Have you ever been rejected?

Started by Lover's Kite November 4th, 2008 9:56 PM
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Have you ever been rejected?

Lover's Kite

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Age 31
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California
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Posted September 4th, 2014
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15.8 Years
Have you ever been rejected In other words, have you asked someone out on a date or asked he/she to be your girlfriend/boyfriend, but they said no?

I once asked this gay guy out once, but he only dates fems... lol. ;;
Age 32
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Posted February 16th, 2014
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17.1 Years
Haha, I've only asked girls out on two occasions, both of which (luckily for me) said sure. It was an even split on who broke up with who after those though >_>

When I was younger, I got asked out often but I was usually just like "O_O where did that come from!?" and said no. :P

Nowadays, it's tough asking people out since I'm never sure who's with someone and who isn't.


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Signomi

Age 32
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I wasn't that forward with anyone whom I've catered a fancy for in the past. So I've never actually been rejected, though I've rejected quite a number of people. >_o;

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Age 28
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Seen February 16th, 2010
Posted November 29th, 2008
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14.6 Years
I don't generally ask people "out", but when I have they've said yes. The reason I hardly ever do is because most of the girls I know are either hideous, taken, or my best friend, and the guys I know are either hideous, taken, like girls, or my best friend. Gutted.

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Melody

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18.6 Years
I've been rejected a number of times.

But I cant hold in my feelings for someone very long. So I tend to just try to get it off my chest and move on if I'm rejected.

Though I've always thought that being rejected isnt a bad thing. Sure, it hurts at first but it gets better, and I'd honestly rather have someone reject me rather than taking me and leading me on just because they cant bear to hurt my feelings. I'm very quick to forgive and I never hold a grudge against someone for rejecting me when I initially confess my feelings for them. (of course, I have held grudges against people who were very hurtful and insensitive in their expression of rejection.)

I'm also quick to move on, and quick to get back on my feet.
Age 29
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Seen September 25th, 2009
Posted February 8th, 2009
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14.6 Years
No. I guess this is just proving how little I have experience in my life. I have not ask anyone nor has anyone asked me out. People don't even seam to notice me at all.

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Nashua

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Seen March 31st, 2013
Posted February 7th, 2012
101 posts
17 Years
I have rejected people and I've also been rejected.

The lone case of being rejected was my own fault because I told people that I had liked this...failure. To make it short, said failure knew about it and I heard about it through someone else. I was full of rage, but I eventually got over it.

Because of this, I'm more careful about spilling stuff in real life.

However the fact that I'm posting this on the internet and still call him a failure does indicate otherwise. :/
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The only people who haven't been rejected are those who haven't asked anybody to go out with them or those who look like Zac Efron or Angelina Jolie. Anybody else will get rejected in their lifetime.

So yes, I've been rejected.
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txteclipse

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Age 32
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Posted November 2nd, 2016
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15.7 Years
Nope, never. Of course, I've never asked anyone out, but hey. All in good time.

The only people who haven't been rejected are those who haven't asked anybody to go out with them or those who look like Zac Efron or Angelina Jolie.
I would reject Angelina. Celebrities...*shudder*

GFA

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Seen September 7th, 2018
Posted August 29th, 2018
1,830 posts
14.9 Years
I once asked this gay guy out once, but he only dates fems... lol. ;;
WTF!? I get rejected every day, there was a girl, that used to like me that i still like, every since the beginning of '07 I asked her out every day. lol. Man I'm pathetic ...