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Old November 5th, 2013 (1:29 AM).
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Old November 7th, 2013 (3:43 AM).
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With that said, I also have no problem admitting another man is good looking. If you're good looking, you're good looking. It's obvious to everyone so why can't you say it without being called gay? I'm secure in my manhood, dunno why so many guys aren't. ::shrug::
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Old November 8th, 2013 (3:42 PM).
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straight male, but i fully support homosexuality in all ways, it's not my place to judge another person based on what gender they peruse so more power to you guys and gals!
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Old November 8th, 2013 (3:58 PM).
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Gay. Unfortunately my mother lacks to understand it and thinks it's in my head.

Every day is an uphill battle... O.o
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Old November 8th, 2013 (4:41 PM).
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Gay. Unfortunately my mother lacks to understand it and thinks it's in my head.

Every day is an uphill battle... O.o
Good luck! I hope she wises up eventually :/
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Old November 8th, 2013 (4:56 PM).
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Good luck! I hope she wises up eventually :/
Well, she sorta has reason to, since I actually had a crush on my female best friend around the time I realized; but I'm not bisexual. I can't believe I told you guys that... no one else knows except us two.

I call girls pretty if they are, but the thought of ever going too far with one grosses me out. O.o
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Old November 8th, 2013 (4:58 PM).
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I'm a bi female who leans more towards females. I'm 80% attracted to females, 20% to males. I realized recently--like a few months ago recently. I don't care what sexuality anyone is--it's whatever makes you happy. And I don't care if it's flaunted in front of my face anymore--it's fine with me. Just don't obsess over your sexuality.
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Old November 8th, 2013 (11:18 PM).
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She'll come around in time, AngelicSpirit. Don't let it worry you too much, it's a lot for a parent to take at first but she'll get used to the idea once she gets over her denial. If you need to talk to anybody you can VM me any time, or there's an LGBT Club here where you can talk to a wider audience about all your issues
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Old November 9th, 2013 (1:20 AM).
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I'm a straight man. Looking for love. Even though I'm a good flirter, I'm pretty shy too at the same time, which is kind of my weakness. (lol, sorry about that good flirter part but yeah...
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Old November 9th, 2013 (2:08 AM).
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I'm a bisexual female, though I do get more attracted to those of the same sex.

And AngelicSpirit, it'll be all right. At least she knows; she'll understand and accept it sooner or later. Good luck! :)
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Old November 9th, 2013 (2:13 AM).
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Old November 9th, 2013 (2:18 AM).
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Pfft I don't need humans I HAZ VIDEO GAMES... Yeah if I didn't have it get permission to go on Disney.com I might be more reliable. Personally I see no difference if you date someone the opposite, or same gende. Love is love, I see no need to argue over that.
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Old November 9th, 2013 (3:24 AM).
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Straight. I don't hate gay people or anyone like that. I had friends that were all kinds. Now to me it's a work in progress. Haha
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Old November 21st, 2013 (5:40 PM).
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Gay. Unfortunately my mother lacks to understand it and thinks it's in my head.

Every day is an uphill battle... O.o
I know exactly how you feel but with religion instead of sexuality.



Hmm I don't even know what I am, I got a 3 on the Kinsey Scale but its probably not valid because of my age. Also if I were to tell anyone I have never been attracted to someone of the same gender I would be a liar.
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Old November 21st, 2013 (5:51 PM).
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At your age, it is not so important to know what you are. Take your time and try different things out. There's no reason to rush things. For some people, it takes years to figure out their real sexuality. For others, it may not take that long. Also, for some people, sexuality is fluid which means that it can change over time. Especially when you've only hit puberty, it could change. But if you feel attracted to both genders now, then that's completely fine.

Don't force a label on yourself that you're not 100% sure about. And don't worry about telling others about it. This is only about you so if you feel uncomfortable telling somebody about it, then simply don't. You will know when the time is right to tell others
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Old November 21st, 2013 (7:23 PM).
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I'm more bi-curious. Like, I'm sort of curious of the same sex, rather than being attracted to them... if that makes sense? However, I do identify myself as being straight. I have no problem with homosexuality either.
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Old November 21st, 2013 (11:00 PM).
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i'm pansexual; i'm more attracted to a person's personality than their appearance; i could fall in love with someone without even seeing their face. i'm somewhat more picky about men than women, though.
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Old November 21st, 2013 (11:41 PM).
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Old November 23rd, 2013 (9:00 AM).
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Old November 25th, 2013 (1:06 PM).
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Honest question, why do all these labels seem to be such a thing with the younger "tumblr" generation? I don't see too many older people giving themselves 3+ word titles like 'aromantic pansexual bicurious lesbo gay fluid queer" (pretty sure some of those contradict but whatever).

I have absolutely no problem at all with anyone of any orientation but it's just puzzling to see people complicate it so much when you can just say "I like this or that or both"?
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Old November 25th, 2013 (1:19 PM).
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Honest question, why do all these labels seem to be such a thing with the younger "tumblr" generation? I don't see too many older people giving themselves 3+ word titles like 'aromantic pansexual bicurious lesbo gay fluid queer" (pretty sure some of those contradict but whatever).

I have absolutely no problem at all with anyone of any orientation but it's just puzzling to see people complicate it so much when you can just say "I like this or that or both"?
The SithPeople like dealing in absolutes. Using labels is the best way to concisely (not always accurately) describe someone's sexuality. Whether it be trying to explain to someone else who may not fully comprehend a person's sexuality that goes beyond a couple words, or perhaps whether a person is trying to place a limit on their own sexuality, labels are useful, but I agree with you, and do think they are relatively pointless in the grand scheme of things.


As to why the younger generation is getting into it, I'm not sure. My guess would be it has to do with the larger prevalence of the LGBT issue in more recent years, but then again, I don't know what the situation was like in past decades.
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Old November 25th, 2013 (1:23 PM).
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Honest question, why do all these labels seem to be such a thing with the younger "tumblr" generation? I don't see too many older people giving themselves 3+ word titles like 'aromantic pansexual bicurious lesbo gay fluid queer" (pretty sure some of those contradict but whatever).

I have absolutely no problem at all with anyone of any orientation but it's just puzzling to see people complicate it so much when you can just say "I like this or that or both"?
Well, people have such diffrent combinations of sexuality, they are confused on what they call themselves, which IS dissapointing they worry about labels, but then again is justified by the uniqeness of everyones sexual liking/situation.
I myself have had dreams on guys, because hell, some guys can be very hot/handsome.
Still, I am attracted to women more than men by a longshor, doesnt mean I may have some romantic liking twoards a man.
Its complicated, and we need to all accept the diversity of the situation, even those who dissagree with labels.
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Old November 25th, 2013 (2:00 PM).
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I'm bi-sexual, but have never dated a girl and am currently engaged to a guy. Perhaps because I've never really been with one, I'm very intrigued by females and thoughts of flirting with them. My fiance is actually perfectly okay with me dating around - we actually both had a mutual gf over the internet once, but there wasn't anything physical there really - but I'm really short and slight and have huge confidence issues that mostly prevent me from trying.

Also finding a girl who wants to be romanced when you're already engaged presents its own issues. x3 All in all I'm mostly content, but sometimes end up pining to try the other side. Girls are intimidating. :I

I can't say for sure, but I think I'd have a preference for post-hrt, pre-op transgendered girls. Not because I have a preference for "dudes" - I know they aren't dudes - but more because I have a preference for that type of lower body (post-hrt because I like melons, heh)? That might just be familiarity talking though.

I've also noticed I pay a lot more attention to a girl's appearance than a guy's when considering them in terms of whether I'd date them. Like, I have a tendency to be more shallow with females though I wouldn't not date someone nice just because they didn't meet them. I'm also highly interested in romance and the concept of romancing strangers.
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Old November 25th, 2013 (2:27 PM).
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