The Post Your Problems Thread Page 2

Started by Chibi-chan March 30th, 2008 2:30 PM
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Let's just say that the mind of a teenage girl is unpredictable.
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Chibi-chan

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The trust thing makes sense, since we both trust each other with our lives, pretty much.

I can't think of anything. I'm sure I've done nothing wrong.
If she liked me, then why wouldn't she just say?
Because she doesn't want anyone else knowing or she thinks you'll make a big deal about it.
I'm sure she doesn't want to risk you changing because of it so...she won't openly say it.


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Oh wow, I can't belive my thread was actually stickied ^^;;. Well some she may have a hard time expressing her emotions?

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Because she doesn't want anyone else knowing or she thinks you'll make a big deal about it.
I'm sure she doesn't want to risk you changing because of it so...she won't openly say it.
No disrespect to you, but I think you might be wrong.

I asked her if that kiss meant anything, and she said she'll tell me later; on myspace.

Spoiler:
even though when i explained it before and it sounded like i was saying that it didnt mean anything...well. i guessed i phrased it wrong.

cause i did mean it. just in different ways.
it didnt mean "i want you like that" or "things could happen between us."

it meant something more...deep.
like...

i know you so well. so please let me. i want to share something more with you than just a hug for once. i literally want you to be able to feel what i'm thinking.

i know that was a bad idea and it was very rash.

but i had to. i wanted to. if i didnt then, i never would.

but...even now, trying to explain it isnt working very well.
so.

i have a big big question.

The question was, "Will you give me another chance? Not to screw up?"

Of course, I said yeah.

"so that's what you needed to ask me?"

"sort of. yeah."

"sort of? there's more to it?"

"yeah.but not now."

Then we dropped that conversation.

Wtf.
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That's...pretty general, I guess, so...well...I got next to nothing DX

There could be a wide spectrum of things going on, everything from her needing to confide in you about something to her just needing to reassure herself that she has a really good friend.

For the second one I have an example: there was a fire near our house, and a family we kinda know had to evacuate. We basically took them in, and they have a daughter around my age. Anyways, this woman was like clinging to me and hugging me and stuff. I truly didn't know her that well at all, and it was awkward. Looking back, however, I think she just really needed to be certain that there was a person that cared for her and was sympathetic to her condition.

So I guess your friend could be doing something like that with you, except you know each other a lot better and it's kissing instead of hugging. I wouldn't go out and ask her what's wrong, however, because that's just a hunch. When she's ready to tell you what's up, I think she will, if there's even anything wrong in the first place.

Or maybe she won't. I don't know...I'm not a girl...she might be expecting you to pursue the conversation and get to the root of things. Opposite-gender types would probably be better at answering that, though.
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Alright I have a BIGGGG problem, what if you know something that you know will hurt a friend and possibly cause you to lose one too??? Yeah it involves a girl and I dont know if I should keep muh mouthshut or just tell my friend??

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It depends what the problem is. If it is that she is cheating on him then I always think they should be told. It is worse if they eventually find out that she has and discover you knew but didn't tell them. They will blame you for being hurt and will probably never talk to you again.

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Alright I have a BIGGGG problem, what if you know something that you know will hurt a friend and possibly cause you to lose one too??? Yeah it involves a girl and I dont know if I should keep muh mouthshut or just tell my friend??
We need some more detail...
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It's not my problem really, but I am concerned for my friend who may have SAD (Seasonal Affective Disorder) and I want to know if there is another cure other than the light box as it costs a lot of money. Or if there is anything I, as a friend whom does NOT live with her, can do to help.

Thanks a billion xD
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You do realize that you can report it to an administrator?
And this isn't the place to post this problem.
1. I believe this is the "post your problems" thread. Therefore, it's the perfect place to post this, because it is a problem.

2. I already have, but it's likely that Rukario will just side with mewthree w/armor, declare him innocent, and not believe anything a lowly supporter has to say.
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1. Problems with other members should be directed to the attention of the staff, not posted here.

2. Maybe then it would have been a smart idea not to delete the messages.

Anyway, you already seem to be discussing this with Rukario, hence proving your assumptions wrong, so there is no need to post here about it again.

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Okay so i like this girl and i think she likes me, what should i do!? I need suggestions on what to do! HELP PLZ!!!!!
It would be better to have a bit more information. How good is your relationship with this girl and perhaps even more importantly, how much do you like her? If you have a solid friendship with her, then I say you should just go for it and admit your feelings for her. If you don't really know her that well, try befriending her before making your move. That way, even if she doesn't feel the same way, you'll still have her friendship which you should value more than anything if you truly care for her. I know from experience that telling someone about your feelings might not be easy, but afterwards, even if things don't turn out as well as you might have hoped, it'll feel better. Trust me, if she really is important to you you'll hate yourself if you never tell her how you feel. Bottling up your feelings does no one any good. If she feels the same way, then good, if she doesn't, life moves on, but if you know each other well enough, you two should still be friends afterwards, and if such a thing ruins your friendship, she isn't worth the trouble to begin with.

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It would be better to have a bit more information. How good is your relationship with this girl and perhaps even more importantly, how much do you like her? If you have a solid friendship with her, then I say you should just go for it and admit your feelings for her. If you don't really know her that well, try befriending her before making your move. That way, even if she doesn't feel the same way, you'll still have her friendship which you should value more than anything if you truly care for her. I know from experience that telling someone about your feelings might not be easy, but afterwards, even if things don't turn out as well as you might have hoped, it'll feel better. Trust me, if she really is important to you you'll hate yourself if you never tell her how you feel. Bottling up your feelings does no one any good. If she feels the same way, then good, if she doesn't, life moves on, but if you know each other well enough, you two should still be friends afterwards, and if such a thing ruins your friendship, she isn't worth the trouble to begin with.
Not knowing is very annoying. Straight up finding out a good yes or no might put your mind at ease.
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um... I'm ashamed to be admitting this... -.-

so we're in Life Science this year, and now we are studying animals... that's all fine and dandy is it not?
Well, that's not QUITE the issue... it's... *cringes* HOW we study them...
*shudder* oh how we had to look at... dead animals... in this liquid... in a jar... *faints*

Somebody mentioned that next week we'll be................ dissecting stuff.

truly sickening how they make us do that... *shudder*

I for one will not take part in this.
But how can I get out of it...?

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um... I'm ashamed to be admitting this... -.-

so we're in Life Science this year, and now we are studying animals... that's all fine and dandy is it not?
Well, that's not QUITE the issue... it's... *cringes* HOW we study them...
*shudder* oh how we had to look at... dead animals... in this liquid... in a jar... *faints*

Somebody mentioned that next week we'll be................ dissecting stuff.

truly sickening how they make us do that... *shudder*

I for one will not take part in this.
But how can I get out of it...?
It's rather understandable that dissecting Labs make some people queazy and uncomfortable. That being said I took AP Biology my senior year and encountered a situation similar to yours. While I'm not usually uncomfortable with dissecting labs the last one we did was of the feline nature, and I have three cats at home. here's what I did to get out if it.

Go to the teacher and explain that deissecting animals makes you uncomfortable and that you would really rather not do it. If your teacher is at all reasonable then they will be more than happy to try an accomadate you with some thing that will teach you pretty much the same stuff, but with out having to actually do the lab.
Now I will tell you that throughout the course you may have to at least watch someone dissect something. (and just so you know stuff like earthworms and frog aren't that bad and every specimen that gets sent to schools dies of natural causes so there's nothing inhumane about them.)
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