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Old October 24th, 2018 (3:44 PM). Edited October 24th, 2018 by LadyJirachu.
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Yeah, so i'm a 'girly girl'. And sometimes I read bad things about the life of being one. Why should I keep hating myself if i'm my own person, regardless of how others are acting? Really, whats the point? Everytime I SELF BULLY myself for being a 'girly girl', it worries all those I care about. It needs to end...completely.....

I need to relise 100%: Its. Okay. To. Be. Me. Period.

And just liking stuff is not harmful to other people :/
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Old October 24th, 2018 (4:08 PM).
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Here is how I see it, you be you, and if someone cant handle it, they arent meant to talk to you. imo and im sure a lot of people here agree, along with your friends, they enjoy you, and if you change it wont be you. (idk how much this is helping, if not then sorry)
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Old October 24th, 2018 (4:17 PM).
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Here is how I see it, you be you, and if someone cant handle it, they arent meant to talk to you. imo and im sure a lot of people here agree, along with your friends, they enjoy you, and if you change it wont be you. (idk how much this is helping, if not then sorry)
Don't worry, this is a good post you made... :) Thank you....

And by the way, my autism was triggered over something I read in a random member here's profile.

I was melting down and everything x_x; maybe after all this i'm gonna stay away from pc again for a few days...

I still don't get how I got triggered again. I thought i was more certain than ever that its okay to be me o_O;; autism is tricky...sorry if i started any drama though....
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Old October 24th, 2018 (4:22 PM).
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Well, you....shouldn't. There's nothing wrong with it. There's no reason to put yourself down for being a girly girl. You be you, honestly. Block out any self deprecating thoughts you have. Liking girly things and being a girly girl aren't bad.
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Old October 24th, 2018 (4:23 PM).
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I am also a 'girly girl' and that is totally okay. I can definitely say you should be proud of who you are, since you're already such a nice, compassionate, and understanding person. =) If you need to vent to anyone, feel free to message me. <3
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Old October 24th, 2018 (4:23 PM).
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if certain things trigger you, try and stay from it. Stick the general threads and messaging your friends. I know it helps me from getting mad, stressed or upset. And when I dont do what i said, it actually does make me upset, stressed, or even mad. Just a suggestion, its upsetting to see people needing a break because of members of the community.
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Old October 25th, 2018 (7:34 AM).
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    Well, you basically said yourself what I would probably tell you, so in my eyes you're on the right path.

    If you would feel comfortable sharing, I'm really interested about what made you start thinking negatively about being girly? What are the bad things about it?
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    Old October 25th, 2018 (9:29 AM).
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    Hey, you're already on the right track. Wanting to stop to hate yourself, is already half the work. It should be easy now, certainly since there is simply no reason to hate yourself.

    You are you. Period. And that's okay. No actually, that is great! You are an amazing, enthusiastic person to have around! And seriously, pretending to be someone you are not isn't going to do you any good. Really, just stay awesome!~
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    Old October 25th, 2018 (11:23 AM).
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    I have a similar issue in which I hate myself/talk negatively about myself and such.
    But the reasons are very personal and bad and I don't want to put it in public.

    I don't think there's anything wrong with being "girly", you're not hurting anyone, loads of people are "girly". Do what makes you happy and people will naturally gravitate to you.
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    Old October 29th, 2018 (6:56 AM).
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    You get to a point where you really don't give a psyduck about what anyone else thinks. You can never be 100% confident in who you are, and the opinions of others will definitely affect you to a certain degree, but they can only affect you as much as you let them. I live my life how I want to. After all, it's my life. I'm still working on myself, I still have days where I don't like who I am. But that's okay, no one is perfect; we all have parts of ourselves we don't like and could improve. What's important is that we realise that we have the capacity and potential to make meaningful changes to our lives that most importantly, stem from our own desires and not that of others'.
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    Old October 30th, 2018 (2:35 PM). Edited October 30th, 2018 by ShinyUmbreon189.
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      Don't let others define who you are. If a person has a problem with who you are, don't let your subconscious thought control you. Letting subconscious thoughts control you allows negativity to consume. Just acknowledge it, accept it for what it is, and move on. Don't live to impress others, do it for you. Don't dwell and stress on things you can't control. It sounds like you're breaking through and revealing yourself, it happens to all of us. This is a really fun stage in life cause you learn so much if you keep an open mind and awareness up through this transformation.
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      Old November 6th, 2018 (12:51 AM). Edited November 6th, 2018 by LadyJirachu.
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      Looked at this thread again.

      I guess i'm fine with being a 'girly girl' now, as long as i'm not hurting other people (thats really the thing i feared the most, hurting people, btw...) *shrug* Its not like liking cute things is giving energy to violence or hate....(i mean, stuff like care bears and my little pony theme around KINDNESS and FRIENDSHIP? :3)

      This world isn't black and white...i'm free to like whatever i choose, it isn't gonna turn me into an 'evil' person......and i shouldn't ever think it will o_O;;;

      No matter what other people have tried to imply to me.
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      I didn't make this but its wonderful and beautiful :3 x3

      Hiyo, i'm Jirachu~<3 Kawaii Pikachu and Jirachi cross, though now my favorite Pokemon character is Korrina; and I crush HARD on her lemme tell ya lol :3
      Jackster is a good friend of mine on this forum so be nice to him please.
      I wanna make other good friends here too ^_^
      Being girly is wonderful!!!!! :D


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      Please join my forum :D
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      Old November 6th, 2018 (1:37 AM).
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        Everybody's different in opinions and things they like as well as how they think things should be. Just be yourself and don't worry about judgment
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        Old November 7th, 2018 (9:43 PM).
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        A simple three point plan:

        1. Become aware of your problem (which you've already done)
        2. When you find yourself being down, remember that it's the fault of the problem
        3. amp your lifestyle up to 200%, because, quite frankly, there's nobody else who's as good as being you then...well yourself :P

        People these days like to think too much in groups. In fact so much, that they forget that first and foremost they're individuals.
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