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Nick May 21st, 2014 8:37 PM

Sex thoughts.
 
Do you have a lot of sex thoughts throughout the day?

Honest May 21st, 2014 9:28 PM

Aren't men supposed to think about sex every seven seconds, or something like that?

El Héroe Oscuro May 21st, 2014 9:35 PM

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Originally Posted by Dakota (Post 8262969)
Aren't men supposed to think about sex every seven seconds, or something like that?

I believe that's just a stereotype about men. Women think about sex just as much as men - if not more - as it ultimately varies from person to person.

I would be lying if I said I didn't think about sex throughout the day. Not exactly as common as that saying Dipu stated though, but occasionally it will uncontrollably just pop in there. For the most part though that stage in my life is already past me, as I've basically worked out all that "sexual tension" that a lot of adolescent people may have.

New Eden May 21st, 2014 9:47 PM

It used to run through my head multiple times a day, but since starting hormone therapy my mind only goes mad like that in the mornings (for whatever god-forsaken reason.) Part of me thinks it's because I'm super lovestricken.

Shining Raichu May 22nd, 2014 12:56 AM

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Originally Posted by Tao Dragon (Post 8262922)
Yes, man who penetrates his ears with bananas. I often have sexual thoughts and can't even be with someone that calms me down. I would have less need to think about sex if I was with a partner though.

lmao this post is going to make no sense once he changes his avatar.

TY May 22nd, 2014 1:02 AM

I never had any of those thoughts in my entire life and probably won't will for a long time either :P

Nick May 22nd, 2014 1:13 AM

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Originally Posted by Nova (Post 8263129)
I never had any of those thoughts in my entire life and probably won't will for a long time either :P

Does that concern you? That would be a huge concern to me if I was in your situation, but I don't want to pass off the impression that I'm telling you how to feel about it.

TY May 22nd, 2014 1:18 AM

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Originally Posted by Arago (Post 8263142)
Does that concern you? That would be a huge concern to me if I was in your situation, but I don't want to pass off the impression that I'm telling you how to feel about it.

To be fair, it doesn't concern me one tiny bit and I have no idea why it should concern me at all.

Nick May 22nd, 2014 1:20 AM

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Originally Posted by Nova (Post 8263146)
To be fair, it doesn't concern me one tiny bit and I have no idea why it should concern me at all.

Well sex is something that's natural, so I feel sexual thoughts are natural to have as well.

Plumpyfoof May 22nd, 2014 2:12 AM

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Originally Posted by Arago (Post 8263147)
Well sex is something that's natural, so I feel sexual thoughts are natural to have as well.

Careful where you go with that. While it is impossible for anyone to disagree sex is natural, there is a large portion of this community specifically that have no need for physical intimacy. And that could be for any number of reasons that don't need to be brought up, I think it's important to be aware that just because you think about sex doesn't mean everyone else must. Lets try not putting false concerns in peoples heads about what is already a major social pressure.



I don't actually think about sex specifically all too often, maybe once a day on average I guess. I will find myself thinking about other 'romantic' ideas regarding my opposite gender several times over the course of a day.

srinator May 22nd, 2014 4:09 AM

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Originally Posted by Catholic Nun (Post 8263123)
lmao this post is going to make no sense once he changes his avatar.

^LMFAO xD

well duh, i am p sure everyone does regardless their gender :o and people saying otherwise are just lying, yes even Dr.Sheldon Cooper

Oryx May 22nd, 2014 4:57 AM

Depends on how long it's been since I got laid last.

TY May 22nd, 2014 5:01 AM

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Originally Posted by PervertedPikachu (Post 8263268)
I wouldn't have taken you to be the asexual type ... It's fine if you are but are you just not admitting sexual feelings because you feel it's inappropriate when you're in a long distance relationship with someone you will not be able to have sex with for many years, if ever? And you probably believe in monogamy, so to transfer those urges to anyone other than Annie would be cheating to her, so to deny any sexual thoughts occurring is easier. Correct me if i'm wrong.

What the actual ♥♥♥♥ are you blabbing about? Why should I admit something I do not have?

Oryx May 22nd, 2014 5:15 AM

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Originally Posted by PervertedPikachu (Post 8263268)
I wouldn't have taken you to be the asexual type ... It's fine if you are but are you just not admitting sexual feelings because you feel it's inappropriate when you're in a long distance relationship with someone you will not be able to have sex with for many years, if ever? And you probably believe in monogamy, so to transfer those urges to anyone other than Annie would be cheating to her, so to deny any sexual thoughts occurring is easier. Correct me if i'm wrong.

Speculating on why someone might be lying about their sexuality is incredibly inappropriate.

Tsutarja May 22nd, 2014 5:25 AM

Okay, some may think this is weird, but simply put, yes and no. I never think about sexual things during the daytime at all, even when I am alone or by myself. However, it's just different at night. I'd rather not go into details, but things are just different for me I guess.

Alexander Nicholi May 22nd, 2014 6:37 AM

Because of my outlook and opinion of sex and its place in human interaction (and the fact that I find its taboo rather nonsensical), those sorts of thoughts do happen naturally, but not as often as some and I most certainly don't fight them; I feel that if I do that they would crop up more, and… why fight them in the first place?

Shining Raichu May 22nd, 2014 7:21 AM

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Originally Posted by Oryx (Post 8263284)
Speculating on why someone might be lying about their sexuality is incredibly inappropriate.

She's got a point there dude. I'd keep all accusatory talk away from threads, perhaps do it in a VM next time if you can't control your burning curiosity.

Pinkie-Dawn May 22nd, 2014 7:24 AM

Of course I think of sex thoughts every day, even in my sleep.

MurkMire May 22nd, 2014 7:59 AM

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Originally Posted by Pinkie-Dawn (Post 8263418)
Of course I think of sex thoughts every day, even in my sleep.

Right there with you, Godzilla.

Raine May 22nd, 2014 9:27 AM

Not particularly...I don't think? Well not a daily basis at least, but once in a while probably. Even when I do though, it doesn't involve anyone else because I'd feel like I'm defiling someone D: Like I remember one of my friends asked me, "Do you think about him sexually?" Him being the person who I have a crush on, and of course the answer was no because as long as we're still friends, I would not think about having those kinds of inappropriate thoughts about him; it wouldn't feel right.

Kotone May 22nd, 2014 9:31 AM

I think everyone does, but I do. especially when i'm with my special someone. Other than that, I'm a good girl :D

Nick May 22nd, 2014 9:33 AM

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Originally Posted by Plumpyfoof (Post 8263173)
Careful where you go with that. While it is impossible for anyone to disagree sex is natural, there is a large portion of this community specifically that have no need for physical intimacy. And that could be for any number of reasons that don't need to be brought up, I think it's important to be aware that just because you think about sex doesn't mean everyone else must. Lets try not putting false concerns in peoples heads about what is already a major social pressure.

Thanks for being concerned about that even though I pointed out in an earlier post that I had no intention telling anyone how to feel. -___-

Taemin May 22nd, 2014 9:35 AM

Very occasionally, though according to some friends, not nearly as often as what's considered a "norm" for most people. I used to think it was just because I was young, and there would be a point where sex mattered a lot to me, buuuut that just never happened. xD; I don't think about anyone in a sexual way unless I'm really into them and it's a romantic sorta thing, and I don't think about sex too much on my own outside of that either. Eh. I believe most people would call that being demisexual or asexual. -w-

Nathan May 22nd, 2014 10:52 AM

80% of my thoughts are sexual. I'm a really active individual in this category.

Bellsprout May 22nd, 2014 11:30 AM

A couple times a day. Depends on a lot, but generally when I wake up or when I go to bed my sexual thoughts are on full blast. Anything inbetween varies I guess. I think I have more sexual thoughts when I'm actually with someone than when I'm single.

Sonata May 22nd, 2014 12:19 PM

Sometimes I'm very sexual. Sometimes I hate the thought of sex. Like when I'm in public I hate thinking about sex because everyone starts looking appealing and then random boner.

maccrash May 22nd, 2014 1:37 PM

hahahaha of course I do. considering I'm a 15 year old male it should come as no surprise, really. like others say my sexual thoughts are pretty much going full-force at night while I'm trying to drift off to sleep.

can't say I think about actual penetration too much though.

Palamon May 22nd, 2014 1:53 PM

This is way too funny. I think sexual dirty stuff, but don't actually... think of sex since I haven't met a girl yet that I desire to do it with. I don't think about sex, just dirty stuff.

Sector May 22nd, 2014 2:02 PM

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Originally Posted by PervertedPikachu (Post 8263268)
Yes, when I see a pretty girl irl I think of her in a sexual manner. Stupidly fake models don't do much for me, nor do I worship female celebrities as sexy *cough Nina Dobrev cough*.

Not sure what's going on here, but celebrities are people, not tools. I don't worship Nina Dobrev. Please don't start spreading around false rumors about anything that doesn't really concern you. Just wanted to throw that out there. Anyway, moving on...

Of course it's something that I think about most of the time. My friends always talk about girls(my guy friends) & boys(my girl friends); That doesn't include just their relationships, but how much amazing sex they had. So I'm around the topic really regularly. I have to think about it all the time, otherwise I wouldn't be listening, aka not be a good friend haha.

I love sex. Just saying!

Raine May 22nd, 2014 4:25 PM

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Originally Posted by Nina Dobrev (Post 8263853)
Of course it's something that I think about most of the time. My friends always talk about girls(my guy friends) & boys(my girl friends); That doesn't include just their relationships, but how much amazing sex they had. So I'm around the topic really regularly. I have to think about it all the time, otherwise I wouldn't be listening, aka not be a good friend haha.

Totally opposite of my social circle: any time I mention relationships everyone just seems to freeze, and they look at me like I grew a second head XD I mean, there are a couple people who have been in relationships themselves, but absolutely none have gone anywhere close to sexual acts. They're all virgins so I have to keep myself from ruining their innocence.

Arc May 22nd, 2014 4:39 PM

Eh, every now and then. But, my thoughts aren't radically out of control and I can usually maintain what goes on in my head. I do have a sex drive though, but it's pretty mellowed out.

An abnormal Cybran May 22nd, 2014 4:58 PM

I try my best to suppress those urges, mostly because they make me feel depressed (*sniff* forever alone). That said, the few times I (stupidly) vocalized those urges, my friends look at me like "WTH, where has your dark mind been." Still it's perfectly natural to admire someone sexually or otherwise.

Alice May 22nd, 2014 5:32 PM

Way more than I want to. Sex thoughts are like counting sheep for me... I can't sleep without them. (tmi? lol)

I honestly think sex is gross though... and it's a huge waste of time. Wish I was asexual in a way.

Oryx May 22nd, 2014 5:38 PM

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Originally Posted by QuilavaKing (Post 8264085)
Way more than I want to. Sex thoughts are like counting sheep for me... I can't sleep without them. (tmi? lol)

I honestly think sex is gross though... and it's a huge waste of time. Wish I was asexual in a way.

Craving sex physically but mentally thinking it's gross is a great way to screw up someone's mind. :(

acatfrommars May 22nd, 2014 5:43 PM

Every second of every day, like most other teenage boys.

Sydian May 22nd, 2014 9:32 PM

I rarely ever think about sex. When I do, it's usually not in a very sexual way. It's in a...hmm...idk how to put it? Like just a thoughtful kind of way? I don't know what I'm saying haha. We'll just keep it at that I don't think about it much.

Universe May 22nd, 2014 9:37 PM

This whole thread is making me chuckle like an immature teenager. >v>

But to answer the question, uhm... pretty much never. It's not something that crosses my mind much if at all.
I don't care for sex or anything having to do with it, really. If I ever think about it, it's not a rousing sort of thing and only lasts a few moments.

And after reading this thread I can say with great positivity that I'm blessed for being this way. XD;
It sounds nightmarish to think about sex as often as a lot of you do. (no offense)

TwilightBlade May 23rd, 2014 8:21 PM

Not really. Online, I can sometimes slip in the references. Offline, I'm mostly thinking about pizza, cheesecake, or M&Ms.

Treecko May 23rd, 2014 10:28 PM

I think everyone who's over 13 at least thinks about sex every now and then. If you say you never think about sex, you're probably lying. It's usually not the thing on my mind 24/7, but I admit I do have sexual thoughts every now and then. It's not something that comes to mind as often as some people, but like any young adult male, I do think about sex sometimes. I try to avoid thinking sexual thought as much as possible , though it isn't easy obviously. Just natural I say.

Dustmop May 23rd, 2014 10:35 PM

Boyfriend is at my house every day, and therefore in my bed at some point every day.

I don't often get a chance to think about it..


To answer seriously: Infrequently.
It tends to be more of an annoying thought that pops up sporadically throughout the day. Naturally, it usually happens at the worst times. "No brain, the ending of this game is not sexy. Pls stop."

PSNGhost May 24th, 2014 9:42 AM

Not to an extent that would be unusual...... And that is all I have to say about that.

LavenderTownGhost May 24th, 2014 5:32 PM

Yes, although I haven't always been that way. It's been much more prevalent as of recent times. Perhaps it's because I'm 21 now, #InternalClock and all that. I don't quite know. As others have said, I think the burden would be lessened if I had a partner.

Trev May 24th, 2014 7:01 PM

I have serious raging hormones that cause me to want to have sex with everything. It's ridiculous. The unfortunate irony is that I'm still a virgin, so no one honestly expects it out of me.

Plumpyfoof May 25th, 2014 8:52 AM

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Originally Posted by PJBottomz (Post 8267207)
I have serious raging hormones that cause me to want to have sex with everything. It's ridiculous. The unfortunate irony is that I'm still a virgin, so no one honestly expects it out of me.

Correlation maybe? I hear this rather often and it leads me to believe that a sexual outlet will allow people like you to think about other things from time to time.

Rogue planet May 25th, 2014 9:07 AM

I'm satisfied mostly. But if I'm bored or something triggers me then inevitably that is where I end up.

I prefer to get it out of my system quickly and do something a little more productive, such as browsing pokecommunity.com

lozzop May 25th, 2014 9:14 AM

I only think about it if I'm bored, so usually right before I fall asleep it pops into my head. But it's generally about people I'm close to in real life or sometimes celebrities, though mostly we just cuddle and watch Gossip Girl :D

Chiere May 25th, 2014 9:18 AM

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Originally Posted by Gleam Noiyam (Post 8263840)
This is way too funny. I think sexual dirty stuff, but don't actually... think of sex since I haven't met a girl yet that I desire to do it with. I don't think about sex, just dirty stuff.

Do you read my mind or something? Because this is me to a T. I have to admit that I like thinking of dirty stuff sometimes.

BonkersRider May 25th, 2014 9:40 AM

I do think about sex a few times during the day but I can satisfy those thoughts with my snugglebunny (sometimes 7 to 8 times per day with a record of 19). Having a healthy outlet for those thoughts is very much a godsend because before I got married they used to weigh heavily in my mind and would make me lose concentration at my job.

antemortem May 25th, 2014 11:22 AM

Like Toujours, if it's been awhile then they're more frequent than if the last time was very recent.

twocows May 25th, 2014 1:50 PM

Occasionally. It used to be more. Now when it happens, it's usually because of a medical condition I have. These days, it's more common for me to just have a desire for romance or companionship.

Trev May 26th, 2014 4:09 PM

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Originally Posted by Plumpyfoof (Post 8267969)
Correlation maybe? I hear this rather often and it leads me to believe that a sexual outlet will allow people like you to think about other things from time to time.

If I was given the opportunity to do it with someone, I would absolutely think about a million other things afterwards. I could cure cancer if I got laid.

Lunaris Adamantine May 27th, 2014 2:58 PM

I don't really think about sex, but I think plenty of naughty things. It doesn't help that my sexual interests are weird, so I get random arousal at weird times. But it's okay, cause my brain never focuses on one thing for long anyways. Usually doesn't distract me from my day-to-day activities.

Pendraflare May 27th, 2014 7:12 PM

I never have actual thoughts of sex throughout the day.

Getting laid has never been anything i'd seriously consider, and i'm not the kind who finds it appealing.

El Héroe Oscuro May 27th, 2014 10:34 PM

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Originally Posted by BonkersRider (Post 8268070)
I do think about sex a few times during the day but I can satisfy those thoughts with my snugglebunny (sometimes 7 to 8 times per day with a record of 19). Having a healthy outlet for those thoughts is very much a godsend because before I got married they used to weigh heavily in my mind and would make me lose concentration at my job.

I'm sorry, but by "snugglebunny" do you mean an actual like, toy bunny? You're probably not but my god, it took me about 3 times rereading that to absolutely make sure that you weren't referencing having weird kinky stuff with a stuffed animal xD

Phantom May 27th, 2014 10:56 PM

Get to know me and you will learn I have a very, very dirty mind.

Everything can be an innuendo.

Everything.

Tyheamma May 29th, 2014 4:02 AM

'Sex thoughts'

Sorry, but I giggled.

...And no I'm not a kid. x3 haha.

BonkersRider May 31st, 2014 8:36 AM

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Originally Posted by elheroeoscuro (Post 8272584)
I'm sorry, but by "snugglebunny" do you mean an actual like, toy bunny? You're probably not but my god, it took me about 3 times rereading that to absolutely make sure that you weren't referencing having weird kinky stuff with a stuffed animal xD

Snugglebunny is my pet-name for my wife.

PortableCatnip May 31st, 2014 8:50 AM

I think about them quite a lot .u. I don't find anything wrong with sex as long as its safe and consensual uwu

Lord Kraith 2 June 2nd, 2014 12:05 PM

Well, I'll admit I'm a pervert with sexual thoughts. They come up to me at the most random times but mostly nighttime, evening, and early morning. When they do come it is usually a lot. I'm a dirty dirty person.

Also, the number of sexual thoughts in a day is too many to count. However, it doesn't distract me from studies and working because it's usually occur at night and evening. I usually shrug it off if it does comes up during day or class time. I do fit the stereotype of men thinking sexual every 8 seconds at certain times though.

I'm as pervert as Ataru in Urusei Yatsura. It's just that I know how to hold it very well and not go asking every good looking girl I see for numbers. Probably, I might have too much testosterone.

Aeroblast June 2nd, 2014 6:41 PM

I don't know about "sex thoughts," but if more people loved each other, the world would be a better place.

Oryx June 2nd, 2014 6:46 PM

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Originally Posted by Aeroblast (Post 8283220)
I don't know about "sex thoughts," but if more people loved each other, the world would be a better place.

IF A LOT OF PEOPLE LOVED EACH OTHER, THE WORLD WOULD BE A BETTER PLACE TO LIVE.

FaeRose June 2nd, 2014 8:20 PM

Considering I write erotica & create charachters and scenes for a NSFW RP site. I do end up thinking about it quite often.

Nothing wrong with thinking about it often, as long as someone doesn't dwell on it for too long.


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