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Old January 15th, 2014 (11:28 PM).
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    Ever had your significant other cheat on you? Ever cheated on your significant other? They make it look comical on reality TV but I have no idea what sort of emotional impact it would have because it's never happened to me.

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    Old January 15th, 2014 (11:36 PM).
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    Well, in the one relationship I've been in, no, absolutely not. Loyalty in general is probably something I hold the highest in regards to morals. And she hadn't cheated on me either. I still don't know if Maury is scripted or not lmao
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    Old January 16th, 2014 (8:41 AM).
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      Never cheated and as far as I'm aware, never been cheated on.

      I have however found one of my ex-girlfriends sexting with her ex, and that's not something you want to go through.
      It hurts like a ***** if you like the other person, but time heals all wounds.

      Besides, karma will eventually take it's toll. It sure did
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      Old January 16th, 2014 (8:51 AM).
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      Never cheated on someone, but my ex did. One of the reasons why we broke up. I was emotionally strained for weeks.
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      Old January 16th, 2014 (8:59 AM).
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      My ex cheated on me once, and I kinda felt like I was meant to care far more than I did, honestly. I mean I wasn't exactly happy about it - obviously it's disloyalty and all that - but I just couldn't bring myself to be all that bothered about an extremely drunken and misjudged one-time thing.

      We all make mistakes and do dumb things, especially when we're drunk, so honestly... my response was pretty much limited to "well I'd really rather you don't do it again but okay". I truly didn't care that much. It's just drunken sex. Had she been sober then I'd probably have had more of an issue with it since she'd have been in complete control of what she was doing, but even then... we weren't seeing each other all that much at the time (we'd both started uni at this point) and I get that people have, well, needs. Maybe I just don't think of sex as a very big deal, or maybe it's unusual to think that you can sleep with someone without having any kind of feelings for them, but yeah. That's my honest opinion on it haha. I'd certainly not call it "comical" though, OP... d:

      Weirdly despite my views on it, it's what broke us up. She said she couldn't handle how guilty she felt or whatever, which I believe to this day was a load of bollocks. She probably went and slept with someone I knew or something, or it'd been an on-going thing, or she had feelings for him maybe. Idk. Now I'm not really fussed, haha.

      As for me, no, I've not cheated on anyone.
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      Old January 16th, 2014 (9:13 AM). Edited January 16th, 2014 by Hatsune Mika.
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        I have done my fair share of cheating but common people would say I wasn't because the relations I got into were online. . . . There was one however, even being okay I consider cheating. . . My ex got me into a triangle relationship with another girl, she and the new girl spent more time together tjan me and my ex. . .but it doesn't matter anymore because its all over and wont happen again. . And also I was dating my ex and kissed her cousin who I wasn't datimg but she wanted to date me. . Not trying to break rulea but she was a true *****. She has multiple facebooks so she can stalk me again and so she can date guys in their 20's to 30's :/ she is only 16 now and she has had more dogs than I have had hot doga my whole life. . .

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        Old January 16th, 2014 (9:24 AM).
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        I'm so forever alone that when I have a crush on someone, I'll sometimes start liking another person at the same time and feel bad, like I was cheating in my mind. D:

        But I've never physically been on either side of the spectrum, so I don't know how it feels/how I'd react.
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        Old January 16th, 2014 (12:14 PM).
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          Old January 16th, 2014 (12:29 PM).
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          I have, and it was devastating, mainly because I really trusted this guy and invested a lot into the relationship, emotion-wise. I can't speak for everyone, but the worst thing about it for me is considering that person special enough that he/she is the only one you want to be with, but you were never equally special in his eyes.

          I got over it, but I think I'm a bit more reserved about who I open up to now. That's probably a good thing though
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          Old January 16th, 2014 (4:00 PM).
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          I've never been in a relationship so you can't cheat on me, ha, take that girls! ^.^
          *breaks down and openly complains about being forever alone like he does in every thread of this nature*

          Now that that's out of the way I have made advancements on taken girls once or twice, they rejected me but it means i'm still a bad person and a potential cheater... It's not acceptable but when you think you love someone so much and just want to be with them you ignore their boring, inconsequential, sappy high school fling of a boyfriend. I just wanted to be the one in that fling for ONCE in my life, ugh it makes me so jealous when I see people in relationships, especially if they've had a lot of them or an abundance of potential suitors, what makes them better than me?

          They don't have a bitter and twisted mentality for one thing. I will be alone for a very long time, no cheating for me!

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          Old January 18th, 2014 (2:50 PM).
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            Since I've never had an actual girlfriend, this kind of thing never 'officially' happened to me. With these tabloid talk shows presenting stories of guests who have been cheating or have been cheated, and even entire programs whose formats are dedicated to exposing infidelity, it's probably a good thing that I don't have a girlfriend, and probably never will either.
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            Old January 18th, 2014 (5:27 PM).
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              My ex cheated on me once, and I kinda felt like I was meant to care far more than I did, honestly. I mean I wasn't exactly happy about it - obviously it's disloyalty and all that - but I just couldn't bring myself to be all that bothered about an extremely drunken and misjudged one-time thing.

              We all make mistakes and do dumb things, especially when we're drunk, so honestly... my response was pretty much limited to "well I'd really rather you don't do it again but okay". I truly didn't care that much. It's just drunken sex. Had she been sober then I'd probably have had more of an issue with it since she'd have been in complete control of what she was doing, but even then... we weren't seeing each other all that much at the time (we'd both started uni at this point) and I get that people have, well, needs. Maybe I just don't think of sex as a very big deal, or maybe it's unusual to think that you can sleep with someone without having any kind of feelings for them, but yeah. That's my honest opinion on it haha. I'd certainly not call it "comical" though, OP... d:

              Weirdly despite my views on it, it's what broke us up. She said she couldn't handle how guilty she felt or whatever, which I believe to this day was a load of bollocks. She probably went and slept with someone I knew or something, or it'd been an on-going thing, or she had feelings for him maybe. Idk. Now I'm not really fussed, haha.

              As for me, no, I've not cheated on anyone.
              I really have a hard time seeing how you took that lightly. I guess we're all different, but even drunken, that's a game breaker for me.
              I get sick to my stomach just imagining someone I am with, and therefore have feelings for, doing someone else. Visualizing it all, seriously gets me sick.

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              I have, and it was devastating, mainly because I really trusted this guy and invested a lot into the relationship, emotion-wise. I can't speak for everyone, but the worst thing about it for me is considering that person special enough that he/she is the only one you want to be with, but you were never equally special in his eyes.

              I got over it, but I think I'm a bit more reserved about who I open up to now. That's probably a good thing though
              I have some trust issues due to past experiences. And for the simple fact than when I look around I see infidelity everywhere
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              Old January 18th, 2014 (7:07 PM).
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                I was cheated on by my previous girlfriend a good 3 times without ever knowing. Also, I've been led on a lot where I think I have something going then all of a sudden they cut it off and then move on to someone else. It really sucks and it makes me scared now for my current relationship. It makes you feel used and like you can't ever really trust anyone ever again.
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                Old January 27th, 2014 (2:29 PM).
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                The one and only relationship I've been in, ended a couple years ago, lasting 3 years and I never cheated on him. Not entirely if it that's true on the opposite side, but dear god, I hope not. Otherwise my impression of him will only drop further. Loyalty to friends and significant others is something that's really important to me so I can't see myself ever cheating on someone.
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                Old February 7th, 2014 (3:13 PM).
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                  I've had one real girlfriend (and by that I mean she was the only one who wasn't a fling,) and though I was tempted nearly every day by other females, no, I did not cheat on her. On the other hand, I can't say the same for her. Or, rather, I'm really unsure because I know she wouldn't have told me if she was cheating during the relationship, and we've had little to no contact after we broke up so I've never gotten the chance to ask. I do have my suspicions though, in fact I think she may have actually cheated on me with two different guys (based on an incident she told me in which, of course, she swore up and down that she didn't do anything with the guy; and based on observations I made on her interactions with the second guy,) which is really, y'know, freaking great. I'm probably jumping to conclusions here, so I won't definitively say whether she did or did not cheat on me, it's just hard to say.

                  I still have a lot of trust issues due to that relationship though. :/
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                  Old February 8th, 2014 (12:33 AM).
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                    Old February 8th, 2014 (7:23 AM).
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                      One time I got cheated on by my significant other. I don't really think that I got the whole story even now be cause nobody
                      bothered telling me what really happened, the only thing I really know is that I was dating her, then she stopped calling me
                      for a good week, haven't seen her for a few days.

                      What happened to her? I don't know, but she just texted me saying that she found someone else,
                      my best friend told me she cheated. How did he find out? I don't really wanna know, I have a good idea.
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