Sexuality

Started by Surmonter September 28th, 2010 2:54 AM
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What's your sexuality?

Age 30
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Seen October 18th, 2010
Posted October 15th, 2010
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(Polls are not public, so if you want to stay anonymous you can)

Threads like this are allowed in the OC so I don't see why I can't make this here ^-^

Just..what is sexuality?

Please keep all your opinions to yourself in this thread to avoid argument. Just stick to the topic.


As in all the other sexuality threads, and in the sexuality discussion in the GSA social group, I'm going to reference the Kinsey scale.

0 Exclusively heterosexual
1 Predominantly heterosexual, only incidentally homosexual
2 Predominantly heterosexual, but more than incidentally homosexual
3 Equally heterosexual and homosexual; bisexual.
4 Predominantly homosexual, but more than incidentally heterosexual
5 Predominantly homosexual, only incidentally heterosexual
6 Exclusively homosexual
X Asexual, Non-Sexual
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Timbjerr

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Age 36
Female
Texas
Seen May 30th, 2022
Posted January 28th, 2016
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19.7 Years
For all intents and purposes, I think of myself as Asexual, as in I have no interest in sexual contact with anyone male or female. I do have a purely aesthetic attraction to the female body, but it's more along the lines of "I wanna hold her forever and never let go" than "I wanna sex her up". XD

So yeah, heteroromantic asexual is me. :D

Melody

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Seen March 4th, 2018
Posted March 2nd, 2018
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18.6 Years
I find myself harboring romantic and amorous urges toward both genders, wildly depending upon factors such as personality and level of familiarity. I crush on my friends all the time really, but the largest portion of those 'crushes' are never announced as they're so mild that they're put to rest with a few moments of sensible thought.

While I do find myself more attracted to the female form by nature of my body, I am capable of feeling the same physical stirrings for a guy, if he's cute enough, despite the fact that this is rare. XD

Perhaps my sexuality will straighten itself out once I find a mate, but in the meantime, I'm quite an open-minded and open-hearted person. I love everyone that I can get close to, the closer the friendship...the greater the love is for that friendship, and by extension for that person.

With all that being said, I am openly, but respectful of others views of sexuality, bisexual.

I don't flaunt my sexuality often...and if I do, it's probably because I'm attempting to catch a special someone's attention. But don't worry, I don't mess with people I know to be straight, and I usually assume people are straight by default.

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For all intents and purposes, I think of myself as Asexual, as in I have no interest in sexual contact with anyone male or female. I do have a purely aesthetic attraction to the female body, but it's more along the lines of "I wanna hold her forever and never let go" than "I wanna sex her up". XD
You will make a woman very happy one day, and all of her woman friends will be very jealous. :D

Anyway. According to Wikipedia, human sexuality is "how people experience the erotic and express themselves as sexual beings." It's funny, everyone seems to understand what sexuality is but when it comes to describing it it's just one of those things you know but can't explain.

As far as my sexuality goes, I'm bisexual. I also have a boyfriend, so same-sex relationships are kind of out of the question ATM. xD

Aquacorde

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I'm heterosexual, but I don't really think about sex much. It's more about love for me... I like to be with my boyfriend, just in close proximity to him, because it makes me happy~

I tend to assume all people are hetero, but I have plenty of gay/bi friends~
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Seen January 4th, 2013
Posted October 21st, 2011
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assuming you mean sexuality in terms of sexual preference, well, it's just what it sounds like. and i don't think it boils down to the gender-specific homosexuality and heterosexuality- which, with all these other terms becoming more prominent in the spectrum of sexual orientations (bisexuality, asexuality, pansexuality) our culture might be slowly grasping. i think each individual has a different level of sexual attraction towards other individuals for different reasons, but society has instilled the idea that sexuality is all to do with gender, so there's all this unnecessary fuss over sexual ethics and what not.

curiousnathan

Male
Australia
Seen October 18th, 2020
Posted October 5th, 2020
7,753 posts
13.7 Years
I am heterosexual, meaning I like the opposite sex. I do not hate nor want to hurt anybody who has a different feelings towards other genders or of the same gender, as long as they don't go hitting on me or anything. XD I do think one of my friends will be a certain sexuality compared to me, but I dare not to say anything in case I am wrong and hurt my friend's feelings deeply.

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Age 31
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Seen June 5th, 2022
Posted April 23rd, 2022
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17.5 Years
Straight, though there was a time where Went etc, teased me that I wasn't straight or something, idk. Always been straight though. XD;

Sydian

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Age 30
they/them
Georgia
Seen May 22nd, 2022
Posted November 29th, 2021
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15.2 Years
Heterosexual is me. Could never picture myself with the same sex. Am not attracted to those. No thank you.

Okay, you caught me. Men are waaaay nice lookin'.
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Age 27
Male
Berlin
Seen January 6th, 2021
Posted July 29th, 2020
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15.2 Years
Well, I would class my sexuality, for all intents and purposes, as Hertosexual. That said, That only means I would want to settle down for the rest of my life with someone of the opposite sex, but this could turn out differently. There are many of my friends at school, that by extent I could have a deep relationship with, regardless of sex. I am an open-minded and open-hearted guy, and I could quite as easily fall in love with someone of the same sex than one of the opposite sex. What it really depends on is my bond or friendship with that person. The better the bond or friendship, the deeper my feelings get for that person. There are people I get attracted to throughout life via appearance, but it makes no difference to my feelings for them. I generally keep my feelings for people secluded away, where I can keep control of them and so that I don't act foolish in front of someone by some rash event. I would consider myself then, in that sense, bisexual. That is just how I am. I judge my feelings on a person's personality than their appearance or how they act. I have very rarely let my feelings for someone known, and if I do, it is usually to that special person, or to someone who I can trust without doubt. I don't flaunt them around for everyone to see inentionally though.

Honest

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Age 27
Male
New York City
Seen March 19th, 2023
Posted November 7th, 2022
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14.7 Years
What is pansexual, I never have found out...

I'm heterosexual. Won't change, trust me. BUT, I have no issue with people of other sexualities. I prefer if they didn't make a move on me, but if they do, I'm not really bothered, I just tell them I'm not like that, and they usually have enough respect to understand.
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Age 30
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Seen October 18th, 2010
Posted October 15th, 2010
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What is pansexual, I never have found out...

I'm heterosexual. Won't change, trust me. BUT, I have no issue with people of other sexualities. I prefer if they didn't make a move on me, but if they do, I'm not really bothered, I just tell them I'm not like that, and they usually have enough respect to understand.
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Pansexuality is the attraction to pure personality and not gender.

I'm gay, if you couldn't tell already.
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Rich Boy Rob

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Age 29
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Posted August 15th, 2015
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14.9 Years
Hetero here. Although, I suppose while I would class myself as straight I am kinda bordering on bi-curious. For all intents and purposes heterosexuality covers me fine, but every now and then, I do find myself attracted to a member of my own sex just as much as if he where a woman.

tl;dr Straight, but borderline bi-curious.
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Zebeedoo

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Age 28
Female
Northern Ireland
Seen March 7th, 2023
Posted December 3rd, 2014
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14.4 Years
Well to be honest, I was confused about it for a while.. >___> I can't believe I'm admitting this here... I thought I was bi, but no. I'm straight.. I just didn't feel comfortable around guys AT THE TIME (I couldn't admit it to myself, and I was a bit.. annoyed about something that happened in July-ish with a dude so..), but I do now. So yeah. Like I said. Straight.



Perriechu

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Age 27
Male
England
Seen December 11th, 2021
Posted August 12th, 2020
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14.1 Years
They like to lay with cook-ware.

Pansexuality is the attraction to pure personality and not gender.

I'm gay, if you couldn't tell already.
I couldn't tell >_>

Anyway

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Anyway... I would place my self in the Bi-sexual category.

Not enough to be Homosexual but too much to be a Heterosexual.

I'd say Im about 40% - straight 60% Homo.









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Age 27
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Seen March 19th, 2012
Posted March 19th, 2012
1,180 posts
14.3 Years
For me I've always been accused of being attracted to the same gender, but I know I'm not as I could not picture myself with the same gender neither the opposite. I've never been really interested in any type of relationship, I'd rather get on with life than fussing about relationships or sex, it's just never been my thing. Because of this I've always been the odd one out with all my friends who pair themselves with their significant other (then I have to comfort them if they break up with them). I've never had a crush on a person neither. I'd consider myself as an Asexual, but once I get older I'm sure I will change my mind in which gender I would prefer to be with.

As for others being in a relationship with the same gender, I personally do not mind. If it makes that person happy they deserve that happiness, I do not think that someone should take that away.

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countryemo

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Age 29
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Littleroot Town
Seen February 9th, 2021
Posted September 10th, 2018
2,367 posts
13.5 Years
For all intents and purposes, I think of myself as Asexual, as in I have no interest in sexual contact with anyone male or female. I do have a purely aesthetic attraction to the female body, but it's more along the lines of "I wanna hold her forever and never let go" than "I wanna sex her up". XD

So yeah, heteroromantic asexual is me. :D
so yeahh this sounds like me pretty much. so i huess im hetero.... what he said.

my only intrest with females are to like "hold her close" and ect, the romantic stuff. i also been called a casanova(?) and gentleman allot. :D
Age 34
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Canada
Seen June 1st, 2018
Posted January 20th, 2012
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12.7 Years
I am heterosexual, been with the same man for 6 years and we plan on getting married. I am all for equality as well, because we were born this way! :) ...yes, I like Lady Gaga.^^

And although, I am not a person who wants [email protected]#! all the time, but I'm telling you this, it is important to a relationship. It's magical! :)


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