Dear Anon,
I think you are being very immature, you and your crew tore up my mother's garden. You've broken her fountain, smashed all sorts of flowers and herbs, the window, the lights, and don't even seem sorry about it. You haven't apologized, and didn't even acknowledge that anything was wrong. We just saw all the damage ourselves after you drove off. I was only calling you to make sure you were aware of what happened, I thought that maybe you didn't know and would take responsibility for it, but you seem to be offended as if someone did something to you!
You say that you did the best you could and it's impossible not to knock things over. First, that isn't true. And Darian seems more like he just wanted to go home, was mad he was there, and didn't care where he put what. He literally appears to have just thrown piles of dirt around in his frustration, not concerned with where it landed. You're in someone else's home. I understand that mistakes happen, but you also need to treat this space with respect. I see food wrappers just thrown in the grass.
Second, we didn't ask you to do this. You volunteered. We could have got someone else, but you guys showed up with your truck and said you wanted to help. We were a little reluctant, but you insisted. I appreciate that. Just because you say you'll help put up the fence as a favor though doesn't mean that this is okay. Nobody is forcing you to be here, so if you put yourself here then you should be reliable.
I heard that you were in a bad mood, and it shows. I was honestly surprised what you texted back, trying to blame my mom for not directing you through this process. That's not true either, she was there, and showed you what was fragile. If this was overwhelming or confusing to you then you shouldn't have taken on the task, rather than venting your frustration on us now.
You say her things will grow back. No, not necessarily, they are badly damaged, and the statues and fountains and urns definitely won't be growing back. The repairs will cost us more money than we have saved. But it's about more than that, plants are also living things, she really loves and cherishes her garden, spends all of her time taking care of it, that is years worth of work, it makes her happy and because it expresses her it is honestly hurtful how you disregarded it. You would be upset if someone damaged something you had collected.You didn't even say you were sorry once.
I'm not going to even try to talk to you again any time soon until you can act more sensibly.