Love Page 2

Started by supertails October 25th, 2008 12:15 PM
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Age 35
Atlanta GA
Seen July 15th, 2010
Posted July 11th, 2010
456 posts
15.3 Years
I don't know. I just know that I'm going to see him. I'm going to travel 240 miles round trip, which is 120 miles to his apartment and an other 120 miles back home. I believe that to be love especially with the gas prices. I don't care what you or anyone else says I'm making the trip. I'll only be there for 5 hours at the most, and yes I'll have fun;). You can call it lust, attraction or what ever but I'm going to see him. Like I said I only met him 2 days ago and on day 4 I'm making the trip.
Pika says.A wise man listens to an opinion and tries to develop his own but a foolish man listens to an opinion and except it as fact.

If you hear the words free and/or unlimited. Run and never look back as these are tricks.

Life remains constant. The more somethings remain the same, the more they must change.

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Margot

some things are that simple

they/he
Seen April 16th, 2022
Posted February 25th, 2019
3,662 posts
17.3 Years
There is a saying "only fools rush in" y'know. I'm not trying to be rude, but like, four days? You honestly think you love someone after four days? You can't truely love someone until you've created a relationship that's deeper than just physical attraction, because as most people said here, it's infatuation. I don't think you can know much about anyone after four days, that makes them an aquaintance at most >:

Well that being said, I obviously don't believe in love at first sight. Love is something that has to build over time and after getting to know someone and liking them for more than just their looks.
Age 35
Atlanta GA
Seen July 15th, 2010
Posted July 11th, 2010
456 posts
15.3 Years
Why am I making that trip then? Just for action? No, and yes I think I can.
Pika says.A wise man listens to an opinion and tries to develop his own but a foolish man listens to an opinion and except it as fact.

If you hear the words free and/or unlimited. Run and never look back as these are tricks.

Life remains constant. The more somethings remain the same, the more they must change.

Public Domain and Open Source are the only free you should trust. Public Domain doesn't have or lack copy right and Open Source means the source code is open for all.

Karasuma

It's beemo time!

Male
Onett, NJ
Seen June 1st, 2021
Posted May 6th, 2018
6,455 posts
17.7 Years
Get to know the person a little better. I mean i dont want you to take this the wrong way but you never know how he is when you meet the person for the first time in real life. Sure the person may talk sweet and say nice things, but you dont know the background that person has.

Everyone has their thoughts and I don't have the power to stop anybody from making their choice, sometimes its better to find out for yourself.
Best of luck on that trip.
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Age 35
Atlanta GA
Seen July 15th, 2010
Posted July 11th, 2010
456 posts
15.3 Years
Unfortunately your right about that but you have to take risks before you can get rewards. I feel he's really the right one for me and I'm willing to take the risk for a shot on true love. Thanks for your concern and I hope for the best too.
Pika says.A wise man listens to an opinion and tries to develop his own but a foolish man listens to an opinion and except it as fact.

If you hear the words free and/or unlimited. Run and never look back as these are tricks.

Life remains constant. The more somethings remain the same, the more they must change.

Public Domain and Open Source are the only free you should trust. Public Domain doesn't have or lack copy right and Open Source means the source code is open for all.
Age 30
Male
Ontario
Seen January 21st, 2013
Posted March 13th, 2011
981 posts
15.2 Years
I think it's amazing that you feel so strongly about this, and you're willing to act on your emotions in such a way. However, I do think you should be careful. Love is a dangerous word, as corny as that sounds. Don't set yourself up for something you can't control. What if he's not everything you dreamed he'd be? All your hopes and wishes will come crashing down, and there's nothing you can do about it. It's better to discover the unexpected than expect the undiscovered.

But it's good that you're actually taking the time and effort to see him. As long as you try to do everything in your power to make it work, you shouldn't have any regrets if it doesn't. Good luck!
Age 35
Atlanta GA
Seen July 15th, 2010
Posted July 11th, 2010
456 posts
15.3 Years
I really do get what you mean and something in the pass has happen but I think I'm a lot smarter now, I just find it unfortunate that we aren't tought this at school. I hope it doesn't come crashing down too but I feel I'm open to change. I know your right and I hope for the best.
Pika says.A wise man listens to an opinion and tries to develop his own but a foolish man listens to an opinion and except it as fact.

If you hear the words free and/or unlimited. Run and never look back as these are tricks.

Life remains constant. The more somethings remain the same, the more they must change.

Public Domain and Open Source are the only free you should trust. Public Domain doesn't have or lack copy right and Open Source means the source code is open for all.

txteclipse

The Last

Age 32
Riverside
Seen March 23rd, 2023
Posted November 2nd, 2016
2,322 posts
15.7 Years
Real love is built through spending time together and working through struggles. It lasts through the good and the bad.

If this guy suddenly developed a debilitating disease, would you stay by his side until the end or would you start pursuing other options? I don't mean to be blunt, but it's a good gauge. You may be attracted now, but I don't think I would call it "love" by any means.
Age 35
Atlanta GA
Seen July 15th, 2010
Posted July 11th, 2010
456 posts
15.3 Years
I really didn't want to say this but he is taking median for his heart.
Pika says.A wise man listens to an opinion and tries to develop his own but a foolish man listens to an opinion and except it as fact.

If you hear the words free and/or unlimited. Run and never look back as these are tricks.

Life remains constant. The more somethings remain the same, the more they must change.

Public Domain and Open Source are the only free you should trust. Public Domain doesn't have or lack copy right and Open Source means the source code is open for all.

txteclipse

The Last

Age 32
Riverside
Seen March 23rd, 2023
Posted November 2nd, 2016
2,322 posts
15.7 Years
I really didn't want to say this but he is taking median for his heart.
I assume you mean medicine? I wouldn't really correlate needing medicine with having a debilitating disease, as there are plenty of people with prescriptions that can function more or less normally. I don't know the extremity of his condition, granted, but if it isn't crippling or, God-forbid, deadly, then that's not really what I meant.
Age 35
Atlanta GA
Seen July 15th, 2010
Posted July 11th, 2010
456 posts
15.3 Years
True, so very true but I take the good with the bad. You can always trust me to come through no matter what. I'm not saying you're gay but if you were then a boy like me would be prefect, sure I'm not the sharpest knive in the droll but I'm loyal to those I'm close to and I got what I they want too if you know what I mean but that's what I got to say.
Pika says.A wise man listens to an opinion and tries to develop his own but a foolish man listens to an opinion and except it as fact.

If you hear the words free and/or unlimited. Run and never look back as these are tricks.

Life remains constant. The more somethings remain the same, the more they must change.

Public Domain and Open Source are the only free you should trust. Public Domain doesn't have or lack copy right and Open Source means the source code is open for all.

Her

Age 29
Seen 5 Hours Ago
Posted 4 Days Ago
To be blunt, love at first sight only lives in fairy tales and re-runs of Family Matters.

You gotta let the love blossom, ove a month, year, a decade or even life. No matter what it takes.

Now why did I think of "L-O-V-E" by Ashley Simpson just now?
Age 32
Boston
Seen August 24th, 2013
Posted November 6th, 2008
426 posts
18.1 Years
Is that a reincarnation belief? I don't believe in reincarnation but I guess you could have always loved someone though.
I never really made the connection between that an reincarnation, but I do believe in reincarnation as well. XD; I don't know, it's just my belief. I think if you have lived long enough to know the difference between love and lust and what comes in between, then you know if you have fallen in love at first sight.


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Age 35
Atlanta GA
Seen July 15th, 2010
Posted July 11th, 2010
456 posts
15.3 Years
To be blunt, love at first sight only lives in fairy tales and re-runs of Family Matters.

You gotta let the love blossom, ove a month, year, a decade or even life. No matter what it takes.

Now why did I think of "L-O-V-E" by Ashley Simpson just now?
I don't know. Love is a strange thing at times so you don't really know.

I never really made the connection between that an reincarnation, but I do believe in reincarnation as well. XD; I don't know, it's just my belief. I think if you have lived long enough to know the difference between love and lust and what comes in between, then you know if you have fallen in love at first sight.
You were talking about love at first sight and that once you love someone, you have always loved them which makes it sound that if you love someone 100 years ago and you always love them and when your born again you still love the person even if you don't know it. I don't see how someone couldn't make that connection, sure you never said that you believe in reincarnation but it was pretty obvious.
Pika says.A wise man listens to an opinion and tries to develop his own but a foolish man listens to an opinion and except it as fact.

If you hear the words free and/or unlimited. Run and never look back as these are tricks.

Life remains constant. The more somethings remain the same, the more they must change.

Public Domain and Open Source are the only free you should trust. Public Domain doesn't have or lack copy right and Open Source means the source code is open for all.
Age 32
Boston
Seen August 24th, 2013
Posted November 6th, 2008
426 posts
18.1 Years
You were talking about love at first sight and that once you love someone, you have always loved them which makes it sound that if you love someone 100 years ago and you always love them and when your born again you still love the person even if you don't know it. I don't see how someone couldn't make that connection, sure you never said that you believe in reincarnation but it was pretty obvious.
Er... uh, no x.X I'm confused. I know what I said. But maybe you don't? What I meant is... it's like you had a person that was made for you.
Spoiler:
Kind of like in Hancock, how the super hero people were made in pairs and whenever they were close together they began to die.
I didn't mean you had to have lived on the earth in some form or another all the time. Or will live on the earth again. You really shouldn't assume things. ^^;


I was gone, I came back.
Age 35
Atlanta GA
Seen July 15th, 2010
Posted July 11th, 2010
456 posts
15.3 Years
I was right about you believing in reincarnation so it's more of a spot on guess then a assumption. I do get want your saying now but I was still right though.
Pika says.A wise man listens to an opinion and tries to develop his own but a foolish man listens to an opinion and except it as fact.

If you hear the words free and/or unlimited. Run and never look back as these are tricks.

Life remains constant. The more somethings remain the same, the more they must change.

Public Domain and Open Source are the only free you should trust. Public Domain doesn't have or lack copy right and Open Source means the source code is open for all.
Age 31
Male
Seen November 9th, 2021
Posted March 17th, 2015
3,517 posts
18.2 Years
Physical love is associated with one's physical desires and needs.
True love is sacrificial, even to the point of taking a bullet for someone you care about.
When you mix these two kinds of love, you get a really nice blend.
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Age 31
Male
Seen November 9th, 2021
Posted March 17th, 2015
3,517 posts
18.2 Years
You can be physically attracted to someone very quickly, but can be turned off by their personality just as quick if you learn to know 'em over a long period of time.
Which is why actual love is far more important than physical "love", which could be more appropriately dubbed lust.
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Age 35
Atlanta GA
Seen July 15th, 2010
Posted July 11th, 2010
456 posts
15.3 Years
I'd take a bullet for him. I have no dought.
Pika says.A wise man listens to an opinion and tries to develop his own but a foolish man listens to an opinion and except it as fact.

If you hear the words free and/or unlimited. Run and never look back as these are tricks.

Life remains constant. The more somethings remain the same, the more they must change.

Public Domain and Open Source are the only free you should trust. Public Domain doesn't have or lack copy right and Open Source means the source code is open for all.
Age 35
Atlanta GA
Seen July 15th, 2010
Posted July 11th, 2010
456 posts
15.3 Years
Just assume I've never took a spelling class because in high school I learned why I couldn't spell was because they used the old spelling system on me instead of phonic and I think they did that for only a year and then brought the good one back. I'm not sure but yea. I'm seriously 20.
Pika says.A wise man listens to an opinion and tries to develop his own but a foolish man listens to an opinion and except it as fact.

If you hear the words free and/or unlimited. Run and never look back as these are tricks.

Life remains constant. The more somethings remain the same, the more they must change.

Public Domain and Open Source are the only free you should trust. Public Domain doesn't have or lack copy right and Open Source means the source code is open for all.
Age 34
Canada
Seen March 7th, 2010
Posted January 5th, 2009
322 posts
14.8 Years
Yeah when I first met my boyfriend, I was REALLY attracted to him. and feeling for him what I do now- I know it wasn't love then.

Also - idk MAYBE its just me, a student of literature- but I'm quite certain shakespere mocked love at first sight.
Eg : Romeo and Juliet, they talk more of being in love than they of/to eachother... and then they're kinda stupid about it... and i believe all though shakespere isn't the be all end all in intellegence, I believe he knew more of how lovers should act than how romeo+juliet did

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Age 35
Atlanta GA
Seen July 15th, 2010
Posted July 11th, 2010
456 posts
15.3 Years
I'm pretty sure he didn't and that could have been bad luck. Like today when he got a fever and sent me a text message telling me that I should wait til Friday.
Pika says.A wise man listens to an opinion and tries to develop his own but a foolish man listens to an opinion and except it as fact.

If you hear the words free and/or unlimited. Run and never look back as these are tricks.

Life remains constant. The more somethings remain the same, the more they must change.

Public Domain and Open Source are the only free you should trust. Public Domain doesn't have or lack copy right and Open Source means the source code is open for all.