Do you belive love at first sight?

Started by Koji123456789 December 6th, 2008 8:08 AM
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Do you belive love at first sight?

Aurafire

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Age 32
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New York
Seen April 25th, 2017
Posted November 8th, 2011
5,735 posts
15 Years
Love requires a bit more than just laying eyes on each other. You can very easily develop a physical attraction to someone just by looking at them, but it's impossible to assess all the qualities that one needs to love a person simply by looking at them. So no, I don't believe in love at first sight.

olearye273

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Age 27
England, London
Seen December 22nd, 2013
Posted October 31st, 2009
35 posts
14.6 Years
no, as everyone else has said its just looks but i still think its nice to believe in it :)
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Aizuke

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Age 33
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Canberra, Australia
Seen November 6th, 2015
Posted November 6th, 2015
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15.3 Years
Obviously loving someone at first sight, means you've fallen in love someone by their looks. And they could have the worst personality in the world. So no, I don't believe in love at first sight, love isn't something that should be rushed without any thought put into it.
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jasonresno

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Age 33
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Illinois
Seen February 13th, 2019
Posted November 12th, 2018
1,663 posts
18.3 Years
It depends on how you'd rate your infatuations. At first sight I /knew/ I needed to know this girl more and talk to her more and...well, that was almost three years ago. We've been dating for two :D

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Age 31
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Seattle, WA
Seen September 23rd, 2009
Posted September 22nd, 2009
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14.5 Years
You can't just love someone with what you see in your eyes. You know why? What happens if their personality is horrible and they do bad things to you.

Love is something that you call a good relationship, that you are happy and comfortable with another, not a pretty but bad acts person.

Cherrim

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Toronto
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20.4 Years
Infatuation at first sight, fine. Anything more? You've gotta get to know them. Some people might find "love at first sight" to be a romantic concept, but it's just creepy and naive to me. It's disrespectful to say you loved someone the moment you saw them. That's not love--if the attraction was THAT strong, it's just lust. And I dunno about you guys, but if someone said the equivalent of "I LUSTED FOR YOU THE FIRST TIME I SAW YOU ♥", I would be a liiiiiittle creeped out. :(

Long story short, no, I don't believe in love at first sight.


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Razer302

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Age 32
England
Seen November 22nd, 2022
Posted December 13th, 2018
3,368 posts
17.1 Years
Nope I don't. The posts above already state the same reasons why. I mean you can't love some one by just looking at them. It is the personality that matters.

You could be with the best looking person in the world but if they have a boring personality how could you possibly stay with them unless you want them as "trophy wife". Just pointless to date someone for looks alone.

Franceschi

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Seen January 5th, 2015
Posted July 17th, 2013
2,717 posts
14.8 Years
And I dunno about you guys, but if someone said the equivalent of "I LUSTED FOR YOU THE FIRST TIME I SAW YOU ♥", I would be a liiiiiittle creeped out. :(
Oh, how I chuckled at that. :3

No, I don't believe that it's possible, for basically all the reasons Erica, Audy and most other members stated. :D


England somewhere
Seen February 8th, 2012
Posted September 26th, 2011
1,396 posts
16.4 Years
No, love at first sight is not possible. How can you love someone when you don't even know them? So you'll love someone for their looks? Yeah you won't last very long. Personality is what attracts one another and is what makes relationships last longer.
So getting to know them is important and then'll able to find out if you really love them for who they are.
Example my gf and I. I didn't see her when we first starting talking. She had an amazing personality, we both preferred each others company and I just loved talking to her. We decided to start a relationship, despite not seeing each other but we liked each others personality of course obviously. Eventually she showed herself, I was so impressed because she was so beauitiful and gorgeous! =] I'm really happy that I met my gf online, she's has a wonderful personality and looks so stunning. <3 :]
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Melody

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Seen March 4th, 2018
Posted March 2nd, 2018
6,459 posts
18.6 Years
I do believe in 'love at first sight'. It's not impossible, Just not probable. True Love at first sight is very rare. Seriously, it's not something that happens on a daily basis. Most people who claim it was 'Love at first sight' are incorrectly assuming. In my opinion, 99.99999999% of all reported cases of 'Love at first sight' are simply nothing but infatuations. While it is true that an infatuation can lead to a loving relationship, the odds are...somewhat mixed.

So, 'Love at first sight' is possible, however it's so uncommon that I doubt that many even see it as such.