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Trust
Is there anyone you trust just as much or more than yourself? Maybe you value your own perspective above others. Perhaps you used to be this way but lost that quality over time.
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I trust my mother with my life. We've been through a lot together in my lifetime, and she is very good to me.
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Used to trust a lot of people, but as time passes the amount of trustworthy people are shrinking gradually, kinda like the melting glaciers from Arctic and Antarctica.
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Depends what the meaning of trust aims to be. If it's something like artistic opinion and constructive criticism in that sense, I can trust people based on their experience to help me when I need advice.
If it's trusting people like with your life or secrets or whatever, only a chosen few can fill that spot. |
It takes a lot for me to trust someone, and there's only a select few people who have earned it. Not that I don't trust people at all, it just takes me a while to open up.
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But trust is the color of a dark seed growing. Trust is the color of a heart’s blood flowing. Trust is the color of a soul’s last breath. Trust is the color of death. /first thing that came to mind Trust is a severe liability. It's practically guaranteed that if you confide in someone, they will break that confidance sooner or later...it might take a week, or a month, or maybe even a year, but they WILL break it. That's always been my experience, so I've learned that, if something matters to me, I keep it to myself. There are two people I can trust with money and things like that - my father and an acquaintance I've known for years who has long since proved himself in this area, and helped me out financially a couple of times as well - but on a personal level, with secrets etc...no. |
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I'm not really a trusting person at all, but the few people who I really do trust I'd trust with my life.
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There isn't really anyone I trust to discuss how I feel with, even my parents but I trust them or at least mum with most other stuff.
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I'm not a very trusting person, I generally only trust really close friends and partners.
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do not trust anybody and you shall get far in life is what some people might say... i don't know i trust my boyfriend but thats about it lol |
I've been told that I am a little too trusting in the past. Maybe I am blind and try to see the best in people haha 8( I will say this though, certain things have happened over the past year or so to make me question who I should trust.
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There's a lot of people that I do trust. The more I know the person, the more I can determine how much I trust them. My two bestest friends that I know personally, my bestest best friend, and a few members on here, most notably Laguna, Sun, Zappyspiker, Dedenne1, and Jinx, are a few people who I trust with just about anything as they are always honest to me and I've know quite a bit about them just from the way they act. I mostly use how good of a friend a person is and their honesty to determine how much I trust them, and I even sometimes take personality into account on how trustworthy I find someone. I have lost trust with a few people, a few times it has been all my trust of a person, but most of the time I don't usually lose trust in people.
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P.S. I know people can be busy at life and stuff, but please please stay active with someone, because of the announcement. (: (Don't reply here about the postscript though haha) |
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got here a long story you may wanna hear (and I'm not trolling or making up anything)
> Be me > 13 years old, loser AF > spend ~11hours a day playing online farming and shooting game > met a 11 years olds girl (she also plays those games) > ask her to help me get bunches of items > ~1 year passed, I said some stupid things about her boy band > she said she'll never talk to me again > so I left her a message > her sister replied "are you her friend?" (she's 2 years older than me) > months passed, we became closedfriend > she gave me her number and asked for mine. I agreed > still don't know why I gave my number to a total stranger back then. But I never regret > we became more than closedfriend > I went to highschool, she went to college > as a medical student, she know a lot of thing, so our chit-chat things goes from A to Z, even the dirties things > at this point, I must make thing cleared. I don't like her, and neither does she. We're just pure friend > I dated some girls from my school, she dated some guys in college, but no relationship went well > When either of us breaks up, we looks for the other > she said we will alway be there for each other > 6 years has passed since I met her > now, I'm in college, second-year (にねん), she's fourth-year (よんねん). we're both single > she said she might get married after graduated as her mother implied > we might never be able to talk to each other again > feel so broken > keep asking myself when that day comes, will and can I trust someone again at this point I afraid my life will be liked "Love, Rosie" (it's a movie, do some research) |
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So, let me rephrase what you're saying. You're telling me that this friend of yours is a cherished person that you've known for 6 years has possibly chosen to abandon you by marrying someone, despite saying that she would always be there for you? If that happened to me, I would certainly lose confidence in my abilities to decide who is trustworthy. Are you sure that you're not being too paranoid about the situation? I know a lot of married people that didn't forsake their friends. |
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And you should know that it's really arkward for a girl to be married and still have a weird relationship with a strange guy. And what if one day I wake up and think "She is the one" oh God... I might drink too much coffee Anyway, right now I still believe and have trust in myself that maybe, if I work hard enough, I can reach her before that day come Life gives you a lot of chances. You lost this chance, you gotta find another :) The things like "I don't trust people" bla bla are just showing that you're scared to trust again, but that's temporary feeling. Eventually, you'll find someone who's worth your trust As I said I don't know if I could trust anyone again if those things happened, well it's "if", not "definitely". Depends on how fast I can recover Oh, and the "lost that quality over time" mean you're grown up. You know who you should trust and be wiser in life. That's something you should proud of |
It depends on the Level of Trust you're talking about.
In a way I trust everybody, to be a decent human being. There are certain patterns that I trust people will follow, these are reasonable dictates of society. This also includes a bit of guesswork though, not everyone follows the exact same ruleset. If you're talking about Auspice level trust, the kind of persons you'd tell all your secrets to, well...that's a different story. It can take me a while to really open up to someone and it's especially painful if I do open up to someone quicker than normal and find myself betrayed. So...I do try to compartmentalize things on a need-to-know basis even among trustworthy people. That being said; I'm a pretty honest and open person; I don't keep many secrets. Most often my secrets are never all that devastating or special, they're things like mundane thoughts that I don't share with anyone but maybe one friend. In a way though, this is how I determine how trustworthy someone is. |
I only really trust my mum
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I don't trust anyone lol.
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Arguably so, but I seem to have unshakeable reservations in my own mind. I think this is an appropriate mindset to have adopted for most of my life but it's starting to seem unfortunate and unnecessary by now.
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