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Things that make you feel bad/sad/whatever
Not a very creative title, but ye.
What makes you feel...whatever? Is there something you do in real life daily that makes you feel a certain way? Is there something on here you do that makes you feel a certain way? For me I feel bad I guess when I think about asking a question, messaging someone, or quoting someone in a thread. And in life I feel bad when I talk to people or try to speak up a little. Both times I feel bad for the same reason. I feel like I'm making an unimportant intrusion on someone's daily life and my question/comment isn't important enough to merit a reply or a notion even of them having seen/heard what I have said. And then I just feel bad that I even did it. Like I don't message anyone on here or on facebook or text anyone in my phone because I think, "They're probably already talking to someone else. They don't need me to talk to, they've got plenty of friends to keep them occupied without me butting in." |
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I feel bad when I try to catch people's attention, or point out that something's wrong. In the former case, I don't want to be seen as an attention seeker. In the latter, it's unfortunately been my experience that people like to shoot the messenger, so I've just learned to keep my mouth shut.
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brb spam messaging everyone with dreaded conversation to make you all uncomfortable. ^^ |
After what happened last night, I've realized that I always seem to put the blame of anything (even when it's clearly the other person's fault) on myself; not entirely sure why the reason is, but I do feel very responsible for anything, and everything. Making others feel bad, makes me feel extremely horrible/guilty so whenever I feel like I'm bothering people by messaging or texting them, I feel as if I'm some sort of burden even when we're what I would consider to be friends \:
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I feel like whenever I open my mouth in public to people who aren't family, I feel like things are just gonna go horribly and people aren't gonna like me or its just gonna stir up shiz or whatever. I really don't handle public stuff very well overall, so I don't talk much in public and when I do its not very loud.
I also tend to not send friend requests here to people with a lot of friends already. Because I feel like "Oh, you've already got a ton of friends, so I guess I really wouldn't make a difference...". I mean like if somebody has over 40 or so friends then I probably won't make a move for it. I really don't handle talking to strangers and random people online or offline okay haha. |
I feel bad when people get mad at me, like even if they're not that angry it's just really upsetting. It's especially horrible in school when a teacher yells at you, then when you try to stand up for yourself they just get angrier. Also I agree with what of a lot of people have posted here, when you try to approach somebody and you just feel like you're annoying them or doing it out of attention or something, when in fact I really respect people who message me first, somebody's got to do it anyway, and it's always nice to be approached by somebody friendly.
Another one is getting into internet debates, it kills me, sometimes you start them by accident and it looks like you're trying to stir things up on purpose, but at the same time you can't abandon the argument because then everybody just assumes you're wrong and have given up, it sucks :( |
Travelling makes me nervous. Even though I've done it multiple times every semester, even though it's the exact same every time, even though I've never had an issue, I get anxious to the point of nausea over travelling.
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Like you, I feel bad bothering others, especially authoritative figures. Professors, managers, academic advisers, job recruiters, admins, mothers or fathers. Consider how complex your thoughts and emotions are, and then realize that every other individual is dealing with the motions of life just as you are. People have other things to attend to. As authoritative figures, they interact with many people. They have to make decisions where, if bad, they face the consequences. Their minds are always being put to work, then. And here I am, a speck in their universe, with my question about coursework or work. Intruding and being a nuisance and all.
Don't dwell on your insecurities. Plenty of people have the above kind of baggage going on inside their heads. You have to power through. Think about the things that make you feel good, and the things that you're most grateful for. Loving friends and family, your inner circles or hobbies. Think about what you look forward to tomorrow, next week, and the next ten years. Consider how much growth you can have if you ask someone a question-don't worry about intruding-and you learn something new. Consider just what you can do with that knowledge. It's better to have a voice and a passion than to be silent. |
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Telling bad news, especially when it affects families to the extent that it would ruin their lives.
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When I have to bother my parents to ask them something, when I see them working hard to pay school and me getting bad grades, that's the worst.
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