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a good heart these days is hard to find
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when you are interested in dating or wanting a relationship, how do you go about it? do you hunt it out or just see what happens? |
When I'm interested - which is not bloody often these days lol - I tend to seek it out because more often than not I'm only interested due to a specific person.
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I tend to be rather direct and honest with them! I'll just tell them that I have a crush or something and most people take it ok. I have yet to have anyone really get angry over it.
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I pursue it and try to make something happen
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I've been in one relationship since I was 12, sooo...but I did make it obvious I had a crush and waited for him to make a move. c: I don't have very much self confidence, so.
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I've never sought out a serious relationship. They've just come by accident / developed from less serious relationships.
I don't know what I'd do if I wanted to search for one. It seems like it's fraught with pain and failure from what I've seen some of my friends go through. Really, I think even if I found myself in want of a relationship I wouldn't try to seek one out because it seems that way just gets you a lot of undesirable, temporary people in your life. |
The best romantic situations arose for me when I wasn't actively looking for them. So I'm much more inclined to go with the flow and see where life takes me than actively try to get out there and date.
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I try to make my feelings known to that person somehow. Often times the simplest and most elegant way is to just talk to them and tell them. But that's only extremely necessary when I feel very strongly and no other ways have worked.
I've learned that it does no good to press them; if someone wants to accept them and make something of it; they will. If not; well they will reflect them. With less intense feelings or mild crushes it's just better if I simply let them pass, maybe express them to that person in some way and eventually as they don't respond in kind or at all I simply move on to the next person. I have plenty of love for lots of people and I surely will find someone else whom I admire or feel like showing love for. |
well, two things. ONE I'm very good at having crushes on people. it happens a lot. there's a clear distinction in my mind, though, between people I'm Having A Crush On and those I'm actually romantically interested in on a more serious level. I can't really explain it. but regardless I never actively seek a thing out, I just let feelings develop without any semblance of guidance. I'm pretty sure every romantic interest I've ever had in this life has been borne out of some completely bizarre circumstance or a chance encounter or something except for, like, one. Ah, life.
HOWEVER when I feel something for someone I'll usually say it eventually because I can't actually bear the thought of not when I actually Feel A Thing. sometimes it takes awhile but the truth eventually comes out. I'm also really bad at being subtle for the most part so people usually know way before I actually say it. Checkmate. |
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tbh i just fail. so far I'm 0/2. nothing has gotten past 3 dates.
Usually I get the girl's snapchat, get a streak going, hang with her as a friend as much as possible, then ask her out casually and hope she is interested. |
Here's the thing with relationships with me right now.
I'm young so I think it's okay to be a hoe. I tell girls that I'm not looking for anything serious and I'm not looking for any committments. Also, talking and dating =/= exclusivity. I don't really hunt for it, I kind of just meet someone new and take it from there. |
I don't actively seek relationships, which is why my girlfriend-count is still in the single digits. If something happens along the way, then it happens. But I don't try to hunt for a girl every second of my daily life. XDDDDD
But if something were to happen, then I'd be committed to her (if she's truly worth it), and I expect my feelings to be returned because, well, that's how I roll Quote:
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I don't hunt, I just kinda go with the flow. If something happens, something happens.
EDIT: Just asked a girl for coffee. Let's see what happens... |
I don't seek relationships and haven't in the longest time, I've only been in one relationship and that was it. I don't really care. I'm super anxious and don't have much confidence when it boils down to that
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i don't seek out guys to date, i try to just run into them naturally. however, when it comes to letting someone know i like them i can't just outright say it. i'm really afraid of rejection so i just flirt in hopes of them noticing.
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well, if they do notice, they'll think they're overthinking it |
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The past several times that I've actually liked someone enough to try and have a romantic relationship with them, I was the one that initiated it. In recent times, though, I've decided to remove that stress from my life, and I now would rather see where things go naturally. There's a whole lot less worrying about what the other person means by what they say or how they act. This means that I can spend more of my mental energy just enjoying being in the other person's company.
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In the past I've used online mediums such as this very forum hahaha in pursuing objects of desires. I haven't been in hunting mode for a while now though, so I guess I just chill. But yeah I generally prefer to try and get to know a person and assess them against some general criteria. So not the type to hit the club for pot luck.
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I don't condone cheating and I think it's terrible. Which is why I wouldn't get in a relationship. :) |
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