, but he has said this the past times he left us and gone into his old habits. What should I do, Dr. Hotdog? ;_;

*dies*

Shikon no Tama December 13th, 2004 5:21 PM

That is most hard. But I must say, that telling him that the way you felt about him getting drunk and how you were feeling when he got sent Mexico, can help. If you say the truth and be sure to make your dad listen, he might understand the wrongs of his ways and do the right thing. I am sure he will be back to the ways he has been beofre getting drunk.

I am sorry if this advice may not be too effective CaRTOON, but that is a very difficult thing to figure out. Sometimes just listening to your heart and doing what's right can help both you and your loved ones.

DarknessMonkey December 13th, 2004 5:22 PM

Huh?
Oh It's Ok Moonlight Baby...
Hey May I Help You In Your Advice Giving Honey?
*Kisses*
I Think I Know This One...

Shikon no Tama December 13th, 2004 5:24 PM

Ok Ashie, you can give your side of the advice and helpful ways to others with me. I'm sure with both of us helping people out, it will be a alot better than just me doing it all alone!

DarknessMonkey December 13th, 2004 5:27 PM

Alright!
Ok CaRtOON...
I Say If He Doubted You In The Past & Still Does Then There Is No Place In Your Life For Him...

Greed December 13th, 2004 5:32 PM

:D I see then, thanks for the advice. Pretty much, I don't want him back into my life because I get angry when he's around. I've tried to stop his drinking habits but he won't quit, and he cheats on my mother.

Thank you for the advice, dear. And to the both of you, I see there's love brewing between you two. As advice, I encourage you two to take care of eachother. Treat each other well, and never do what my father did. It'll only bring up hate, pain, and anger inside loved ones.

(add's to moonlight's reputation)

*dies*

Shikon no Tama December 13th, 2004 5:33 PM

Oh c'mon Ashie! Everyone needs second chances, especially parents. It good to live and forget instead of living in shadows and regetting what you did.

DarknessMonkey December 13th, 2004 5:38 PM

I Know But Think Of All The Awful Things Between His Parents...
His Moms Getting Cheated On...
CaRtOON Is Getting Treated Poorly...
I Dont Know...
I Feel Bad For Him...

Shikon no Tama December 13th, 2004 5:59 PM

Well, my family has problems, and we're still together. But I have to admit, you're OK at giving advice my Ashie love!

DarknessMonkey December 13th, 2004 6:16 PM

Oh Thanks Babe!
I Love You...
Anyone Got Any Problems Ask The Awsome Pair & IRL Couple For Help!

Shikon no Tama December 13th, 2004 6:22 PM

Yep, just ask us and we'll help ya in any way we can! I promise you that my advice can be quite helpful

DarknessMonkey December 13th, 2004 6:24 PM

Yes Moonlights Advice Is The Greatest!
Man Without Her Advice I Well Me & Her Wouldn't Be A Couple!

Vincent Valentine December 13th, 2004 6:32 PM

Alright, I got a dilemna.
My friends in my science class, the only people outside of my online friends, who I actually consider friends, were taking about homosexuality.
They asked me if I was.
My response was ," If I was, would it matter?"
And they all said no.
I think they were being honest too. Now, I want to tell them, but I also don't want to lose them as friends. Should I just tell one of them? Or all 3 of them?

Shikon no Tama December 13th, 2004 6:42 PM

I would tell the one I consider a friend. If they truly are a friend, they would never tell anyone and until you think the times comes, you can tell the other two. But if I were you, I'd tell the one who's the real friend and not the foe. Be true to yourself and if you feel like you must tell them, tell them.

DarknessMonkey December 13th, 2004 6:44 PM

Yeah What My Baby Said...
She's Right!
Although If You Were What's There To Hide?
It's Your Life Live It As You Want Am I Right?
But Outside Of That Moonlight's Way Right...

Shikon no Tama December 13th, 2004 6:47 PM

Just follow your inner feelings, and let them guide to you what is right. It can always help to listen to that little voice inside you that tells you what to do! ^_^

Vincent Valentine December 13th, 2004 6:49 PM

Thanks again!
I'll tell the one I talk to more. We always have weird convo's when we should be working! lol
Anyways, I can't listen to the voice. I haven;t in a long time. When I use to, it always ended badly! :D

DarknessMonkey December 13th, 2004 6:53 PM

Hmmmm...
You Know What I Never Get A Feeling...
It's Just Ya Know...
For Example:
If I Have Fallen In Love With Someone I Like & Have Gotten
To Know Then I Know I Am Truly In Love...
But Anyways Good Luck VV!
Moonlight I LOVE YOU!

Shikon no Tama December 13th, 2004 6:55 PM

Ok VV! I hope everything turns out fine in the end! I wish you luck on your problem solving!

I know you luv you me Ashie! I luv you too much for words! XD

DarknessMonkey December 13th, 2004 6:58 PM

I Know Honey But Ya Dont Know How Much I Care For You!

And Actually If A Girl That I Could See Asked Me To Be Her BF You Know What'd I'd Say?

Here's The Answer:
I Have A GF That I Care & Love Alot I Am Sorry But I Cant Be Your BF...

That's How Much I Love You!
( I Hope I Said That Right)

Shikon no Tama December 13th, 2004 7:04 PM

Oh Ashie! That is so romantic to say to me! But we have to be on topic and wait for people to ask us for advice. So when I'm in bed, if you have a problem and need advice, wait until I come on so I don't have to try and get through to ten people at once.

DarknessMonkey December 13th, 2004 7:06 PM

Alright!
Now We Need A Place Where We Can Talk About Our Such Romantic Love Life!
Hey Wait Your Going To Bed Now?

Shikon no Tama December 13th, 2004 7:15 PM

Not now, but I have to get off very soon.

DarknessMonkey December 13th, 2004 7:18 PM

Yeah Me Too!
9:30 Exactly...
Well Just One Last Thing To Say Before We Go To Bed...
I Love You So Much!
I Really Wish You Sweet Dreams...
*Kisses Her Goodnight Once More*

Greed December 14th, 2004 6:36 AM

When it comes to "coming out" its very risky. First, its safer to come out on cyberspace. Nobody can blab it around. Its riskier on real life, so its safe to only tell true friends. If one's got a homophobic family, its best to hide it until one moves out >>;

Anyways, I got a prob again. XD; Okay, here it goes. This morning I screwed up in cooking, and my mom got pretty mad. X3;; She started me calling me a wh0re, and stuff like that. I actually told her to shut up, and now I got fresh bruises on my back and a black eye. I feel bad about saying that to my mom, and I deserved the beating. I wanna apologize but I'm too prideful ><; Should I? X3;;

I don't like to apologize, and I feel so bad about saying that. >>; But then again everytime I apologize she goes all like "ooohh, so NOW you say sorry you filthy s-lut." Should I say sorry even if she's gonna bash me to death? Oo;

*dies*

DarknessMonkey December 14th, 2004 10:27 AM

This Is Short Advice Time...
(Since I Am At School)
Ok CaRtOON Just Let Her Know Your Sorry...
(It's Always Good To Try...)
And I Think That's Real Improper Of A Parent To Give You Bruises...
(And A Black Eye & The Name Calling...)
I Dont Know What To Say...
Except Try Apolagizing...
I Feel Bad For You Man...

Taki December 14th, 2004 12:30 PM

Lol, hi advice lovebirds XD Can I help you advicing? I think I'm quite good at it! XD *uggles the cuteness in the thread* aww you two are cute! XD

Claire December 14th, 2004 1:00 PM

MD and Ash, please stay on-topic and leave the romance to PMs ^^;

Carlito-san December 14th, 2004 1:23 PM

CartOON,That is child abuse.You could tell the police,cuz thats illegal.But you probably have been told that,but refused.

DarknessMonkey December 14th, 2004 2:20 PM

I Was Gonna Say That It's Just I Dont Think He Wants That...
But Billy Is Right...

Shikon no Tama December 14th, 2004 3:25 PM

Here's my side of the advice CaRTOON:

Tell your mom you're sorry and that your cooking mistake was an accident. Tell her that sometimes wordsjust blurt out of your mouth and that if she hates you, then there's a reason, and I'm sure things will be back to normal.

And about the child abuse, it is, but I do think you should give her a second chance and if she does it again and you're fed up, then you should call the police. She raised as a child, and she hits you? It's illegal.

And Taki you can help with the advice giving too.

Greed December 14th, 2004 5:55 PM

Nah XD; Its not abuse its discipline. :3

Anyways, I told her I was sorry and she took it okay. She was all like "whatever".

I've been raised like that, and I'm pretty much used to it. ^^ Come on, my head got smashed against the wall when I was six. XD; And I survived that. Although the lesson I learned there was not to admit I like girls. XD; *cus I'm a girl despite the male symbol* (man, I wished I was a dude. XD;)

*dies*

NiNGi December 15th, 2004 5:28 AM

Gwyaaaaaaaah Horriaaaaaaaaaaaah!!! muhuhu hiaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaah! xD
bleh!

Oh well, here I am.... I don't need advice, just an opinion xP
Even though I never need advice and I always advice myself the best, I just want to know a random thingy..... I have got some money in my account drained by my mum, (xD) and I have planned to buy a new keiko-gi and a black bokken, BUT! Since I now haven't got enough money for both, I want to ask a random person: which one should I buy?? xD

PRICELIST:

Keiko-gi = 40.00£
Black Bokken = 12.00£

Gimme an answer or i'll come and stalk ya xD Buryaaaaaaaaaaaaah!!!!

is this an appropriate question for this thread? xP

DarknessMonkey December 15th, 2004 2:02 PM

Uhh NiNGi I Think The Black Bokken...

Shikon no Tama December 15th, 2004 5:36 PM

I'd say whichever one you more prefer and think would be fun NinNGi. The thing most loved is the thing to buy! ^_^

NiNGi December 16th, 2004 3:43 AM

mmmm ok thankies xD
Let me see... the cheaper one is the black bokken, but I can still buy the keiko-gi after christmas so.... I'll go for the black bokken xD I'll buy it today and I'll maybe post some pics of it xD

DarknessMonkey December 16th, 2004 11:34 AM

Well Thats Cool!
You Get The Other After Christmas!
Uhh Hey Moonlight My Love!
*KISSES MOONLIGHT*

Shikon no Tama December 16th, 2004 12:10 PM

That's good NiNGi! I hope you like the Black Bokken! Ashie remember what Dadragonz said? We have to cut the romance here and stay on topic. Now then, does anyone else need advice?

pichugirl December 16th, 2004 12:11 PM

Well I need some advice Moonlight.

Carlito-san December 16th, 2004 1:29 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by pichugirl
Well I need some advice Moonlight.

you could state what you need help with.XD

pichugirl December 16th, 2004 2:08 PM

Well my friend is acting snobish and rude to me getting me in trouble all the time and she is always crying in the morning. I've tried to ask her what 's the matter but she keeps on saying nothing and I know it's something what should I do?

DarknessMonkey December 17th, 2004 5:11 AM

Uhhh...
Well Try To Apoligize & If That Dont Work Than Be Snobish & Rude Back To Her...
I Really Think That She Is Trying To Tell You That She Needs To Move On...
Sorry...

NiNGi December 17th, 2004 7:57 AM

Whaaaat???? What kind of advice is that??? >_>;;

I know I'm not entitled to give advice in here, but the above post would make her do the wrong move IMHO.... o.o' > "Darkness cannot drive out darkness... only light can. Hate cannot drive out hate.... only love can." So being rude back wouldn't be the solution.
If your 'friend' is acting rude to you, you can simply ignore her and try to be nice, no matter what. You should gain the ability of pocketing all the insults and later throw them all away together with any trace of resentment. This is what Nintai Seishin is all about and it's one of the teachings of Ninpou, the art of the Ninja.
She might be having problems at the moment and acting this way could be her reaction... even though you are not involved with it and its not your fault.
If you want to help her as a friend, try to ignore her insults and keep in mind that this period is only temporary, and if she's a real friend she will come back to normal and possibly tell you what is the matter with her...
Act smart and do not let her humiliate you too much... and keep your dignity =)
I hope this helps ^^

Sorry for my rudeness on giving unauthorised advice.... I hope you can understand ^^

pichugirl December 17th, 2004 1:00 PM

well she apperently got a hold of her self after the threatening situation.....

NiNGi December 17th, 2004 1:11 PM

Wow that's good news then ^^
Are you still back to normal then?? what did you do to make her stop??

pichugirl December 17th, 2004 2:33 PM

I sorta cussed her out at the pizza place... It sorta caught her attention.

Shikon no Tama December 17th, 2004 3:20 PM

*Sighs*

Ashie be positive! If your friend is feeling better, keep on encouraging her and keeping her spirits up! If she was upset about a guy or something like that, then it's best to keep her happy for a while and if she's sad, help her out.

It's good to get her attention, but next time don't be so........ Cussie. XD

DarknessMonkey December 17th, 2004 3:22 PM

Sorry Moonlight...
I Was Just Thinking My Sisters Had Friends Like That Before...
They Act Snobish & Then Turn...

goth_espeon3 December 18th, 2004 12:25 AM

Hey, even though I don't give advice, I have some. NEVER EAT CHEESE AND THEN NOT DRINK ANYTHING. The after taste is distusting!!!!! hehe...

Shikon no Tama December 18th, 2004 12:13 PM

XD
That was funny. But this a thread for people to post their problems and to get help. But the cheese thing is true. I ate cheddar once without taking a drink for 20 minutes and I had this horrible taste in my mouth.

Taki December 22nd, 2004 5:36 AM

*falls over* Ok, I'll take that advice of the cheese! I like cheese XD
Ok, here's the deal. Some girls that were supposed to be my friends started being nasty to me and did everything to annoy me. One of them went out with my crush, another one told some girls that I fancied this boy and another one told half the school. Then when I told them I didn't like what they did, they told me to go away. It's quite a while that this happened and some people told me that they did that to make me go away. It wasn't as if I was nasty to them or stuff, actually, I'm quite nice to everyone. Then my ex-friend's bestfriend told me that they did that because they though I was being irritating and sad. But I don't actually say much alltogheter! XD So I was wondering if this was a misunderstanding or something and I was wondering if I should try to make up with them... Do you think it's no use doing that and that I should hang around with REAL friends?
~Sarah

IceKitten December 22nd, 2004 6:44 AM

I feel sorry for you there, they aren't your real friends, they're using you.

You find someone you like, happens to be handsome (?) and they take him from you >.>

Shikon no Tama December 22nd, 2004 11:17 AM

I agree with Tig, if they can't respect your life and privacy, who said they were being true friends? If you ask me, you should try to find a group of other friends who truly understand you. But my friends goof around with me all the time, so they might just be joking around with you. Or you can ask them why they're doing this to you. But be careful, sometimes asking them too many questions is a bad thing. Be cautious of what you say be and be sure not to hurt their feelings.

Just remember, true friends are found in your heart and soul, and not in a bunch of people who aren't being the kind, respectful friends they should! ^o^

Lizzie December 22nd, 2004 12:28 PM

I can't seem to log onto my aol account 0_o the only other person who knows my pw is my cosin, i don't know, but does it seem that she changed it or that i got hacked? >_< and what should i do?

Shikon no Tama December 22nd, 2004 12:41 PM

I suggest this:

Close the internet on your AOL account, open up a new internet, and then try. If that doesn't work, I suggest copying everything you have on your AOL account in a Note Pad on your computer just incase someone hacks you. But chances are, they can't. No one can hack you unless they use your comp. I accidentily did that on my Hotmail >_<

Taki December 23rd, 2004 4:22 AM

Thanks for the advice, Tig and Moonlight Dreams! ^-^
I was thinking that too, that they were joking around, but apparently they weren't... I think I decided not to care about them anymore and start again XD


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