Advice for asking out. Page 2

Started by St. Anger October 24th, 2008 2:19 PM
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Posted May 25th, 2011
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My best advice, just try people girls who you are friends with. I've seen many a friend hurt emotionally from dating someone they hardly knew at all.
Hell, I've been dating the same girl for the last two years, and we were friends from preschool.
When you date people whom you are friends with, there's no pressure to act out or do something stupid to impress them, because they already know you.
That piece of text must have been sent down by the heavens. I've known my crush since the 1st grade. Thank you, Virtual Chatot.

As for my advice, I don't have much. I do know for a fact that girls love guys they can talk to. It's ten times better when guys give their open, honest opinion about the subject(Just don't make insulting jokes). Connection is win.

Don't try to be anyone you're not, and try to keep the bodily noises to a minimum.

(And FoxHound! just cracks me up).
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If she has an amazing voice, I completely understand why you'd want to listen to her talk.
Exactly, I could talk to her all day, and I think shes into me too, why else wouldn't she sit with her other guy friends who I think like her and she chooses to sit beside me instead?


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My best advice, just try people girls who you are friends with. I've seen many a friend hurt emotionally from dating someone they hardly knew at all.
Hell, I've been dating the same girl for the last two years, and we were friends from preschool.
When you date people whom you are friends with, there's no pressure to act out or do something stupid to impress them, because they already know you.
Oh wow I can't believe I missed this. First off I'll have to say that you're lucky because your situation is pretty rare, cause generally girls don't want to date their friends.

But hey, if you're one of the lucky exceptions , good for you.

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Exactly, I could talk to her all day, and I think shes into me too, why else wouldn't she sit with her other guy friends who I think like her and she chooses to sit beside me instead?
Ooo, man. You have a great thing goin'. I'd listen to my crush talk all day, I'd be glad she'd have the confidence to talk to me about problems.

I just wish I could converse with her better. Stop all the random pauses to find words that aren't stupid.
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Ooo, man. You have a great thing goin'. I'd listen to my crush talk all day, I'd be glad she'd have the confidence to talk to me about problems.

I just wish I could converse with her better. Stop all the random pauses to find words that aren't stupid.
wow I hope things go between you and your crush well, maybe around christmas time things will start to shake up, (mistletoes anyone?) can't wait to see her on monday!


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wow I hope things go between you and your crush well, maybe around christmas time things will start to shake up, (mistletoes anyone?) can't wait to see her on monday!
Thanks, man. Unfortunately, we don't go to the same school, and only see each other Sunday. She knows I like her, and she's said she doen't like anyone right now, which is perfectly cool.

I plan to send her a birthday card as well, since it's on Halloween.
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Just start out by talking to her. Get to know her, and what she does. Talk sweet to her. Compliment her on how good she looks. her personality. Just talk to her for awhile and just ask her. but she if she is flirty or acts likes shes interested.
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Posted May 6th, 2010
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oh nice, and good job, when she says she doesn't like anyone at the moment then its good to stay friends for now. I'm sure you'll get her :D
yeah thats usually what i do when a friend of minehas the feeling that she's hated,dn VC i envy u badly lol
for the advice:
don't show off too much if ur the macho kinda guy,cuz then the girls will get pissed(i know they will),if ur the calm kinda guy like me,respect them,maybe a few humorus jokes,lot of compliments and try to stay close.
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Oh wow I can't believe I missed this. First off I'll have to say that you're lucky because your situation is pretty rare, cause generally girls don't want to date their friends.

But hey, if you're one of the lucky exceptions , good for you.
Yeah, I guess I am pretty lucky :laugh:

Heh, I can understand why girls wouldn't want to date their friends though, there's always that fear of it ruining the friendship in the end. I've had the same feeling in the past, but there isn't much danger since again, we know how we act and we're pretty compatible. ( i.e. she knows when I'm joking around, when strangers would think I was just being an ass )
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Be yourself and get to know the girl/boy your looking to date.

I blew it yesterday with some girl. I may still have a chance, but I doubt it.

If you want to know the story, here it is:
I was on the bus, when this girl (a hot girl, mind you) asked me if I was in her science class. I responded saying ,"Oh yeah. Your ____'s friend". She looked at me like I was and idiot.

Helpful Tip #1: When talking to a girl never mention her friend when having a conversation that may determine wheather your friends, girlfriend/boyfriend, or someone who just happens to be on your bus who you don't talk to.
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Posted September 14th, 2016
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~Walk slowly if you are taller than (your preference)
~Remember to smile. Just not all the time.
~Giggles are nicer than raucous laughter. And there is more to snickers than just chocolate.
~It's rude to complain
~It's okay to SOMETIMES complain.
~It's okay for (us) boys to blush
~Girls can be just as shy about and around cutie boys.
~Buy some toe socks. Just kidding. (I think...)
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~Walk slowly if you are taller than (your preference)
~Remember to smile. Just not all the time.
~Giggles are nicer than raucous laughter. And there is more to snickers than just chocolate.
~It's rude to complain
~It's okay to SOMETIMES complain.
~It's okay for (us) boys to blush
~Girls can be just as shy about and around cutie boys.
~Buy some toe socks. Just kidding. (I think...)
you forgot something, never lie, if you do then they'll hate you forever.


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ok, but what do you do if she's about a foot taller? :/
Based on what I've found out:

1. Get out of there. Now.
2. Hope to the Man Upstairs that she stays the same height.
3. Hope to the Man Upstairs that you have a major growth spurt.
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Spinor

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Lol. What about if you already had your Growth Spurt? Hope to teh man upstairs she shrinks ;D.


Also, DO NOT hang out with her ALL the time. Trust me, worst mistake you'll ever make. It may not be obvious at first, but that one will be a total heart breaker...

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If she is a foot too tall, simple, take a hacksaw to her legs. Result!
...You'd probably be a foot shorter as well. You're cuttin' off her legs, not her arms.

Or her rage for doin' so.
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My best advice, just try people girls who you are friends with. I've seen many a friend hurt emotionally from dating someone they hardly knew at all.
Hell, I've been dating the same girl for the last two years, and we were friends from preschool.
When you date people whom you are friends with, there's no pressure to act out or do something stupid to impress them, because they already know you.
Completely true. And actually, it's not too uncommon for most people to have that happen to them. Infact, my parents knew eachother since they were 3 and grew up to be friends.

This is true, carrying a 40 inch shotgun is normally a good way to catch a lady's eye.
Foxhound, you do realise that carrying a 40 inch shotgun WILL catch anyone's eye, male or female. >_>;
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I kinda have the feeling most girls aren't too keen on the good, cute sorta 'boy'.
Oh, bollocks. Being 'sweet' works more than half the time XD
If you want to get a girl, get to know her first and be open about stuff. Listen and don't try to tell lots of jokes and crap like that.

But I guess in the end it really depends on the girl...