How high is your self esteem? (Be honest) Page 2

Started by kissing. raindrops March 9th, 2009 7:00 PM
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How high is your self esteem?

Caelus

Gone

Seen May 26th, 2013
Posted April 24th, 2013
2,690 posts
14.6 Years
It's mid-high. Really, I try my best to feel good about myself, and even with some of the kids at my school, I try to stay on top and avoid dire consequences.
Still, there have been days where my self-esteem is very low, but it rarely ever stoops to that level.

Wish

No spoils for the meek.

Seen February 11th, 2018
Posted August 4th, 2016
1,893 posts
15.8 Years
My self-esteem is quite low actually. XD

In real life and online, I'm not really confident in myself. It used to be that I never thought good of myself and was a little blob of depression hogging the corner. This has always been a problem for me and I try to overcome it to the best of my ability.

wolf

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Seen 6 Hours Ago
Posted October 23rd, 2022
8,259 posts
14.7 Years
I have a high one. :3 I don't care what people say about me, nor what they think about. Though, I am sometimes quiet, but one point I can be a bit hyper. Idk...
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Ryoutarou

Seen April 2nd, 2023
Posted December 29th, 2020
30,927 posts
19.3 Years
I've...always been sort of apathetic in this area, so I'm not exactly sure where I would fall in. I go into most things with the belief that I'll do a good job at whatever it is, if I fail, I don't exactly linger on that failure, I just continue to study/improve on the task until I can succeed, the exact same path I would take if I had succeeded in the first place. Nothing can get me down these days, I ignore what others tend to think of me and...most unfavorable situations I land in, they can make me feel annoyed, but they don't make me feel bad at all. So overall...I guess high? Or medium-ish at the very least.

Aegis

The Savage Nymph

Age 29
Male
Canada
Seen May 20th, 2015
Posted October 30th, 2012
4,558 posts
17.3 Years
Mine fluctuates. There are times when it's really high, and I feel really good about myself and all of that fun stuff, and then there are times when I feel really insecure. Most of the insecurity I have is probably about my appearance and my age. Most of my friends are... a good bit older then me, and at times I feel kind of out of place because of my age. And my appearance is something I've always been insecure about, as long as I can remember XD I'm getting over it though, as time goes on.

So overall, I'd place myself at medium?

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Age 41
Male
Western Massachusetts
Seen April 17th, 2017
Posted March 15th, 2017
3,299 posts
18.4 Years
I've always had self-esteem issues. I was constantly picked on in school, so my self-esteem is pretty much non-existent. Even if I did try to gain some self-esteem, one little bad thing will knock it all down to zero.
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Melody

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Seen March 4th, 2018
Posted March 2nd, 2018
6,459 posts
18.6 Years
I'm getting to the point where I'm quite confident in who I am, but there are times I can be really hard on myself because I worry about what others might think about me. One thing I hate is when someone assumes the worst about me when all I want to do is be helpful or nice.

That being said, I find myself constantly clashing against people who think I'm a bad person just because they made an incorrect assumption about me. I mean seriously, I am quite a random and strange character but I'm always trying to find ways to be nice, friendly and helpful. But I can get really shy and withdrawn when I'm depressed or angry.

So overall I'd say my self esteem is about average, I have the same doubts as anyone else does really, but I put forth a strong positive outlook because I see no point in letting myself be dragged down by my emotions.
Age 29
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Seen March 3rd, 2016
Posted January 7th, 2010
486 posts
14.3 Years
To be honest, I've always had issues with my self-esteem. I don't have very much confidence in my intelligence or sometimes appearence. I guess those issues are what lead me to being to shy and reserved at school. Recently it's gone up a little though.
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Age 28
Australia
Seen April 11th, 2015
Posted May 18th, 2014
6,794 posts
14.9 Years
It's medium-ish as of now, but when I was younger it was extremely high.

People can tell themselves they don't care about what other people think of them, but that's a huge lie. Everyone wants a girl/boy they like to think they're "hot" or "cute" or whatever.

Mine is up and down.
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Age 33
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Seen September 30th, 2019
Posted November 2nd, 2018
83 posts
14.4 Years
I voted for medium-ish^^ I like who i am and i don't have too big of a problem with interacting with people. though i get nervus when i have to talk in front of a croud and in class i almost never speak up when profesors are asking questions or sth... So although i'm pretty confident in some aspects i also have some insecurities.

Tater Tot

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Age 15
Male
Seen January 15th, 2017
Posted June 24th, 2016
2,572 posts
17.9 Years
My self-esteem stays relatively low, but it can change easily. For instance, my self-esteem often stays in the 35% out of 100% area. I can go one night feeling about 50% confident, (the highest my self-esteem goes) and the next morning, depressed and only 5%. This month, I'm doing very well. I'm staying at about a 45% area with only a few bouts of negativity. However, in January, I stayed at about 0% half of the month. Right now though, I'm happier than I can remember in awhile.

Yamikarasu

Wannabe Hasbeen

Age 29
Male
On the Battle Subway to Anville Town.
Seen October 22nd, 2012
Posted December 18th, 2011
1,199 posts
14.9 Years
Whenever I'm feeling down, I just smile. Literally, just that, when I'm alone in my room, and I instantly feel better. I read an article somewhere that just the act of using those muscles releases endorphins that make you feel good.

Right now, I'm probably average. I worry about my appearance a normal amount for a guy I think. I get alright grades, I have a lot of friends, so life is pretty good for me.

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