The Post Your Problems Thread Page 47

Started by Chibi-chan March 30th, 2008 2:30 PM
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Anxiety.

Walking on sunshine.

Birmingham, England.
Seen February 5th, 2011
Posted June 16th, 2010
1,669 posts
15.7 Years
Oh wow, Aren't I problematic latley?

I like a Boy, who has a girlfriend, I like a Girl, who has a boyfriend.

I know the girl liked me, but I don't know when, and her BFF told me that she still might have a crush on me.

But I have been out with the boy I like, and me and him are really close. What do I do guys?
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Penguin13

Mountain Dew, Elixir of Life.

Age 33
Mililani, Oahu, Hawaii
Seen July 28th, 2010
Posted April 3rd, 2010
443 posts
14.3 Years
Oh wow, Aren't I problematic latley?

I like a Boy, who has a girlfriend, I like a Girl, who has a boyfriend.

I know the girl liked me, but I don't know when, and her BFF told me that she still might have a crush on me.

But I have been out with the boy I like, and me and him are really close. What do I do guys?
Hmm.. first off, homosexuality is wrong. So how with the guy you like that doesn't have a girlfriend.
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Male
YOUR MOTHER! (aka: England)
Seen August 1st, 2016
Posted August 22nd, 2011
2,629 posts
14.9 Years
Oh wow, Aren't I problematic latley?

I like a Boy, who has a girlfriend, I like a Girl, who has a boyfriend.

I know the girl liked me, but I don't know when, and her BFF told me that she still might have a crush on me.

But I have been out with the boy I like, and me and him are really close. What do I do guys?
first of all, if they're both in relationships, I suggest you keep away. Remember, you're going to have to deal with splitting up a couple and then you're going to be punished by your conscience...and probably by the girlfriend/boyfriend.

Zet

Age 33
Male
Brisbane, Australia
Seen September 29th, 2021
Posted May 16th, 2020
7,687 posts
15.7 Years
Oh wow, Aren't I problematic latley?

I like a Boy, who has a girlfriend, I like a Girl, who has a boyfriend.

I know the girl liked me, but I don't know when, and her BFF told me that she still might have a crush on me.

But I have been out with the boy I like, and me and him are really close. What do I do guys?
I'm afraid all you really can do is just go on in life, not much you can do there, unless you want to destroy a relationship and probably end up with nothing if that happens

processr

Age 30
Male
Southampton
Seen November 18th, 2016
Posted April 11th, 2014
1,608 posts
18 Years
I like a Boy, who has a girlfriend, I like a Girl, who has a boyfriend.
I stopped reading right there. Don't pursue either - both of these people are presumably very happy in their current relationships, so don't go and ruin four other people's lives just for your own selfish needs.

Anxiety.

Walking on sunshine.

Birmingham, England.
Seen February 5th, 2011
Posted June 16th, 2010
1,669 posts
15.7 Years
Hm. Thanks guys.

You made me sound like a right prick. But whatever.

You only told me what I already knew. Not very helpful.

@Penguin13 - I didn't ask if homosexuality was right or wrong did I? I didn't ask for your opinion on that so keep it to yourself. In fact, I found that offensive. Really offensive. Homophobe.
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Male
Fish Spaghetti Town
Seen May 18th, 2016
Posted September 17th, 2015
3,543 posts
17.6 Years
Hm. Thanks guys.

You made me sound like a right prick. But whatever.

You only told me what I already knew. Not very helpful.

@Penguin13 - I didn't ask if homosexuality was right or wrong did I? I didn't ask for your opinion on that so keep it to yourself. In fact, I found that offensive. Really offensive. Homophobe.
Well, I suggest that you keep with that boy you've been out with.
See if that works.

If not, you might as well pursue someone else you like.
Atleast, not anyone already in a couple, that is. ^^

That help?
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what will it be next?

Seen December 30th, 2022
Posted December 26th, 2022
6,407 posts
16.4 Years
Oh wow, Aren't I problematic latley?

I like a Boy, who has a girlfriend, I like a Girl, who has a boyfriend.

I know the girl liked me, but I don't know when, and her BFF told me that she still might have a crush on me.

But I have been out with the boy I like, and me and him are really close. What do I do guys?
Do 'em both.
Male
Fish Spaghetti Town
Seen May 18th, 2016
Posted September 17th, 2015
3,543 posts
17.6 Years
Do 'em both.
*Trips over*

Lolz.

Funny thing is, we replied almost at the same time, it seems.

EDIT: scratch that.
I posted two minutes before. XD
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dudegirl626

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Age 26
Female
California
Seen July 23rd, 2015
Posted September 8th, 2013
50 posts
14.7 Years
My boyfriend said that I had no life because I play Pokemon (he thinks its for babies), and I'm really upset about it, but don't know what to say to him. I need advice on how I can tell him that it really hurt my feelings.
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processr

Age 30
Male
Southampton
Seen November 18th, 2016
Posted April 11th, 2014
1,608 posts
18 Years
My boyfriend said that I had no life because I play Pokemon (he thinks its for babies), and I'm really upset about it, but don't know what to say to him. I need advice on how I can tell him that it really hurt my feelings.
If he's that in to you, so to speak, he shouldn't care whether you like Pokémon or not. Explain that you're a fan, and that it should in no way be an obstacle for your relationship, and also that what he said was hurtful. There's nothing else I can add, really. =/
Age 29
Male
Seen December 12th, 2010
Posted December 12th, 2010
253 posts
14 Years
My boyfriend said that I had no life because I play Pokemon (he thinks its for babies), and I'm really upset about it, but don't know what to say to him. I need advice on how I can tell him that it really hurt my feelings.
Go out straight and tell him. it's always good to be open.

I have a problem. I like a girl who decided to love one of my best friends. her friends assure me that it wont last long, but what do I do? tell her how I feel?
._.

processr

Age 30
Male
Southampton
Seen November 18th, 2016
Posted April 11th, 2014
1,608 posts
18 Years
I have a problem. I like a girl who decided to love one of my best friends. her friends assure me that it wont last long, but what do I do? tell her how I feel?
"decided to love" - I lol'd.

You can do nothing but wait. Don't mess up someone's relationship for your own needs, because it could potentially ruin two lives in the short term and leave you in a worse standing than before with both this girl and her current partner.

Also, a word of advice. Don't go about thinking that telling someone how you feel about them is suddenly going to make them ditch their current partner and run off with you into the sunset. Life is not a movie or a teen drama; it just won't work like that.
Age 29
Male
Seen December 12th, 2010
Posted December 12th, 2010
253 posts
14 Years
"decided to love" - I lol'd.

You can do nothing but wait. Don't mess up someone's relationship for your own needs, because it could potentially ruin two lives in the short term and leave you in a worse standing than before with both this girl and her current partner.

Also, a word of advice. Don't go about thinking that telling someone how you feel about them is suddenly going to make them ditch their current partner and run off with you into the sunset. Life is not a movie or a teen drama; it just won't work like that.
Right. Thanks. I wasn't expecting it to go like a teen movie, I just thought it might be a good idea. Ok next problem

My friends keep telling me to play out after school even though im permitted not to by my mum. any suggestions?
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Camisado

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Age 34
Female
Dorset, England
Seen March 17th, 2018
Posted January 23rd, 2013
1,032 posts
15.3 Years
Listen to your mother, I guess. I always have and still do.

Don't you have important things to do in the evening like homework?
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processr

Age 30
Male
Southampton
Seen November 18th, 2016
Posted April 11th, 2014
1,608 posts
18 Years
Right. Thanks. I wasn't expecting it to go like a teen movie, I just thought it might be a good idea.
It'd only serve to complicate matters, as I doubt a girl in a relationship would appreciate that sort of attention by another person at all.

My friends keep telling me to play out after school even though im permitted not to by my mum. any suggestions?
Your mother's word is more important than what your friends say. You may not agree with what she says, but she's most likely the one who cooks, cleans and provides for you - much more respect is due to her than to the kids who chide you for not being a 'cool' kid.

Alex

what will it be next?

Seen December 30th, 2022
Posted December 26th, 2022
6,407 posts
16.4 Years
My boyfriend said that I had no life because I play Pokemon (he thinks its for babies), and I'm really upset about it, but don't know what to say to him. I need advice on how I can tell him that it really hurt my feelings.
There's no advice that needs to be given, you just need to do what you need to do, and that's tell him. If he doesn't accept that, then you shouldn't be with him. If he understands, he's a good guy and will stop. Don't try to sugarcoat it or anything, you need to tell him what's up.

Reina

pandasaur!

Non-binary
New York
Seen October 21st, 2014
Posted June 14th, 2010
337 posts
14.1 Years
My boyfriend said that I had no life because I play Pokemon (he thinks its for babies), and I'm really upset about it, but don't know what to say to him. I need advice on how I can tell him that it really hurt my feelings.
Well, there are a few things you can do, I don't know you nor your boyfriend personally, so do what you think is right- but here are a few possible suggestions.

- Laugh it off! Sometimes you need to make fun of yourself. "What can I say, I'm a little kid inside!" Joke around a bit, and you'll feel better.

- Tell him straight up it hurt you. You'd prefer if he had something to say, like he thought Pokemon was for babies, he wouldn't say things like "You have no life", because it's hurtful.

- Let it go. Pretend he never said it, and you'll get over it. If you guys really like eachother, then it shouldn't affect your relationship in any way.

Either way, I'm sure he didn't say it with the intent to hurt you, which in my opinion, is the important thing. Do whatever you want, good luck, haha!

Zet

Age 33
Male
Brisbane, Australia
Seen September 29th, 2021
Posted May 16th, 2020
7,687 posts
15.7 Years
Hm. Thanks guys.

You made me sound like a right prick. But whatever.

You only told me what I already knew. Not very helpful.

@Penguin13 - I didn't ask if homosexuality was right or wrong did I? I didn't ask for your opinion on that so keep it to yourself. In fact, I found that offensive. Really offensive. Homophobe.
If you knew to not interfere with the relationships, why bother posting asking for help on what to do?

AuraAshley

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Age 32
Florida
Seen January 11th, 2011
Posted January 1st, 2010
527 posts
14.4 Years
i got a problem.

theres this guy, he has a gf. and him and i have slept together without her knowing(on multiple occasions). BUt i like his GF, i think shes awesome. And now im starting to feel real bad about it. if i tell her she'll get pissed and probably kick both him and my ass and if i dont tell her my conscience will continue to get to me. what do i do?

im invisible simply because people refuse to understand me
Age 29
Female
Everywhere~ o3o
Seen April 6th, 2011
Posted December 9th, 2010
256 posts
14 Years
As long as you stopped sleeping with him, which is definately the most right thing to do, you don't have to tell her, because it will hurt her a lot prolly... I mean I don't know her personally, but it'd hurt me if someone told me that sort of thing. It might be better if you kept it to yourself.
And remember, guilt and regret like that is meant to teach you something, so you should avoid situations where this could happen again in the future.
Haha. Hope I was maybe a little helpful. ^_^ good luck!

Gusxx1

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Canada
Seen September 19th, 2013
Posted June 4th, 2009
297 posts
14.2 Years
I disagree on keeping it from the person, yes it does hurt to know your friend/boyfriend did stuff to you, but personally i would rather hear from them then someone else or months down the road when you could be even more in love with this person. So, i'd say tell her, its not worth keeping it to yourself (Which could hurt you emotionally if you're sensitive) and letting this person stay with this guy for who knows how long and then her to find out months down the road he had cheated when she could be madly in love with him, its just not worth it. If i were you, i'd tell this person and if i got beat up, well then i deserved it.

Age 30
Aldeberar
Seen September 30th, 2009
Posted September 30th, 2009
321 posts
14.3 Years
i got a problem.

theres this guy, he has a gf. and him and i have slept together without her knowing(on multiple occasions). BUt i like his GF, i think shes awesome. And now im starting to feel real bad about it. if i tell her she'll get pissed and probably kick both him and my ass and if i dont tell her my conscience will continue to get to me. what do i do?
Be honest.
She may be pissed, but hopefully, if she's a good friend, she won't hold a grudge and you two can work it out.