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fenberry April 18th, 2019 11:13 AM

Have you ever been in love?
 
Have you ever been in love with someone?

Sami April 18th, 2019 11:30 AM

Yeah I have been, didn't turn out all too well though rip

fenberry April 18th, 2019 11:35 AM

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Originally Posted by TY (Post 10007782)
Yeah I have been, didn't turn out all too well though rip

Same though. I fell in love with this guy who was amazing. He was four years older than me and we had met and immediately started dating. It turned out he was asexual, and said he never loved me, that he only did it because he cared for me, etc...Then, he got together with my best friend. I was heartbroken.

Sami April 18th, 2019 11:41 AM

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Originally Posted by fenberry (Post 10007785)
Same though. I fell in love with this guy who was amazing. He was four years older than me and we had met and immediately started dating. It turned out he was asexual, and said he never loved me, that he only did it because he cared for me, etc...Then, he got together with my best friend. I was heartbroken.

Damn. Sucks to hear that. Things will eventually get better though if ya believe hard enough c:

Fell in love with a girl a while ago, played the same video game n stuff so I really fell for her. Few weeks later and it all snapped apart for idk what reason.

Karl April 18th, 2019 11:42 AM

I love pizza.

fenberry April 18th, 2019 12:01 PM

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Originally Posted by TY (Post 10007790)
Damn. Sucks to hear that. Things will eventually get better though if ya believe hard enough c:

Fell in love with a girl a while ago, played the same video game n stuff so I really fell for her. Few weeks later and it all snapped apart for idk what reason.

Awwww, I'm sorry. :( I hope things get better for you!

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Originally Posted by Karl (Post 10007793)
I love pizza.

I love zucchini. :3

gimmepie April 18th, 2019 12:08 PM

Yes.

moon April 18th, 2019 12:08 PM

Yep, been in love, moved in with him, I just stole some of his pizza. With permission. Reluctant permission. See, we both also love pizza.

Karl April 18th, 2019 12:11 PM

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Originally Posted by Daenerys (Post 10007801)
Yep, been in love, moved in with him, I just stole some of his pizza. With permission. Reluctant permission. See, we both also love pizza.

Stay away from my pizza.

moon April 18th, 2019 12:14 PM

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Originally Posted by Karl (Post 10007803)
Stay away from my pizza.

I wouldn't dream of coming in between a person and their pizza. That love is Real.

Sami April 18th, 2019 12:26 PM

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Originally Posted by fenberry (Post 10007797)
Awwww, I'm sorry. :( I hope things get better for you!

Eh, it happens I suppose. Time will tell :p

professor plum April 18th, 2019 1:53 PM

yeah my boyfriend and i are in love. we've been dating for 4 years now and said it to each other about a month or two into dating. I know - mess - but I mean we're still together.

i'd say we complement each other pretty well - i'm more introverted, he's more extroverted; i like to plan ahead, he likes to be more spontaneous.

i've loved other men in the past, mind you. probably... 3 other guys, truth be told. One was a 6 month relationship, one was a relationship that ended just shy of two years, and one was an on-and-off weird thing for over a year.

Aslan April 18th, 2019 3:24 PM

Yeah! Have had one or two people where I've genuinely felt like I was in love with them, but never acted on it properly due to feeling too young and not ready in general to pursue a relationship. I guess time will tell what happens and if they were just brief crushes, but I can definitely say I've fallen in love with people and had moments of "WOW I think I love you" quite a few times.

Noblejanobii April 18th, 2019 3:54 PM

Found out I was gay by falling in love with my best friend.

pastelspectre April 18th, 2019 5:34 PM

yes. i am in love with my boyfriend. we have been dating for almost a year and a half. we said i love you like.. well. it took me about half a year to ask him out. but like,, i think we said it fairly quickly after me and him decided to be mutually exclusive (we liked each other but i was not ready for a relationship at the time so we decided to talk until i was ready) which.. i mean eh, but like. me and him love each other a lot and i wasn't just gonna like, keep it to myself.

he's supposed to be coming to see me in about a month or so hopefully.

Vragon2.0 April 18th, 2019 9:27 PM

I can't really say I've ever been in love per say, as much as crush. I do think there was one mutual crush I had with another guy I hung out with at work but he had to move and whatnot so nothing came of that.

Sheep April 18th, 2019 11:42 PM

Been in love with bobandbill for quite some time. so yes.

bobandbill April 18th, 2019 11:52 PM

And I with Sheep. :>

gimmepie April 19th, 2019 2:47 AM

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Originally Posted by Noblejanobii (Post 10007920)
Found out I was gay by falling in love with my best friend.

That's one way to do it.

fenberry April 19th, 2019 5:09 AM

I think I'm...falling in love?

Megan April 19th, 2019 6:27 AM

Yeah, once. It was one sided and dealing with the fallout was quite an...experience.

Sannse April 19th, 2019 6:31 AM

Nope. I think I'm going to be an old maid, but that's okay with me.

Noblejanobii April 19th, 2019 7:03 AM

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Originally Posted by gimmepie (Post 10008102)
That's one way to do it.

Yeahhh they still don't know. I'm waiting for us to meet up for Spring Break a year from now to see if there's something really there.

gimmepie April 19th, 2019 7:29 AM

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Originally Posted by Noblejanobii (Post 10008184)
Yeahhh they still don't know. I'm waiting for us to meet up for Spring Break a year from now to see if there's something really there.

Best of luck!

fenberry April 19th, 2019 11:30 AM

I think throughout everything I've done, and what other people have done to me, to influence my opinion on love, I'm always going to keep going with it.

Sami April 19th, 2019 12:01 PM

Not giving up on love either, how hard things may have been. I have hopes is all xD

Harmonie April 19th, 2019 6:28 PM

Yes, but the bulk of my experience with love is just pain.

Her April 19th, 2019 8:40 PM

maybe
i love my bf but sometimes i consider whether i’m in the In Love phase or First Stage of Love phase simply because we developed emotions so fast and started dating v quickly lol
that and i’m a little bit repressed in the emotional intimacy department tbh

Bay April 20th, 2019 10:31 PM

I've experienced attraction/crushes numerous times, but don't think I've ever fallen in love. Sometimes I think what would happen if my crush and I were in a relationship, but I never acted upon that because often they would be with someone else.

Palamon April 21st, 2019 12:06 PM

Not romantically, no, but I've been...platonically in love with someone a few times. It's complicated.

LadyJirachu April 21st, 2019 3:30 PM

I am/have been truly in love with my current fictional crush (Korrina).

I know what its like to be in love thanks to her. I've shown all the signs of it :)

She may not be real, but her impact on me is pretty huge.....

Austin April 30th, 2019 10:24 AM

Yeah once or twice. It's not terribly fun from my experience.

mikey April 30th, 2019 6:21 PM

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Originally Posted by Bay (Post 10008832)
I've experienced attraction/crushes numerous times, but don't think I've ever fallen in love. Sometimes I think what would happen if my crush and I were in a relationship, but I never acted upon that because often they would be with someone else.

This pretty much sums up my experience as well.

Dragon May 2nd, 2019 4:33 AM

Currently in love with VisionofMilotic! Never been happier~~

Fairy May 2nd, 2019 4:58 AM

I am currently very much in love with my fiancé! I had relationships in the past where I thought I was in love, but actually being with someone who is “the one” feels much different than all of those other romances.

juliorain May 2nd, 2019 7:05 AM

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Originally Posted by Pichu (Post 10012730)
This pretty much sums up my experience as well.

Same or they were straight or developed feelings that I haven’t developed. (Aka one sidedness.)

Longest relationship I’ve held so far was approx 2 months, with 1 month spent in another state because of winter break. This was like 6 years ago. Met leeches and other creeps since then...my romantic experience has been less than stellar.

User Anon 1848 May 2nd, 2019 7:14 AM

Just once. She only reciprocated for a short period of time, although we remained friends for quite a while. When she stopped reciprocating I spent way too much time, energy and money (dumb, I know lol) trying to win her back. I can be pretty cold or indifferent to most people but when I really care about someone I care deeply. I'm also inexperienced and insecure so that probably led to me overcompensating and giving too much of myself which turned her off a bit and left me vulnerable. Our friendship ended over something petty and I'm still bitter about it but I grew a lot from knowing her so I try to take away the positives more than anything.

Sawsbuck May 3rd, 2019 7:51 AM

Twice and both times I got dumped

Nina May 6th, 2019 1:38 AM

I told my girlfriend right out of the gate I wasn't in love with her when we started dating but that changed over the years. There seems to be a difference between a crush love and and a very comfortable love, and I would say that I'm comfortable.

Zalainama May 6th, 2019 2:42 AM

yes, but it was in my childhood , is it normal?


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