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Old August 18th, 2018 (5:53 PM).
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Been bullied all my school life because I had low level asperges and people never liked that I was off doing my own thing instead of what everyone else was doing.

Never had true friends at all, and it ain't starting now.
Same here, never had friends and I still don't, and I'm 28.
Being autistic comes with lonliness it seems
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Old August 18th, 2018 (6:40 PM).
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I was never bullied really. Few unkind jabs and comments, sure, but nothing that ruined my academic career or anything.

But I was a bully. I stopped when I got older (like middle school) and even apologized to some but, yeah. I think I was just following what others were doing and was an angry little mukhead to boot. :(
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Old August 18th, 2018 (10:55 PM).
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But I was a bully. I stopped when I got older (like middle school) and even apologized to some but, yeah. I think I was just following what others were doing and was an angry little mukhead to boot. :(
Same, kinda. I was never outright the bully but I was friends with a lot of "Mean Girls"-esque people in elementary/high school (there's no middle school where I live) so I just kind of grew up without thinking much of it. I was much less compassionate when I was younger and it wasn't until I grew up that I looked back and thought "those kids must have felt like crap when we did/said those things to them" and "wow, we were kind of assholes". I wish I did apologize.

I think I got some of it from my mom, too, she's also the gossip-y type and growing up around her just normalized the whole "picking on people for physical flaws" thing to me, and funnily enough I grew out of that but she still hasn't, and it makes hanging out with her kind of annoying sometimes because I wish she would stop talking about and point out other people's flaws to me, lol.
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Old August 18th, 2018 (11:16 PM). Edited August 18th, 2018 by ShinyUmbreon189.
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    I was bullied until I fought back. Was always quiet and introverted. I was different cause I could read people at an early age. I moved around a lot so I learned to use my hands. I never swung first nor provoked the fights. Everytime I fought back until nobody psyducked with me anymore. My last fight in school was in 8th grade but I also know martial arts so they got a dosage of that. Got suspended quite a few times but I ended up all right.
    It's just drama in school really and I wasn't about that bullmuk. In high school I was doing music so I got a bit of love for that. Lots knew I could fight and I was a level headed down to earth stoner that just rode the waves through his days so nobody really bothered me. Paid no attention in school whatsoever and passed all my classes.
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    Old August 27th, 2018 (2:13 AM). Edited August 27th, 2018 by LadyJirachu.
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    I was bullied on project pokemon forum. By one person, mind you, but said person said such loathesome things to me, I never want to return to that forum again for like a super long time...

    They called me names that I associate with killers. They tried to convince me that liking girly things is (pretty much...) devil warship.

    And, worst of all;
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    This person may of been, though we have NO PROOF OF IT, an old friend of mine from 2012


    Oh god. Just thinking about that person makes me want to throw a book at the wall or worse. How could someone so awful even EXIST?

    And people need to stop bad mouthing girly people and being girly around me. Period. What do you feel you have to gain, cultivating HATE in a person who would NEVER want to understand an emotion like that EVER? :'(
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    Old August 28th, 2018 (9:29 PM). Edited August 28th, 2018 by Gabriel8897 (Hello).
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      Yes unfortunately, i got bullied because i was overweight and autistic like everyone else, but it really hurted me as a person and i did cry when i was coming at home..., i also don't understand why they gain with it, imagine me, dealing with an racist bully or even an homophobic one, hell it would have been worse, also making fun of me saying like that i am in love with an girl that i didn't even known, god, what are happening to the kids of today.
      But now i'm 16, and i am kinda accepting jokes, and not taking things really not seriously, even if i'm out of school.
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      Old September 2nd, 2018 (12:42 AM).
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      For the majority of my life, yes. The irritating part is that my school system punished those who fought back oftentimes with equal punishment even if it was only to defend themselves from physical bullying, which I was oftentimes subject to. @_@
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        I have Asperger's syndrome/"high functioning" autism and bipolar 2 disorder. In addition, I've been overweight since I was about eight years old. Due to my poor social skills, my weight, and my tendency to cry easily, I was mercilessly bullied from the ages of 4 to 18.

        People would call me names like the "r-word", fatso, ugly, etc. One kid said he'd be my friend "if I weren't so fat". People would ask me out as a joke and then laugh at me if I accepted.

        Because of all of this (and more), I was hospitalized twice, both times on suicide watch. I still get very depressed at times, but never like that. I was also suspended twice for defending myself against bullies, but the bullies never got punished and were never forced to apologize (but I was).

        I still have trust issues with other women. In school, the girls I knew were catty and would spread rumors about you while pretending to be your friend. The guys were usually more direct if they didn't like you. I still get along better with men than women - my best friend is a man.

        Bullying and joblessness have both wrecked my self-esteem. If any of you who are reading this have bullied someone or have been a bully, please remember that you could ruin someone's life forever.
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        back in my schooldays, whenever somebody attacked me or my friends, i would stand up,
        go to their table and smash all their school stuff on the floor so they had to pick it up themselves ... actually i really enjoyed that lol,
        everyone who gets bullied can do that no matter how weak or scared u r

        at some point i got thrown out of school for misbehaving in general, however, i had a few close friends and in our class we never allowed someone to be surrounded by bullies, well that was the ONLY rightful thing we did that i can remember, otherwise we were bad kids smoking and drinking heavily even at 16.

        now i don't say we were role models, if everyone acts like us though, school wouldn't be such a horrible place for some ppl (but everyone would have bad grades)
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        Old September 12th, 2018 (5:02 PM).
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        Same here, never had friends and I still don't, and I'm 28.
        Being autistic comes with lonliness it seems
        Sorry for saying this, but I just see this as an excuse. I've seen many people with autism have fulfilling social lives, so I really don't think that's the issue.

        I'd say it's more of a negative mindset or lack of confidence, which also isn't synonymous with autism; not everyone who has ever been lonely is autistic.
        What you need is just more of what you're lacking and an optimistic view that things won't stay stagnant forever. But you gotta have the dedication to stick with that mindset too, I'd say. Not everything good happens overnight.
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        Old October 28th, 2018 (2:12 AM).
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        Old October 30th, 2018 (7:20 PM).
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          I feel like this is a question that can only be answered one way, in which case the "deep" aspect is questionable.

          That said,

          I have been bullied, harassed, and stalked both online and in person. Currently going through the courts regarding one particular individual who is guilty of the latter (and much worse) over ten years. Not super thrilled about having to write and translate a victim impact statement.
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          Old November 2nd, 2018 (2:05 AM).
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          Si. Fortunately it didn't last long, for it occurred in church school during middle school and we only went there once a week for an hour. While it was mostly little physical annoyances such as pushing, shoving, hair pulling, head slamming, etc, I ignored and went on my day. Yes I remember her face but oh it's been over a decade now. I don't hold a grudge and I'm sure that were she to see me again she wouldn't recognize me or recall. or maybe she would hmmmm
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          Old November 18th, 2018 (3:46 PM).
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          Yep. I've actually been bullied here before too... but that was several years ago. Things are better for me since I've matured and such. I also dealt with bullying in school as well. The teachers practically did nothing and blamed the bullying on my "odd behaviors". See, no one realized I had autism until I was about 12 years old at the time. By then, most of the bullying had phased out and wasn't as bad. I had a lot of my teachers bullying me too. One teacher stuck me into the back of the classroom facing the wall, and I wasn't allowed to turn around or anything. I have a few horror stories here and there... but I'd rather not bring them up.
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          Old November 18th, 2018 (3:51 PM). Edited November 18th, 2018 by SorveteQuente.
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            Yeah, I was bullied and humiliated a lot in primary/middle school times, and I think that's a thing that influences my life until this day. I'm a pretty shy person and I'm always afraid of doing things that involve other people (i.e. asking a question to the teacher, playing keyboard in front of others, etc.), my head always creates this paranoia where I fear people laughing at me/thinking bad stuff about me. It's just inevitable and I don't think how I'd ever be able to take this out of my head.
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              In elementary school, I got the sh!t bullied out of me. Everybody went out of their way to single me out and just overall attack me mentally, sometimes physically. They’d act like it was a crime to so much as sit by me. I assume it’s because I used to be a little overweight.

              It got better towards the end of elementary, in 5th and 6th grade. People went from bullying to simply leaving me alone, and then now in high school people actually treat me like a person (even if I don’t talk to anybody.) They respect my space but are still friendly, and trust me when I say that’s the best feeling in the world- not talking to anybody but everyone still knows who you are.
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              Old November 27th, 2018 (8:26 PM). Edited November 29th, 2018 by Pemderp.
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                There’s quite a bit so I’ll sum it up by grade.

                5th: Threatened to have my hand sliced with a hand stapler.
                6th: Shoved into a water fountain and got a sixth month long bruise.
                8th: Got yelled “no” by my crush’s friends until I started to get auditory hallucinations of them saying it to me.
                9th: Called a POS and had all the chairs at my table removed because I looked at couple the wrong way.
                10th: Namecalling and insults were hurled at me three times a week. (Autist, idiot, fat, gross)
                11th: Pictures of me were uploaded online with nasty captions. I also got glares and smirks from my former classmates.

                The last three years were at the same school. I got so tired of the abuse that I left. No regrets so far.
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                Old November 27th, 2018 (9:51 PM). Edited November 27th, 2018 by Amy May.
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                  my entire time in school consisted of me being bullied and becoming an all around general target.

                  In elementary school, i spent almost every recess sitting in front of the principal's office because i'm one of those people that don't put up with that crap and fight back. xD
                  ... then someone how "I" became the bully for being bullied and defending myself (including bodily harm :/ ).
                  ... got worse through middle school then decided was much better to be a complete loner through high school which i still don't regret.

                  I don't pay much attention to it now.. too old to care, at least when it comes to me.
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                  Old November 27th, 2018 (9:56 PM).
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                  Been bullied for over 15 years, mainly in elementary and middle school which made school a living hell for me but in the end I now make jokes about myself literally almost all the time as if i'd talk myself down.

                  No one really did anything against it during those times, pretty much was on my own and I'm not really someone that can stand up on my own back then, especially not against the rest of the school :'v
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                  Old November 28th, 2018 (5:04 AM).
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                  Briefly, in primary school and preschool. I can't remember what it was about now but I think it was over the fact that I'd tend to hang out with boys and not girls, so some girls would get really snarky about it? It isn't a big deal to me now that I think about it but I remember that at the time it definitely did bother me a lot. I also remember in preschool that these 3 kids would chase me around, but honestly we were all 4 at the time so I barely remember any of it.

                  In high school, only by one person and its more or less died down. This was more so in 7th grade, but I hated her and I still do to an extent. She would make hurtful comments that were about personal issues she had no business in? And she would always put you down, even if you did nothing or said nothing to her? Don't know what her problem was but yikes I hope that our paths don't cross after high school

                  But yeah I think now looking back on it - I've been pretty lucky in that I don't feel too deeply impacted by bullying. When I was younger, it definitely impacted me a lot more but I feel like I've coped with it OK and now I don't think about it. The only person who has left a long-lasting impact on me would be the last person I mentioned but even now I've just learnt to be like alright then... internally and move on if things do happen.
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                  Old November 29th, 2018 (1:20 AM). Edited November 29th, 2018 by Homeskulled Kid.
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                    Lord, no. If anyone had tried it, from when I was four feet tall to how I am now, then they would have gotten the royal muk kicked out of them. I used to long for someone to pick a fight with me just so I could retaliate and unleash all of this pent-up ferocity which has been chewing me up since I was conceived. Still do, really, and I know for a fact that I'd be good at it. Good pain threshold. Can get out of clinches. Can generally psyduck things up.

                    Physically strong, fierce, perpetually pissed-off, I'd make a genuinely wonderful bully. That is not a life choice I'd ever undergo, nor have I ever in any serious, non-joking capacity. My brief stint as a twenty-four carat asshole doesn't qualify. I despair to think about all of those bastards and rattataes who spend their lives trying to cut others down. They're wastes of space, not worth the hatred and will inevitably die in a proverbial hole.

                    Out there, in the real world, I'd be ripe for mockery. My memory is abysmal, I'm the slowest learner in creation and I don't know how to do anything practical. I'm damn lucky that I was protected from society's wrath, and when you hear about the antics of some children and teenagers... its enough to make you shiver. And I also know that you can't just break someone's face when they hassle you, which sucks.

                    When I was a bit younger, people always acted like I should have been hurled in the deep end with everyone else. They sort of glorified it, almost. Well, psyduck the deep end! The shallows are good. The shallows are fantastic. The shallows give your chance a mind to develop in an environment of purity and intelligent company, and then you go into the deep end once you're fully developed and not open to terrible influences.

                    Why send a kid to school when all that waits them there is subjugation, torment, outdated learning systems, predators, losers, bullies, illicit substances, venereal diseases and morons? And now they're rife with porn-addicted teenagers who pressure hell and heaven into acts that even the most die-hard Kamasutra patrons are afraid to try. Technology has only made things harder for them. Social media is a knife now. Only handle it with oven gloves and sports tape.

                    To those that survived bullying and the system in all of its toxicity, I salute you. You're psyducking incredible. To those who didn't, that's life and the attempt is to your credit.

                    Wow. This turned into quite a diatribe, and not one free of swearing, either. Not too off topic, I'm hoping. I'll finish it off with a suitably fevered footnote:

                    Psyduck the system and psyduck its envoys. God bless all of the people who defy them, survive them, and are still human when they emerge.
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