The Post Your Problems Thread Page 23

Started by Chibi-chan March 30th, 2008 2:30 PM
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Age 30
Female
Sydney
Seen December 19th, 2009
Posted December 15th, 2009
400 posts
14.9 Years
:/ She is running away on her own accord and i am providing accomodation. AND. its not a school relationship, shes about an hour drive away from me and her mum started hating me (and her) after finding out that she was going out with me as a secret and her school grades have apparently dropped by heaps. and also that me and her had it... :/

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Razer302

Three Days Grace - Break

Age 32
England
Seen November 22nd, 2022
Posted December 13th, 2018
3,368 posts
17.1 Years
Ok well school age. I don't agree with you "having it" control yourself. Jesus I can why can't the rest of the underage population.

I doesn't make a difference if they are running away of their own accord and as you are providing accommodation you can be seen as an accessory to this and prosecuted. At least as far as I am aware.

I have a relationship like that. Parents always hate them as they see it as pointless to date someone that lives far away. I think that is caused by being scared of the daughter moving to be with you.

Running away defiantly isn't the answer. That is a very childish thing do to. Your have to act like adults to handle this and prove that she she is acting like the child and has to give her daughter more freedom.

Razer302

Three Days Grace - Break

Age 32
England
Seen November 22nd, 2022
Posted December 13th, 2018
3,368 posts
17.1 Years
Lol. I know that. If you were her uncle it would be time to call the police. xD

On a serious side. Running away= a complete waste of time. It just isn't logical. It is in no way the right thing to do. You have to sort it out with her mum and if her grades have dropped she has to sort that out. But if her mum is doing that there isn't anything you can do other than try to reason with her. Try telling your parents and see if they will talk to her mum. That sometimes works.

jasonresno

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Age 33
Male
Illinois
Seen February 13th, 2019
Posted November 12th, 2018
1,663 posts
18.3 Years
Yeah, if you act immature then that's how you'll be treated. Running away is stupid. Don't be dramatic and certainly don't do anything to tip the dynamics of your lives too much. Just muscle it out and earn her parents respect or at least acceptance. Tell her to get her grades and stuff together and deal with it.

Did I mention I got turned down for the loan?

Not happy.

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Age 27
Female
High in the sky
Seen July 9th, 2012
Posted February 8th, 2012
2,429 posts
15 Years
^ sorry :(

My prob:

Okay, my best friend, Ashley, moved to Kentucky and I didn't get to say good-bye to her. I can't find her Myspace, or anything. But she moved to Kentucky to get closer to her brother who she hasn't seen in 3 years, and her dad who she hasn't seen for a while.

Still, she was my best friend and we can't even talk anymore. And my other friend, Loren, is a bit bummed himself cause he liked her(he's 15 and she's 13) And before that, Loren got sent to the hospital to have sergury done on his spine, so he wasn't here when she moved.

How can I get over this? Please help.

No u!
Seen December 6th, 2008
Posted December 5th, 2008
99 posts
14.6 Years
How do I get this girl I sit next to at science to stop bullying me and calling me mean names when I say something? Also how do I get this kid dylan to stop threatning me whenever I do something? How can I stick up for myself? what can I say? Also how do I become a bully so I can get respect?

I get bullied all my life and I need advice.
Age 27
Female
High in the sky
Seen July 9th, 2012
Posted February 8th, 2012
2,429 posts
15 Years
How do I get this girl I sit next to at science to stop bullying me and calling me mean names when I say something? Also how do I get this kid dylan to stop threatning me whenever I do something? How can I stick up for myself? what can I say? Also how do I become a bully so I can get respect?

I get bullied all my life and I need advice.

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On topic:

Well the girl thing, if she doesn't have a boyfriend, or isn't going out with anyone, she probably likes you.

Dylan thing: Tell the principle or a teacher. In my school, if someone threatens you or hits you, you get a little talk with the deputy. And if you are afraid to speak up, kick Dyan's ***

Some ways to stick up for yourself are just the simple two words almost everyone uses "Stop it" or tell a teacher. Or the reason I took Martial Arts and got my black belt, DEFEND YOURSELF. If the person wants to pick a fight, just say "bring it on" and fight em. It can turn out good or bad, but you were defending yourself if you get in trouble.

Age 27
Female
High in the sky
Seen July 9th, 2012
Posted February 8th, 2012
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15 Years
I get bullied everyday and let people bully me.

I want to say something but I just cant.....

Thanks.

But kiara doesnt like me, in 8th grade she told me I was a ugly retarded nerd and will never get a girlfriend.

*slaps hand on forehead* Look dude, Ima girl. I know what we do to show we like a boy. I have told that to a boy once and ended up going bowling with him the next weekend and seeing a movie. Get what I'm saying?

And why? Are you afraid of what's going to happen if you speak up? If so, don't be. I know the person might try and "attack" you, but, if word gets to the principle, everything is gonna get straightened out. I promise you.

Something like that happened to me just a few weeks ago. This kid Shayne, was bulling me and he admitted to the principle he was just joking around to get closer to me.

Same thing with girls.

Kenshin5

Wanderer

Male
Oklahoma
Seen September 18th, 2013
Posted March 25th, 2013
4,391 posts
14.9 Years
I get bullied everyday and let people bully me.

I want to say something but I just cant.....

Thanks.

But kiara doesnt like me, in 8th grade she told me I was a ugly retarded nerd and will never get a girlfriend.
You dont have to say anything writing letters also work.When I went to high school you could just refer somebody to the consular if they were in trouble or doing something bad.Kids will be kids if I were you I would just ignore there ignorant comments cause what do they know she might end up living alone by herself in the future.

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YOUR MOTHER! (aka: England)
Seen August 1st, 2016
Posted August 22nd, 2011
2,629 posts
14.9 Years
Hey, I gotta bit of a problem. I like this girl and she kinda acts towards me in a way that (according to Dark_aero) means she like me. There's one major problem - she's about a foot taller. so yeah, awkward.

Male
Fish Spaghetti Town
Seen May 18th, 2016
Posted September 17th, 2015
3,543 posts
17.6 Years
Hey, I gotta bit of a problem. I like this girl and she kinda acts towards me in a way that (according to Dark_aero) means she like me. There's one major problem - she's about a foot taller. so yeah, awkward.
Wow...
You like her.
And she (appearantly) Likes you back.

But a foot taller...?
WOOPDY FLIPPIN' DOO.

A girl doesn't have to be shorter than you just so she can be "dateable".
So what?
She's taller.

That happens a lot in the real world.
On TV shows too, actually.
Ever seen Rugrats, even?
Tommy's dad is shorter than his mom.

She got the joy of being tall.
And trust me dude, a lot of guys that are in the same position as you think the same thing.
A lot of tall girls become outcasts like that.

Outside apperance shouldn't account for anything.
Inside is what matters. [/moral]
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Male
YOUR MOTHER! (aka: England)
Seen August 1st, 2016
Posted August 22nd, 2011
2,629 posts
14.9 Years
@ tacharine: please don't kill me :O

Its just a little awkward is all I'm saying. And its not purely height - its that while i am psychologically pubescent, less so on the physical side. Her? not so much.

Male
Fish Spaghetti Town
Seen May 18th, 2016
Posted September 17th, 2015
3,543 posts
17.6 Years
@ tacharine: please don't kill me :O

Its just a little awkward is all I'm saying. And its not purely height - its that while i am psychologically pubescent, less so on the physical side. Her? not so much.
I'LLEATURFACEOFFOMNOMNOM

*ahem*

so... She's farther in puberty?
That's kinda, a duh.

Haven't you even heard that girls mature faster than boys?
Technically, the equivalent for a girl being 13 to a boy is 15.

Awkwardness is just a way your self insecurity is saying:
"OH NO, DANGER DANGER!!! *explode*"

Maybe at some point you'll have some sort of big growth spurt.
Like you said, not so much on the psysical side yet, right?
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Age 30
Male
New York City
Seen May 21st, 2016
Posted May 16th, 2016
3,597 posts
15.9 Years
What do you do if all your parents do is yell at you and tell you to die and the only thing you want is for them to feel miserable like you do?
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Posted September 17th, 2015
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17.6 Years
What do you do if all your parents do is yell at you and tell you to die and the only thing you want is for them to feel miserable like you do?
Lemme guess Gym, They yell at you for being gay?
Or something along those lines?
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Age 30
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New York City
Seen May 21st, 2016
Posted May 16th, 2016
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15.9 Years
No. They don't know.
And never will, because I hate them.
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Posted September 17th, 2015
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17.6 Years
No. They don't know.
And never will, because I hate them.
So, what exactly do they yell at you about?
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Florida
Seen February 1st, 2009
Posted February 1st, 2009
484 posts
18.1 Years
Someone, and I think I know who, reported our dogs for barking. They want our dogs to be taken away, despite their dog being the worst in the neighbourhood.

We correct our dogs, they almost never correct their dog. But their darling little snookums couldn't possibly be the reason a suddenly quiet place started filling up with barking dogs? They've had their dog for a few months...my family has kept dogs here for twenty years, along with much of the neighbourhood, without problem. They bring home Ratty McYapper and suddenly there's barking everywhere? Hm...

We've taped some footage of the dog barking while our boys are quiet, but we're going to keep doing it. I'm still going to keep looking more stuff up, but does anyone have an advice for handling such wretched neighbours? I'm so angry I can barely think straight. =(

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Michigan
Seen December 5th, 2019
Posted December 5th, 2019
2,004 posts
14.9 Years
Someone, and I think I know who, reported our dogs for barking. They want our dogs to be taken away, despite their dog being the worst in the neighbourhood.

We correct our dogs, they almost never correct their dog. But their darling little snookums couldn't possibly be the reason a suddenly quiet place started filling up with barking dogs? They've had their dog for a few months...my family has kept dogs here for twenty years, along with much of the neighbourhood, without problem. They bring home Ratty McYapper and suddenly there's barking everywhere? Hm...

We've taped some footage of the dog barking while our boys are quiet, but we're going to keep doing it. I'm still going to keep looking more stuff up, but does anyone have an advice for handling such wretched neighbours? I'm so angry I can barely think straight. =(
Let's see... Ding dong ditching? Egging? Doing something to the dog? (ITS MUZZLE TIME!)

What if my dad is a control freak, and hates everything I do?
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Age 30
Female
Sydney
Seen December 19th, 2009
Posted December 15th, 2009
400 posts
14.9 Years
Someone, and I think I know who, reported our dogs for barking. They want our dogs to be taken away, despite their dog being the worst in the neighbourhood.

We correct our dogs, they almost never correct their dog. But their darling little snookums couldn't possibly be the reason a suddenly quiet place started filling up with barking dogs? They've had their dog for a few months...my family has kept dogs here for twenty years, along with much of the neighbourhood, without problem. They bring home Ratty McYapper and suddenly there's barking everywhere? Hm...

We've taped some footage of the dog barking while our boys are quiet, but we're going to keep doing it. I'm still going to keep looking more stuff up, but does anyone have an advice for handling such wretched neighbours? I'm so angry I can barely think straight. =(

Drench a steak in poision and feed it to their dogs?


No but seriously, you can confront them, or take the videos to the council :/

ohbabee


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Age 31
Female
QLD, Australia
Seen June 5th, 2022
Posted April 23rd, 2022
35,988 posts
17.5 Years
I really love someone (Macy <3), but other people think we shouldn't be together and they keep trying to make me change my mind, and go for some other dude, what should I do, give up my love?!