The Post Your Problems Thread Page 27

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helix

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Age 31
Male
Seen January 21st, 2016
Posted October 7th, 2012
439 posts
15.4 Years
Eheh. I have a silly teenage problem. xD;;. Caution, up ahead lies a bit of a strange and complex situation written in detail just an idea of the feel of the circumstances.

So, I don't exactly hate but I don't like my female classmates either. None of them are good students, they all have shallow, inambitious personalities and the only thing they can talk (or scream about- they are quite loud..) about is how --ty the smallest thing is, how gay it is for two guys just to play wrestle, or what's going on in that soap opera. Therefore, I am the odd girl out in my classroom as I am serious about my studies, I like video games and anime and I don't like to raise my voice. Because of my interests, I noticed that in class I spend most of my time talking to the guys. During breaktime, I spend my time with two sisters from a lower grade, and we're good friends, but I never ever really click with the girls in my class.

There are fourteen in my class, with five girls and nine guys, counting myself. Though they do mix, most of the time the guys stick to the guys and the girls stick to the girls. Which makes it awkward for me, since I don't want to be alienated from the group of girls but I have fun hanging out with the guys too. I can bear with it, though. My real problem is this: I like this guy, very much. I care about him, I like working with him on school projects because he's a hardworking, ambitious person while also being a funny guy. However, like everyone else in the class, he's also concerned about keeping up an 'appearance' for the rest of the class. When it is just the two of us talking to each other, he's casual and talks to me normally, though usually he can't talk for long. When he's around friends, however, I notice that he's quite rude to me at times when I approach him.

I understand this, of course. My class is pretty immature when it comes to relationships- you hang out with a person of the opposite gender, by the next day the word has gone around that you two are 'deep in love' and a potential strong platonic relationship is ruined. And because the person I like is always surrounded by the tight circle of his friends, it's almost impossible to catch him alone. So I take whatever chance I get to get to know him better, and we're somewhat friends from these efforts, but he doesn't know I like him- at least I don't think so.

However, my girl classmates know that I like him. They're not very experienced with romance, however, so often they're bad at giving advice regarding it, and tease me about my affections. They throw out hints all the time in front of everybody, which unnerves me greatly. It's very annoying, actually.

Earlier today, school got out, and my female classmate asked me, "Why do you like him anyway? Are you desperate? You're desperate, aren't you.." And I hate that word 'desperate'. Her words left me disturbed. I'm a very affectionate person, I hang out with guys and I know many guys who are close, platonic friends of mine. So even in this circumstance when it'd be a better idea to hang out with the tight clique of girls to avoid conflict, why do I care about this guy so much and why am I 'hanging' with these dudes? I like it when I work hard and get good praise for it, and I soak up compliments from others very happily, and I'm wondering if these are actions to deal with a low self-esteem problem.

The bottom line is, I'm wondering if I'm desperate for affection and a feeling of self-worth. I've been thinking about it very carefully since my classmate suggested it. You don't have to tackle every single issue I've presented in this thesis of a post, but I'd really like to know if it's normal to want a some love. I can live without it, but I really would like to have someone to feel mutual romantic emotions towards myself. It's made me very confused..

Melody

Banned

Female
Cuddling those close to me
Seen March 4th, 2018
Posted March 2nd, 2018
6,459 posts
18.6 Years
Eheh. I have a silly teenage problem. xD;;. Caution, up ahead lies a bit of a strange and complex situation written in detail just an idea of the feel of the circumstances.

So, I don't exactly hate but I don't like my female classmates either. None of them are good students, they all have shallow, inambitious personalities and the only thing they can talk (or scream about- they are quite loud..) about is how --ty the smallest thing is, how gay it is for two guys just to play wrestle, or what's going on in that soap opera. Therefore, I am the odd girl out in my classroom as I am serious about my studies, I like video games and anime and I don't like to raise my voice. Because of my interests, I noticed that in class I spend most of my time talking to the guys. During breaktime, I spend my time with two sisters from a lower grade, and we're good friends, but I never ever really click with the girls in my class.

There are fourteen in my class, with five girls and nine guys, counting myself. Though they do mix, most of the time the guys stick to the guys and the girls stick to the girls. Which makes it awkward for me, since I don't want to be alienated from the group of girls but I have fun hanging out with the guys too. I can bear with it, though. My real problem is this: I like this guy, very much. I care about him, I like working with him on school projects because he's a hardworking, ambitious person while also being a funny guy. However, like everyone else in the class, he's also concerned about keeping up an 'appearance' for the rest of the class. When it is just the two of us talking to each other, he's casual and talks to me normally, though usually he can't talk for long. When he's around friends, however, I notice that he's quite rude to me at times when I approach him.

I understand this, of course. My class is pretty immature when it comes to relationships- you hang out with a person of the opposite gender, by the next day the word has gone around that you two are 'deep in love' and a potential strong platonic relationship is ruined. And because the person I like is always surrounded by the tight circle of his friends, it's almost impossible to catch him alone. So I take whatever chance I get to get to know him better, and we're somewhat friends from these efforts, but he doesn't know I like him- at least I don't think so.

However, my girl classmates know that I like him. They're not very experienced with romance, however, so often they're bad at giving advice regarding it, and tease me about my affections. They throw out hints all the time in front of everybody, which unnerves me greatly. It's very annoying, actually.

Earlier today, school got out, and my female classmate asked me, "Why do you like him anyway? Are you desperate? You're desperate, aren't you.." And I hate that word 'desperate'. Her words left me disturbed. I'm a very affectionate person, I hang out with guys and I know many guys who are close, platonic friends of mine. So even in this circumstance when it'd be a better idea to hang out with the tight clique of girls to avoid conflict, why do I care about this guy so much and why am I 'hanging' with these dudes? I like it when I work hard and get good praise for it, and I soak up compliments from others very happily, and I'm wondering if these are actions to deal with a low self-esteem problem.

The bottom line is, I'm wondering if I'm desperate for affection and a feeling of self-worth. I've been thinking about it very carefully since my classmate suggested it. You don't have to tackle every single issue I've presented in this thesis of a post, but I'd really like to know if it's normal to want a some love. I can live without it, but I really would like to have someone to feel mutual romantic emotions towards myself. It's made me very confused..
Not at all. You're not desperate. You're a perfectly normal young lady. I happen to feel the same way sometimes and in school I hated putting on a facade. Unfortunately for me, most of the class I had to put up with were so immature that I never had many friends.

Those girls aren't your friends, and you'd do well to remember that. A good friend doesn't make fun of you. Also it may be time for you to take a stand against the status quo, have a talk with the guy and actually let him know the same. If the other guys desert him just because he likes you, a girl, as a very close friend, then they really aren't his friends either. Be yourself. Don't let crowd ruin things for you. In the end, it'll earn you respect.

Belinda

Age 28
Female
Seen March 4th, 2018
Posted November 13th, 2017
2,211 posts
14.8 Years
Well, I'm pretty much scared for my Uncle right now,he has a blood clot in his legs,the doctors say if it get's to his brain it could cause him to die,I'm very scared at the moment I wish I could do something to help him,but I can't,he's one of the best Uncle's I've had,I go over every two weeks to check on him to see if he's alright,I just really need somebody to talk too you know,and I'm very nervous.
Age 29
the United of K
Seen July 17th, 2010
Posted March 8th, 2009
274 posts
14.7 Years
Well, I'm pretty much scared for my Uncle right now,he has a blood clot in his legs,the doctors say if it get's to his brain it could cause him to die,I'm very scared at the moment I wish I could do something to help him,but I can't,he's one of the best Uncle's I've had,I go over every two weeks to check on him to see if he's alright,I just really need somebody to talk too you know,and I'm very nervous.
I'm sorry to hear about your uncle :( I understand that it must be very hard on you at the moment...I was going through something similar sometime last year. All you can do is Persevere, and trust that he doctors will help him recover. ^_^ And of course, you should see him regularly, like you say. I'm sure he could do with talking to you! ^^



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BrandoSheriff

Has a tendency to figure things out

Age 28
Male
On an island with Hakaze
Seen February 8th, 2022
Posted June 6th, 2020
753 posts
15.9 Years
Ok. I have a problem, and like most dudes my age, it's a girl problem. Here's the story:

There's this girl at school. I only have one class with her, and that's 4th period. We've been sitting together and talking since September, and overtime, I've started to develop feelings for her. I've been getting signs that she might have feelings for me too, like when I gave a speech one day, I happened to notice her smiling at me. And this was only with me too. Another day, I could've sworn she was about to tell me she liked me, but the bell rang. And then later on, we got new seating arrangements, and now we're not sitting next to each other anymore. We're on like two different sides of the room. It's hard for me to get a chance to talk to her now. The only times we get to talk is if we get into the same group, or at dismissal. I don't see her much around the school either. But there's just something about her that feels right to me. I'm just being told "She's the one! She's the one!" all the time...

What should I do now? I need tips... :(

emoBill™

† мазохист †

Age 30
Male
Россия // Russia
Seen May 18th, 2010
Posted March 29th, 2010
763 posts
17.5 Years
From a girl: I'd say you should probably ask her out. You might say 'But I'm not sure she likes me!' Well, how much other stuff has she done to subtlely tell you she likes you? If it's nothing else, find out more about if she likes you or not, watch for more. Does she start up convos with you just to talk? Does she laugh at everything you say that's even slightly optimistic? Does she want to spend time with you outside of that period? If she does, she probably likes you and you should just ask her out.

Keep me updated, this sounds interesting.

You could actually just ask if she wants to see a movie sometime. If she says something like 'sorry, but i don't like you that way' you can just blow it off with a 'Oh, I didn't really mean it that way! I meant as friends.' Ta-dah. Yayz.
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i want your leather studded kiss in the sand

star88

colour blind artist [no joke]

Age 28
england
Seen December 24th, 2013
Posted October 20th, 2012
78 posts
14.7 Years
Ok. I have a problem, and like most dudes my age, it's a girl problem. Here's the story:

There's this girl at school. I only have one class with her, and that's 4th period. We've been sitting together and talking since September, and overtime, I've started to develop feelings for her. I've been getting signs that she might have feelings for me too, like when I gave a speech one day, I happened to notice her smiling at me. And this was only with me too. Another day, I could've sworn she was about to tell me she liked me, but the bell rang. And then later on, we got new seating arrangements, and now we're not sitting next to each other anymore. We're on like two different sides of the room. It's hard for me to get a chance to talk to her now. The only times we get to talk is if we get into the same group, or at dismissal. I don't see her much around the school either. But there's just something about her that feels right to me. I'm just being told "She's the one! She's the one!" all the time...

What should I do now? I need tips... :(
when you do talk does she say that you or stuff you say is cute or sweet. that is often a hint that some girls use.
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Age 29
the United of K
Seen July 17th, 2010
Posted March 8th, 2009
274 posts
14.7 Years
The hints that girls give tend to..be forgotten by boys. ^^' Lol We truly are a (mostly) clueless gender when it comes to the opposite sex. XD



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Age 30
Female
Canada
Seen July 24th, 2012
Posted August 24th, 2011
1,474 posts
14.9 Years
Well, I'm pretty much scared for my Uncle right now,he has a blood clot in his legs,the doctors say if it get's to his brain it could cause him to die,I'm very scared at the moment I wish I could do something to help him,but I can't,he's one of the best Uncle's I've had,I go over every two weeks to check on him to see if he's alright,I just really need somebody to talk too you know,and I'm very nervous.
Awwh, I'm really sorry to hear that BrightFer. =[
I know you must be very anxious for him, as you stated. Remember, just stay strong, enjoy and savour every moment you have with him, and don't be scared to express your love for him!
If you ever need someone to talk to, I'll always be here. You can drop off a PM/VM or something anytime. n___n
Ok. I have a problem, and like most dudes my age, it's a girl problem. Here's the story:

There's this girl at school. I only have one class with her, and that's 4th period. We've been sitting together and talking since September, and overtime, I've started to develop feelings for her. I've been getting signs that she might have feelings for me too, like when I gave a speech one day, I happened to notice her smiling at me. And this was only with me too. Another day, I could've sworn she was about to tell me she liked me, but the bell rang. And then later on, we got new seating arrangements, and now we're not sitting next to each other anymore. We're on like two different sides of the room. It's hard for me to get a chance to talk to her now. The only times we get to talk is if we get into the same group, or at dismissal. I don't see her much around the school either. But there's just something about her that feels right to me. I'm just being told "She's the one! She's the one!" all the time...

What should I do now? I need tips... :(
I've definitely heard something like this before! Well, since you're the guy, it's most likely going to be you who's going to have to decide what to do. You might want to confront her and just talk, althought as you stated, that's a bit hard. Maybe ask for her msn? I know that talking on msn usually makes people a lot closer, especially the people who don't get a chance to talk at school! But seriously, if you feel that she's realy the one you like, go for it! Just don't let it linger for too long, or else if she finds someone else or loses her interest, you might be feeling a lot of regret for not doing something when she was still interested.
From a girl: I'd say you should probably ask her out. You might say 'But I'm not sure she likes me!' Well, how much other stuff has she done to subtlely tell you she likes you? If it's nothing else, find out more about if she likes you or not, watch for more. Does she start up convos with you just to talk? Does she laugh at everything you say that's even slightly optimistic? Does she want to spend time with you outside of that period? If she does, she probably likes you and you should just ask her out.

Keep me updated, this sounds interesting.

You could actually just ask if she wants to see a movie sometime. If she says something like 'sorry, but i don't like you that way' you can just blow it off with a 'Oh, I didn't really mean it that way! I meant as friends.' Ta-dah. Yayz.
I agree with what Ratiosu said, this is great advice n___n Especially the movie part. You should try it out! :3

i wanna be the wind that fills your sails,
& be the hand that lifts your veil.
& be the moon that moves your tide,
the sun coming up in your eyes.
be the wheels that never rust,
& be the spark that lights you up.
all that you've been dreaming of and more,
so much more, i wanna be your everything.. <3

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Age 29
the United of K
Seen July 17th, 2010
Posted March 8th, 2009
274 posts
14.7 Years
Maybe ask for her msn? I know that talking on msn usually makes people a lot closer, especially the people who don't get a chance to talk at school!
Too damn true. MSN saved the lives of many of my own relationships XD Yet i don't have it any more...



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emoBill™

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Age 30
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Россия // Russia
Seen May 18th, 2010
Posted March 29th, 2010
763 posts
17.5 Years
I agree with what Ratiosu said.
Of course you do.
this is great advice n___n Especially the movie part.
Of course it is.
You should try it out! :3
Of course he should. It came from me. There's enough reason right there.

(Someone's feeling egotistical today...)
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Zet

Age 33
Male
Brisbane, Australia
Seen September 29th, 2021
Posted May 16th, 2020
7,687 posts
15.7 Years
Basic boy problem.....

Okay...well I have heard from 10 diffrent people that my friend, Shayne, likes me. But he says he doesn't. I want him to like me...but I think he does, he just doens't want to admit it.....any ways I can get him to admit it?
telling him how you feel about him might make him admit his feelings
Seen July 30th, 2010
Posted February 21st, 2010
3,312 posts
14.7 Years
Basic boy problem.....

Okay...well I have heard from 10 diffrent people that my friend, Shayne, likes me. But he says he doesn't. I want him to like me...but I think he does, he just doens't want to admit it.....any ways I can get him to admit it?
I'm just going to assume that you like him aswell. If this is the case, then I suggest that you tell him your true feelings that way you would feel more comfortable about telling you the truth.

Believe me if all girls did this, guys would be so much more open towards emotions.
Age 32
Wales
Seen December 18th, 2012
Posted November 24th, 2009
82 posts
14.3 Years
My friend has been seriously pissing me off lately -____-

Me and him were such good friends two years ago, but now it's just like he's a different person /:

I know it's just the agony of growing up, but I sometimes feel like I'm the one who has grown up since I was 14-15 and he has grown down /: I think he THINKS he has grown up, but he hasn't /: he's just acting more immature than before.

I just miss having fun with him and doing things on complete impluse, we used to just catch random busses places and just have fun in that town and what not =)) now we just do the same things all the time, and they bore me :(

He's also really mean to me lately :( I haven't even done anything.


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Be careful what you do.
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Age 38
Seen September 19th, 2009
Posted August 20th, 2009
261 posts
14.7 Years
My friend has been seriously pissing me off lately -____-

Me and him were such good friends two years ago, but now it's just like he's a different person /:

I know it's just the agony of growing up, but I sometimes feel like I'm the one who has grown up since I was 14-15 and he has grown down /: I think he THINKS he has grown up, but he hasn't /: he's just acting more immature than before.

I just miss having fun with him and doing things on complete impluse, we used to just catch random busses places and just have fun in that town and what not =)) now we just do the same things all the time, and they bore me :(

He's also really mean to me lately :( I haven't even done anything.
a similar thing has happened to me with a friend, his inmaturity and randomness isn't of my liking anymore, your friend is not growing down, you are simply becoming more serious and mature, perhaps an honest friend to friend talk about this will solve that problem, who knows, it could be that you two can adapt to each other, change should never be a reason for a friendship to end^^

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Age 32
Wales
Seen December 18th, 2012
Posted November 24th, 2009
82 posts
14.3 Years
I just can't stand change :( I know it's something you have to deal with.... at times I just wish everything could stay the same.

Then again, if everything stayed the same we wouldn't grow as people :(

I should be thankful that he was there to begin with, and he helped me become a stronger person today.

I'm more serious in some ways, like I can't deal with the way he acts around some people anymore </3 I just feel like telling him stop being so bloody pretentious around some people -____-

I just feel like an outcast around most people my age lately /: I think I've out-grown alot, it sucks.


Be careful what you say,
Be careful what you do.
I'm not bulletproof.



Spinor

&lt;i&gt;&lt;font color=&quot;b1373f&quot;&gt;The Lonely Physicist&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/i&gt;

Age 27
Male
Seen February 13th, 2019
Posted October 4th, 2015
5,175 posts
17.3 Years
Hahaha... Yes, it's a love problem this time again.

Ok, so like last week I met a girl new to the school. Love at first sight, and it happened non-sexually, which with me is rarer than a shiny Pokemon o.o'.

So then I said hi to her, when we looked into each others eyes, and I just didn't know what hit me, she was so beautiful I lost track of time and the enviroment, I don't for how long we stared until another girl chased me away.

The next day, I met her outside, we stared at each other again with all the love in the universe, she then looked away and walked to a group of friends, then another one chased me away ;_;.

Before anyone tries to press that "Post Reply" button, here's the catch:

She is hanging out with girls that completely hate me and know me as a "Disgusting Stalker" because I started off the year being a flirty guy who tends to be in many places at the same time.

She isn't very social but she still hangs around with them. And if I try to get near her, the others will comment negatively and try to chase me off. Worst of all, I am super Nervous
Because when I actually greet her, we tend to stare at each other, I think she has feelings for me, but heck, do I do a Reputational Suicide all the time.
Age 38
Seen September 19th, 2009
Posted August 20th, 2009
261 posts
14.7 Years
I just can't stand change :( I know it's something you have to deal with.... at times I just wish everything could stay the same.

Then again, if everything stayed the same we wouldn't grow as people :(

I should be thankful that he was there to begin with, and he helped me become a stronger person today.

I'm more serious in some ways, like I can't deal with the way he acts around some people anymore </3 I just feel like telling him stop being so bloody pretentious around some people -____-

I just feel like an outcast around most people my age lately /: I think I've out-grown alot, it sucks.
I am no stranger to what you feel, I don't act the way many people my age do, realizing you are not like the ones in your group is always hard, but it's not too difficult, as I said, an honest to heart talk with him might make him see your points and your problems, and perhaps it will help him mature himself, but be advised, with maturty patience must come as well^^

Hahaha... Yes, it's a love problem this time again.

Ok, so like last week I met a girl new to the school. Love at first sight, and it happened non-sexually, which with me is rarer than a shiny Pokemon o.o'.

So then I said hi to her, when we looked into each others eyes, and I just didn't know what hit me, she was so beautiful I lost track of time and the enviroment, I don't for how long we stared until another girl chased me away.

The next day, I met her outside, we stared at each other again with all the love in the universe, she then looked away and walked to a group of friends, then another one chased me away ;_;.

Before anyone tries to press that "Post Reply" button, here's the catch:

She is hanging out with girls that completely hate me and know me as a "Disgusting Stalker" because I started off the year being a flirty guy who tends to be in many places at the same time.

She isn't very social but she still hangs around with them. And if I try to get near her, the others will comment negatively and try to chase me off. Worst of all, I am super Nervous
Because when I actually greet her, we tend to stare at each other, I think she has feelings for me, but heck, do I do a Reputational Suicide all the time.
Ah yes, I have been friends with someone whose friends are my enemies, I know exactly what you mean, the best way to get through to her will be to find her alone, or to find a way to get her attention so she will approach you as well, or give you her email/phone, be aware that she might be feeling the same way and is afraid of having all her "friends" turn on her, so try it, I'm quite sure she will try to find a way to have a private meeting as well^^

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kissing. raindrops

just jump, you might fly &lt;3

Age 30
Female
Canada
Seen July 24th, 2012
Posted August 24th, 2011
1,474 posts
14.9 Years
Hahaha... Yes, it's a love problem this time again.

Ok, so like last week I met a girl new to the school. Love at first sight, and it happened non-sexually, which with me is rarer than a shiny Pokemon o.o'.

So then I said hi to her, when we looked into each others eyes, and I just didn't know what hit me, she was so beautiful I lost track of time and the enviroment, I don't for how long we stared until another girl chased me away.

The next day, I met her outside, we stared at each other again with all the love in the universe, she then looked away and walked to a group of friends, then another one chased me away ;_;.

Before anyone tries to press that "Post Reply" button, here's the catch:

She is hanging out with girls that completely hate me and know me as a "Disgusting Stalker" because I started off the year being a flirty guy who tends to be in many places at the same time.

She isn't very social but she still hangs around with them. And if I try to get near her, the others will comment negatively and try to chase me off. Worst of all, I am super Nervous
Because when I actually greet her, we tend to stare at each other, I think she has feelings for me, but heck, do I do a Reputational Suicide all the time.
GET HER MSN!
It works wonders. Ask her for her msn, and talk to her on there. I'm sure you'll be able to talk some stuff through, and maybe even go out for a movie or something? Sounds like you really like this girl. Do you have any classes with her? Maybe you could pass her a note in class or something. Otherwise, the best choice might be to just try and catch her alone sometime.
I have many friends who are also friends with this one girl who hates me (although I have no clue what her freaking problem is, she's dating my ex, and I introduced them, and I don't even hate her?), so I know what you mean by that group of friends who hate you. Don't let them get to you, as I didn't let this girl get to me, but it must be somewhat harder for the girl you like. =/ Just think about how you could act around her and stuff.

i wanna be the wind that fills your sails,
& be the hand that lifts your veil.
& be the moon that moves your tide,
the sun coming up in your eyes.
be the wheels that never rust,
& be the spark that lights you up.
all that you've been dreaming of and more,
so much more, i wanna be your everything.. <3

paired with alternative <3
Age 32
Wales
Seen December 18th, 2012
Posted November 24th, 2009
82 posts
14.3 Years
I doubt it tbh :( the only thing I can actually see working anymore is cutting him out of my life full stop.

He's quite possessive with me lately, and gets annoyed if I go out with other friends -____- Idk what's with him anymore.

Blahhhhhh.

Thanks for everything btw <3


Be careful what you say,
Be careful what you do.
I'm not bulletproof.



kissing. raindrops

just jump, you might fly &lt;3

Age 30
Female
Canada
Seen July 24th, 2012
Posted August 24th, 2011
1,474 posts
14.9 Years
I doubt it tbh :( the only thing I can actually see working anymore is cutting him out of my life full stop.

He's quite possessive with me lately, and gets annoyed if I go out with other friends -____- Idk what's with him anymore.

Blahhhhhh.

Thanks for everything btw <3
I knoww where you're coming from. =/ It's sometimes so much harder to talk to someone about how they're acting than it seems. I mean, one of my "best friends" right now just pisses me off when I see her, I feel horrible for how I feel, but I just don't like her as much anymore.

How does your friend see you? Do you think he could somehow like you more than as a friend?

i wanna be the wind that fills your sails,
& be the hand that lifts your veil.
& be the moon that moves your tide,
the sun coming up in your eyes.
be the wheels that never rust,
& be the spark that lights you up.
all that you've been dreaming of and more,
so much more, i wanna be your everything.. <3

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Age 32
Wales
Seen December 18th, 2012
Posted November 24th, 2009
82 posts
14.3 Years
The reason we're friends is because my old friend Abi (she used to be my best friend before she moved) used to be his gf, so I hanged out with them both.

But, then when Abi moved to New Zealand we still talked loads.

I really don't think he likes me like that... I mean if he did I'm sure he would have told me by now /: we've slept in the same bed together a few times (in parties and stuff) and he never ever tried anything on with me or anything.


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Be careful what you do.
I'm not bulletproof.



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Male
A capacitor in a power supply board.
Seen February 8th, 2016
Posted December 30th, 2010
1,644 posts
15 Years
OK...Here goes.

I take a "gifted course". It's called Challenge.
Basically, we do critical thinking mumbo jumbo.

Anyways, I used to like the class, but now, I dread going in that classroom.
I don't really like the people in the period I have the class either.
The teacher's ok, I just hate the work we do.
It takes forever, it's really hard. Plus, we're doing this "Around the World" project right now, and I just don't want to do it... Well, I don't really "just don't want to do it", I just don't really care about it...

I really want to switch out...but I don't know if I should or not...

Do you think I should?

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Age 30
Female
Canada
Seen July 24th, 2012
Posted August 24th, 2011
1,474 posts
14.9 Years
The reason we're friends is because my old friend Abi (she used to be my best friend before she moved) used to be his gf, so I hanged out with them both.

But, then when Abi moved to New Zealand we still talked loads.

I really don't think he likes me like that... I mean if he did I'm sure he would have told me by now /: we've slept in the same bed together a few times (in parties and stuff) and he never ever tried anything on with me or anything.
Ooh! I see, that explains how you became friends with him and your "relationship".
Yeah, then I'm pretty sure he doesn't like you like that.. If you were at parties and stuff, there must have been alcohol? Was he drunk? If he was and you guys were in the bed together, than he must of tried something, cause from personal experience, all guys are horn dogs when they're drunk. Even if he wasn't, though, you said "a few times", which is plenty enough for him to have tried something.
&& now he's just really mean to you? How about you explain some of the things he does.
OK...Here goes.

I take a "gifted course". It's called Challenge.
Basically, we do critical thinking mumbo jumbo.

Anyways, I used to like the class, but now, I dread going in that classroom.
I don't really like the people in the period I have the class either.
The teacher's ok, I just hate the work we do.
It takes forever, it's really hard. Plus, we're doing this "Around the World" project right now, and I just don't want to do it... Well, I don't really "just don't want to do it", I just don't really care about it...

I really want to switch out...but I don't know if I should or not...

Do you think I should?
This is in school, correct? First of all, have you tried to talk to any of your friends, teachers, or parents about it? I mean, if you expressed how you felt to them, you could have a better, more confident decision as to if you really want to drop the class or not. I know what you mean when you say you "just really don't want to do it". I've been there, and it just gets really frustrating and annoying. I suggest talking to your friends, teachers and parents first, clear your mind and tell them exactly how you feel. && if you really want to drop out after that, then have a talk with your parents about it, ask them for their opinions. Hope it works out <33

i wanna be the wind that fills your sails,
& be the hand that lifts your veil.
& be the moon that moves your tide,
the sun coming up in your eyes.
be the wheels that never rust,
& be the spark that lights you up.
all that you've been dreaming of and more,
so much more, i wanna be your everything.. <3

paired with alternative <3