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i get my feelings hurt easily, i care too much about what others think, im rude a lot of the time without realizing, and i hold onto shit from the past too much
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^ Can relate to that perfectly. I care what others think about me too much. Honestly most of the time when someone says something totally awful about me it's not even true anyway, so I don't know why it has to bother me the way it does.
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I have a lot of faults, but the biggest one that I find I have is my awkwardness around new people.
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Maybe meditation/breathing can work, I stated anger because I think it's the worst emotion, but I'm basically like that with all my emotions - sadness, anger, happiness, etc. I also complain a lot but I'm actively trying to bring solutions along with my complaints. At least at work.
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I procrastinate a lot, and when I don't I bite off more than I can chew. I'm also a perfectionist, where in my mind it's everything or nothing. I'm also way too nice and I always trust people until they prove to me that they shouldn't be trusted. And when that happens I hold a grudge for life. xD
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Being hard on myself and closed off with new people
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I'm extremely impatient. I can't wait any period of time for something unless it is something I really want or really want to do.
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There are times when I think my attitude and lack of word filter could get me into trouble or hurt someone's feelings.
That being said, depending on the person, I could care less about hurting their feelings. That sounds harsh, but a couple of my friends deserve the harsh truth and I can sometimes be too blunt in that regard. Along the same lines, my ex said that my attitude combined with my constant use of sarcasm comes off as disrespectful, which I can understand. |
I tend to come off as callous towards people. Not out of any malicious intent, but I just move on from wanting to talk to people. What tends to happen is that one day I'll be talking to someone and spending a lot of time with them, and then suddenly I just stop talking to them with no explanation. I understand that this hurts the other person, but it's just something that I do.
Doing this has cost me several friendships. I do know how I can change it, but I don't feel like putting in the effort. |
While I have no troubles interacting with people and I don't consider myself shy at all, I have troubles making time to spend with my friends. When my friends organize something, I will most likely go, but I am never the one to organize anything unless it is my birthday party.
I am also the kind of people who get soooo absorbed into doing the things I like, it irritates me so much when people want to spend time with all the time and I hate it when people interrupt me when I'm doing something (like playing the violin). There's a few times a year when I will practice nonstop and basically ignore everyone around me. Making me stop or preventing me from continuing when I want to will result in me being annoyed and grumpy much more than what should be acceptable. |
I get slightly angry whenever something doesn't go exactly how I envisioned it.
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i'm really self-centered and assume things will always turn out in my favour, and throw hissy fits when they don't. also prone to jealousy and sometimes i'm a lil spiteful.
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I'm clumsy and forgetful, which makes people upset. Which is why I'm kind of scared to start a first job. During school, they let us go out and work jobs sometimes. I got shouted at for leaving a cart in the hall, then I later lost the key to a room..
I also start things and never finish them, like a comic I was writing. |
i am my own masochist/abuser. i put others before myself so much that i forget to take care of myself. and when i'm sick either mentally or physically, i have a tendency to not care what happens to me and i refuse to seek help, thinking the issue will go away on its own. it frustrates a lot of people who care about me, but i don't really know what to do to help it. i've been doing this for years, and i have no idea if its due to one of the many mental issues i have or if i'm just doing it for attention.
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<p>I ruin jokes by overextending/overexplaining them (idk exactly what the right term would be but probably anyone who's spoken to me at all has an idea what I mean :p)</p>
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Currently the fault that affects me the most is my lethargy. Living at home allows me to enjoy such pleasures as not having to cook or buy groceries, dedicating little attention to my finances, and barely cleaning. I have regressed right back into dependency on my parents, which is an awful feeling when comparing my life to when I was living alone.
Independence meant that I held myself accountable any time I didn't have food, or was uncomfortable living in filth. This personal accountability permeated in other aspects of my life: I took more responsibility personally, socially and at work. I was more open-minded to my own faults and flaws and was quicker to answer questions that followed, such as "Is this something I want to change about myself?" and "If so, how will I?" Just as accountability in my day-to-day life permeated, so does lethargy. I am more closed-minded to my faults. I get hung up on complaints longer. I solve less, opting to ignore. I've become less mature as a result, and I hate it. Yet despite knowing this, I don't make any significant steps towards finding a place to live. Part of it is knowing I'm comfortable in my current situation. I get home from work and have dinner made. I pay a tiny fraction of what the average rent is in my city. On paper, life is good. But in my mind, it is not. The dependency I have on my parents is both a blessing and a curse. I know the only way to start maturing again is by moving out. I just need to set realistic goals and expectations for what kind of living space I want (I'm currently conflicted by the Size / Location / Price triangle. Can't have all three) and pick a damn condo. That's step #1. |
I have frequent mental breakdowns where I feel like I can't do anything and that I'm worthless and a failure
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I have the lowest self esteem you can imagine
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Overly defensive in arguments.
Quick to cut people out of my life (i've actually immensely improved on this one) One of the laziest people you'll ever meet. |
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