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View Poll Results: Which matters most in a BF/GF?
Looks. 1 7.14%
Personality. (type of person they are, ect.) 13 92.86%
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Old October 20th, 2003 (6:39 PM). Edited October 21st, 2003 by Soph.
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    Okay when some one talks about their boyfreind or girlifreind or about some one they hve a crush on the first words out of their mouth are usually 'oh, hes so hot!' or 'she's so cute!'

    lots of people like some one based mainly on how they look. people judge other on how hot or cute or whatever their boyfreind/girlfreind is. But what about the persons personality? is it really fair to like some oe only for how they look?

    My boyfreind is the sweetest guy i have ever known. i couldnt care if he grew horns and a tail, i would like him the same.

    and yet, so many people disregard personality and nature of a person in favour of looks. so, what do u think matters most? wouls you rather a hot person whois a jerk or an ungly, but nice person. okay soi its great to have both, but im not asking that, i want to hear what u all think...which matters most, looks or personality...and why?
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      Oh, man by far personallity is the most importent thing! i mean at my school all the "hot" girls are going out with jocks and "popular" people, but i could care less about them! but yeah, trust me being beutiful is not the way to look for a BF/GF!
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        You know most people will say personality simply because it is the "cool" answer. ;p
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          well im hoping people will be honest here. honesty is the best policy and to have a good discussion we need HONEST opinion!
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            You know most people will say personality simply because it is the "cool" answer. ;p
            Lol, that's true, but I'm going to be honest...

            I think looks matter, but personality is what keeps a relationship together. If you've noticed, a lot of famous couples that everyone thought looked 'sooooo cute' together, usually are the ones that end up breaking up? If someone I liked was being rude to me or anyone that I cared about, then they'd be off my list faster than they could apologize. ; I'm not one to tolerate being taken advantage of. So.. to answer your question, personality is the most important to me. Welp, I bet none of that made sense. *shrugs*
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              Both... but I don't want to date with a popular boy that picks on unpopular people.
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                Lol, that's true, but I'm going to be honest...

                I think looks matter, but personality is what keeps a relationship together. If you've noticed, a lot of famous couples that everyone thought looked 'sooooo cute' together, usually are the ones that end up breaking up? If someone I liked was being rude to me or anyone that I cared about, then they'd be off my list faster than they could apologize. ; I'm not one to tolerate being taken advantage of. So.. to answer your question, personality is the most important to me. Welp, I bet none of that made sense. *shrugs*
                it made sense! yes...you know i should have also had category for popularity level too, a lot of people like some one cos they are popular! i didnt think of that one.
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                  If I was an smod I'd add that option. Andy can do it later though. ;
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                    okies il get him to do that. lets continue the dicussion before we get offtopic about mods, lol.
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                      Well, see the thing is...

                      If I said "It's looks, I would not even consider a guy who was not hot" Would you not think less of me?

                      That's why personality gets more votes. o.o;
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                      Old October 20th, 2003 (7:53 PM). Edited October 20th, 2003 by Soph.
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                        i suppose but you could say you 'woulnt like an ugly guy' so it dont sound so bad....i just hope people ar honest...how about we make a rule no one is allowed to be nasty to anyone about their opinion or thir post gets deleted taht way people can express opinoons without any fear of people opposing them. or being thought less of!

                        [edit] besides voting is anonymous isnt it? they can vote and not comment, at least then we get the statistics.
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                          I think its the inside that counts. Some people just can't help the way they look. And you may never know what a beautiful person is like, he/she could be sweet on the outside and poison on the inside
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                            I can't say I would only go for looks but I can say I wouldn't go out with an ugly girl with a great personality. I need both, so it's double or nothing.
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                            Ill add to the poll what you want me to add but some one has to tell me what to put.
                            And I say personallity matters the most.
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                              I think good looking isn't very important...if you are going loving someone...better pay attention first to see other personality first...if you think his/her personality is suit you then you can love with him/her...me? I prefer...kind and cute...the age doesn't matter...>_<
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                                Looks , well Both .

                                Think about it , You have A Nice Looking Girl But she's Shallow , Dippy. But then you have a not so looking nice girl , she's sweet and kind and has a personality.

                                Both ~~ Theres Lots of Nice Looking Smart Gurls in Tan House.
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                                    I don't really get people with their, "Personality is all you need" becuase then you might as well go for people the same gender as you with a great personality.
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                                    looks by far...

                                    think of it like this: we've all heard the phrase "Come for the ___, but stay for the ___." To relate to this topic, I would fill in the blanks with "looks" and "personality", respectively. it is the physical beauty of a person that attracts you to her/him, then you want to take the time to get to know thwm a bit, then you decide whether or not you truly like them...
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                                        looks by far...

                                        think of it like this: we've all heard the phrase "Come for the ___, but stay for the ___." To relate to this topic, I would fill in the blanks with "looks" and "personality", respectively. it is the physical beauty of a person that attracts you to her/him, then you want to take the time to get to know thwm a bit, then you decide whether or not you truly like them...
                                        completely true... i was going to say that until i saw that you said it already...

                                        and that is why i can make more friends online , where looks cannot be part of the mathematical formula
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                                          It's human nature to lust after the 'beautiful' people...but it's dangerous to form a relationship based solely on physical attraction. I believe that personality is extremely important, but it's also nice to have someone you find attractive. I mean, I'm not sure what sort of relationship you could have, even if the person was friendly, brilliant and humourous, if looking at them made you want to throw up. But then again, love is blind. Heh.

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                                            Personality, but looks are important too. I'm not saying you should strive for the hottest person ever, but someone who looks like a scuzzy rag is hard to find appealing, even if they have a good personality.
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                                              Your right ... Looks Is the Thing that Attracts People the most.
                                              No. not right, at least not for everyone.

                                              my boyfreind i have known since we were 4 years old. we used to not get along but as time passed we bacemae freinds. now he is more than that. the point is, i never cared for his looks. okay, so he's cute...but thats not why i originally liked him, its because i knew him for the person he is, sweet, kind, caring, loyal, and a million other great qualities! never looks. so no, what dizzy said is not right...not for everyone.
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                                                To me, it is somewhat looks, because that is what gets you attracted to the person, but on the other hand, if they have a good personality, you can easily get around on how the person looks until looks don't matter anymore.
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