To Kirby00 (and anyone else)

Started by Iveechan July 10th, 2004 1:30 PM
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Dark bowels of Maryland
Seen January 12th, 2006
Posted January 12th, 2006
1,383 posts
19.7 Years
You said you weren't going to respond to my next private message. So here it is, in public. And yes, this is a message for other people too.

Look. If you see a website that offends or disgusts you guess what? DEAL WITH IT. I am SO sick of people giving me a hard time because my interests and sense of humor are what most consider odd. Last year this guy at another forum horribly flamed me because I drew anthro (he's a furry hater; furries are people-like animals. Some parts of the fandom has porn or "yiff" and it makes all furries look bad). People think I'm a pervert because I draw nudity and pregnant creatures. And now this certain person comes along and says that I have problems because of some of the content of my site.

What do you want from me? Do you want me to become a mod-loving, god fearing, rated G ever-so-polite drone whose favorite Pokemon are Mewtwo and Eevee? Why must people become so offended if something seems out of the ordinary like furries and jokes about erotic Hitmonchan fantasies? If you ever look at Maddox's site (that guy is so awesome) you'll see that hate mail and pleas for the webmaster to change do not work. They don't care about your feelings. A website is a personal thing and not everybody is always going to agree. So what do you do? Avoid it. Stay away from things that offend you. I've learned to avoid those stupid debates on TPM about religion and homosexuality because nobody's opinions ever change so it becomes redundant.

So, in short, you can not change somebody over the internet and if a site offends you then turn around and go away (forums are different since they are interactive). Oh yeah, and I predict a closing of this thread. That's all right, I just wanted to get this off my chest.

Dizzy

My Father is a Baron!

Age 33
Formentera, Espana
Seen August 26th, 2005
Posted August 26th, 2005
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19.7 Years
I never really liked that Kirby00 person, he put down my clubs like "The Fashion Club" we made a rule not to put anyone down, and he was like "well this could seriously offend someone"

Great Job Boss (err.. Iveechan!) for doing this! I will now become your follower and we will be evil together.
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Dizzy

My Father is a Baron!

Age 33
Formentera, Espana
Seen August 26th, 2005
Posted August 26th, 2005
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Funny, he kept dissing my club too. He said my X-Tina Aguilera sig would scare people away.
LOL he just loved to Diss people (and whatever they did), I guess... what can we do to prevent this *shocked look on face*
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Thanks to Pincushion for the blinkie :)


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Celadon, Kanto
Seen August 25th, 2010
Posted August 22nd, 2005
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Regardless of how much this person made you angry...I'm sure you must realize that this will only create a flame war should they read it. If they have a problem with you, then that's their problem, and you can make th concious choice to ignore it and move on. This will only give that person more fuel to argue with you.

Will a mod please close this before it gets out of hand?
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Gr8person62.2

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Age 33
Right here, dumbazz
Seen November 22nd, 2005
Posted August 6th, 2005
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18.9 Years
Heh, I wouldn't take that personally is I was Kirby00. It's all true, you don't like something, **** off and leave and pretend it doesn't exists. You don't have to complain about everything. The internet is not all gonna be G rated for the sake of children and people who think things should go their way. It's your personal website, your drawing, your interests. No onw has the right to just come in and diss them like it's an international crime and you should be hung for it. You know, I deal with a lot of people like that these days. The only thing that works is to ignore them because they have no power to change your life.
Meh~ I've really found so much better things to do than PC. It's not that I left, I just have better things to do right now and also for the next 8 or so months. I havn't "left" left.. just "kinda" left. I may post once or twice...
Celadon, Kanto
Seen August 25th, 2010
Posted August 22nd, 2005
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I agree. Even if he may have caused some problems, he's not the first and he won't be the last. A topic devoted to flaming him must be terribly embarrassing for him. I never had any problems with him myself. I suppose if I did, I might have something else to say.

Not only is it very mean, but it isn't allowed.
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Sometimes you are hungry.
Sometimes you are angry.
Sometimes you just don't think you have it in you.
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Dark bowels of Maryland
Seen January 12th, 2006
Posted January 12th, 2006
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WTF?! This topic was never meant to bash him. Yes, his comment is what caused me to start it, but it was meant for everyone to take, and I mentioned that other people gave me a hard time too. I didn't even know that other people had issues for him, he said he didn't want to read my next pm to him, so I made it into a universal topic. This is to discuss overly sensitive people, not one member. Whatever, this thread backfired like EVERY thread I start on this forum.

And so what if he's embarrassed? That one guy from the other forum I mentioned bashed me in my own topic and said terrible things like how I shouldn't procreate and how much he hated me. THAT'S bashing and that's mean. And you know what? That jerk is now a moderator of several areas of that forum and many people like him. So when people say things like I have problems if I have certain fantasies, I am going to strike back.

Celadon, Kanto
Seen August 25th, 2010
Posted August 22nd, 2005
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Well, whether or not you intended to bash him, you certainly did a good job of it.

Hello, Mr. Report Button.
Sometimes you are tired.
Sometimes you are hungry.
Sometimes you are angry.
Sometimes you just don't think you have it in you.
Those are the days.
Those are the most important days.
Those are the days when you need it most.
Those are the days that you want it most.
Those are the days you have the most.
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Kairi

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Seen February 3rd, 2021
Posted February 1st, 2016
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Of course not, anyone who honestly expects to change your beliefs and action through harassing you about it wont get anywhere.

Even though you meant for the thread to just be a statement about how people treat you, its bound to be a Kirby flame topic. Look at the first four replies after Nicks initial one. Im not saying hes innocent or even not deserving of some feedback for his actions, but this really only aides in bashing him. I dont ask you agree with the decision to close this topic, just that you might accept it to make things a little easier. Stillif you feel Im wrong, and I often am, please do PM me or IM me and we can talk it out. Ive been putting off making this decision trying to think about it but as I said I may be in error.