Faith & Loyalty

Started by Melody August 12th, 2007 9:32 PM
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What do you value in a friendship/relationship

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Seen December 7th, 2007
Posted December 5th, 2007
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15.9 Years
I value both. Do I ever get both? No.

My friends are the least loyal people in the world. Or they were; we pretty much split up after elementry school. In 5th grade they all grouped up and ditched me from time-to-time. Ugh. Idiots! Now I don't have to deal with all of them. Just a handful.
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I value both. Do I ever get both? No.

My friends are the least loyal people in the world. Or they were; we pretty much split up after elementry school. In 5th grade they all grouped up and ditched me from time-to-time. Ugh. Idiots! Now I don't have to deal with all of them. Just a handful.
Join the club. Up until I rejoined PC none of my friends were loyal. They would befriend me and then a year later completely stiff me and hang out with others and make fun of me like everyone else did. XP
To this day I have only 1 loyal friend. My other friends I'm unsure about.
Seen April 8th, 2009
Posted April 8th, 2009
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15.9 Years
I value both, (voted thusly) in any relationship I have... sadly even in Business. Although I shouldn't. LOL
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I'd say both are equally important to me. I mean, what kind of friend do you have if they're not loyal? Or if they're not faithful? And same with a relationship. You'd want someone you can feel loyal to and have loyalty in return, same with faith. Without those I don't even think you could have a relationship.
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Posted October 1st, 2008
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Both are very important in a friend. If I couldn't trust them, then they would not be my friend.

So, I voted both.
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Isn't being faithful and loyal techniqually the same thing?
Tecnically no it isnt. Faith is beliveing in you. Like if you were accused of a crime you would never do would your friend doubt you? Loyalty is will they have the courage to stand by you while you are accused? Or will they just quit talking to you?
Seen August 31st, 2012
Posted October 23rd, 2008
671 posts
17.5 Years
Of course. Both are incredibly important to me!

I know the people I care most about would be loyal to me and vise versa, most definitely. I have complete faith in that :x

I've been ditched by people before, I suppose. But back then being 'best friends!' with someone was easy as anything, so finding a new one and ditching the old one was easy, too.

Never made me feel good, though.

So yes, I value mutual faith and loyalty above all other traits. Having a friend like that is really priceless! ^^
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Melody

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Of course. Both are incredibly important to me!

I know the people I care most about would be loyal to me and vise versa, most definitely. I have complete faith in that :x

I've been ditched by people before, I suppose. But back then being 'best friends!' with someone was easy as anything, so finding a new one and ditching the old one was easy, too.

Never made me feel good, though.

So yes, I value mutual faith and loyalty above all other traits. Having a friend like that is really priceless! ^^
Indeed. When both friends have both faith and loyalty to each other it's really awesome. ^^
Heh. And that's an understatement. I really cant find any words to fully express how happy I am to have friends like that. I do have one. ^^

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Posted June 14th, 2020
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Wow, was I the only one who voted "I really don't care?" o O;;;

I assume that this is referring to real life, and I personally don't really have any great super awesome friends IRL, and even if they didn't have faith in me, and even if they weren't loyal to me, they're my friends, I hang out with them, when I get home, they really sort of don't exist for me, because I'm not a social person.

Besides, I'm a hypocrite, but not to the degree where I expect something like THAT from my friends when I hardly ever give it to them.

But online, I would've voted both, because I know that I can give and get both from every one of my good friends. ;D And if I ever meet some of them in real life, then my vote changes~ <3

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Wow, was I the only one who voted "I really don't care?" o O;;;

I assume that this is referring to real life, and I personally don't really have any great super awesome friends IRL, and even if they didn't have faith in me, and even if they weren't loyal to me, they're my friends, I hang out with them, when I get home, they really sort of don't exist for me, because I'm not a social person.

Besides, I'm a hypocrite, but not to the degree where I expect something like THAT from my friends when I hardly ever give it to them.

But online, I would've voted both, because I know that I can give and get both from every one of my good friends. ;D And if I ever meet some of them in real life, then my vote changes~ <3
:\Yeah. I have a hard time beliving you dont care to be honest. Heh. I get the feeling it means a lot to you even though you say it doesnt.
And it was referring to both Online and IRL.

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:\Yeah. I have a hard time beliving you dont care to be honest. Heh. I get the feeling it means a lot to you even though you say it doesnt.
And it was referring to both Online and IRL.
Honesty? I have a hard time believing you have the right to judge what I'm like IRL. Not everyone in the world is filled with sugar.

And because you were referring to both, I answered to both, but my vote went to IRL.

I'm sorry if I'm not a saint, but I have no problem with me lying to others, and others lying to me, because as far as I'm concerned, there are plenty of people who aren't worth my time. I share the same motto as Kyoya Ootori, "They may exceed you in number, but not in value".

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Honesty? I have a hard time believing you have the right to judge what I'm like IRL. Not everyone in the world is filled with sugar.

And because you were referring to both, I answered to both, but my vote went to IRL.

I'm sorry if I'm not a saint, but I have no problem with me lying to others, and others lying to me, because as far as I'm concerned, there are plenty of people who aren't worth my time. I share the same motto as Kyoya Ootori, "They may exceed you in number, but not in value".
I'm not saying I have the right to judge you. Nor am I trying to. I was expressing how I see you as a person. I dont see you as a horrible person. I also realize that you are trying to break the mold. I respect that. I dont think you are 'a saint' and I dont expect you to be one. Just take it easy. I'm not trying to force you to be something you are not. Dont freak out because I belive you are essentially a good person. You cant shake my faith in your character once i've made my final judgement. Not that easily at all. Like I said before I know you aint a saint. But I know that you are capable of kindness and such. So dont be so hard on yourself.

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PT2004, stop it before you land yourself in trouble. This thread is NOT for questioning or commenting on other people, but rather YOURSELF. I suggest you leave her be and cut it out. If you have some problem with her, you can deal with it on your own time, or just plain leave her alone.

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Ok. No problem. Sorry for being a bother. Didnt know I was was breaking any rules. I'll bear that in mind When I post from now on. ^^
Just so everyone knows, I have no problems with her. Just speaking my mind. I meant no harm.
I will say no more on this. I wont cause trouble.