Have you lost anyone dear to you?

Started by Snivi October 8th, 2009 10:31 AM
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No, I haven't yet, but my dad almost died five years ago. That was one of the scariest moments of my life. ;_;

However, I lost someone I wished I get to know better. I have this one friend who died when I was in high school. The two of us knew each other in middle school and we get along well, but we don't talk to each other that much. The day I heard she died many of her closest friends cried and so is one of her teachers. I didn't cry, but I wished I get to know her better as she's an amazing person with a lot of people that cared for her.
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Yes, in a slightly different sense. My best childhood friend had to go under witness protection nearly ten years ago, and I haven't seen nor heard of him since. He's still alive somewhere, but it's extremely unlikely that I'll ever see him again. =/ I doubt he even remembers me. XD
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I never lost anyone close to me, the closest would happen to be my dog who I cared for since he was a little puppy after we adopted him. He was a Yorkshire Terrier and I literally grew up with him until many years later he passed away. It tore me apart and all I could ask myself was "Why? Why did it have to happen to me?"

However, even though I haven't lost a human being close to me, my father happens to be diagnosed with Mesothelioma Cancer which is uncurable. He found out about 2 years ago and the doctor gave him about 4 years to live. I wake up every morning hoping he'll still be there, still be there for me when I need him. I pray that he will still be there to see me graduate high school, attend university, grow up to be a kid who lives his dreams, and so much more.

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I never lost a friend, but my aunt died a few years ago...

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My grandmother. I've had other relatives pass away but we weren't really that close.

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Hm. I have lost my grandfather. I was really young when that happened though. D:

I did lose my cousin Jenny. She committed suicide by overdosing on painkillers I think. x_x No one knows why either because she had really good life. D:
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I have lost too many people for my liking.

My best friend committed suicide.
My aunty died from cancer.
My cousin was playing football and fainted. He died before he hit the ground :/

Too much death for my liking.
And it was all in the same month.

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Yes.

Both physically and emotionally. One of my early high school friends committed suicide; my brother was murdered; and an old middle school friend decided to break up out 6-year friendship over a stupid phone call and now resides clear across the country. We even graduated together.
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I don't remember this at all but my Grandmother died when I was about 3. If it counts my uncle's wife also died at about the same time.


Oh, and a slightly distant cousin of mine's grandfather passed away from cancer a few years back. ;; I really liked him and he was family.


For any really close to me I haven't, but I won't be surprised if my grandfather is next, since he's 90 and not doing so well. D:
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Three people that I knew have passed away. All of them were within about two years of each other about six to four years ago. Nobody close to me, although at the funerals I always felt like I didn't make an effort to know them well enough, and now the opportunity was gone. I got my grandmother's brother's guitar, and that's when I mainly started playing. The other two people were my grandfather and my uncle.

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My father died when I was five years old. Sadly, I don't remember much about him, and don't remember how I felt about his death. :/

Since then, I haven't lost anyone dear to me. I'm seriously thinking it's going to be rough when someone I do care for dies next, simply because I haven't had to grieve for anyone in a long time.

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my grandma.
she was my best friend.
i took care of her in her last days.
she was like my mother..:/

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Yes, many. But, that was long time ago. Way before I could fall in love or anything.
They seemed to died for reasons but, I don't think I have every detail to put it in a sentence. I probably don't even remember so I was very little back in the past. Well, yes is to answer your question.

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Just recently I lost my rabbit, and I have lost many people. But I like looking at the happy memories. :)

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I've never lost anyone dear to me in death yet. I'm glad about this but the thing is, it'll hurt more when it happens because I've never expirenced loss in the first place.

As Went says though, that's life.
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