Crying

Started by ShinjisLover July 28th, 2009 9:59 AM
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Unfortunately, my unsympathetic nature makes me not care. That said, I would care if certain people would, bur for most people I just leave them be, 'cause I know I'll only make things worse by talking to them.

Personally, I don't cry that much. I don't find many things sad enough to cry over.
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If it's someone I care about, then I'll try everything in my power to make them feel better. Random strangers on the street? I'll just keep my head down- it's none of my business unless it happens to be a kid; they might have been separated from a parent or something. o:
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Depends who and why. Someone I like, I'll comfort. Someone I dislike... look the other way. Stranger: ignore.
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(to an extent. I mean, if a serial killer was crying, then let them cry).
So, if that persons family had died and that person was crying over that, would you still let them cry?

I am ok really. I can interact with that person and help them cheer up.

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Yeah, I try to make them feel better.

One of my weaknesses, really.
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For the most part when someone starts crying (depending on the situations), I just can't handle it most of the time I just say in my head to shut up, its not a big deal


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I usuallycheer them up as long as there a friend even if I never get cheered up when I cry =(
I'll just (if its a girl which it usually is cause most my friends are girls) I'll just put mt arm round them and talk to them
usually that works but sometimes
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I used to cry a lot when I was younger. Now I try to refrain from it.

If I am close relationships with them, I try to ask them if they're alright. And probably pat them on their shoulder.
If the crying gets worse, I do tend to get sad and even worse I would start crying with them too. >.>
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mmm, I don't think I've seen any of my friends cry, so i'll have to go to other people

Babies and Kids (12-) crying can be somewhat irritating. Babies because it's always in a place where I want some peace and quiet, (or a movie theater). Kids are generally less annoying but annoying nonetheless. Reason is mostly because when kids cry, it's almost always because they didn't get something that they want. Now if a kid is crying for a legitimate reason, the parent is generally there to help them, so I don't bother with that.

Anyways, I haven't seen an older person cry (never been to a funeral or any other sort of sad event), so I really can't give a good explanation of the feeling i get when I see people cry...
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If I see a someone else crying, my reactions are as follows:
  • If it's someone I don't know at all, and I feel neutral towards, then I'll just feel sorry and show it in my face that I'm sad for them. If the person is in a really troubled sitution - I will try to help them. (Not that common in my life)
  • If it's someone that I feel a little negative towards, then I'll probably just feel a pinch sad, but I won't go far than that, neither harm nor help. (Pretty common in my life)
  • If it's someone I clearly dislike, then I wouldn't ever feel sad, or even think of helping them once. I'd rather feel somewhat happy inside, unless it's something grave like the death of their parents, in which case instead of laughing, I'd feel neutral. (uncommon in my life)
  • If it's someone I know even a little and feel neutral towards, then I'll try to talk to them and solve the problem. (Somewhere between common and uncommon in my ife)
  • If it's someone I know pretty much, and I feel even a pinch positive towards, then I'll surely try to calm them down and try to help them. I won't just ignore it. I will make them understand if such a situation comes up, and try to comfort their mind. (Rare in my life)
  • If it's someone I care a lot about, and I feel very strongly and positive towards, then I will give everything in my potential to calm them down, make them understand, and share their pain. If that person tries to shove me off because they need some time alone, I'd still probably stick around against their will unless I feel he/she really wants to be alone, but I'd return later to them and give it all that I can to comfort them. All in all, I can't really explain how much I care for such people, and to what extent I can go to make them feel better, because I'd feel they are like a part of me. (Really rare, only one to two in my life currently)
This may sound pretty bad... but I love watching other people cry!
It really doesn't matter what they're crying about I just love to see.
I mean thats not to say I just sit there and watch.
I try to make them feel better if I know them.
Although sometimes its just best to let them cry it out.
Anyways when someones crying you just get to see a whole new side of them.
ehh... its just really hard to explain.