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Charizard_Fire_God June 1st, 2005 7:21 AM

Forgetting Love...
 
Tch.
...yup, just another one o' those darn love stories... anyways let's start.
I have been in love with someone but my fate was cursed, and now I want to let go of the feeling, forget I ever felt something. I don't wanna feel nothing, ZERO!

I am afraid I cannot say anymore than that, but I will try to leave a bit of info, to what extent I can...

-she didn't dump me

-finding another girl is OUTTA THE QUESTION since there are so few other "other halves" and my emotional CPU will burn out until that day comes unless I cut out this feeling NOW

-I have been trying by myself to let go for quite some time but I can't

-the feeling goes like this: anxiety from time to time, but usually everything's nice and shiny, then under the action of certain factors, a feeling of grief and depression kicks up, it lasts for a few hours, then it does away, leaving your soul numb, then you start laughing at your own reaction, feel no more love, and think it's over... but you're wrong...

Anyone who has experienced something similar or has any advice, or a point of view that could make me feel better PLEASE HELP ME! Thank you all in advance!

EvIL_CAjUN_CHIkIN June 1st, 2005 7:40 AM

Well, if you really miss her that much, and you dumped her, then you probably are the one who cursed your fate there. But, on the nicer side, if you didn't feel it was right to keep the relationship, then she probably wasn't 'the one' for you. Everything happens for a reason. Either this happened because you two will reunite, somehow, or you will find someone else that seems like 'the one' for you.

XD

~Sawrah~

DarkPegasus June 1st, 2005 8:10 AM

This is really simple,you miss her,but in order "not to miss her" the two of you don't have to be involved(I think that,that it is the correct word for it),what I really wanna say,go to her,talk it out,and be friends again...

Charizard_Fire_God June 1st, 2005 9:00 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by DarkPegasus
This is really simple,you miss her,but in order "not to miss her" the two of you don't have to be involved(I think that,that it is the correct word for it),what I really wanna say,go to her,talk it out,and be friends again...

I don't wanna talk it out, it's for the best, trust me. But yesh, I should probbably talk it out to get rid of it an' know that everything that had to be said has been said... ...easier said than done. >_<

Oh, and EvIL_CAjUN_CHIkIN, I didn't dump her, err, it's a bit more complicated than that...

Lust June 1st, 2005 9:55 AM

Did your parents or her parents get involved?

Charizard_Fire_God June 1st, 2005 10:24 AM

Nope. Not at all. Why do you ask?

LeaderMarina June 1st, 2005 6:28 PM

Well, here's my two cents.

There really is no way to avoid feeling like this...that's what being human is about. Mind, I've never been in a situation like this before, so you can ignore my advice if you wish.

Think about it if it's happening to another person. What advice would you give them? If you read books or watch movies, think about it as a situation between two characters...what do you think of it?

Sorry if that didn't help...I'm not much of an advice giver. ^^U

Dark Penguin June 1st, 2005 7:38 PM

yeah, the same thing happened to me, too. except that we were really attached - i even saved her frekin life (literally). then she dumps me for some football player. o well, thats life, i just have accepted it, and though it is sad, i think of how much worse off she is now XD

oni flygon June 1st, 2005 7:50 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Charizard_Fire_God
Tch.
...yup, just another one o' those darn love stories... anyways let's start.
I have been in love with someone but my fate was cursed, and now I want to let go of the feeling, forget I ever felt something. I don't wanna feel nothing, ZERO!

I am afraid I cannot say anymore than that, but I will try to leave a bit of info, to what extent I can...

-she didn't dump me

-finding another girl is OUTTA THE QUESTION since there are so few other "other halves" and my emotional CPU will burn out until that day comes unless I cut out this feeling NOW

-I have been trying by myself to let go for quite some time but I can't

-the feeling goes like this: anxiety from time to time, but usually everything's nice and shiny, then under the action of certain factors, a feeling of grief and depression kicks up, it lasts for a few hours, then it does away, leaving your soul numb, then you start laughing at your own reaction, feel no more love, and think it's over... but you're wrong...

Anyone who has experienced something similar or has any advice, or a point of view that could make me feel better PLEASE HELP ME! Thank you all in advance!

I've experienced the same thing. I've loved a girl once and we were good friends. She even told her friends that she liked me and it was all going so fine. She looked at me like her big brother but then I had to tell her that I love her. I guess that shocked her because she only saw me as a friend... but I guess I was rushing too fast. I should've slowed down a bit then everything would've been different.

But anyways, she has a boyfriend now and it's hard to let go and not feel jealous because sometimes I do... sometimes I just couldn't let go of her because in a way, I still love her and in a way, I don't want to love her. Then it all leads to jealousy, which I dislike feeling. But yeah. Sometimes, she's just my friend now or the little sister that I never had... sometimes she's the girl that I loved.. the girl who I hugged for a long time on that second time we went out together.

In a way, this girl changed me. For better or for worse, you can say. I saw love in a way where I can define a cheesy kind of net relationship or a real one... in a way... I guess letting go is a bit of an option... it's just something that you have to prove yourself to be strong within. You can't really advice anything because I've tried different kind of advices. I guess you move on your own...

Charizard_Fire_God June 1st, 2005 7:56 PM

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Originally Posted by Niko
I've experienced the same thing. I've loved a girl once and we were good friends. She even told her friends that she liked me and it was all going so fine. She looked at me like her big brother but then I had to tell her that I love her. I guess that shocked her because she only saw me as a friend... but I guess I was rushing too fast. I should've slowed down a bit then everything would've been different.

But anyways, she has a boyfriend now and it's hard to let go and not feel jealous because sometimes I do... sometimes I just couldn't let go of her because in a way, I still love her and in a way, I don't want to love her. Then it all leads to jealousy, which I dislike feeling. But yeah. Sometimes, she's just my friend now or the little sister that I never had... sometimes she's the girl that I loved.. the girl who I hugged for a long time on that second time we went out together.

In a way, this girl changed me. For better or for worse, you can say. I saw love in a way where I can define a cheesy kind of net relationship or a real one... in a way... I guess letting go is a bit of an option... it's just something that you have to prove yourself to be strong within. You can't really advice anything because I've tried different kind of advices. I guess you move on your own...

>_< Move on your own eh? I was afraid of that... oh well, maybe it'll fade away in time, since I'm already trying to let go so desperately... anyone got any points of view on the situation that could make me feel better an' more detached? o.0

<<-_Lord-Krishna_->> June 2nd, 2005 2:28 PM

First of all bro, ya definetly need to party some, If ya can't do somethin to get your mind of her, the best thing would be to find someone else. You will most likely be like this for some time, im sure there is many beautyfull girls out there (a lot of fish in the ocean) and just try to think of her as a friend and no more.

Charizard_Fire_God June 2nd, 2005 2:45 PM

...if I think about it there really ain't that many girls out there... qiute like her. Yeah, I wanna find someone else, but their types is just so rare... T_T
...anyways I don't think there's anymore need for help now... recent events have now settled peace back into my soul, anyways thank you all for your help. ^_^


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