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LGBTQ+ Alliance
https://i.imgur.com/tdJ2L40.jpg Welcome to the LGBTQ Alliance! Please feel free to join if you identify as LGBTQ+ or as someone who supports the LGBTQ+ community. Owner: erik destler Members:
Rules: 1. Toxic behavior is not tolerated. If you don't support LGBTQ+ - that's great for you, but this is not the place for you to voice your opinions. 2. Be kind. 3. If there is no active discussion, feel free to change the topic to whatever you want. To join: Simply post and introduce yourself, and - if you wish to do so - post how you identify yourself. [E.g., I'm Tyler, and I'm a cis-male, use he/him pronouns, and I am gay.] https://i.postimg.cc/cJZB4T7Q/4-K7dp52-1.png CLUB OF THE MONTH JULY 2019 |
Hi I'm Saws, I'm a cis-male and I am bi
I currently have a bf I don't know what else to put here lol |
Hello and let me join!
I'm Erica (she/her) and I'm bi. :> |
I am interested in joining.
I am Savanna and I am a Cis-Female and a Straight Ally. I have a Bisexual BFF and am looking for advice on starting a GSA at a community college. |
Just wanted to say that the pride flag in the OP is old, here's the current one:
https://quartzy.qz.com/1303522/the-new-rainbow-pride-flag-is-a-design-disaster-but-a-triumph-for-lgbtq-inclusiveness/ |
I’m in! I’m a cis male who is gay!
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Hola, I'm Kory. I'm trans masculine and pan.
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Hello, my name is Adele. I'm a cis female (pronouns she/her) and a straight ally.
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HI NEW FOLKS.
Welcome to the club! Here’s a topic: For LGBTQ+: What was your initial coming out process like? If you haven’t come out, what is holding you back? For Allies: Tell us about a time a LGBTQ+ came out to you, or why you believe being an ally is important. |
Hi hi I'm Michel and i'm Bi :D
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What was your initial coming out process like? If you haven’t come out, what is holding you back?
I haven't fully come out yet.... I mention here & there I identify as trans masculine, but what's holding me back is people not understanding or being transphobic. :| I've told a few people irl, though. But not many. |
Hullooo keen to join :) I'm Josh/CB, cis male, and I identify as gay.
Good discussion question, I'll be back in a day or two with my response! |
Hello I'm not queer and I'm here (Karen, cis female & straight)
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When I think about stuff like this, I think a better question is "why not" - I do not see how other people being gay or trans or anything affects me negatively in any personal way, and none of the arguments for why LGBTQ+ shouldn't be accepted or normalized seem like a big enough deal to hurt others physically and/or emotionally over. I will confess I'm not very educated in a lot of LGBTQ+ matters, but at the end of the day, as long as you're not hurting anyone, why do I care who you're sleeping with or what you identify as? |
I haven't came out yet. I think my family would be understanding and supportive due to how liberal they are, but I am still not ready. Coming out anywhere is a huge task but doing so in such a conservative state like Alabama is even harder. I am just not ready and idk when I will be.
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I'm joining too!
I'm Jo and I don't really have a term or a label that I feel fits me; but I know I'm not straight. I guess maybe bi would be the closest? However, I am in a long hetero relationship that won't be changing soon so make of that what you will. |
Joining. :3
I'm female and a lipstick bi (with a major crush on korrina from pokemon). I may not really post here a lot (or generally read other posts), as I am VERY emotionally sensitive to reading things (and hearing things) about LGBT hate. But I do want to be on the member list of this club, since I MYSELF am part of the lgbtq+ community, and am an overall supporter of others in it. To me, love shouldn't need gender labels. Love is the most beautiful thing on earth and creates oxytocin in the brain and causes miracles to happen ^_^ Hate the the complete opposite of all of that. Love should be respected. Period. .....though i understand people disliking pedophilla and zoophilla. I don't think 'love' where you take advantage of more innocent and vulnerable creatures is really a real form of love anyways o_o;;; or even healthy overall. But same sex love ISN'T that type of thing at all. :) Hopefully this club is warmer than the one on serebii's. I had awful memories of that one.....people actually picked on me and called me HOMOPHOBIC there pretty much just cuz I hated reading the hate drama about REAL homophobia in that club -_-; Serebii's is filled with jerks.....(okay even on that forum i have good friends, and happy memories, BUT EVEN SO....worst lgbt club there o_o; nuff said) I'm an emotionally sensitive person who dislike's being around negativity. Pretty pathetic some people don't respect that.... EDIT: As for my crush on korrina, yes, she MIGHT be 'under age'. But she isn't a real person. So my liking her is harmless. |
I'm Maya and I'm nonbinary and bi
I can't come out irl as I have no one willing to accept it, most people don't accept nb people even online. Even if I just say bisexual, it's turned down immediately by my family, as they do not accept it. they say it's bad enough that I'm sick and disabled. |
Hi there!
I haven't decided whether or not I should join because I'm not sure how much I would be able add to this conversation as a straight girl who hasn't overall had much experience in romance! I think my posts would be a trifle boring, but still I wanted to at least swing by and compliment this club. It is a very vibrant place! I also want to say that I support LBGT rights and human rights for everyone. We are all brothers and sisters, and must love each other. I see everyone here at pokecommunity as my family. I was really moved by reading different life experiences written by my pokecommunity family here, and want to wish everyone good luck, whether you are in a beautiful and promising relationship with the person you love, still looking for your soul mate or perhaps simply waiting for the day that you can come out to the people in your life, may all good things come your way. I am saddened and angry that many members are still fighting to find acceptance. Hate dies hard it seems. I had a really sheltered life, raised by a very hip, free-spirited and gentle artist mother, and know that I have a family that would support me no matter who I loved and not even make a big deal about it. Reading about the struggles of others has really made me appreciative for what I have, and has reminded me that many people don't have this privilege, and still have to live in fear that they could be outcast, physically hurt, fired, denied their rights just because of who they are. Quote:
I haven't hung out with Jude in awhile but last I talked to her she was engaged to be married to a sweet young lady and they were thinking about adopting children. I am really happy for her because she was so frustrated and depressed when I first met her and I see how love has just lifted her soul up. She just looked so excited and hopeful, and I am glad because she did not have an easy life and nobody deserves a time for rejoicing more than her. Wby do I feel it is important to be an ally? Being an ally has been on my mind lately after being in an interracial relationship. It made me more conscientious than ever of how prejudice impacts being able to simply love each other, and the backwards views that still persist in this world that we have to work together and keep fighting against. It was my personal experience that made me draw a parallel, being discriminated against for skin color is just as bad as being discriminated against for sexual orientation, and I want to live in a world where everyone is loved. |
hi uh, i'm hoshiko but you can call me skylar. i'm nonbinary (but also questioning that at this point, don't wanna get into it) and use they/them pronouns. i don't really know what my sexuality is, i just know i'm not straight. i haven't really found a label that fits me yet. i'm still figuring stuff out about myself.
so uh. discussion questions: For LGBTQ+: What was your initial coming out process like? If you haven’t come out, what is holding you back? technically i have come out but not really irl? i am very open on the internet about my gender identity and stuff (since i identify as nonbinary currently), but it's hard to be open about it irl since i live in alabama and the south is..not so open minded as far as i know. plus i don't bind (for personal reasons) and i don't want to be invalidated. i dunno. the only people who know irl are my mom, my dad, my little sister, my boyfriend, my boyfriend's mom and my boyfriend's brother. the only people who really try and use the right name and pronouns for me are my boyfriend and his mom. it's a struggle. my mom and dad have changed my name in their phone to skylar but.. i dunno. my little sister doesn't even try and even said if i legally changed my name she'd still call me by my birth name which is frustrating and extremely disrespectful. i'm thinking of legally changing my name before i get married to my boyfriend in a few years so.. yeah. i dunno. it's hard being lgbtq+ in the south. it was nice though when i visited my boyfriend and his family because they all used the right preferred name for me. |
I've been hesitant to join this, since I am a bit skeptical and confused about all the labels people throw around online, and since I've never come into contact with anything more complicated than bi/homosexuality in real life. But the label bonanza phenomenon was explained to me pretty well, and I'm a huge supporter of people being allowed to act, dress, love and feel in whatever way they want regardless of what bodies they were born with, so I definitely am an ally :)
I'm your average white straight cis-girl, in case you were wondering. |
I'm a (white) cis bi male. I don't go outside much and when I do I don't really socialize so I don't date anyone yet, and if I did we probably wouldn't actually meet up in person much at all.
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Hello, I’m Benjamin, a bisexual male who would like to join. I was raised by two lesbians and came out two years ago. Despite having a large LGBTQ+ community, my school believes I lie about my sexuality. That’s probably because they call me a bigot. I am not though, and fully support LGBTQ+ rights. I hope I can give advice and be a part of this club!
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hi im a cis-male and im pansexual although i've only ever told one person
i'm also in a long term relationship with that one person |
Hi new people, welcome to the club! I've updated the member list.
Here's a new discussion topic: How do you feel about LGBTQ+ pride? Is it important? [e.g. Pride parades, Pride Month, LGBT History Month, etc] |
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I'm not sure but I used a pride avatar for the whole month of June on Discord
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I do like being proud of things I'm a part of (mostly lol) |
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Hey, I'm Caite and I am a CIS-Female who is a Straight Ally with a Best Friend who is Gay. :D |
Hey, Kendra here. She/her, mtf transgender. So uh, hi ♥
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Warm welcome to everyone who recently joined the club! <3
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My name is Billy, CIS-Male and I'm Bisexual
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Glad to say that my college has started a GSA and I have joined. Wish me luck!
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Hey, I'm Sophie and I'm a bi, cis female. :D
@ coming out, the first people I told were some of my closest online friends. I realised I was bi in 8th grade but didn't tell anyone till a few years later when I let it slip that I liked a girl and there was a moment of ??? but support. In one instance we both ended up finding out that the other person was bisexual, going WHAT and then talking all about it - it was a wholesome experience though. |
Oh coming out left me walking. still to this day any mention is ignored.
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Uh hi, I'm Catnip~ (Desert Stream~ once my name gets changed :p) but you can call me Lissa I guess... I'm a trans female and also pansexual...
For LGBTQ+: What was your initial coming out process like? If you haven’t come out, what is holding you back? Well the first time I came out, idk what I was thinking really. I never really know why I do it, I just feel like it's a good time to do it I guess... I have a very good sense for who I can trust and when I should do it. The first time I told anyone was to my friend over discord. It was really boring. I told my other best friend and his brother late one night playing overwatch lol. And uh, yeah I usually just text most people. I've told three people in person. My brother kinda guessed that I was LGBTQ+ (I think he was joking when he said it but I figured I might as well come out while the topic was there) and then he asked if he could tell my parents, and I said he could... That's kinda it, it's never really gone too badly for me. How do you feel about LGBTQ+ pride? Is it important? [e.g. Pride parades, Pride Month, LGBT History Month, etc] I don't really have too much of an opinion on this. I want it to affect my life as little as possible so I don't really discuss it usually. Some people dedicate their lives to fighting for LGBTQ+ rights, going to pride events, etc. but that's just not for me. More power to those who do I guess, lol |
Let me take a shot at the latest topic. It would be great to see a pride parade in my hometown but it doesn't happen. Like a some other members here I'm stuck in a very stagnant area. But maybe another Erin Bailey will arise for the south?
I think it was so awesome she organized this international pride festival right in the middle of Pence's hometown. https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=RUSAwrrbln4 I think everyone deserves a place where they can feel safe and express who they are. Pride month is good. |
I will join the club if you allow me. I am not gay but I love platform heels to death and I am a supporter of LGBTQ+ rights. Like if you heard some of the things I like you might think I'm gay but I'm not and sometimes I wish I was a girl. If anything I guess I would be bi.
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Posting this here cuz, I am a member of this club, also Korrina happens to be a same sex love. I made this blingee to show my thankfulness to her. She's helped me so much. I hope one day lgbt people are accepted by everyone. :) Being in love has no gender, and in the end you never know who's going to be you're true hero in life. |
Hi, I want to join too! :) My name is Wallace and I'm gay. Started finding myself out in late middle school and the experience went pretty much natural from then, really. I'm glad I had a lot of people to talk to and support me with the subject! :D
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Wallace's post made me smile (and i gave it a like). Its a really good thing he's found a good amount of friends who accept and support the fact that he is gay ^_^
In a flyer we got in the mail at my house, btw, there's also a section that talks about a program where you can have thanksgiving dinner with an LGBTQ+ person and they can tell you about their lives as you're eating with them. I thought it sounded so nice and generous. :D It warms my heart to hear happy things relating to this community. :) |
Everyone I know irl, including family, is a huge bigot, so even though the capital has pride events/groups, I can't attend any.
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Count me in!
I’m a bisexual cis girl but I don’t go around telling everybody. Just my family knows, but I’m obviously not averse to other people knowing. |
i'm going to a local lgbt group tomorrow (technically today in my time zone) and i am really nervous, i have never been to one of these before.
i am hoping this will be my one safe place though where i live. where i can go by my preferred name and be called it irl locally and not just by my boyfriend and his family. where i can be called by my right pronouns locally and not just by my boyfriend and his mom. |
hiii! I'm kanto and I am intersex !! I use they/them pronouns and am a pansexual disaster
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I think I’m coming to terms with the fact that I’m incredibly asexual. I’ve known this for some time now but I’ve avoided acknowledging it.
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It's weird because I dream of getting married and having children one day and I consider myself to be a hopeless romantic. I am Christian but my asexuality has no relation to my spirituality at all. I honestly question as to why I am asexual at times, although I'm not necessarily ashamed of it. I do worry, however, that my asexuality with interfere with any future romantic relationships that I have or even the current relationship that I am in. |
Hoping to join. Hoping to go to some pride events in June assuming it is the same month as it was last year. :)
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Hey there! I'm Storm~
Cis-gendered male, he/him pronouns, gay as helllllllllllllll ;P Always glad to find my people on other platforms haha |
Hey everyone! Welcome to the club! :)
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Sneaking my way in...
EDIT: Am cis and gay, male pgp |
Hey, I’m Aaron and I'm a cis-male, use he/him pronouns, and I’m gay (which is always fun to reveal to a new group of people, the reactions are laughable)
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I've realized that there is a label that kind of suits me, non-binary female. Doesn't really change anything. I just really don't want people to have certain expectations of me (of looks or behavior or interests or opinions) just because of my gender. I feel more non-binary than the average cis-person, I think, but am not uncomfortable at all with being female. And I don't really care much what pronouns are used for me, whatever people want. So yeah that's that :) |
Hello! I'm a cis-female and I'm...questioning. I like both girls and boys, but (this sounds edgy, but oh well) I don't like to be labeled as bi. I used to identify as lesbian, then I fell in love with a guy. So now I'm just fluid, I suppose!
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Hello club,
I've continued educating myself on gender, agender and such matters, and I keep exploring who I am and what I feel comfortable thinking of myself as. Not sure there are good labels for how I feel in the end, haha, and I suppose that's fine. Nonbinary female, femme agender, something like that perhaps. Even "cis-genderless" lmao might work but it seems to be a controversial term. |
Hi, I'm Cid, and I am a gay man.
From the first post, I'm cis-male, and I use he/him pronouns. I'm gay, man. Quote:
Whatever the case, I agree with you; there might not be a need to find the *best* label for how you feel. As long as you're you, I'm sure it's going to be alright. |
June is here!
Happy Pride Month everyone! https://i.postimg.cc/zDTX0dx1/170626132817-pride-parade-exlarge-169.jpg |
Can I join?
I'm Wiktoria and I'm a cis female and a pansexual. |
Welcome to the club everyone! Happy pride month! :D
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hi everyone! welcome to the club!!! happy pride month :sloheart:
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Henlooo, I'm Salzorrah, and I'm non-binary! My pronouns are She/They/He in order of preference (most to least) and when it comes to sexual preference, I'm open to both, but with romantic preference, I'm more attracted to females.
Also yes happy pride month yall <3 |
Wow, I didn't know this was a thing.
SUP I'm Sho, and I'm a trans guy, who's also pansexual. |
Welcome, all new members :3 Happy Pride month!
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A friend of mine gave me a pride bracelet from the local festival. He and his husband went, but I had to miss it due to work. Even though I know it's over the top and everyone is wasted, I do really want to go next year. Has anyone else ever gone to a pride celebration before?? |
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As for pride celebrations, I've wanted to go to one, but I feel like I'm still not ready for it yet. |
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Hoi!
I am Phoebe (Pheebs for short) I am a trans-female (on HRT) and am a lesbian! <3 |
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I'm still ok with being called "she", I guess, even though I've noticed that it makes me feel more comfortable to be called "they" ; I don't think it'll ever be possible IRL to get people to try and use anything else for me, especially not in Swedish. After all, I'll still call myself a girl for the sake of convenience, I just don't want it to really mean more than my skin color or body length: something I was born with and am comfortable with, but not something that should be allowed to dictate how others treat me or what I'm allowed to do. It really took me quite a while and discussion to realize that not everbody felt so apathetic towards their own gender as I do though haha. I'm glad I learned, because now I can fully respect people who feel strongly about their gender identity instead of me being confused about it. Quote:
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Haven't been to a pride celebration and I'm super hesitant about attending. I don't exactly feel great being a trans person considering I don't feel 100% safe even within the confines of the LGB community.
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Wwwhhh, Rika that's pretty cool!
I'm a little like Angie, because being trans didn't feel good to me for a long time, and I was never comfortable labeling myself as much else either, so I felt like I wanted to go to Pride events, but I didn't know why I wanted to go. Like, what I felt comfortable attending as if people asked or wondered or whatever. I suppose I knew, but at the time, family was trying to talk me out of feeling that way, so it took me some years. lol |
Hello to everyone who joined!
I’ve been to pride celebrations but never the proper pride festivals that take place in NYC, which is such a damn shame because I know it’s one of the greatest gatherings on earth for lgbt+ people. Even though I’m not 100% out as gay yet, I’ve been an open ally for many, many years and really need to go! |
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i've never been to a pride festival. never went as a teen since i didnt really exactly know what my identity was then. still a little unsure now tbh
havent been at all here since i live in the south and im not really out irl. plus im terrified to go by myself. |
Hello! My name is Courtney! I'm a cis girl, ace lesbian, and single! I use she/her pronouns! I'm hoping I can make friends and possibly find a gf on here since my friend found his wife on a Disney forum website! Feel free to message me and ask for my discord!
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I'm a transgender lesbian and I use she/her and they/them pronouns.
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First off, apologies for not being as active as I would want (School, vacation and some minor health issues). Secondly, I don't know if anyone had brought this up, but there is apparently a thing known as the NIFB who had a conference known as the "Make America Straight Again" on the anniversary of the Pulse massacre that killed 49 people. The common refrain among this group is that LGBT+ individuals should not exist and should perish or be executed.
Obviously, this is a pretty horrible group to advocate that LGBT+ individuals should perish for simply existing. Luckily, a bunch of people are calling them out for their revolting goals and saying that they deserve to live in many cases. I don't mean to be a Debby Downer, but I thought that this was something to make people aware of. |
Make America Straight Again....?? They won't win that war. There's probably just as many LGBT people in the world as straight ppl, they just don't come out. But if the numbers added up, they'd have too many people against them. :|
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hi everyone!! LGBTQIA pride month is over. now, for LGBTQIA wrath month.
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i have arrived just in time for wrath.
anyway hi, i'm syd. i'm bisexual and nonbinary. i'm okay with whatever pronouns honestly, but usually stick to they/them just to make things simple. |
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and then i realized...nah. it wasn't a phase. just part of the road to self discovery lol. after a while of thinking i was too girly for the boys and too boyish for the girls, i largely decided you know. maybe i'm both. maybe i'm neither. something in between? i found that nonbinary best suited a way to describe myself. aha at some point i was convinced i was basically just a gay man with a female body. admittedly my body still makes me feel dysphoric at times, but there are some days i'm totally fine with it. not enough that i would ever get surgery over it but u kno. if i had to really, really pinpoint myself down, i'd say i'm more masculine in terms of mind, i just present very femininely. although i'm fine with any pronoun, if i had to rank them in terms of what i want to be referred as, it'd be they > he > she. as far as compared to agender though, as i understand it, agender seems to be like. the lack of a gender? so you know. like. a starmie or a solrock. they don't have a gender. to tell you the truth though, i'm not so sure where to draw a line between the two. agender seems to be lacking, nonbinary seems to be like...you have a gender, it's just not entirely male or female (ie. not on the binary). that's how i'm looking at it anyway? sorry if this is not helpful aha. |
Just heard about that ''Make America Straight Again''
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Comparing your journey to my own on-going exploration, I think I'm quite different then. I was also more into boyish interests as a kid, but I didn't feel out of place with the girls either. I was never really wishing I'd be a boy or feeling dysphoric about my body. Largely I just accepted that I was called a girl and like, cool, I'll fight for women's rights etc wohoo! But I've come to realize that I feel much less strongly about my own gender than many others do. My closest friends seem quite comfortable in their binary spectrum (they haven't indicated otherwise at least!) and I don't feel like I'm halfway to "boy" or even much of a "girl" past the physical. I'm ok with being a girl physically, always was, but I never wanted that to really... matter kinda? More and more, I don't think I want to be seen as a girl ahah, I want to be seen as a person. So if I don't really feel like I'm a gender between boy and girl, and don't really know or understand or have a particular wish to be some third/other gender in this society, then maybe I'm actually agender after all? :) that's exciting! Edit: lol on the topic of preferring "husband" as title, i'm called "dadventure" on the server now and it's neat |
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Well, to combat LGBTQ+ wrath month, this will officially be the Clubhouse's Club of the Month! So congrats! <33
And thank you to everyone sharing your stories, too. |
By the way, what does Wrath month mean?
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May i join? Im a single bisexual girl who is looking for love, right now preferably a girlfriend
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Welcome, Lil.lady.k!! :D
Hi everyone, how have y'all been? |
Been alright. Birthday's in a week and a half and I still got nothing planned :x
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Yay! Thank you!
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i've been alright. apparently there is a pride event going on here in alabama but it isn't until october and i am terrified to go by myself.
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