The Post Your Problems Thread Page 50

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kingofjokers

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Age 27
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Hillside IL
Seen March 28th, 2012
Posted October 9th, 2010
674 posts
14.4 Years
Try contributing to the discussions at hand instead of just posting a stream of consciousness that makes little sense. Some capital letters and punctuation in the correct places wouldn't hurt either.

Also, if you think you've had any unfair rep then take it up with a higher staff member instead of posting here under the false pretence that it's some sort of problem.
Oh, okay fine I will start sing proper English and grammar hopefully that will work and sorry.

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Age 33
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London, UK (orig. Toronto, Canada)
Seen August 30th, 2021
Posted August 24th, 2021
10,993 posts
18.7 Years
I got a problem concerning the forums. I got a -24 rep and most of them are just a negative rep and i have like 2 that say i just don't like you. Thats my problem I don't know why people hate my post its just my opinion on the topic and they just give me negative rep. The other ones that give a reason are just fine but I am tired of people giving me negative rep what do I do.
Well rep doesn't really matter, but it can be annoying if you keep getting hate messages. You can probably just disable your rep in your control panel and forget about what mean people say to you.
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This whole rep abuse thing has been happening to me quite a bit also, even though I both contribute and use correct grammar. For example, this post got me 3 -reps in a span of 3 hours. After the 3rd one, I disabled my rep... but it seems a bit unfortunate that I had to do so.

Before I get flamed for -rep #4's comment, I recommend you check that thread for the offending post... I've never asked for +rep before.

Either way, I doubt any amount of staff help will change the fact that people are remarkably stingy with +rep and generous with the hate.
This already happend to me. The best way to stop them is to disable your reputation.
But as what that i have seen The 3 Red Reputations have no reason at all. It seems your talking to each other on a Reputation? Read " it obviously does" and the " Your funny bla bla bla thing". And we are not sure if you are really asking for reputation. And i don't have the power to look at it. So i think the Admins would talk care of this. I am just giving some suggestions about it. And i hope this suggestion helped.

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Posted February 8th, 2012
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I seem to have a lot of problems :D

Okay, so my boyfriend Kyle came over today and we all went swimming. And after we ate we sat down on this garden swing thing in the pool area. My friend Loren came over with a beer bottle in his hand(he is 15) and held it towards Kyle and was like "Wanna drink?" and Kyle took it and had a sip. He threw up in a bush a few seconds later, but kept drinking it. Then Loren started talking about him and his girlfriend and how he might've gotten her pregnant.

I'm afraid Kyle is going to start drinking and try to get me to sleep with him. I don't know how to handle this...!

Seen July 30th, 2010
Posted February 21st, 2010
3,312 posts
14.7 Years
I seem to have a lot of problems :D

Okay, so my boyfriend Kyle came over today and we all went swimming. And after we ate we sat down on this garden swing thing in the pool area. My friend Loren came over with a beer bottle in his hand(he is 15) and held it towards Kyle and was like "Wanna drink?" and Kyle took it and had a sip. He threw up in a bush a few seconds later, but kept drinking it. Then Loren started talking about him and his girlfriend and how he might've gotten her pregnant.

I'm afraid Kyle is going to start drinking and try to get me to sleep with him. I don't know how to handle this...!
Ask yourself these question:
  1. Is he a good person?
If you said yes, then I think you have nothing to worry about. If you said no, then I think you should either have them leave and take their drunken selves somewhere else or just break up with him.

Either way him trying to have sex with you is probably a little exaggerated. Are you even sure he's drunk?

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Canada
Seen January 11th, 2023
Posted November 9th, 2022
8,421 posts
19.7 Years
Loren is drunk because he just texted me saying he might get arrested. Kyle left hours ago and he wasn't drunk.
I think you'll do fine as you as you don't join them in the drinking. :P

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Seen July 2nd, 2011
Posted February 13th, 2011
184 posts
15.1 Years
hi again um I have one more problem. How do I become hot? I mean my pimples are all gone from pimple cream. But 'm still fat. What should I do to look more hot? Cut my hair? what!
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Age 33
London, UK
Seen November 4th, 2021
Posted November 2nd, 2021
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17.1 Years
hi again um I have one more problem. How do I become hot? I mean my pimples are all gone from pimple cream. But 'm still fat. What should I do to look more hot? Cut my hair? what!
Did no one tell you beauty comes from within?
  • Join a gym
  • Don't eat crap
  • Go out and have fun

Pretty much sums it up!

Zet

Age 33
Male
Brisbane, Australia
Seen September 29th, 2021
Posted May 16th, 2020
7,687 posts
15.7 Years
hi again um I have one more problem. How do I become hot? I mean my pimples are all gone from pimple cream. But 'm still fat. What should I do to look more hot? Cut my hair? what!
1. Get in shape and stay in shape
2. Get a clean stylish haircut
3. If you have a friend that is female go clothes shopping with her so she can help you pick out some attractive and stylish(or if you don't have a female friend, get a suit)

And that's all there is too it really

Reina

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Non-binary
New York
Seen October 21st, 2014
Posted June 14th, 2010
337 posts
14.1 Years
hi again um I have one more problem. How do I become hot? I mean my pimples are all gone from pimple cream. But 'm still fat. What should I do to look more hot? Cut my hair? what!
Hmm... Work out a little bit. Girls as a general (my friends anyway) tend to like more slender guys, but don't mind if you're a lil chubby x3 Get a clean haircut (like.. if its just all over the place and messy and impossible to take care of), make sure your hair is always washed and not greasy.. the obvious, take a shower every day! Or else you'll not only smell but your hair will look hideous. @[email protected];

Pokeyomom

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Oregon
Seen January 13th, 2013
Posted April 17th, 2011
743 posts
14.1 Years
Ok... I have some problems! Lol

1. I broke my nose awhile back... Not such a big deal.

2. The tissue became inflamed in my nose and gave me rhinitus. Kinda lame

3. I had to get surgery on it, because I could neither breathe nor smell anything. Alrighty

4. It's been some month's, and I still cant breathe through the damn thing! I still haven't slept right in a LONG time. Lame!

5. I might have to get another stupid a** surgery. Hopefully I dont look like Michael Jackson afterwords. Ticka ow!

Those are my problems:) Along with the fact that I have trouble swallowing food, laughing, and breathing of course. I have a sore throat all day and night. I know this problem is rather miniscule compared to other people's... But it gets annoying when such a stupid problem is causing so much trouble! Damnit! Ok im done- Thanks!

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Age 28
Female
Peach Creek...I wish.
Seen April 9th, 2011
Posted April 9th, 2011
1,119 posts
14.8 Years
Did you just need to vent that out, Pokeyomom?
"Not only do I not know what's going on, I wouldn't know what to do about it if I did."
"The reason I talk to myself is that I'm the only one whose answers I accept."
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Pokeyomom

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Oregon
Seen January 13th, 2013
Posted April 17th, 2011
743 posts
14.1 Years
Thanks guys:) Yeah my mom has some of the same crap, so maybe some of it is genetic? She has had like 4 surgeries, and has since developed an array of allergies and asthma... I guess it's getting me down some because I was always the 'health nut' guy that ate really good and hit the gym 4 times a week. I never got cold's/flu's etc.

I have an appointment this next week with a EarNoseThroat specialist. I hear this guy is pretty reknowned and very good at his job. So I feel lucky that my mom's insurance still covers me, and that I can address this issue head on. But yeah, I realize you guys can't help me, but it felt good just to vent:D Thanks.
Age 29
In a box.
Seen April 12th, 2015
Posted June 5th, 2011
599 posts
14.7 Years
Hey, I have a problem.
More like it's a problem with a good friend and I want to help her. I'm hoping I could get some advice from you guys. c:

I'll put it simply, my friend has a little brother, two years younger than her. He's pretty annoying to her, not like regular little brother stuff. He cusses her and her family out regularly, and sometimes even me and her other friends. He's violent, and just doesn't respect anybody. I'm asking my friend desperately to tell her mom, but she's scared she's going to be immature if she runs over to him every time her little brother cusses at her or her friends. However, she doesn't even want to go have a serious talk with her mother about how he's so disrespectful to everyone. Her mom even tells him to stop, and he doesn't listen to his own mother.
I know at this point, you guys think it's hopeless.
However, I've noticed that whenever his grandmother is present, he acts like a little angel. She's the only one he respects. So, I think to end this horrible ordeal, we have to have his grandma scold him/tell him nicely to respect his sister.
Do you have any ideas? This kid has this sharp knife thing, which was the turning point. He gets mad easily, and could hit someone (Maybe his sister) and could hurt her. It's like a cooking knife, and I have no clue how he got it.
I almost want to talk to her grandma about it, but I'm not sure if it's the best choice.
I know some people are going to say something like "Let your friend deal with it!"
But this is affecting me too, whenever I go to her house.

So please help? c:

Tinhead Bruce

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Age 28
Male
Ann Arbor, Michigan
Seen August 28th, 2014
Posted June 16th, 2010
1,110 posts
14.8 Years
Hey, I have a problem.
More like it's a problem with a good friend and I want to help her. I'm hoping I could get some advice from you guys. c:

I'll put it simply, my friend has a little brother, two years younger than her. He's pretty annoying to her, not like regular little brother stuff. He cusses her and her family out regularly, and sometimes even me and her other friends. He's violent, and just doesn't respect anybody. I'm asking my friend desperately to tell her mom, but she's scared she's going to be immature if she runs over to him every time her little brother cusses at her or her friends. However, she doesn't even want to go have a serious talk with her mother about how he's so disrespectful to everyone. Her mom even tells him to stop, and he doesn't listen to his own mother.
I know at this point, you guys think it's hopeless.
However, I've noticed that whenever his grandmother is present, he acts like a little angel. She's the only one he respects. So, I think to end this horrible ordeal, we have to have his grandma scold him/tell him nicely to respect his sister.
Do you have any ideas? This kid has this sharp knife thing, which was the turning point. He gets mad easily, and could hit someone (Maybe his sister) and could hurt her. It's like a cooking knife, and I have no clue how he got it.
I almost want to talk to her grandma about it, but I'm not sure if it's the best choice.
I know some people are going to say something like "Let your friend deal with it!"
But this is affecting me too, whenever I go to her house.

So please help? c:
Tell her that you can't come over until she deals with it. If you're in danger, you need to stop going over there. Friendship is one of the most important things in life. She'll know that you mean business, and it will help her out too. If she talks to her mom, and still nothing changes. Stay out of it. I know you probably don't want to hear that right now, but there is nothing you can do other than that in that situation. Doing anything more drastic, like getting the authorities involved, will do nothing but get her and her family mad at you. You can suggest things, like counseling, but don't take it into your own hands.
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Zet

Age 33
Male
Brisbane, Australia
Seen September 29th, 2021
Posted May 16th, 2020
7,687 posts
15.7 Years
Hey, I have a problem.
More like it's a problem with a good friend and I want to help her. I'm hoping I could get some advice from you guys. c:

I'll put it simply, my friend has a little brother, two years younger than her. He's pretty annoying to her, not like regular little brother stuff. He cusses her and her family out regularly, and sometimes even me and her other friends. He's violent, and just doesn't respect anybody. I'm asking my friend desperately to tell her mom, but she's scared she's going to be immature if she runs over to him every time her little brother cusses at her or her friends. However, she doesn't even want to go have a serious talk with her mother about how he's so disrespectful to everyone. Her mom even tells him to stop, and he doesn't listen to his own mother.
I know at this point, you guys think it's hopeless.
However, I've noticed that whenever his grandmother is present, he acts like a little angel. She's the only one he respects. So, I think to end this horrible ordeal, we have to have his grandma scold him/tell him nicely to respect his sister.
Do you have any ideas? This kid has this sharp knife thing, which was the turning point. He gets mad easily, and could hit someone (Maybe his sister) and could hurt her. It's like a cooking knife, and I have no clue how he got it.
I almost want to talk to her grandma about it, but I'm not sure if it's the best choice.
I know some people are going to say something like "Let your friend deal with it!"
But this is affecting me too, whenever I go to her house.

So please help? c:
I'm pretty much in the same boat as your friend, though my brother doesn't do anything to provoke/annoy people when other family members are around. It's even hard to ignore him. Though maybe your friend could get her brother sent to military school or something to make him straighten up and not be so annoying etc.

I know my advice really isn't helpful but it's all I can think of right now

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Age 30
Female
Canada
Seen July 24th, 2012
Posted August 24th, 2011
1,474 posts
14.9 Years
Hey, I have a problem.
More like it's a problem with a good friend and I want to help her. I'm hoping I could get some advice from you guys. c:

I'll put it simply, my friend has a little brother, two years younger than her. He's pretty annoying to her, not like regular little brother stuff. He cusses her and her family out regularly, and sometimes even me and her other friends. He's violent, and just doesn't respect anybody. I'm asking my friend desperately to tell her mom, but she's scared she's going to be immature if she runs over to him every time her little brother cusses at her or her friends. However, she doesn't even want to go have a serious talk with her mother about how he's so disrespectful to everyone. Her mom even tells him to stop, and he doesn't listen to his own mother.
I know at this point, you guys think it's hopeless.
However, I've noticed that whenever his grandmother is present, he acts like a little angel. She's the only one he respects. So, I think to end this horrible ordeal, we have to have his grandma scold him/tell him nicely to respect his sister.
Do you have any ideas? This kid has this sharp knife thing, which was the turning point. He gets mad easily, and could hit someone (Maybe his sister) and could hurt her. It's like a cooking knife, and I have no clue how he got it.
I almost want to talk to her grandma about it, but I'm not sure if it's the best choice.
I know some people are going to say something like "Let your friend deal with it!"
But this is affecting me too, whenever I go to her house.

So please help? c:
Gah, sounds scary. o___o I really dunno what I would do. How close are you to her mother, to your friend, and to her grandma? If you guys are best friends, you're really close to her family, really try to talk to her about telling her parents/grandma or both. You shouldn't be dealing with this kinda stuff anyways. >___< If you aren't that good friends, try to convince her to listen to you, and get mad at her if she doesn't. Tell her you're trying to help her and if she's not gonna listen to you then you will stop trying to help and stop coming over until she does something about her brother. Cause it could turn serious, and we all don't want that for you.

Tell her that you can't come over until she deals with it. If you're in danger, you need to stop going over there. Friendship is one of the most important things in life. She'll know that you mean business, and it will help her out too. If she talks to her mom, and still nothing changes. Stay out of it. I know you probably don't want to hear that right now, but there is nothing you can do other than that in that situation. Doing anything more drastic, like getting the authorities involved, will do nothing but get her and her family mad at you. You can suggest things, like counseling, but don't take it into your own hands.
Although this is a good idea, you stated that you don't wanna just let your friend deal with it. Well you should try to convince her some more, like I said up there ^. Anyways, best of luck to you, sweetie~

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Seen April 9th, 2011
Posted April 9th, 2011
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Hey, I have a problem.
More like it's a problem with a good friend and I want to help her. I'm hoping I could get some advice from you guys. c:

I'll put it simply, my friend has a little brother, two years younger than her. He's pretty annoying to her, not like regular little brother stuff. He cusses her and her family out regularly, and sometimes even me and her other friends. He's violent, and just doesn't respect anybody. I'm asking my friend desperately to tell her mom, but she's scared she's going to be immature if she runs over to him every time her little brother cusses at her or her friends. However, she doesn't even want to go have a serious talk with her mother about how he's so disrespectful to everyone. Her mom even tells him to stop, and he doesn't listen to his own mother.
I know at this point, you guys think it's hopeless.
However, I've noticed that whenever his grandmother is present, he acts like a little angel. She's the only one he respects. So, I think to end this horrible ordeal, we have to have his grandma scold him/tell him nicely to respect his sister.
Do you have any ideas? This kid has this sharp knife thing, which was the turning point. He gets mad easily, and could hit someone (Maybe his sister) and could hurt her. It's like a cooking knife, and I have no clue how he got it.
I almost want to talk to her grandma about it, but I'm not sure if it's the best choice.
I know some people are going to say something like "Let your friend deal with it!"
But this is affecting me too, whenever I go to her house.

So please help? c:
Since his grandma seems to be the only person he respects as of now, it's probably best if you talk to her. He most likely won't listen to anyone else he disrepects.
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Age 28
Seen February 27th, 2015
Posted February 15th, 2011
603 posts
15.5 Years
Hey, I have a problem.
More like it's a problem with a good friend and I want to help her. I'm hoping I could get some advice from you guys. c:

I'll put it simply, my friend has a little brother, two years younger than her. He's pretty annoying to her, not like regular little brother stuff. He cusses her and her family out regularly, and sometimes even me and her other friends. He's violent, and just doesn't respect anybody. I'm asking my friend desperately to tell her mom, but she's scared she's going to be immature if she runs over to him every time her little brother cusses at her or her friends. However, she doesn't even want to go have a serious talk with her mother about how he's so disrespectful to everyone. Her mom even tells him to stop, and he doesn't listen to his own mother.
I know at this point, you guys think it's hopeless.
However, I've noticed that whenever his grandmother is present, he acts like a little angel. She's the only one he respects. So, I think to end this horrible ordeal, we have to have his grandma scold him/tell him nicely to respect his sister.
Do you have any ideas? This kid has this sharp knife thing, which was the turning point. He gets mad easily, and could hit someone (Maybe his sister) and could hurt her. It's like a cooking knife, and I have no clue how he got it.
I almost want to talk to her grandma about it, but I'm not sure if it's the best choice.
I know some people are going to say something like "Let your friend deal with it!"
But this is affecting me too, whenever I go to her house.

So please help? c:

if hes a little squirt who you think could also disrespect the law the best thing to do is set him up for something agaisnt the law then involve the cops.

or get your freind to go out with the hardest kid in the year and get him to beat the git up :P
he'll soon respect everybody hes been rude to :D


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