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Anti

return of the king

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Please don't lock or delete this thread.

Hello friends. I used to pop on the server periodically to check back in on everyone, but I haven't seen a single one of you there in months. Maybe I just don't check often enough, I don't know. As it has become tiresome trying to track down everyone and I don't want to send a bunch of VMs, I figured I'd just consolidate the effort here.

I was hoping for a no bullmuk, more sincere version of this than I've done in the past. It seems this community has died, and that's fine, but if that's the case I do worry there won't be many more chances to do this. So I'm going to do it now.

If you know who I am, you've been here a long time. Three years, ten years, doesn't matter really, that's a lot. I'm 26 now, so I spent something like a quarter or a third of my life as an active user here, which usually meant hours a day talking with strangers. Maybe there's an exception or two I'm missing, but I think this is true of most everyone I regularly interacted with who is (or appears to be) still around. I hope it doesn't sound too weighty--and I don't think it is at all--to say PC and its various social offshoots have been a significant part of our lives, and really our development as people. For many of us, we grew up here. A lot of us met significant others or lovers here and at least made a friend or two we still keep in touch with somehow. My siblings have met PC users I knew in my time here. My real-life friends know about many of you, by both username and name. PC doesn't bleed into my real life like it used to, but isn't it something that it ever did?

I'm sure everyone has their little pockets where vestiges of this community exist, maybe on Discord or whatever people might be using now, but as I am not aware of them and was only scarcely part of them when I was here, I am going to pry and ask everyone some things to fill in that gap for myself.

How is everyone? How are your lives going? What are you doing now? Do you feel happy and fulfilled? What are your struggles? How has this community affected your lives? How are things here? What feels relevant to share that doesn't address any of these questions?

While I want to withhold much of what I want to say to spare myself the potential embarrassment of posting this to an indifferent or dead community, I still want to share something myself. I left PC after returning for my senior year of college, and the two years that followed graduating were very unsettled for me. It's hard to achieve material security, especially when you spent your free time here and not developing marketable skills. But I did begin to self-teach Python a couple years ago at the recommendation of a friend, which eventually branched out into other programming skills. This eventually became a job. I appreciate the irony, though, that after years of deriding excessive CSS in RMTs or battle logs or wherever else it might have popped up, it suddenly...became my career? I don't know how that happened. Two years ago, I wrote a command line Pokemon battle sim--basically some poverty-ass Pokemon Showdown, to still be much too charitable to what I produced--and looking back on that I realize how bizarrely instrumental my time here was in letting me do "adult things" like developing skills and getting a job, moving into my own apartment, and spending embarrassing sums of money reliving the original spark for this hobby in the first place: the original WOTC Pokemon cards. Base, Jungle, Fossil, and parts of a few other sets, all displayed in my home. So in some sense I guess my time here is there for everyone to see, maybe hidden in plain sight for some, but most people important to me know that I was raised here, too.

I'm doing well. I hope you are too.

I'd like to hear from everyone, as the time between when I remember to check in here keeps getting longer, and I would really like to know how everyone is doing. And even if you have no idea who the hell I am but are or were affiliated with competitive battling on PC in a way that feels significant to you, I'd like it if you posted too.

And finally, to circle back on my plea at the start of this post, if I must justify the existence of this (definitely against the rules) thread, here, in "Strategies and Movesets", maybe we collectively earned an off-topic thread in our own community to process what the experience meant and continues to mean to us as individuals and as a community. PokeCommunity.
Why are the beautiful sick and divided like myself?

Nah

Age 27
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Heya Anti.

I suppose nothing much is really different with me, although I don't really battle anymore.
Nah ンン
“No, I... I have to be strong. Everyone expects me to."

Castform

Age 25
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Weather Institute in Hoenn
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7.2 Years
I don't mind threads like this actually. I think stuff like this serves more of a purpose than general feedback threads. Personally wouldn't mind bringing back the DCC here for everyone just to keep in touch more and chat about things that we feel could better the community.

You are right though, the community feels more or less dead. Not so much because of lack of effort, we've done a lot behind the scenes and had a lot planned, but I think people genuinely are exhausted with this generation. I know I am. When gen 7 was released I was having more fun than I have had in a long time but it quickly grew stale. We've had some decent activity with tournaments as of late but just no consistent activity.

I am very hopeful though that the upcoming gen is a huge breath of fresh air. We already have some events planned and a meta with a good portion of the Pokemon potentially not surviving dexit(please kill off Landorus), I think this could genuinely be the first time competitive Pokemon is revitalized for us.

On a personal note though, I am great. A bit too busy right now to contribute as much as I would like but things should change soon.

Dark Azelf

† Teutonic Terror †

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I am very hopeful though that the upcoming gen is a huge breath of fresh air. We already have some events planned and a meta with a good portion of the Pokemon potentially not surviving dexit(please kill off Landorus), I think this could genuinely be the first time competitive Pokemon is revitalized for us.
Needed doing along time ago. Some of the mechanics are weird, more weird than me. When i think something is weird, thats a problem. :P

On a serious note this community needs a kick up the bottomous. :(

Please don't lock or delete this thread.

Even with an obnoxious "thread deleted by Dark Azelf <reason>" for old times sake? :(


I was hoping for a no bullmuk, more sincere version of this than I've done in the past. It seems this community has died, and that's fine, but if that's the case I do worry there won't be many more chances to do this. So I'm going to do it now.

If you know who I am, you've been here a long time. Three years, ten years, doesn't matter really, that's a lot. I'm 26 now, so I spent something like a quarter or a third of my life as an active user here, which usually meant hours a day talking with strangers. Maybe there's an exception or two I'm missing, but I think this is true of most everyone I regularly interacted with who is (or appears to be) still around. I hope it doesn't sound too weighty--and I don't think it is at all--to say PC and its various social offshoots have been a significant part of our lives, and really our development as people. For many of us, we grew up here. A lot of us met significant others or lovers here and at least made a friend or two we still keep in touch with somehow. My siblings have met PC users I knew in my time here. My real-life friends know about many of you, by both username and name. PC doesn't bleed into my real life like it used to, but isn't it something that it ever did?

This hurts my feels. :(

While I want to withhold much of what I want to say to spare myself the potential embarrassment of posting this to an indifferent or dead community, I still want to share something myself. I left PC after returning for my senior year of college, and the two years that followed graduating were very unsettled for me. It's hard to achieve material security, especially when you spent your free time here and not developing marketable skills. But I did begin to self-teach Python a couple years ago at the recommendation of a friend, which eventually branched out into other programming skills. This eventually became a job. I appreciate the irony, though, that after years of deriding excessive CSS in RMTs or battle logs or wherever else it might have popped up, it suddenly...became my career? I don't know how that happened. Two years ago, I wrote a command line Pokemon battle sim--basically some poverty-ass Pokemon Showdown, to still be much too charitable to what I produced--and looking back on that I realize how bizarrely instrumental my time here was in letting me do "adult things" like developing skills and getting a job, moving into my own apartment, and spending embarrassing sums of money reliving the original spark for this hobby in the first place: the original WOTC Pokemon cards. Base, Jungle, Fossil, and parts of a few other sets, all displayed in my home. So in some sense I guess my time here is there for everyone to see, maybe hidden in plain sight for some, but most people important to me know that I was raised here, too.

I'm doing well. I hope you are too.

;-;

I'd like to hear from everyone, as the time between when I remember to check in here keeps getting longer, and I would really like to know how everyone is doing. And even if you have no idea who the hell I am but are or were affiliated with competitive battling on PC in a way that feels significant to you, I'd like it if you posted too.

And finally, to circle back on my plea at the start of this post, if I must justify the existence of this (definitely against the rules) thread, here, in "Strategies and Movesets", maybe we collectively earned an off-topic thread in our own community to process what the experience meant and continues to mean to us as individuals and as a community. PokeCommunity.

Make S+M great again? :(
Honestly i dont like this post. It hurts. I miss friends. I miss going on the server. I miss the community here. And i find myself despite wherever i am in life, coming back sporadically, hoping it will be like it was for so long back then. Im actually surprisingly upset because usually i flat out refuse, abhor and hate displaying any emotion because i struggle doing so probably because of how psyducked up i am lol, so for me do this takes alot because of this bloody post. PC has gotten me through some really dark days irl and i hate that the community/close friends have gone and i find myself some days simply searching through past threads, from 5, 10 years or even longer ago..... i really should be long gone by now but memories of people i suppose i was once so close to arent here to chat to anymore.

How is everyone? How are your lives going? What are you doing now? Do you feel happy and fulfilled? What are your struggles? How has this community affected your lives? How are things here? What feels relevant to share that doesn't address any of these questions?
Personal life "lol" if things had gone as planned id have been married way back in 2010 which you know so as for how its affected my life.....yeah lol. Yay for ghosts from the past. Met some really great people here over the years, wish i could have met more in person tho. Other than that im alive i suppose kind of sort of ish.

Im seeing someone at the moment and its going ok.

Job wise, i have my dream job as a strength and conditioning coach/personal trainer (i have the highest qualification in this field) and its going amazingly, best decision ive ever made and ive really made some bad ones lol. I want to get into physiotherapy at some point too. Im also looking to compete at (Olympic style for you infidels) weightlifting and looking at nationals in the future.

Post what you were/are withholding.

Also visit me again.

Also ive grown my hair out and have piercings.

Also you are ginger.

Also screw you for your feels post.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-vJ__T1QGmY

Also join me on a crusade to retake Constantinople.
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Yesterday holds memories in time
Remember me to the one who lives there
She once was a true love of mine †

Cid

Age 24
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Philippines
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11.6 Years
I'm doing well. I hope you are too.
Hey there, Anti. I only lurked this part of the forum in your guys's heyday, but I do remember you. I hung out at the battle server around late 2012, shortly before I left PC altogether to focus on life. Our experiences of this community may have been at different times, but I did enjoy the time that I had with everyone.

Right now, I'm doing alright. My life has been up and down. In my time away I experienced a few heartbreaks, took remedial courses, got a degree, taught university students, left that job for a year, and came back. I am now working on finishing grad school, and for the most part, I am happy. Maybe I felt a bit more fulfilled when I was teaching, but doing just one thing full-time is helping me cope a bit better. I envisioned myself being married at this point, but I haven't had the luck. Even just finding a stable job is proving to be difficult.

I admit a small part of why I came back to PC is because I missed everyone from the battle server. The server felt like a place I could always go to back then. It's a shame it isn't like that now. But I am glad that I still see some of the people I met there, either in other parts of PC or in PC's Discord.

I am hopeful that PC users can breathe life into this place again someday. If the Sword and Shield meta ends up being that one spark that we needed, I'd be more than happy to be here with everyone again.

It's good to hear that you are doing well. Your post made me feel for what you've been through.

wolf

Age 23
Male
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8,206 posts
11.1 Years
I really miss you all.

It would be cool if we made a Discord group to keep in touch! I suggested that to you a while back, Anti, but you didn't want to learn how to use Discord. 😩 And maybe sticky this w/ the invite link in case any old regulars come back to check on things.

I'm glad all of you are doing well for the most part. As for me, I'm fine. I was at community college for a few years up until this year when I got accepted into UVA. Still working towards that CS degree. While I'm enjoying my time here, it's exhausting with all the coursework. The more time I spend in college, the more eager I am for it to be over... I have to stop myself and appreciate it for what it is though. On an unrelated note, just this past weekend I went to Busch Gardens, Yorktown, and VA Beach, because I'm on a short fall break. It was a pretty big deal to me since I hadn't been on vacation in forever! Now I'm cramming for a probability midterm lol.
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Dragon

lover of milotics

Age 26
Male
Viridian City
Online now
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10,494 posts
6.1 Years
I've quit BSS sometime ago, but I still do wanna keep in touch with you guys if at all possible. I do miss those times.

Seliph

Lord

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It has been a while, hasn't it?

As much as I was engaged into trying to learn competitive during gen 6, I kind of hit rock bottom in gen 7 early on. In general my interest in the series kinda dwindled from then on onward and hasn't really gotten better. I also had to move and focus on rl, three years trade school and currently a job to work in. Doesn't help that I can only spend a limited amount of time on the internet these days.
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