I hope that you're happy even now......

Started by Charizard★ October 11th, 2010 4:59 AM
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Posted December 3rd, 2013
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19.6 Years
I think someone who wishes unhappniess on others, no matter who the other party may be, is evil.

Please note that I am not talking about serial murderers or serial rapists or people of the such. I am simply referring to those who may or may not have hurt someone throughout their life. Everyone has done something unconscionable at one point or another, and the world would be a lot better off if we learnt to forgive.

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Seen March 4th, 2018
Posted March 2nd, 2018
6,459 posts
18.6 Years
Aw hell, I'm such a softie that I couldn't help but wish all of my exes a happy life. I mean come on, just because things ended for us relationship-wise doesn't mean their life has to end too. In fact, I still LOVE my exes in that distant, cold, friend zone, I'm-sorry-it-didn't-work-out kind of way. The exes whom I'm still on friendly terms with still get treated just the same way they were treated before any relationship happened.

Naturally there are some exceptions to that rule but honestly, when isn't there an exception? I'm only human, and naturally inclined for such things by virtue of human nature.
Seen January 1st, 2023
Posted April 20th, 2020
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15.4 Years
I have one 'official' ex and several other girls who I was with but wasn't technically involved with. My proper is a friend on Facebook and every so often I see pictures/status updates pop up from her. She seems to be doing grand. Other girls I either didn't stay in contact with or the fallout between us was so bad that I just don't care about them anymore.

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Like many have said, why want someone to be unhappy? It's vengeful and a poor use of energy. The only ex of mine that gave me a hard time was my first one, and I'm sure it had a lot to do with the fact that people tend to be jerks in high school, not that he's inherently bad. He's long since been forgiven. My most recent ex and I simply became good friends instead when we broke up, so of course I'd wish happiness on him :3




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Posted November 5th, 2017
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14.9 Years
I'm in my first real relationship and I don't see it ending.

Unless it ended really badly (ie. cheating, abandoning me without saying anything, all sorts of horrible scenarios I'd rather not think about), I can't see myself holding any bitter feelings towards someone I used to be in a relationship with.

I originally thought this title was just referring to anyone who we'd lost contact with. And I realised that all of my friendships ended badly. Both online and offline, everyone I lost contact with were pretty crummy people and I wouldn't care at all if they ended up unhappy. The only exception is Hagumi, from this forum, who left on a good note; although she still makes some appearances from time to time.

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Posted November 6th, 2011
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Yes, my only real ex is one of my really good friends. We thought it would be a good idea to "go out" when we were younger, and that was when we had only known each other for probably less than a year. It lasted a day and it was awkward, lol. But it's a good thing we tried to do that when we were young, because we quickly got over it and stayed friends.

And the only other girl that was kind of my ex, was this younger girl that I tried to date. It was a good time when I first met her, but it turned worse thanks to her boyfriend (Which at the time she said she was over, I had no idea until later that she was still into him. >_< ). And basically I wanted nothing to do with her or her friend she tried to get me to date instead of her. I don't have any bad feelings for her though, I understand that she had gone through a lot, because of some stuff in her past, and her dad, and I think something to do with her (evil) boyfriend. So I actually do hope she is doing much better, she was nice. :(
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"I hope you're happy in the end
I hope you're happy, my friend."
-Defying Gravity, from the musical Wicked.

In short, yes. I had a very big falling-out with the person in question which caused me loads of pain and guilt... but every day I still hope she's just as happy as she was when we were close. I go through periods where I feel nothing but frustration for what she did, but even during those moments I hope she feels better about everything than I do and that she never once regrets her decision. Regret this strong is a terrible feeling that I wouldn't ever wish on anyone. ):

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Posted August 2nd, 2019
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My ex and I were fortunate, we stayed friends after we ended our relationship. and we've actually gotten even closer since then, she's become a very good friend to me. Although I realize my story is rare, unfortunately. It rarely happens that way.

But had we not ended on a happy note, I still would wish her the best, and she'd do the same for me.

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I don't have an ex, but if I did....

Once the relationship is over, if we're still friends then naturally I would want her to be happy. If we broke it off and we aren't friends, then I consider my hands washed of her, and her life from there on out doesn't matter to me.

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Yeah, even though we don't really talk anymore, I know that she's happy and i'm happy for her. I don't wish for anyone to be unhappy. (unless I really have a grudge on them)

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Posted May 9th, 2013
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14.2 Years
My last girlfriend and I had a harsh break-up. After that, we tried to be friends but it just wouldn't work out. So, we ended further apart than we had hoped. Thank goodness that we're at least on speaking terms nowadays. I'm just glad that we were able to work things out and got through our past.

I will never want her or any of my other ex-girlfriends to suffer. Actually, I want them to become stronger than they had been and maybe next time it'll work out with her and someone else. Why hate when you can just move on? No matter how bad the relationship went, I still hope that she's happy right now. No matter how much pain I went through after, I still hope that she's happy right now.

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Of course I'm happy for him, we're friends. I think maintaining a healthy relationship with an ex is important; I mean, it's not like it was true love or whatever, so what's the big deal? Yeah, for a little while, it hurt . . but it's just a matter of moving on :)
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Seen January 4th, 2013
Posted October 21st, 2011
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13.8 Years
Of course I'm happy for him, we're friends. I think maintaining a healthy relationship with an ex is important; I mean, it's not like it was true love or whatever, so what's the big deal? Yeah, for a little while, it hurt . . but it's just a matter of moving on :)
sometimes you find out a lot about a person that makes it extremely difficult to find the desire to want to even look at them let alone be friends with them. there are some extreme situations (i.e. abusive relationships) that go a little deeper than "say, don't think we're in love anymore," sometimes the relationship is unwanted but inescapable. but the relationships that do manage to end so simply, i don't see a reason why friendship couldn't transpire. i don't wish for anything in particular among my exes, just that they don't bother me now xD

Belinda

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Seen March 4th, 2018
Posted November 13th, 2017
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14.8 Years
Never had an 'ex' myself, but I wish they could somehow find happiness even after a horrible breakup if it ever occurs. I want everyone to feel happy most of the time. If I ever said anything that intentionally hurt them it doesn't mean I meant it, sometimes I can hardly think, but these days I'd rather not speak anything, 'cause it would end in a bad way.
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Posted April 30th, 2012
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I have had only one relationship which I consider proper (others were at younger ages and didn't really mean much, so I don't count them). We ended on bad terms. Well, she thought it ended on good terms, but I knew things she didn't know I knew, and I've never told her. Rather than wish her happiness or unhappiness I just blocked her out of my life completely and ignored her attempts to get back in touch with me. I don't wish her anything, be it unhappiness or happiness, but is it cold that I find some sort of joy in the knowledge that she will never be happy?

Either way. It's only a teenage relationship. I'm sure some 22-year-old user will look at this and laugh or something (which is fair enough).

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Posted November 29th, 2021
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15.2 Years
There is only one ex I do not wish happiness on. Call it evil and vindictive of me, but I have my reasons. And I only have three other exes. I wish them the best. I still kinda miss one, but...whatever.
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My ex and I were fortunate, we stayed friends after we ended our relationship. and we've actually gotten even closer since then, she's become a very good friend to me. Although I realize my story is rare, unfortunately. It rarely happens that way.

But had we not ended on a happy note, I still would wish her the best, and she'd do the same for me.
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I'm friends with all of my ex's, not that I have a whole list of them, but I'm friends with them. There's one who I did close off contact with, but I can't really them an ex. It more-or-less feels like it though, since they obsessively pursued for five years, and we fought over it a lot. The others are still very close to me, and I'm thankful to have them as friends.


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