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The Forever Alone Thread
Well, Her made a thread for those that have had (or currently are having) romantic experiences, so we need the total opposite.
Who here is destined to die without a lover? Your cat doesn't count. |
My cat.
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I'll see where life takes me I guess :p who knows
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How saddening
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Me, I'm a socially awkward loner outcast who doesn't like people.
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People call me nerd and boring but they dont know what runs inside my Mind. . .
Destined to die alone ¯\_(?)_/¯ |
You're all so negative.
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Most likely, I'm 25, never experienced mutual love, and I don't really see it happening. Oh well! :D
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I just haven't found the right person, but I know that she will be somewhere someday.
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I felt this way growing up because no one was ever mutually interested in me, but idk a lot of that had to do with the fact that I was really overweight and I closed myself off from everyone because of that. Since then I've been in relationships and I've casually dated, but almost two years ago now I decided I didn't want to physically involve myself with someone unless we were both looking for the same thing. Ever since then it seems like I can only find people who just want to hook up or are looking to settle down as fast as possible. As much as I'd like to be with someone right now I'm also not willing to just jump into something with whoever is willing. So yeah sometimes I do catch myself thinking that I might end up alone because it's been hard finding someone who wants to take it slow like me and then also being someone I actually like on top of that. Plus I really don't want children and I'd like to use my career to travel a bit. I feel like it could take a long time to find someone who is on the same page as me... I do think it's possible it's just hard right now
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I'm not even good at committing to normal friends, I don't see myself committing to a relationship. I've been asked out twice so far, both times I've said no.
Also relationships just seem stressful and dramatic, I don't want any part of that. |
This is such a bad attitude to have.
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I believe not going to college set me back relationship wise, but I'm sure I'll eventually find a girl for short shy me.
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I fully expect to be alone all my life, it's something I've come to accept. I'm just unlovable.
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Yeah some of my thinking is pretty negative but I'm losing a lot of confidence, my mental problems are starting to get worse, and I fail at a lot of things (like getting a job) |
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you recognize that you are antisocial. stop using it as an excuse. Ive had mental issues myself and it took a lot of work to get over them. I used my own antisocial behavior as an excuse to not do things, and as a result, i missed out on hanging out with friends, talking with girls, and other opportunities. |
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Am I perfect? No. But I sure as hell have a lot more confidence than I used to. I'm still introverted, but thats more of a personality trait than an issue at this point. |
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Romance, honestly sounds really smothering to me. So I don't really think I want to be with someone my entire life. So, me I guess.
It's not about me not liking myself, or me feeling like no on will love me romantically, I just personally feel that I don't want a relationship because I know I'll feel smothered. I can't devote myself to another human being right now, especially since I'm always feeling love/attraction towards someone I know I can never have, anyway. |
There's more to love than romance, remember. It is not the only kind of love.
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It's amazing how many people don't realize that. Love between friends, mentors, family, are just as important as romantic love.
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As much as I want a girlfriend and to eventually get married, I know at this point in my life, it's pretty much never going to happen. All the local girls my age (not that there are that many of them-most of the girls I went to school with have moved far away) are taken (or don't want a guy to begin with), and even if there was anybody single, they might have some suspicious stuff in their history (drug and/or alcohol abuse, big time smokers, SJW, etc.).
One of the reasons why I don't like to go to weddings is because it makes me sad knowing that other people are getting married and are happy right in front of me, while I can never seem to land a relationship with anybody. On top of all that, I've occasionally thought that maybe God doesn't want me to have a relationship or get married. |
Realistically I don't see myself getting into a relationship for a while. Should I ever get married, I'm thinking it won't be until I'm approximately 30 years old. I dunno. I just consider myself too much of a free spirit for now-- but maybe things will change.
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But anyways good luck dude hopefully you find someone |
Eh maybe, I might find someone, but right now I don't see it happening. Course, I want it, but I just don't think I'm ready yet.
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@Otter Mii-kun
I feel almost exactly the same way. Although in my case, I'm simply not good enough for anyone. u_u |
i just want to stop by here in this thread and say that even if it takes a while, i believe you can all find love! whether it be romantic or platonic, i believe you all will find it, even if it takes months or even years. just stay positive. it's easier said than done, i know, but it's worth it in the end.
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