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Old May 7th, 2013 (5:28 PM). Edited May 7th, 2013 by Sir Codin.
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    I was 17, girlfriend was also 17.

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    I'm not surprised it doesn't deter people, especially in America were it is 18, I wouldn't expect anyone to be deterred when the law is that strict.
    First off, I agree with you, I think 18 is too strict.

    Secondly, in the U.S. age of consent is enforced state by state. It ranges from 16 - 18, most states have it at 16 (I think about 30 out of 50 as of this writing).

    California is one of the few that has it as high as 18. However, that's the state where most U.S. entertainment - including adult entertainment - gets produced, so I think pornography laws are enforced nationwide based on Cali's standards. But don't take my word for it, I'm not 100% sure. Also, it's still illegal to take minors over state borders for sexual purposes, even if the state you visit has you both at a legal age. I think you both need to be certified residents of the state. Each state also has it's own set of rules regarding deviations such as close in age exceptions, age difference, et cetera, et cetera, some strict, others not strict, some straightforward, others utterly confusing, and some states have it somewhere in between. To be honest, it's a real f***ing mess. Pun intended.

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    I lost my virginity at 18, to a guy who was 17. I'm not sure if this makes me a pedo or not
    No, that is not pedophilia.
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    Old May 7th, 2013 (6:11 PM).
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    omg, like, you can't have a sex thread here, think of the children!
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    1. Providing you're of legal age, what is stopping you from having sex? Religious reasons? Lack of interest, from either you or another person? Lack of sexual desire for anyone? Fear?
    I'm not interested, and I don't feel comfortable enough with my body to want to have sex right now. Honestly I'm not even interested in a serious committed relationship right now. And I have no idea exactly what my sexuality is :s

    2. Are you okay with being a virgin? Do you care about what society/the people have to say in regards to it?
    I'm perfectly fine with it. If I weren't, I would've lost it by now, I'm sure. If people want to complain about it, whatever. It's my life -- I shouldn't lose my virginity until I'm ready.

    3. When do you plan on having sex? Do you even want to have sex?
    I won't until I'm in a relationship with someone and feel comfortable with it.

    What do you think of people who have sex often, with many different people?
    Ain't my business. They can do whatever the hell they want. Preferably safely, though. d("d)
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    Old May 8th, 2013 (3:34 AM).
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    Time to reply to my own thread!
    Although I admit the fetish question was too much, I do not see the harm in promoting sexual discussion on a forum populated by clearly very sexually active teenagers and young adults, as evidenced by some of the replies I have seen :) Some of you people have sure gotten up to some fun times! Not naming any names, though! (Scarf)
    Thank you for all answering with maturity and bringing intelligent discussion to a thread which could have just degenerated into dirty recounts of experiences best kept off a Pokemon forum! Sex is natural! It's great to talk about it! Hell yeah!

    1. How many times do you think you've had it?
    ....This is all with one guy, but over 200 times omg
    We just liked doing it lmao

    2. What age did you lose your virginity, providing you have lost it?
    About 18 and a half!! I know I'm sounding childish, adding the half and what not, but I wanted to keep things accurate!!! It took me longer than average to lose it because it took me forever to come out of the closet irl & it took me a while to find a guy I felt comfortable with losing it to, lol.
    When I was growing up I was all about 'I'm gonna lose it to the guy I love, it's dirty to do so otherwise' and although I think it's absolutely wonderful to keep your virginity for someone you love, I was just tired of waiting to see what this sex thing was all about, I guess. I'm not saying I didn't throw my personal morals out the window, I just loosened up a little bit!

    3. Have you done the dirty deed with guys and girls?

    i never want to see a vagina in my life

    Bonus question:
    What do you think of people who have sex often, with many different people?


    People who ****-shame are one of my biggest annoyances, as you're essentially shaming people for being free with their sexuality and you're shaming them for having sex the way they want to. They know the physical risks of doing so, or they should so anyway. They are aware of STDS just like you are aware of them! Some people simply just move from person to person, or they're sleeping around with multiple people because that's what suits them. I do have a problem with those who cheat on others, as that is completely different to ****-shaming and cheating on the person you're dating (unless you guys are open about that sort of thing) is just low in my opinion, having gone through such an experience myself. But, my point is, don't judge others for being free with who make love to, because for all you know they could love that person, just in a different way than you comprehend.
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    Old May 8th, 2013 (4:23 AM).
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      1. Providing you're of legal age, what is stopping you from having sex? Religious reasons? Lack of interest, from either you or another person? Lack of sexual desire for anyone? Fear?
      Well it first it was a combination of religious beliefs and lack of interest. Now it's just a personal preference. It helps that I'm not stunningly attractive and rather have my nose in a book or a DS lol. I think one of the biggest reasons is because I'm just not emotionally connected to someone enough to even convince myself to try it. I'm not interested in one night stands, or to have sex for fun. I've had bad, rough luck when it comes to relationships. I'm not ready for one. Period.

      2. Are you okay with being a virgin? Do you care about what society/the people have to say in regards to it?

      I do care, because it's annoying. It's a problem that needs to be fixed according to everyone, where I'd just rather be left alone.


      3. When do you plan on having sex? Do you even want to have sex?

      Well eventually, yes, or course I do. I'm however quite jaded. I have no interest in getting close enough to someone.
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        Q: 1. Providing you're of legal age, what is stopping you from having sex? Religious reasons? Lack of interest, from either you or another person? Lack of sexual desire for anyone? Fear?

        A: My girlfriend would kill me if I slept with someone else now and for the meantime it's a long distance relationship so it's gonna take a while to get under the sheets.

        Q: 2. Are you okay with being a virgin? Do you care about what society/the people have to say in regards to it?

        A: Honestly I'm okay with it given the fact that if I ever slept with any of the women in my town I'd probably get more STDs than phone numbers on a yellow page book.

        Q: 3. When do you plan on having sex? Do you even want to have sex?

        A: When I get married I'll be all for it. I'm trying to be commited now.
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        Old May 8th, 2013 (10:56 AM).
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          How many times do you think you've had it?
          About 7-8 times with the same girl. c:
          What age did you lose your virginity, providing you have lost it?
          About 17, here in the UK the law is 16 you can do it. The first time was with my girlfriend, and we were both ''in that mood''. So yeah.
          Have you done the dirty deed with guys and girls?
          All the time with my girlfriend, almost once with my best buddy, we had both had a few too many drinks, and were in the mood, and were about to, but his mum came in, luckily we were dressed. >.>
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          Old May 8th, 2013 (1:59 PM).
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          Still a virgin.

          I do want to and I think if I put my mind to getting a girlfriend and letting things happen then yeah it would happen.

          I just don't want to. My last relationship broke my heart when it ended I don't want to face it again.
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            1. How many times do you think you've had it?
            Uhm, probably about 90+ times for the past 4 years. Im not that active at it XD

            2. What age did you lose your virginity, providing you have lost it?
            It was around 4-5 months before turning 18, with my female BFF.
            I mean it just happened, and to be really honest I had a crush on her too since I hang up alot with her.
            The problem just was that she was in a relationship for around 3 years+ that time, she just claimed that time it happened between me and her that she doesn't love him as much that time as she used to.
            Plus he lived kind off far away so it wasnt really a problem having a affair with her.
            We both were in the same class so we had to predent theres nothing.
            And she said she was going to leave him for me >.>
            Anyways that kept going for around 4 months until I didn't care the she wasnt leaving him for me, we got attracted only physically to each other and decided that we'll leave it that way. She was a too good friend to loose because of that.
            After that Ive went with around 7 more girls several times with each other, I like to be more attached emotionaly to someone rather then physically.

            3. Have you done the dirty deed with guys and girls?
            I love only girls and never will like boys in that way.
            This doesn't mean I have something against boys loving boys as long as it isn't on me, there Im very stricks because I really dont like it when something similar happens to me.

            Also with the deeds?
            With my BFF since it was a affair she showed me things I never knew back then XD
            i kind of got my experience with her.

            What do you think of people who have sex often, with many different people?
            Tbh really honest I don't have that much against it since Im not any better.
            In the land I live (Kosovo) having sex with more then 1 people is kind of disgusting to some, people want that a girl is married before having it.
            But boys >.> they can do that off course, the girls arent allowed though! >.>
            Idk why this is so here, probably because were muslims and they claim to be muslims which live after the religion. They dont follow it that much though.
            As said I dont have anythign against it as long they know what theyre doing but girls will mostly being called S**** by the ones who dont get to have sex with them.
            But I would not be that comfortable if I would get into a relationship with a girl which had sex with more persons then I did, idk why I just dont feel comfortable with it.
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            Old May 9th, 2013 (5:44 AM). Edited May 9th, 2013 by HelloAsha.
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            First of all before I start, I want to thank Harlequin for starting this thread. I think that sex is something everyone should talk about. Whether, or not you're opposed to what some see as a 'touchy' subject I think it's still necessary to appease your brain's demand for sexual maturity.

            Anywho.. On to the good stuff.

            1. How many times do you think you've had it?

            Holy... the number probably well exceeds 5-600. Granted 4-598 of them were with the same girl. My high school years I had a girlfriend, and we were quite the horny couple. We dated for two, and a half years. Through the later end of high school, and a year after going into college semesters, and so forth. I won't gush into details, but if you've had a partner you've been seriously involved with you'll know it gets out of control after a while of becoming addicted to the endorphin rush.

            2. What age did you lose your virginity, providing you have lost it?

            I was 16 when the deed happened. The girl I was mentioning above came over one day after school, and we were just hanging out. After a while it just happened. Two weeks later we started dating. :15:

            3. Have you done the dirty deed with guys and girls?

            Fortunately for me, I've only been sexually active with females. Although I wouldn't willingly submit to homosexual actions I wouldn't be opposed if there was a Ménage à trois going on.

            BONUS. What do you think of people who have sex often, with many different people?

            I think that having sex frequently isn't a bad thing. Nor is anyone a bad person if they are sexually active often with a plethora of people.

            I will say that those people are well aware of the consequences. Of course there is the issue of contracting a disease, but furthermore there's the possibility of having a child. If you're not ready for the consequence attached to the responsibility, you might want to refrain from bumping uglies for a bit.

            PERSONAL BIT.

            As much as I love sex. I will have been sexually abstinent for a year, two weeks from now. Prior to breaking up with my ex-girlfriend around this time last year. I had two flings since, not long after the breakup. Since then, I've been taking time to put together the pieces of the broken puzzle I call my life, and things are starting to return to normal. I came to the realization that I can't be caught up in chasing sex, because it was keeping me from what I really wanted to accomplish in my life.

            At the same time I haven't found any women I'm really interested in, or haven't met any women that have wanted me in the same way. I can't take the risk of having accidental children with someone that I don't care for, and my bankroll is too small right now to support a child, or a college fund for that matter.

            So as a friendly reminder, and a closing statement

            Do what you love in life. Don't let anyone tell you different. Change on your own terms. And be protected at all costs, it will only benefit you in the long-run.


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              1. Providing you're of legal age...
              I'm not.
              2. Are you okay with being a virgin?
              Yes, & in a society where you must be married to have sex, I'm okay on my own.
              3. When do you plan on having sex?
              When I'm married, IF I marry.
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              Old May 10th, 2013 (8:47 AM).
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              Alternatively, for those who haven't had sex:
              1. Providing you're of legal age, what is stopping you from having sex? Religious reasons? Lack of interest, from either you or another person? Lack of sexual desire for anyone? Fear?

              It's because I don't care. I didn't see what the big deal was when I was younger, and I don't now. Also high school gave me quite some culture shock so I didn't even know how to react with people there until I was about 16, so I avoided people for the most part.


              2. Are you okay with being a virgin? Do you care about what society/the people have to say in regards to it?

              I don't see what the problem is. If I felt like it was a problem I wouldn't even be one right now.


              3. When do you plan on having sex? Do you even want to have sex?

              When it happens. That's all I can say.
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                1. How many times do you think you've had it?
                -No clue and unconcerned. I've done it a fair amount of times and that's all.
                2. What age did you lose your virginity, providing you have lost it?
                -Depends on what you define as losing it. I've had some unfortunate experiences throughout my childhood and I'll leave it as that. I'll stick with 14 though, however, it was probably younger. I was always curious.
                3. Have you done the dirty deed with guys and girls?
                -Regrettably, yes. I, like a few other gay men, never want to see another vag again. I'm a bio major and I still cringe at the sight of one.
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                  I have not because I'm only 15..... I don't mind it because the vast majority of people I know are virgins as well... at least to my knowledge. I'm that kind of person that only wants it to be with only one person and the right person... so I'll wait till marriage, although it has nothing to do with religion.. People that have sex often don't bother me, but the multiple people...ehhh it's not my life, but I'm sticking with my one and only.
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                  Old May 11th, 2013 (10:49 PM). Edited May 12th, 2013 by Correspondence.
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                    1. Providing you're of legal age, what is stopping you from having sex? Religious reasons? Lack of interest, from either you or another person? Lack of sexual desire for anyone? Fear?:
                    Basically because it takes two to tango and I don't have a partner.I don't really believe in religion so that's not really a problem.

                    2. Are you okay with being a virgin? Do you care about what society/the people have to say in regards to it?:
                    Yes, I'm okay with it.I don't see why people would have a problem with that.One rule I live by: Don't give a **** about what people think about you.

                    3. When do you plan on having sex? Do you even want to have sex?:
                    It will happen when it happens.If it happens.

                    Bonus question:
                    What do you think of people who have sex often, with many different people?
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                    As long as they aren't cheating kudos to them, hopefully they are using protection and all that jazz.
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                    Old May 12th, 2013 (1:38 AM). Edited May 14th, 2013 by Cavalreaper.
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                      Alternatively, for those who haven't had sex:
                      1. Providing you're of legal age, what is stopping you from having sex? Religious reasons? Lack of interest, from either you or another person? Lack of sexual desire for anyone? Fear?
                      2. Are you okay with being a virgin? Do you care about what society/the people have to say in regards to it?
                      3. When do you plan on having sex? Do you even want to have sex?
                      I'm asexual, so I don't plan on having sex. I'm alright with being a virgin, and since I have no interest in sex, I probably will be for a really long time. The problem is the social stigma attached with virginity.

                      Quote:
                      Bonus question:
                      What do you think of people who have sex often, with many different people?
                      Honestly, If you judge people for how much sex they have, grow up. People are allowed to do whatever they want with their bodies. Whether someone has had hundreds of partners, one partner, or no partners, there is absolutely no reason for anyone to judge them.
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                        1. I've lost count over the years to be honest, but it was only with 4 different girls.
                        2. I was 18 and it was after 4th of july BBQ, I could have lost it a lot earlier but back then all i cared about was skating lol
                        3. Just girls.
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                        Old May 12th, 2013 (2:30 AM). Edited May 13th, 2013 by Azu.
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                          1. How many times do you think you've had it?
                          Uh.. >30? with the same guy all the time though (my bf at that time).

                          2. What age did you lose your virginity, providing you have lost it?
                          Last year, when I was 17 ><;;. I wouldn't have done it with him if I knew we would've ended it so soon.

                          3. Have you done the dirty deed with guys and girls?
                          No.. one guy only and I'm still ashamed of it D: .

                          BONUS. What do you think of people who have sex often, with many different people?
                          It's their choice even though I would be honest when I say that I'm disappointed in those people.
                          Maybe it's because I'm old fashioned and wish for people to have sex with that true love and no one else.
                          But besides that opinion well.. tough look for them they might get sexual diseases.
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                          1. How many times do you think you've had it?
                          Quite a few times now that I think about it. Until I was 17, I was pretty sure that I'd never have sex again, but now, I'm in the double digits. It all comes down to trust, in the end. ~_~

                          2. What age did you lose your virginity, providing you have lost it?

                          I lost it when I was around 14, in circumstances which I would have preferred to avoid, I guess.

                          3. Have you done the dirty deed with guys and girls?
                          I've actually had sex with women more than men {XD}

                          Bonus - To be honest, I don't hold any negative feelings against those that are more liberal with sex. If they feel that they want to, I say that you should respect their wishes, y'know.
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                          Providing you're of legal age, what is stopping you from having sex? Religious reasons? Lack of interest, from either you or another person? Lack of sexual desire for anyone? Fear?

                          Well, what's keeping me is two things. 1) I'm gay and am currently coming out still so me getting a boyfriend isn't something I've...tried to do yet. I don't know if I'll ever "try" honestly. We'll see. And 2) The idea of sex to me has to be with someone special. In terms of relationships I don't really care too much about the sex. I enjoy the thought of the little things more (such as holding hands or cuddling).

                          Are you okay with being a virgin? Do you care about what society/the people have to say in regards to it?

                          Yeah, because if I weren't, it would've meant I lied to myself. I dislike the social stigma, but I'm not personally offended by it because I have my own reasons that are stated above for still being a virgin.

                          When do you plan on having sex? Do you even want to have sex?

                          Whenever I meet the person who I think it's meant to be with. Aka, if I ever meet Zayn Malik and he just happens to want to bang, I'm all for it. And yeah. I want to have sex. It's just not as important to me as much as the smaller things I guess. I definitely want to though.

                          What do you think of people who have sex often, with many different people?

                          Depends on how many people. If they do it deceitfully (aka, by cheating on a boyfriend/girlfriend), I think that's wrong, but if they are known for having one night stands and whatnot and it's not stopping the other partner from having sex with them, then more power to ya. It's not my business and I'm sure it's fun as hell. Also if said person has multiple STDs or lies about something (such as HIV status) in order to get in bed with someone, that's incredibly wrong and just whorible (lol).
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                            What do I think of people that do it a lot? You know there's two categories, you can have no standards at all and just **** everything that moves in which case yes I'm gonna look down on you. But if you can hook up with a whole load of classy guys/ladies then you bet I'm gonna be jealous.
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                            1. Providing you're of legal age, what is stopping you from having sex? Religious reasons? Lack of interest, from either you or another person? Lack of sexual desire for anyone? Fear?
                            What is stopping me would be religious reasons and my personal values. I prefer to keep myself pure only for my future husband (not even my future boyfriend) and not just freely offer myself to just anyone. I also think that abstinence is a better choice and this would lead to less complications and risks such as STDs and unplanned pregnancies.

                            2. Are you okay with being a virgin? Do you care about what society/the people have to say in regards to it?
                            I am completely fine with it. I don't care what other people say; it's my life to live and not theirs.

                            3. When do you plan on having sex? Do you even want to have sex?
                            I only plan on having sex when I am married.
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                            1. How many times do you think you've had it?

                            Depends on what you consider sex or not. Actual penetrative sex (i.e not oral) only once, but if we're considering oral sex as "sex" then it would be a few more times. I've never really had a commited partner so it just sort of worked out that way. /shrug.

                            2. What age did you lose your virginity, providing you have lost it?

                            I lost it when I was 15. It wasn't the best decision on my part but tbh I just sort of call myself a "born again virgin" for when I find someone that I'm ready to commit myself to.

                            3. Have you done the dirty deed with guys and girls?

                            Female anatomy is disgusting I would never put my genitals near that. Ever.

                            Bonus question:
                            What do you think of people who have sex often, with many different people?


                            Not really my business. If you're a **** shamer you're a ****ing ******* and need to grow up and understand that people are allowed to have as much sex as they like (as long as they aren't endangering people because that isn't good). I will never for the life of me understand what drives people to be so anti-sex or go "omg they slept with so many people before me now I'm insecure" get the **** over yourself and start to understand that people do what they want and they don't have to conform to your ****** ideals and standards.

                            Also on a sort of related note I've never really had intimate sex. Just hookups. Hah.
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                            1. Providing you're of legal age, what is stopping you from having sex? Religious reasons? Lack of interest, from either you or another person? Lack of sexual desire for anyone? Fear?

                            I just don't really feel the need to have sex. I don't look at people and think "mmm, I'd like to have a slice of that."


                            2. Are you okay with being a virgin? Do you care about what society/the people have to say in regards to it?

                            Yep, sure am. Not at all, I don't think people my age should really be having that much sex anyway.

                            3. When do you plan on having sex? Do you even want to have sex?

                            As stated before, my sex drive is flatter than a Stunfisk.

                            Bonus question:
                            What do you think of people who have sex often, with many different people?

                            As long as they do it safely and with some sort of respect to the other person, I don't have a problem.
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                            Can't believe I'm answering this on a Pokémanz forum.

                            1. How many times do you think you've had it?

                            Over 30 times, with 4 different girls. Probably would be a lot more if I could manage to keep a girlfriend for over 4 months, but ehh I don't like devoting the time tbh.

                            2. What age did you lose your virginity, providing you have lost it?

                            14. Not too proud of that now that I look back at it, but it is what it is.

                            3. Have you done the dirty deed with guys and girls?

                            Hell no. My butthole is just for pooping.
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                            Old May 17th, 2013 (11:55 AM). Edited May 17th, 2013 by Kura.
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                              Bonus question:
                              What do you think of people who have sex often, with many different people?


                              Not really my business. If you're a **** shamer you're a ****ing ******* and need to grow up and understand that people are allowed to have as much sex as they like (as long as they aren't endangering people because that isn't good). I will never for the life of me understand what drives people to be so anti-sex or go "omg they slept with so many people before me now I'm insecure" get the **** over yourself and start to understand that people do what they want and they don't have to conform to your ****** ideals and standards.

                              Also on a sort of related note I've never really had intimate sex. Just hookups. Hah.
                              Your post sort of inspired me to write something, and I don't mean for it to be directed at you, but I'm using your quote as a base if you don't mind.. This is a sex thread after all, but I'm going to go off-tangent than to the questions asked. Pleeaaase don't be offended with anything below, as I don't mean to say you DON'T practice safe sex or anything like that, I am just using your post as an example. Ok here we go:


                              You know, the whole endangering people can be something really nondescript, and maybe you might not realize that there isn't just a black and white "safe or unsafe" sex.. so that's why it drives people to be so anti-sex (shaming, etc.)
                              Let me elaborate.

                              Did you know that they don't screen men for HPV in sexual screenings? It is actually a difficult thing to do, so pretty much all clinics wont do it unless you specifically ask (and then pay) for it. TBH.. I'm not even sure if you CAN test men for it. People can then basically say "yep I'm clean, I had my test." And then.. not be. Nasty HPV strings lead to cancers and warts (yes warts too!) Fun fact is that about 80% of the population contract some sort of HPV string at least once. Yes, in a sense you feel like you don't need to worry since you are a guy and it doesn't affect you.. but.. in retrospect.. does this sound safe to you?
                              Ok, you tell me, no big deal, I'm gay. (Wait, I don't mean to pinpoint you or gays specifically, just hear me out here..) Well here's that shade of grey: do you ever consider that the person you are with may be bisexual? That they would pass on that HPV to someone else unknowingly and that other person may suffer?
                              I think the biggest thing that people "**** shame" about isn't hurting someone on purpose.. it actually may be about unknowingly hurting someone.. and I guess that upsets some people.
                              "OK Kura" you (again not meant to actually pinpoint you.. I mean people in general would say to me) tell me "I wont hurt anyone, I use a condom 100% of the time!"
                              Well that's great.. but you also need to consider emotionally hurting someone. That includes having sex with someone under the influence of something (booze, drugs, etc) but not even just that.. but their state of mind. Sure maybe it is consensual at the time, but you don't really know if they're using sex as an escape or if they'll come to regret it after too.

                              For some, sex is fine and dandy, and others it is something more intimate and emotional. I wanted to post this because I wanted to inform you about risks that aren't really thought of because most people just consider STDs and pregnancies, and not any other risks. I'm not here to shame anyone, but when you say " will never for the life of me understand what drives people to be so anti-sex" you can understand that a certain amount of people who have sex freely also do not think of the full consequences, and are usually shamed for that. The more sex, generally.. the more risk (it's statistics.) It might go hand in hand with having a lot of sex might mean to others that there is a lot more carelessness. Should they shamed for being inconsiderate? Well that's up for you to decide. I don't think anyone would purposely shame people for practicing anything safe- but sadly there is that assumption that if you are having a lot of sex- you are doing it carelessly since there are so many factors to hone in on.

                              No one should be conforming to anything, I don't think.. but I feel that it's safe to say that if you aren't ready to handle the consequences (any of them: a child, emotional stress, infection, etc) then don't have sex. If you're gonna conform to anything.. let it be safe practice, people! :3 (Lol I sound like a mom..)
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