Let me be the first to say that if I were to choose between kissing and hugging someone, I would choose to hug the person instead. I don't find kissing at all romantic and it actually makes me wonder why so many people do, but I guess its their preference. But if I were to walk up to someone I like and had the chance to kiss them or hug them, I'd plan to hug them, but since hugs can mean pretty much anything these days, I'd change my mind at the last minute and kiss them instead. But not randomly or anything, that's hypothetical considering I don't randomly go up to someone and kiss them then walk away. But I honestly don't see how people can get "turned on" when they're kissing someone compared to physically embracing them.
The Official Kissing Discussion Thread (Revived)
- Would you kiss at a young age, or at an old age? Why? I don't understand this question. Then again, I don't really... see the point in it, either. People kiss at any age. Whenever it happens, it happens. There's really no "age" where I'd prefer to kiss someone seeing as how it happens all around us. That's pretty much asking if you would prefer to breath now or later.
- Are you picky when it comes to kissing? Um, yes. I don't go around, as explained, kissing random people just for the hell of it. I'd probably only kiss family members (non-romantically, of course) and whomever it is that I'm involved with at the moment.
- Your like in the middle of a sandwhich. You have your bf/gf next to you along with a *hot* celebrity that you adored in your childhood and now he/she's next to you. They both seem to lean close to you about to kiss you. Who would you like kiss? Um, for one, I'm not a pig, but to answer this "flattering" and highly unlikely to happen hypothetical scenario... Considering the fact that I've already stated three times that a) I prefer hugging to kissing, b) I don't randomly kiss people I'm interested in, and c) I'm not a pig, I would most definitely not choose to turn my cheek on whomever I'm with and kiss the celebrity. I don't think I'd be able to forgive myself for ever doing that and if I can't forgive myself, how is she going to be able to forgive me?
Anyway, I've only kissed one person other than my family members before as I've only been involved in one relationship. It was in 6th grade. I remember that night. It was the exact same day that we decided to be together and we were at a friend of mine's front door. She lived across the street in an apartment complex a few doors down from my other friends. It was around 9 at night in the summer time and we kissed (but only for about five or six seconds) under the light. We went our separate ways about a year and a half or so after that seeing as how she moved and we haven't been in contact since. Since than, I've had crushes with people at my school, but they went away quickly (apart from one). I've never had the interest to have another relationship with someone physically.
The only person I feel connected to and want to start a relationship with would be someone online. I know a lot of other people on PC have met this way and their relationships stand out to be the strongest out of the people I know, so I know it can work out and I'm very interested in meeting up with her and starting something and seeing where that goes, but its highly unlikely to happen since she lives so far away and I'm not comfortable going across the country and pretty much living on my own for a few months or however long it would be. But she's really the only person I've felt so strongly about, connect so perfectly with personality-wise, and, to be quite honest, the only person I can see myself being with.
Corny, yes, but the truth. Like, seriously, we're pretty much exactly the same and she knows every thought going on in my head before I think it. It's creepy, but awesome, and I'm looking forward to seeing if anything comes out of us meeting.