May i ask if you are the very kind of VERY OUTSPOKEN kind of person?
Because sometimes, the most outspoken of people are the ones who seem to rub people on the wrong way, especially if you are the kind of person who seems to think that what you value is right, and when you see other people go against your values and beliefs, you tend to see them as "Imbeciles". Just something i may be thinking about, since i have a bunch of friends who seem to be very outspoken on what they believe in, to the point of getting into petty arguments with myself occasionally :V
Also i will say this, at least for the internet side of the issue. I mean to say this in order to be of some help so here i go. In the internet side of things such as in forums, discord, etc, if you feel that there are people who seem to go against what you value or you like from the way they speak, the expressions they use, or their own opinions or whatnot, its easy (at least for me) to simply NOT REACT to any of these people whom you know you will not see eye to eye.
I've felt like that before, even in this forum. There are people in this forum who i didn't like, and at times, i felt like messing around and F*****g around with them by actually responding but under the guise of an alternate account where i would speak in a tone that's befitting of said alt. account to cause some unwanted drama and situations that people aren't asking for. I wasn't proud of what i did (and i may be getting in trouble for digging this stupid situation from the grave it was buried 70 feet under OMEGALUL), but at the end of the day, even those people didn't really care. And that's something that one should learn in order to reduce the baggage.
One of the best signs of maturity is to simply not react to EVERY Situation there is. Because while the average human life span can stay up to 90 years of age (depending on how healthy one is), we still have a limited time in this world before we eventually pass away and become a statistic. We can simply use the time that we have doing things we care about, and more importantly doing things to help improve our lives instead of reacting to people who we will feel hostile towards. Hostility, especially in the internet, is something that we can all easily skip over by knowing the simple yet effective method of "Not giving a ****" about things we shouldn't really care about.