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Old July 31st, 2013 (11:31 AM).
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fall to grace.
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Join Date: Jan 2009
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Oh boy oh boy my kind of thread.

Oldest sister - Tried to run my life with her husband. While I appreciate that she cares about me and wanted to act like a mother to me, she needed to understand that I don't need a "mother" influence in my life and I can handle things myself. I think I was about 17 when I told her to finally back off and to let me make my own decisions. Her husband also tried to force me to clean their dishwasher one time, under the guise of "When you move out you need to know how to do this" and I told him "When I move out I'll figure it out then." It's just the sort of "We have life experience and you don't" attitude about the both of them that sort of pisses me off. Thankfully, they had a kid and they've managed to back off my back.

Other sister - Total *****. She has special needs but I don't even feel bad about saying it anymore. I love her to pieces, but I've spent the last three years of my life arguing with her because she doesn't know when to shut the hell up. I give, and give, and give, and she just sort of throws it all back in my face. I legitimately do not like her and I do not plan to talk to her after I move out. Should she ever need help I'll be there for her, but not for much else. :/

Father - Great guy, although he treats me like a little kid and it's aggravating. He also thinks that he's always right, but not in an overly obnoxious way? Like he'll say his opinion or side of the story and automatically expect you to agree with him afterwards. When I say "I understand where you're coming from", it's not an automatic agreement. I've found that in the last few years he's become more wishy-washy and prone to whims. I'm just frustrated with him as well and there's not much he can really do about it.

tbf I've been emotionally independent since I was like 15 so this shouldn't be much of a surprise. If I really wanted to I could have moved out since I had a job, but meh.
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