Welcome to the community, UltraPyrus! Glad to see you here.
You and me both! I don't like to play competitively either, because it's not fun. I tried doing that before and to be honest, I didn't like it. So I prefer playing Pokemon casualy, and on my own. But you don't have to be competitive to be a member, every member is different, and we understand that :D
JNathan and Cirny gave you some interesting links for you to check out, aside from that, there's a ton other sections foryu to check out, in relation to Pokemon or to your interests.
Have a great time, and stick around! See ya around. :)