are you the gay cousin

my favorite cousin is the gay cousin, bless his heart

I'm the closet gay cousin. Though I think some of my family suspects that either me or my cousin Casey at the gay cousins since neither of us have actively dated anyone. The only reason I'm under a stricter microscope is because Casey is seeking work in a church.

There officially is no gay person in my family. But I have a suspicion that my cousin is lesbian.

Hyzenthlay said:

There are actually no gays in my family.

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Tsutarja said:

Nope, and everyone in my family is straight

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Janp said:

There officially is no gay person in my family.

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I'm the bi cousin.

Pichu said:

I'm the bi cousin.

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then there is another

yea no, no gays in my family whatsoever, to my knowledge, not even myself

LadyJirachu said:

I hate that religion tries to turn people against their natural sexuality.

I wish that would just come to a complete end. Plus, it leads to A LOT of bullying :( But besides bullying from others it leads to SELF bullying.

And bullying in all its forms are evil.

Screw religion.

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Oh that's not what I meant at all. I have no idea if he's LGBT. I just meant the reason he's not under as much suspect as I am is because he works in a church. They think he wants to become a minister or something to that effect so it's possible he'll never get married because he's dedicating his life to the church. I didn't mean they're using the church to force him to not be gay. He's working there entirely voluntarily and even went to an out of state school just to get a degree in religious studies. I assure you his family is not forcing him or bullying him in ANY way.

I'd be careful about saying religion is the source of all hate though since I'm a devout catholic but I'm still demisexual. I've never felt compromised by my religion in any way. Christianity's motto is love thy neighbor as thy self even if not everyone follows it. If anything, the newest Pope has made the Catholic church as much more welcoming place for the LGBT community.

i don't have any gay first cousins BUT i do have a juggalo cousin

yes but i also have a gay cousin, much to everyones amusement...

Nope. I have a gay cousin - he's my oldest cousin on my stepdad's side of the family, and we're not that close, but I do like him and have pleasant memories of him from my youth. <3 I'm the asexual cousin, but I've never really told my extended family about that - not because I'm "in the closet", per se, I just don't feel compelled to talk about it. The subject isn't that important to me, and I must stress, I mainly just see these family members at holidays and birthday parties.

I... just realized I'm the gay cousin. I'm not out to my extended family though; I'm from a conservative area, so that doesn't mix well.

Although since I'm not really outwardly gay, no one in my immediately family really believes that I am gay. My parents still sometimes throw around the "girlfriend" word to see if it was a phase.

Hola! That'd be me