The Post Your Problems Thread Page 25

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kingofjokers

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Age 27
Male
Hillside IL
Seen March 28th, 2012
Posted October 9th, 2010
674 posts
14.4 Years
my dog died today she got hit by a car we buried her under her dig house and have all her stuff in there but i cant stop crying and cant stop feeling sad it like hurts in the inside of my heart every time i think of her and i start tearing up i need help to feel better if you could pm me with your answers to make me feel better please and thank you :'( :(
Age 38
Seen September 19th, 2009
Posted August 20th, 2009
261 posts
14.7 Years
losing a loved one is never easy, it's perfectly normal to grief their death, if it helps think of all the good times and think that most likely your dog is in a better place now^^

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Age 34
Roland Dille Center for the Arts
Seen July 20th, 2009
Posted July 19th, 2009
107 posts
14.8 Years
My condolences on the death. It's amazing how a pet can become so much more, how we can love and identify so much with them. To have her taken away in an untimely and brutal manner must be even worse. She'll be in my thoughts and prayers, as will you and yours. Grieve, and remember her, but remember too that death is best answered with life and that those who love us most would not want to see our lives ruined by their memory. Grieve, but live and enjoy life. Take this as a reminder to make a mark on the world in her honor and memory.
If death meant just leaving the stage long enough to change costume and come back as a new character...Would you slow down? Or speed up?

Guillermo

i own a rabbit heh

Age 28
Australia
Seen April 11th, 2015
Posted May 18th, 2014
6,794 posts
14.9 Years
Same thing happened to me, except we had to put our dog down. She was going blind and she had diabetes, so it was only fair on her half that we put her down. All I can say is stay strong, your family will support you and everything will clear up eventually. Grieving will just make your life worse. Remember the good times you had with her and just remember that she had a good life. Like Master Electrician said, she wouldn't want you to grieve over her death, so live life to the fullest and use this experience to push yourself harder in work and other things.
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| | le deux | | so-so-soulful
Age 29
Seen November 5th, 2017
Posted November 5th, 2017
3,499 posts
14.9 Years
my dog died today she got hit by a car we buried her under her dig house and have all her stuff in there but i cant stop crying and cant stop feeling sad it like hurts in the inside of my heart every time i think of her and i start tearing up i need help to feel better if you could pm me with your answers to make me feel better please and thank you :'( :(
Time is the best healer.
When my cat died I swore I would never get another cat. It took me a while to get over it, that cat had such a personality, some people see animals as an object but they have souls aswell. I'm getting another cat now, 8 years later, I saw that getting another cat wasn't a bad thing and I wasn't replacing my old cat. I'm no longer upset but I still remember that cat and always will.
Age 34
Roland Dille Center for the Arts
Seen July 20th, 2009
Posted July 19th, 2009
107 posts
14.8 Years
Well, it's come to this: Roughly three weeks ago, I broke up with my girlfriend. It was a long distance relationship, and looking back, one I wasn't terribly invested in. It lasted for four months, all told. I grew interested in another who reciprocated. We're currently together, and I have to say, very happily so. Unfortunately, my ex doesn't seem to be able to get past it.

It's infuriating, really. She's behaving childishly about the entire thing. I admit that I could have handled the breakup more gracefully and my temper during it, but point blank, I just couldn't handle being with her anymore, whether or not there was anyone else involved. I do still care about her and want her to be happy, but I'm just so sick of her doing everything she can to keep wallowing in self-pity that I talk to her as little as I can so as I don't wind up in another fit of pique. Any thoughts on how to control that anger?
If death meant just leaving the stage long enough to change costume and come back as a new character...Would you slow down? Or speed up?

Razer302

Three Days Grace - Break

Age 32
England
Seen November 22nd, 2022
Posted December 13th, 2018
3,368 posts
17.1 Years
Well, it's come to this: Roughly three weeks ago, I broke up with my girlfriend. It was a long distance relationship, and looking back, one I wasn't terribly invested in. It lasted for four months, all told. I grew interested in another who reciprocated. We're currently together, and I have to say, very happily so. Unfortunately, my ex doesn't seem to be able to get past it.

It's infuriating, really. She's behaving childishly about the entire thing. I admit that I could have handled the breakup more gracefully and my temper during it, but point blank, I just couldn't handle being with her anymore, whether or not there was anyone else involved. I do still care about her and want her to be happy, but I'm just so sick of her doing everything she can to keep wallowing in self-pity that I talk to her as little as I can so as I don't wind up in another fit of pique. Any thoughts on how to control that anger?
I think the best thing to do is to simply stop talking to her. While she is still talking to you she won't get over it and will remain as she is currently. (speaking from personal experience)

Guillermo

i own a rabbit heh

Age 28
Australia
Seen April 11th, 2015
Posted May 18th, 2014
6,794 posts
14.9 Years
Well, it's come to this: Roughly three weeks ago, I broke up with my girlfriend. It was a long distance relationship, and looking back, one I wasn't terribly invested in. It lasted for four months, all told. I grew interested in another who reciprocated. We're currently together, and I have to say, very happily so. Unfortunately, my ex doesn't seem to be able to get past it.

It's infuriating, really. She's behaving childishly about the entire thing. I admit that I could have handled the breakup more gracefully and my temper during it, but point blank, I just couldn't handle being with her anymore, whether or not there was anyone else involved. I do still care about her and want her to be happy, but I'm just so sick of her doing everything she can to keep wallowing in self-pity that I talk to her as little as I can so as I don't wind up in another fit of pique. Any thoughts on how to control that anger?
I'd recommend just changing the subject every time she brings it up. I've never been in that sort of situation personally, but I know good friends who've just changed the subject every time. Ignoring them just makes them feel more needy and most of the time become semi-attention whores, trust me. :]

People really have been annoying me lately, and stress has been building up. I've been thinking of actually hitting a guy because of his continuous annoyance.
Never, ever hit someone for being "annoying". The only time you hit someone is for self defense, or else you can be reported to the police and you'll be in serious trouble then. I'd recommend just... letting it go. Ignore him and just walk away and pretend it means nothing to you. Take all your stress out on a bag or something... I usually punch my pillow. Don't use a stress ball, they don't work. They just make your hands ache.

I think the best thing to do is to simply stop talking to her. While she is still talking to you she won't get over it and will remain as she is currently. (speaking from personal experience)
Not talking to them just makes them more needy and like I stated, they become attention whores. They won't stop bugging you until they get a reply.

So I've come to the conclusion that I hate my job and I'm seeking to remedy the situation! Wish me luck!
Good luck with that, jasonresno!
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| | le deux | | so-so-soulful
Age 28
Male
New Jersey
Seen September 3rd, 2013
Posted October 1st, 2011
731 posts
15.4 Years
I got one you guys might not have heard before.

My band recently disbanded and I have to start from scratch (again!). Anyway, they took their instruments with them and they were from my school, my age. No one else in my school can play the guitar or bass guitar that good, but we do have a backup drummer. I want new members, but I want people my age in the band and there is really no one else I can find. Any ideas on what I can do?

Guillermo

i own a rabbit heh

Age 28
Australia
Seen April 11th, 2015
Posted May 18th, 2014
6,794 posts
14.9 Years
If you really want a band so much, make one of those... bulletin things. You put all the instructions like where to meet, the preferred age, to bring their instrument and stuff on a piece of paper and stick it up all around your area.

That's really all I can think of. That or just... waiting patiently for someone to show up.
credittoDukey
one life, one chance


| | le deux | | so-so-soulful

Yrie

I'm done here. Ciao~

Female
...
Seen October 26th, 2015
Posted May 10th, 2010
879 posts
14.7 Years
Um...I'm sure someone out there likes them, there's always at least a couple.

@ Master Electrician - Your girlfriend is probably hurt over the whole thing and tries to make herself feel a bit better about it by behaving the way she is. I suggest you try to understand what she's going through at the moment, I mean, it's not exactly an easy thing to get over, and some people naturally take longer than others. Try to put it out of your mind for at least a small while each day, or take a walk or something calm, which usually helps.
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Deefie

it's hard to hold a candle~!

Age 28
Emmen, Drenthe(Holland)
Seen March 11th, 2009
Posted March 11th, 2009
29 posts
14.4 Years
Well, it's a long story....

I have this disease which makes my bones act unnatural(or w/e) It makes them grow tumors of bone on the bone, which can cause pain in my legs and arms.

Now esspecially around this time, it sucks.
I had surgery 4 months ago. They gave me a sort of metal construction, which corrects my bone.

Now, yesterday i had gymnastics i left,my theacher and i make an agreement, i didn't have to come, but now my theacher told the dean(spelling?) i wasn't there and i got into some serious trouble today...

I GOT SCREWED!!! D:

EDIT: YEEAAAHSSSSHHH, first post n.n

Deefie

it's hard to hold a candle~!

Age 28
Emmen, Drenthe(Holland)
Seen March 11th, 2009
Posted March 11th, 2009
29 posts
14.4 Years
what sort of trouble did you get into?
At least 2 hours of detention ><'
At most 5 Hours, and it wasn't even my mistake D:
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Age 30
Female
G8 meetings
Seen November 12th, 2012
Posted May 9th, 2010
1,133 posts
17.6 Years
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I'm officially a wreck. My dad is leaving my mom. It's done for them. She stole money from his bank account to help some guy she's probably in an affair with.

I need some help/advice. Please? I tried begging my dad not to go, but its not gonna work out.
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Age 29
Primp Magic School
Seen May 16th, 2011
Posted February 4th, 2010
1,166 posts
14.7 Years
People really have been annoying me lately, and stress has been building up. I've been thinking of actually hitting a guy because of his continuous annoyance.
hmm, like annoying in what way? maybe a good stress reliever (if u feel violent) is to take a punching bag and beat on it. if u dont own one go to the gym or something. if u need more advice PM me.


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NSW, Australia
Seen January 26th, 2020
Posted January 5th, 2020
3,956 posts
16.6 Years
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I'm officially a wreck. My dad is leaving my mom. It's done for them. She stole money from his bank account to help some guy she's probably in an affair with.

I need some help/advice. Please? I tried begging my dad not to go, but its not gonna work out.
As much as it's hard to come to terms with, it's usually worse if a couple that don't want to be together are forced to. Give it time, but remember they are still your parents and love you the same.
Good luck, though.

Kidpunk, you might want to try and teach some friends to play. Have you got any spare guitars they can use?
Age 29
the United of K
Seen July 17th, 2010
Posted March 8th, 2009
274 posts
14.7 Years
My best freinds parents split up aswell. He seems to be okay, though, so i hope you're okay once the dust has settled ^_^



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Age 29
Seen November 5th, 2017
Posted November 5th, 2017
3,499 posts
14.9 Years
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I'm officially a wreck. My dad is leaving my mom. It's done for them. She stole money from his bank account to help some guy she's probably in an affair with.

I need some help/advice. Please? I tried begging my dad not to go, but its not gonna work out.
It seems you like your dad a lot, can you not go with him? Just because it didn't work out between him and your mum dosn't mean it will affect your relationship with him.
Age 30
Female
G8 meetings
Seen November 12th, 2012
Posted May 9th, 2010
1,133 posts
17.6 Years
It seems you like your dad a lot, can you not go with him? Just because it didn't work out between him and your mum dosn't mean it will affect your relationship with him.

Well, he's not really my dad. He's my step dad, but he's the only dad I have ever had. I don't think he has custody over my brother and I, and he had done this to two previous wives before. I'm more afraid of how we're going to survive. My mom didn't finish school, where as my step dad finished high school. If he's gone, I don't know how we'll be stable.
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Razer302

Three Days Grace - Break

Age 32
England
Seen November 22nd, 2022
Posted December 13th, 2018
3,368 posts
17.1 Years

Well, he's not really my dad. He's my step dad, but he's the only dad I have ever had. I don't think he has custody over my brother and I, and he had done this to two previous wives before. I'm more afraid of how we're going to survive. My mom didn't finish school, where as my step dad finished high school. If he's gone, I don't know how we'll be stable.
I am sure he won't forget about you. He may be leaving your mother but he may still want to be in contact with you as it sounds like he has know you for a long time.

It doesn't matter about whether your mom finished school or not. If she is in a stable job and you want to carry on with school there is no reason why you shouldn't be able to you.

It was hard when my parents split at first but after a while I got used to it. The start of the break up is always the worst, but it is down to the two people and trying to convince them to stay together won't help as they won't change there mind and you will feel worse as you have asked them to stay together but they haven't, which can cause you feeling like they don't care about your feelings when they do and they feel that this is for the best.